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post 1635633433 04-07-2021, 08:53 AM
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Feeling some sort of way about ex-wife railing some dude.

Title edit: *getting railed by some dude

Nasty divorce, we do have kids together and co-parent quite well. She tells me that she’s going away for a few days with some guy she just started dating and I’ll have the kids for that time. Which is awesome. Didn’t expect to feel some way about it, though.

Anyway, I need you miscers to slap me back to reality in the only way the misc can. Don’t spare the “*******s” when doing so.
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post 1635633613 04-07-2021, 08:55 AM
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I feel bad for the dudes my ex dates...think of all the foul stuff she has pulled on you and this guys walking blindly into that sh!tstorm.

Spend time with kiddos and enjoy the fact that some dude is paying to remove her from your life for a few days
post 1635633753 04-07-2021, 08:57 AM
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Excellent advice. Repped.
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post 1635633763 04-07-2021, 08:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Stray800⏩
I feel bad for the dudes my ex dates...think of all the foul stuff she has pulled on you and this guys walking blindly into that sh!tstorm.

Spend time with kiddos and enjoy the fact that some dude is paying to remove her from your life for a few days
That's a good way to look at it. Like "GL with that, *******"
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post 1635633863 04-07-2021, 08:58 AM
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Hopefully she's at least protective of your kids and won't just let any man meet them. I'd worry about dude trying to be the dad or hurting my kids.
post 1635633953 04-07-2021, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By Titansfan08⏩
Hopefully she's at least protective of your kids and won't just let any man meet them. I'd worry about dude trying to be the dad or hurting my kids.
I’m militant about putting the kabosh on any ******* trying to be dad.
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post 1635634193 04-07-2021, 09:03 AM
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You’re just a little mad that she’s getting some and you ain’t. You don’t actually miss her

Right?
post 1635634253 04-07-2021, 09:04 AM
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Don't swear it bro.

I haven't heard much....

On that shes never been happier and its the best sex she's ever had.

Hang in there
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post 1635634453 04-07-2021, 09:06 AM
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Originally Posted By yieldtonothing⏩
You’re just a little mad that she’s getting some and you ain’t. You don’t actually miss her

Right?
Getting laid isn’t the issue. God forbid I keep anyone from getting some strange. Not sure why that feeling popped up. Misc therapists doing the lord’s work here.

I do miss her sweater meat though.
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post 1635634563 04-07-2021, 09:07 AM
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Originally Posted By GrimRep_er⏩
Don't swear it bro.

I haven't heard much....

On that shes never been happier and its the best sex she's ever had.

Hang in there
Lulz
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post 1635634713 04-07-2021, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted By deepfat⏩
Title edit: *getting railed by some dude

Nasty divorce, we do have kids together and co-parent quite well. She tells me that she’s going away for a few days with some guy she just started dating and I’ll have the kids for that time. Which is awesome. Didn’t expect to feel some way about it, though.

Anyway, I need you miscers to slap me back to reality in the only way the misc can. Don’t spare the “*******s” when doing so.
If you divorced here and did nothing to stop it, you don't care about here for real. You are just used to her, but you don't really like her or want to be around her.

So, you're like a kid who is playing with one toy and you don't want anyone to touch your other toy, but you aren't playing with it.

You don't honestly care much about her, so tell yourself "I don't really like or care about her" in the mirror, or whatever, and believe it.

If she died, you'd be sad a little, but not that much or for long.
If you want to ask me a question:

Ask: TheAdlerian

http://forum.obnoxiousbrutes.com/showthread.php?t=150655983&p=1000366043#post1000366043

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post 1635634923 04-07-2021, 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted By deepfat⏩
Title edit: *getting railed by some dude

Nasty divorce, we do have kids together and co-parent quite well. She tells me that she’s going away for a few days with some guy she just started dating and I’ll have the kids for that time. Which is awesome. Didn’t expect to feel some way about it, though.

Anyway, I need you miscers to slap me back to reality in the only way the misc can. Don’t spare the “*******s” when doing so.
How long married? How many kids? What led to the divorce.
post 1635635143 04-07-2021, 09:13 AM
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Originally Posted By mCheech⏩
How long married? How many kids? What led to the divorce.
15 years, 2 boys. High school sweethearts. Got to the point where we couldn’t be in the same room. Multiple deployments will do that.
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post 1635635253 04-07-2021, 09:14 AM
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Stop being a little biiiiiiitchh

Go have fun with your kids!!
Srs
You have my word as a Schons.
post 1635635273 04-07-2021, 09:14 AM
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Originally Posted By TheAdlerian⏩
If you divorced here and did nothing to stop it, you don't care about here for real. You are just used to her, but you don't really like her or want to be around her.

So, you're like a kid who is playing with one toy and you don't want anyone to touch your other toy, but you aren't playing with it.

You don't honestly care much about her, so tell yourself "I don't really like or care about her" in the mirror, or whatever, and believe it.

If she died, you'd be sad a little, but not that much or for long.
This is a fair point. Familiarity is a powerful thing.
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post 1635635353 04-07-2021, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Hypernation⏩
Stop being a little biiiiiiitchh

Go have fun with your kids!!
Srs
That’s the plan, brah.
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post 1635635453 04-07-2021, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted By deepfat⏩
15 years, 2 boys. High school sweethearts. Got to the point where we couldn’t be in the same room. Multiple deployments will do that.
Brutal

How is the grass on this side?
post 1635635633 04-07-2021, 09:18 AM
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Originally Posted By mCheech⏩
Brutal

How is the grass on this side?
Great, actually. Not being in a relationship is a next level of freedom that I am enjoying getting used to.
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post 1635635903 04-07-2021, 09:22 AM
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How hard was it to go to not seeing the kids daily? That would be the hardest pill to swallow in a divorce for me.
post 1635635993 04-07-2021, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
How hard was it to go to not seeing the kids daily? That would be the hardest pill to swallow in a divorce for me.
I do see them everyday. They live 3 blocks from me so they can just walk back and forth. It works out well.
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post 1635636043 04-07-2021, 09:23 AM
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Originally Posted By ezmac31⏩
How hard was it to go to not seeing the kids daily? That would be the hardest pill to swallow in a divorce for me.
Same for me.
post 1635636113 04-07-2021, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted By deepfat⏩
I do see them everyday. They live 3 blocks from me so they can just walk back and forth. It works out well.
Sounds like its about tbe best situation possible out of a divorce then. Best of both worlds.
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Originally Posted By deepfat⏩
I do see them everyday. They live 3 blocks from me so they can just walk back and forth. It works out well.
Nice. This is exactly what I’d shoot for, ideal situation.
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He probably has a bigger penis than you do, so there's that too.
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post 1635636663 04-07-2021, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67⏩
He probably has a bigger penis than you do, so there's that too.
Not saying much brah.

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post 1635636753 04-07-2021, 09:31 AM
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Please tell me you got out of the divorce with your pension untouched?
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I assume recent divorce? If not you know she’s taken D, so really what’s rustling is her telling you about it so it must be somewhat serious?
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That's life man, if nothing else you should hope he's a cool dude so that if he's around your kids at all ever he's at least a decent person. Not his fault ya'll had a falling out, homie is just trying to smash. It makes sense you would feel some sort of way, even if it's your ex you have kids with her and will always still value her to some degree, that's just part of human nature. Time for you to find your own lil honey to rail on the weekends when the kids are away.
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well there's a reason she's your ex...so who cares if some guy is having your sloppy seconds and creampie-ing all her holes.
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Originally Posted By homersexual⏩
Please tell me you got out of the divorce with your pension untouched?
Absolutely. The one thing I fought tooth and nail about.
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