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post 1636005253 04-12-2021, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted By EnderG60
Actually that was probably the problem, but damn she could cook and suck start a leaf blower.
I know them feels dude. They get super clingy after sex when you say I got business to take care of. But once you're out the door you get that whiff of freedom. Nothing better than being back home in your place doing what you want after getting your belly fed and balls drained. We don't simp for sloots.
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I assume most average women who talk about dating athletes are in a situation like this. Usually it ends because the guys are "commitment phobic" (fwb zone) and eventually the woman settles for a guy who "is different from the guys she usually goes for" (timothy).
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Lol

The Indian , well Pakistani (she hated being called Indian)girl I was ****ing in 12th grade tried breaking up with me and felt crushed by the end of the conversation


Her : hey we need to talk

Me : what’s up

Her : I think we should break up

Me : okay lol. I mean we’re not really together so........

Her : you’re surprisingly calm about this.
Wait , what do you mean ?

Me : well we where just FWB , that’s all I saw you as was a friend

Her: Oh...... that’s kind of hurtful.

Her 2 hours later: if you could get a ziplock baggie and return the panties I left at your place that would be great

Lol

She’d come in and see me in first period and all the girls in class would ask me who she is. I’d be like “ oh , just a friend”

“Just a friend you make out with ?”

I had to explain at the time I’m only 17, wtf lol

We had one really hot biracial chick who I sat next to and knew from a class the previous year, we’d always tease each other and have hardcore debates because this was in Government class lol

I was talking to the guy who sits in front of me about the military because he was in rotc , hot biracial chick butts in all sassy and mad “ oh so you’re just gonna **** all the chicks in the Army too”

Lol wtf dude

Anyway that Indian chick found a beta skull Timmy to date. Like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock. Scary , yellow teethed smile too.

I guess she got her happy ending.

I have pics somewhere , I don’t know if they’re on this phone. Will post pics later.
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Originally Posted By dogorman7
Lol

The Indian , well Pakistani (she hated being called Indian)girl I was ****ing in 12th grade tried breaking up with me and felt crushed by the end of the conversation


Her : hey we need to talk

Me : what’s up

Her : I think we should break up

Me : okay lol. I mean we’re not really together so........

Her : you’re surprisingly calm about this.
Wait , what do you mean ?

Me : well we where just FWB , that’s all I saw you as was a friend

Her: Oh...... that’s kind of hurtful.

Her 2 hours later: if you could get a ziplock baggie and return the panties I left at your place that would be great

Lol

She’d come in and see me in first period and all the girls in class would ask me who she is. I’d be like “ oh , just a friend”

“Just a friend you make out with ?”

I had to explain at the time I’m only 17, wtf lol

We had one really hot biracial chick who I sat next to and knew from a class the previous year, we’d always tease each other and have hardcore debates because this was in Government class lol

I was talking to the guy who sits in front of me about the military because he was in rotc , hot biracial chick butts in all sassy and mad “ oh so you’re just gonna **** all the chicks in the Army too”

Lol wtf dude

Anyway that Indian chick found a beta skull Timmy to date. Like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock. Scary , yellow teethed smile too.

I guess she got her happy ending.

I have pics somewhere , I don’t know if they’re on this phone. Will post pics later.
Also to add to this Idk why it wasn’t obvious


I didn’t go to your family’s Christmas party or New Years

I didn’t want to meet your parents , I vocally told you your moms a bitch ( her dad was actually chill surprisingly)

I told you I’d **** your hot aunt

I had you drive me everywhere because I didn’t have my license at the time much less could afford a car at 17

I didn’t buy you **** but would buy myself video games and nice shoes if I wanted to go to the mall

Chick fila and Taco Bell isn’t a date

Everytime we hung out after the first few weeks we had sex and that’s all I expected from you

The one time you told me to put on more conservative pants ( I had the hollister distressed jeans on that day) to impress your parents at some gay assembly I didn’t

I made you make it up to me by ****ing you in the school parking lot in your trailblazer

I never would tell you when I’m cumming and make you swallow


After we’d **** I’d just boot up Skyrim and kick you out a little bit after ( was always at night before bed after I already got a few hours in on guitar that day, she’d lie to her mom she was studying lmao)


After I got my nut , I’d ignore her advances for more

I mean , could the signs not be more obvious than that ? Ded fkn srs
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****
Turns out that people "stay together" longer when they aren't living together and up each other's asses 24/7/365.FWB only SRS
I would guess that a lot of modern relationships that last do so because both people have their own lives and interests and they don't feel the need to live out of each others' pockets regardless of their living arrangements.

Srs some of what y'all describe as FWB would have just been called dating in the past when FWB wasn't a phrase.

Feeling the need to have a special talk to "define the relationship" is only a bit less odd than the recent explicit consent thing.

Once upon a time in the gray mists of yore when someone said "no, stop" that's how it was meant to be taken. You stop.

Then if she/he says "oh I didn't really mean it, don't stop" you could have a talk about their personal boundaries.

You met someone you liked and spent time together. If it was going alright you continued until one or the other wasn't feeling it anymore.

Maybe because there wasn't an automatic assumption that you both would be smashing other people on a regular basis? That was labeled "two timing" and if you were keeping someone in the dark about that and they found out chances are they would be hurt and angry.

IDK...it's just weird to me. And I'm personally not looking to marry again; maybe not even to live together. Not saying "absolutely not", just don't need it. OTOH I don't find sex w/no relationship that appealing either.
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Originally Posted By katya422
I would guess that a lot of modern relationships that last do so because both people have their own lives and interests and they don't feel the need to live out of each others' pockets regardless of their living arrangements.

Srs some of what y'all describe as FWB would have just been called dating in the past when FWB wasn't a phrase.

Feeling the need to have a special talk to "define the relationship" is only a bit less odd than the recent explicit consent thing.

Once upon a time in the gray mists of yore when someone said "no, stop" that's how it was meant to be taken. You stop.

Then if she/he says "oh I didn't really mean it, don't stop" you could have a talk about their personal boundaries.

You met someone you liked and spent time together. If it was going alright you continued until one or the other wasn't feeling it anymore.

Maybe because there wasn't an automatic assumption that you both would be smashing other people on a regular basis? That was labeled "two timing" and if you were keeping someone in the dark about that and they found out chances are they would be hurt and angry.

IDK...it's just weird to me. And I'm personally not looking to marry again; maybe not even to live together. Not saying "absolutely not", just don't need it. OTOH I don't find sex w/no relationship that appealing either.
Back in the day they would just call you an old maid and no one would want to date you just like now. At least now days you can be someone's slam pig. Things aren't as hopeless as they were 20 years ago for old ladies.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No I know mine are fwb.

My main is more than 4 years now so longer than most people’s relationships lmao.
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Fuarck, now that I think about it, I think my FWB feels like we're in a relationship (through no fault of my own).
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
No I know mine are fwb.

My main is more than 4 years now so longer than most people’s relationships lmao.
whats it feel like to be a used coom dumpster for somebody for 4 straight years and theyll never commit to you? jfl
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You pay for your poosy?
Hah no that’s some pathetic degenerate shyt.

No strings attached / no requirement for monogamy / no requirement to put in effort to keep someone else satisfied (eg go their personal events, be nice to their family, listen to them when they’re crying about a bad day) and still getting your D wet is what I mean by free. Personally, I find monogamy and a committed relationship more satisfying than ONS and FWBs but I think I’m kinda old fashioned or something IDK. I still see other girls I want to fuk but I know that the itch is infinite and there is no amount of poosy that will ever make me not want to fuk the next hot 20-something stacie that I meet so I just choose not to go down that road. Serial monogamy and healthy, mutually satisfying relationships with camaraderie, affection and good will trunks ONS & FWB
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Originally Posted By BorderPatrol505
Started talking with a girl at a bar last night who apparently had a boyfriend whose she's been "dating" for 8 months. Generally I just find another chick to talk to when sloots at bars pull the bf card but I decided to have a little bit of fun this time.

After a little bit more digging into the situation, I get her to realize/admit her "boyfriend" who she claims to be committed to, is nothing more than an fwb and is just using her for sex. Her response "omg I hope not, I never really thought of it that way but you're right".
a couple shots later, we back at my place.

Lol genuinely wonder how many sloots out there KNOW they are in fwb type relationship and just want a dude whose persistent enough to call it out or if they truly believe they are in a relationship
So I know bros like to act like *******s and say oh we are just FWB to their homies, but usually for someone to think you are dating, you have to actually be going out on dates and if thats the case then you guys are dating. I do not know anyone who thinks they are dating when they are only having sex and then seperating (unless you have severed mental illness or daddy/mommy issues).

Basically if you don't want to be a ******* and phuck with someones emotions, make your point clear and don't go on dates. Most dudes act like ***s when their FWB's leave them anyways. Ive see that a million times.
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Originally Posted By Mountaineer92
whats it feel like to be a used coom dumpster for somebody for 4 straight years and theyll never commit to you? jfl
I mean c'mon. You could just as well flip this to "what's it feel like to be an emotional tampon and human dildo for 4 straight years and they'll never commit to you?"

Like women don't enjoy sex and companionship and only the man gets anything out of it.
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’m not expecting commitment from a 20 something year old lmao.

Feels fine because I see sex as a shared experience that we both enjoy equally.

I don’t see sex as using someone or as a transaction or leverage for something else.
This. But you do talk a lot here about sex being transactional.
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Originally Posted By jn677
Probably was her bf but you managed to cast enough doubt to get it done, congrats.
lol this

OP out there doing some cucking
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I’m not expecting commitment from a 20 something year old lmao.

Feels fine because I see sex as a shared experience that we both enjoy equally.

I don’t see sex as using someone or as a transaction or leverage for something else.
It's because your a low value slut, not a high value whore. A whore still has some sexual value left in her. Sluts will sleep with anyone that will bang them. The older and uglier they are the less options they have.
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Lol, I even had a girl trick me into thinking she wanted a relationship when she was actually just looking to fuk and have a good time while also chasing other guys. This chit goes both ways with some people. Luckily I only knew her for like two months at the time and could get over the feelings quickly. Still hope to fuk her more in the future.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
You are literally the biggest woman hater on misc lmao. You don’t even want to date anyone at all.

You talk down on relationship and marriage and you are very clear that you hate women and only want casual sex from them.
Not true at all. I love young sluts and whores. I just have contempt for the old uglier ones.

And I have lots of respect for older women who don't act like worthless sloots.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Yeah I agree monogamy is better ofc but my options are either fwb or long term celibacy. And for me fwb is way better than long term celibacy.

Also keep in mind my fwb are half my age so there is no reasonable expectation of a srs relationship. It is just for fun and sex. But I would never accept fwb with a guy my age. Guys my age I would only ever consider for srs monogamous relationship.
Seems reasonable.
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Originally Posted By Kev1972
Not true at all. I love young sluts and whores. I just have contempt for the old uglier ones.

And I have lots of respect for older women who don't act like worthless sloots.
I recently cut 20 pounds of fat and added at least 2-3 points to my looks recently, and have gotten random passive aggressive comments from a couple of older ladies recently. It's almost like a defense mechanism, where they know they're invisible to you and are doing anything possible to get your attention.
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Originally Posted By sg1976
So I know bros like to act like *******s and say oh we are just FWB to their homies, but usually for someone to think you are dating, you have to actually be going out on dates and if thats the case then you guys are dating. I do not know anyone who thinks they are dating when they are only having sex and then seperating (unless you have severed mental illness or daddy/mommy issues).

Basically if you don't want to be a ******* and phuck with someones emotions, make your point clear and don't go on dates. Most dudes act like ***s when their FWB's leave them anyways. Ive see that a million times.
This. If you're going on dates, you're dating. If you're just Netflix and chillin, you're FWB.

The only times I could see these lines being blurred is during COVID, otherwise it's pretty obvious.

Personally normally I start dating someone then they turn into FWB. If that was their intention from the beginning, who knows. It's not normally mine, I'd like to settle down with someone, but I'm obviously not going to turn down opportunities for FWBs.
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I knew a girl who lost her virginity to a guy who was obviously looking to hook up. She knew he wanted to only hook up, but she went through with it anyways. After the fact they continued banging for a month or two, she started clinging to him like he was her boyfriend, telling people he was her boyfriend, playing on like they had a legit relationship. Once he broke it to her (or rather reminded her) he was only looking to bang she got all worked up and pissy about it, like he owed her something.

A lot of the time the problem isn't so much a miscommunication of expectations, or lack of defining the relationship, it's that people are ****ing stupid as hell and will try and manipulate the situation to get something different out of it. He just wanted to hook up, she didn't want to lose her virginity to a dude who wanted to **** and chuck, so she decided to give it up anyways in hopes that maybe he will come around and want a relationship with her if the sex is just that good. The problem is men are not women and don't get emotionally attached during sex, so that won't work. It's really just a heavy dose of being young, dumb, and naive.

Another somewhat similar example would be the beta bitchboy orbiter who hangs around a pretty girl constantly, never making a move, putting himself in the friendzone, hoping that one day she will have an epiphany and realize how much she loves him. Except that's not how women are, so you're just barking up the wrong tree. Again, a case of being dumb and naive.
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Originally Posted By AgRyan
This. If you're going on dates, you're dating. If you're just Netflix and chillin, you're FWB.

The only times I could see these lines being blurred is during COVID, otherwise it's pretty obvious.

Personally normally I start dating someone then they turn into FWB. If that was their intention from the beginning, who knows. It's not normally mine, I'd like to settle down with someone, but I'm obviously not going to turn down opportunities for FWBs.
What turns them into a fwb after dating?
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Agreed bro
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