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post 1633940243 03-16-2021, 10:31 PM
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Anyone still on dating apps?

Fuk am I the only one here?

I gave up on dating apps and tried it again today and matched with a few. So I decided to message one since her photo was at some hiking trail and I love hiking. Got one word answers so I figured she wasn’t even interested so didn’t bother to keep going.

Me: “Beautiful background, where was that taken”

Her: Trail

Me: oh nice I haven’t been there. Round 2? “Wink face”

Her: Lol


Did I give up too soon?
post 1633940813 03-16-2021, 10:42 PM
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You have to remember that 50%+ of people on dating apps have literally zero intention of meeting up with anyone. It's purely for validation.

No, you didn't give up too soon.

If they show really low interest like that, sure it's worth asking if they want to meet up, but not worth pursuing further.
post 1634005143 03-17-2021, 06:10 PM
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Dating Apps are ok for me.

I'm abroad though. I have got plenty of smashed in 2021 back in U.S, some hotties but mainly trash.

Forget about actually dating one of these bitches though
post 1634005333 03-17-2021, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted By CTTK
You have to remember that 50%+ of people on dating apps have literally zero intention of meeting up with anyone. It's purely for validation.

No, you didn't give up too soon.

If they show really low interest like that, sure it's worth asking if they want to meet up, but not worth pursuing further.
Yup. Also never lose sight of the fact that she has 200 unread messages piled up with yours.

Shoot your shot and push to get her cell number immediately, move on quickly.
post 1634005983 03-17-2021, 06:21 PM
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Dating apps have shown me this with getting laid: Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

Can I get laid off of Tinder, Bumble, Hinge? Sure, and I have.

Is it worth the time? Absolutely not.

I have decided I will allocate my time to talking to girls IRL instead.

If you're Chad Thundercock, then go for it! Otherwise don't waste your time unless you're willing to **** hook nose skeletons or moon face heiffers.
post 1634006403 03-17-2021, 06:27 PM
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"lol"
post 1634025583 03-17-2021, 11:27 PM
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I've met plenty who weighed twice what their picture showed, or smoked when their profile said they don't smoke.

Scary thinking anyone can lure you to an ambush point.
post 1634026713 03-18-2021, 12:00 AM
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Me: “Beautiful background, where was that taken”

Her: Trail

Me: oh nice I haven’t been there. Round 2? “Wink face”

Her: Lol


Did I give up too soon?
Uff, such unmotivated, uninspired answer - no matter if 200 or 0 other requests in her e-mail account.

I would move on. Let her find someone equally unmotivated and lackluster in life as she seems to be...
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post 1634027273 03-18-2021, 12:14 AM
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i have never met a normal women off dating app every single one has some issue/ red flag/ mental problem / psycho ex etc.
post 1634027333 03-18-2021, 12:15 AM
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Originally Posted By Dirtylocks
Dating apps have shown me this with getting laid: Just because you can doesn't mean you should.

Can I get laid off of Tinder, Bumble, Hinge? Sure, and I have.

Is it worth the time? Absolutely not.

I have decided I will allocate my time to talking to girls IRL instead.

If you're Chad Thundercock, then go for it! Otherwise don't waste your time unless you're willing to **** hook nose skeletons or moon face heiffers.
This!!!!!!!
post 1634054513 03-18-2021, 10:43 AM
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Haha no. Most women are just there to see how much attention they can get.
Originally Posted By MeFromG
Uff, such unmotivated, uninspired answer - no matter if 200 or 0 other requests in her e-mail account.

I would move on. Let her find someone equally unmotivated and lackluster in life as she seems to be...
Why did you post a good post?
post 1634329773 03-22-2021, 02:09 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
Haha no. Most women are just there to see how much attention they can get.
every girl gets infinite attention. What is there to discover?
post 1634338533 03-22-2021, 07:28 AM
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post 1634975883 03-30-2021, 04:25 AM
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I am luckily off now as i have met my partner who I am happy with most of the time.

Happy to leave those things as I found that men date down and women date upwards.

Women on those apps who you would not entertain in real life swerve you as they have so many men chasing them. They must feel like Marilyn Monroe on those things.
post 1635113573 03-31-2021, 05:09 PM
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Nah went out with a girl back in Jan (still seeing her) I deleted all of my dating apps a week later. Not because of her, but because I was just tired of dating apps. We aren’t in relationship so I can still have them if I wanted to, but then I remember how much of a waste of time they are. I’d much rather talk to the girl at my gym with a nice thick booty. Still trying to figure my approach on that.
post 1635113863 03-31-2021, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted By NLNFunKti0nz
Fuk am I the only one here?

I gave up on dating apps and tried it again today and matched with a few. So I decided to message one since her photo was at some hiking trail and I love hiking. Got one word answers so I figured she wasn’t even interested so didn’t bother to keep going.

Me: “Beautiful background, where was that taken”

Her: Trail

Me: oh nice I haven’t been there. Round 2? “Wink face”

Her: Lol


Did I give up too soon?
Nope. I fuked off of dating apps long ago.

Women seem to be much more receptive to me when I'm buzzed at the bar. Online just isn't the right playing field for a guy like me.
post 1635113973 03-31-2021, 05:14 PM
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post 1635115653 03-31-2021, 05:38 PM
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I deleted them months ago, just not worth the time. 90%+ girls just use them for validation, to get Instagram followers, or just to have someone to talk to for a while without any intention of ever meeting up. I really think dating apps are a waste of time for any males who aren't either top 5% of looks or rich. Better to get involved in as many activities as possible and talk to girls that way.
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post 1635121183 03-31-2021, 07:02 PM
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The reason why she doesn't even try is because she has 50 other unread message in her inbox, from dudes who are probably better looking than you. And tomorrow she'll get 200 more.

Dating apps are an absolute joke in 2021. They were bad before but nowhere near as trash as they are now. 7:1 male/female ratio sausagefest, females get spammed with 100 messages within minutes of creating accounts, no matter how ugly she is she still gets swarmed with compliments that inflate her ego to the moon. If you're not a top tier Chad then don't even bother.
post 1635133073 03-31-2021, 10:01 PM
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I agree with True. Been using them since July. It’s hit or miss. I’ve met a few girls that turned out pretty decent. Most are attention whores with zero intentions of meeting up.

A close female friend of mine (40, no kids, chubby, one full body pic to disclose said chubbiness, 6/10 with a 120k salary) showed me her dating apps one day as I was curious. Messages in all her apps were 100+ waiting in her inbox to be opened. Daily.

Imagine how many a 7/10 skinny chick or hotter gets?

Better luck in real life honestly. Covid fuked it up for now, but it’ll get better as the days go on.
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post 1636364133 04-16-2021, 12:51 PM
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I have ditched dating sites as they are hypergamy sewers. I'm in UK. Average face, 170 /15%/5'10, no kids.

Can't get a dickie bird out of height weight proportionate woman under 150lbs. I'm not messaging models or hot women, just regular plain Jane's that look normal weight.

Get an occasional woman reach out and say "hi sweetsie" to me first or add me to likes, but they are all horrifically fat, like 200- 250 pounds with kids. One was 400lbs+ and disabled 55yo.

Its bad for my mental health.
post 1636392853 04-16-2021, 08:20 PM
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Ehh about to give up on them and focus more on socializing in meeting in person now that the Pandemic is winding down. I just don't have the same success as I used to have.
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good to see misc is full of incels like me. I'm not alone only matching with landwhales
post 1636393663 04-16-2021, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
good to see misc is full of incels like me. I'm not alone only matching with landwhales
Not an incel but online dating is trash anymore for anybody who is not an 8+. Id say I'm above average looking, have a great and rewarding career and a good physique and yet I dont get matches really anymore. The game is rigged.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Not an incel but online dating is trash anymore for anybody who is not an 8+. Id say I'm above average looking, have a great and rewarding career and a good physique and yet I dont get matches really anymore. The game is rigged.
You have the body of a god from what I can see and are white and look tall. If you aren't slaying with 0 effort, then this planet is for the clowns.
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why would i delete apps?


you guys dont like instant free sex?


im hitting up a hot babe right now to come over to my smash pad. dont even have to take her out to the movies or anything
post 1636395023 04-16-2021, 08:58 PM
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Originally Posted By imbored21
You have the body of a god from what I can see and are white and look tall. If you aren't slaying with 0 effort, then this planet is for the clowns.
Clowns it is then. I also don't have any shirtless pics on my profile. Maybe I should. I seemed to get some huge amount of attention whenever I had a picture without my shirt on with my bunker pants on. I got crushed by some of the guys but I don't care im trying to impress them.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Clowns it is then. I also don't have any shirtless pics on my profile. Maybe I should. I seemed to get some huge amount of attention whenever I had a picture without my shirt on with my bunker pants on. I got crushed by some of the guys but I don't care im trying to impress them.
I legit got my profile on bumble reported for having a shirtless pic. Too hot/too aggressive for the landwhale womons to handle I guess.
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Originally Posted By ItsJamesthefin
Clowns it is then. I also don't have any shirtless pics on my profile. Maybe I should. I seemed to get some huge amount of attention whenever I had a picture without my shirt on with my bunker pants on. I got crushed by some of the guys but I don't care im trying to impress them.
If you're just looking to smash then put up a shirtless pic.
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Originally Posted By imbored21
good to see misc is full of incels like me. I'm not alone only matching with landwhales
Even some skinny 4/10 butterface won't respond to anything less than the 8/10 Channing Tatums of this world. Clown world.
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