I've made a thread or 2 about her before... But met this chick in steamboat colorado last february. I live in the rocky mountains, she lives on the tropical east coast. We get along well and the sex is great. I do pretty well for myself, but live a middle class life. This chick is ultra successful. Not sure what she makes but it's in the millions for sure. She lives in a beach mansion, collects picasso art, drives a prototype super car and is buying a half million dollar ocean cruiser with cash this summer so she can make weekend trips to the bahamas. She lives quite the life.

We have been dating for 2 months and have spent a lot of time together. She flies out every week or two and spends 2-3 weeks with me at a time. She'll be flying here again in about a week and a half and then I'm flying to see her at her house.

She's brought up a couple of times that she's not looking for a long distance relationship and neither am I. I told her that I would be open to moving in with her down the road but that I need more time and want to continue doing what we are doing... It would be a huge change career wise and personal life to make things work but I'd be open to moving. She says she's ok with that for now. Honestly I've got probably the best job i can get in my current state. It's stable and pays 100k. Jobs like that aren't a dime a dozen here.

Things are going really well but I can't afford to just pack up and leave and then things not work out. Maybe next fall would work but not right now. She says she understands but still brings it up. 2 months isn't a lot of time to make a life changing decision like that.... But there is a lot of upside. At the same time I don't want to wait so long that she loses interest. Girls like her don't come around often where I live. Any srs advice?

and not a single meantion of her

- red flags?
- baggage?
- mental problem

?

Not really any red flags. She seems to have her chit together and treats me well. Once all this covid bullchit is over she will have to travel a lot for work so would be gone a lot. But that's ok....

She has a crazy ex who conspired to kill her and take her money + life insurance but that ended like 7 years ago and I'm the first person she's really dated since all that went down. He's out of the picture and lives in a different part of the country. But other than that she doesn't have a lot of baggage. Seems like a pretty driven and happy chick. She says she has a hard time trusting and being attached after that but I haven't really noticed that, she's pretty attached and says she's fallen in love with me. She works a lot and might be a little obsessive but no real mental problems that have shown.

How old is she?

Marry her no prenup



Guys complain about this situation in reverse all the time. Time to get yours, king.




Life is all about risk taking, calculate the odds it works out but it sounds like it’s worthwhile to me. Good luck Op.

so no pics huh?

She's 42, I'm 30. Definitely an age difference but she takes care of herself

Dam she must be ****ing hot if you're 30 going afer a 42 year old with your AVI and assets.

Proof money can't buy class

Yes but the real catcher is she's wealthy.

Do you see a future with her?

1. She probably is past the I want a family stage. Would you be ok with never having kids/marriage? You’re not getting any younger either

2. Shes gunna age faster than you, will you still be attracted to her in 5-10 years?

3. Is she going to support you if you move, are you planning to continue working? What type of career sacrifices would you be making if you moved? If you break up what would happen to your career if you had stopped working for a few years?

Fcking now and then on what seems like a holiday is a whole lot different to living with someone full time,

If she wants to move in together after at the age of 42 with a 30 year old after just 2 months...............She aint got her chit together.....screams of insecurity to me...and if the story of the psycho ex is true....you might end up on the News as victim of a Murder Suicide one day.

Take it slow fella and do not consider moving in for 12-18 months.so far you have only met her representative ........you have yet to meet the real woman and they take time to truly emerge

Fools rush in

If ever a thread needed pics...

Is she hot and if she gonna be your sugar momma? If so then I don’t see the issue

if you dsont want kids and are okay with being seen as a gold digger

Moving to a different state, giving up your job and everything for a 42 year old used up sloot? Lmao. Kill me if i ever reach that stage.

ex is a miscer for sure

This pretty much applies no matter what.

I dunno man. Too many questions. The one big factor is the age ngl. She prob sees you as a cute little boy toy to play with atm. She’s clearly rich but you don’t know how or why? That’s sketchy brah.
Could be an exes $$$. The age difference makes me think she’s in it for the fun. But like a female above said are you gonna be okay with her aging incredibly faster than you?

Not really any red flags......

.....She has a crazy ex who conspired to kill her

.....She's 42

At least she's rich. Just yolo it and move in. You've got no other options so probably your best move.

Do you see yourself with her in 10 years time? 20?


You are not going to have any biological children with her. As for the age difference.. Zlatan Ibrahimovic locked down a 15 year older one too lmao





I agree life is too short to fuk around with long distance relationships. 6 months of your life is like 1% left your lifespan

Ever ask yourself, why she trying to get with a guy who lives 5 states away?


Guaranteed she is the biggest sloot that guys in a 100 mile radius won't touch.

That type of thinking is the unncessary downfall of too many relationships. Why is op trying to get with a chick who lives 5 states away? The underlying root of the thinking is insecurity and not being good enough for her (lol), and I have had friends who ended relationships due to "she just seemed too good for me". People are their own worst enemies and shoot themselves in the foot all the time.

bingo

Be REALLY honest with yourself.
If she wasn’t super filthy rich, would you even contemplate doing this?

A 42 year old woman who’s a workaholic sounds like a terrible girlfriend/wife, for a 30 year old succesfull man. I wouldn’t do it, but can’t blame you for deciding differently.

sounds like OP has met this girl from the show Mr Robot

All pretty good points, but the bolded is definitely one of the things I'd be thinking about the most.

dont do it OP. Like you said, the job you have is rare and it isn't worth giving up for a chick youve known after 2 months