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post 1637645033 05-03-2021, 08:05 AM
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Anyone else getting tired of “How are you?”

Srs I must answer this atleast 20x a day. Who the fuk cares how I am?

Not asking it back anymore unless I genuinely am interested. And if we’re practically strangers, sorry but I’m probably not.

Can we all just say “hi” or “hey” and leave it at that?
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post 1637645223 05-03-2021, 08:08 AM
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Person 1: "How are you?"
Person 2: "How's it goin?"
The End
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post 1637645393 05-03-2021, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****
Person 1: "How are you?"
Person 2: "How's it goin?"
The End
Yep. Happens way too often

Or the classic “How are you?”
“Good, how are you?”
“That’s good, how are you?
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post 1637645443 05-03-2021, 08:11 AM
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I also hate that question. And then, after someone asks you that question, they will think you're rude if don't ask them the question ... you have to ask them, "How are you?" after they ask you, "How are you?"

I prefer to just exchange hellos
post 1637645833 05-03-2021, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****
Person 1: "How are you?"
Person 2: "How's it goin?"
The End
that is the final evolution. both parties realize neither cares how the other is, but it is said to open communication channels incase anything else needs to be said now or in the immediate future.
post 1637646213 05-03-2021, 08:25 AM
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Well I'd complain, but who would listen?

post 1637646513 05-03-2021, 08:30 AM
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post 1637646653 05-03-2021, 08:31 AM
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Yeah I hate it because it isn't sincere. People ask me how I am and I answer "Fine and how about yourself?" then they just stop talking.
post 1637647393 05-03-2021, 08:42 AM
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Originally Posted By gluon
that is the final evolution. both parties realize neither cares how the other is, but it is said to open communication channels incase anything else needs to be said now or in the immediate future.
this

This is the current metagame of conversation openers. I used to dislike small talk until I realized it is just a game like everything else and can be fun depending on the situation. Feel less like an awkward ******* knowing I can hold my own in any social situation
post 1637647493 05-03-2021, 08:44 AM
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Or how about. "How's the freakin weather." I am like really? It's fuking always sunny in philadelphia bitch, what do you think?
post 1637647833 05-03-2021, 08:49 AM
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post 1637647873 05-03-2021, 08:49 AM
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Worse, I’ve been in a neutral mood. Co-worker asks what’s wrong? Nothing until another grown man asked me “whats wrong”? Agree with OP, why does my mood matter.
post 1637647933 05-03-2021, 08:50 AM
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post 1637649823 05-03-2021, 09:24 AM
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I also hate it when I say “hi” to people and they say “good, how are you?”

U wot m8? Did you even listen to what I said? Or are you literally just going through life on autopilot?
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post 1637655013 05-03-2021, 10:38 AM
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H-h-h-h-hey.
post 1637655033 05-03-2021, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface
Srs I must answer this atleast 20x a day. Who the fuk cares how I am?

Not asking it back anymore unless I genuinely am interested. And if we’re practically strangers, sorry but I’m probably not.

Can we all just say “hi” or “hey” and leave it at that?
So, how are you, Ironface?
post 1637655133 05-03-2021, 10:39 AM
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Y-you t-too
post 1637656113 05-03-2021, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
Because it just means hello. It’s not literal.
Brb answering a question I didn’t ask. Not only does it tell me they weren’t listening, it makes them look like an ass

Just got another “how are you” from an uber driver. Just replied “hey”. Not doing this chit anymore
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post 1637656563 05-03-2021, 11:01 AM
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Change it up to make it more exciting.

"How are you?"

"I'm fukin fabulous, thanks for asking!"
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post 1637656623 05-03-2021, 11:02 AM
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The only thing that actually makes me enraged is when people call me and then ask if I have time to talk.

Mfer I picked up the damn phone didn't I?
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post 1637656753 05-03-2021, 11:04 AM
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post 1637656773 05-03-2021, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted By JoshSP1985
The only thing that actually makes me enraged is when people call me and then ask if I have time to talk.

Mfer I picked up the damn phone didn't I?
Asking if you have time to talk = "do you have time for alongconversation?"
post 1637656793 05-03-2021, 11:04 AM
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Everyone always ask how are you, but nobody ever ask WHO are you.

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post 1637656883 05-03-2021, 11:05 AM
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Originally Posted By kimm4
Change it up to make it more exciting.

"How are you?"

"I'm fukin fabulous, thanks for asking!"
Temped to say this every time now

Coworkers gonna be mirin my constant positivity
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I hate getting ignored because I took an hour to reply
post 1637657233 05-03-2021, 11:10 AM
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Yes,

I have a lot of conference calls I have to get on at work.

And they all start with the same BS smalltalk, several times a day

"How is everyone?"

"good"

"good"

"good"

"good how about you?"

"im good too thanks for asking"

EVERY FUKING DAY MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY
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post 1637657483 05-03-2021, 11:13 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
Yes,

I have a lot of conference calls I have to get on at work.

And they all start with the same BS smalltalk, several times a day

"How is everyone?"

"good"

"good"

"good"

"good how about you?"

"im good too thanks for asking"

EVERY FUKING DAY MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY
I hate it. You just know it’s not genuine, unless you’re close with the person

“How are you” has lost all meaning
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*Typos can go fucl themselves crew*
*Nice miscer crew*
*Loves reps, hates negs crew*
*Faps before workout crew*
*12+ hours of sleep crew*
*Faps during workout crew*
*Hates onions crew*
*Faps after workout crew*
*No fap crew*
post 1637657683 05-03-2021, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted By Ironface
I hate it. You just know it’s not genuine, unless you’re close with the person

“How are you” has lost all meaning
Yep, even if I wasn't "good", no way I would announce that on a conference call
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