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post 1637968703 05-07-2021, 01:09 AM
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Is beta provider a meme or actually real?

I saw a sloot post story a story about a wedding and the couple getting married looked like a classic beta provider scenario

The guy was fat bald manlet ugly with a girl who was okay looking but looked about 30 and a bit washed up.

Maybe i been miscing too much but do these marriages realy work long term? does she end up cheating ? does she deny him sex? is it all the horror stories real?
post 1637969363 05-07-2021, 01:30 AM
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Most marriages look like this. They're for social stability and children.
post 1637969413 05-07-2021, 01:35 AM
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Not a meme, but providing for a woman is not beta, particularly if she is the mother of your children and takes good care of the home. The problem with most modern men is that they marry useless whores that don't cook, clean, work or have any motherly instincts at all. They just wanna scroll social media and wait for you to fuk them every day, until of course they get bored, then they stop fukking you and eventually take you to the cleaners. Choose wisely.
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post 1637970303 05-07-2021, 02:10 AM
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cope then rope
post 1637970333 05-07-2021, 02:12 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
Not a meme, but providing for a woman is not beta, particularly if she is the mother of your children and takes good care of the home. The problem with most modern men is that they marry useless whores that don't cook, clean, work or have any motherly instincts at all. They just wanna scroll social media and wait for you to fuk them every day, until of course they get bored, then they stop fukking you and eventually take you to the cleaners. Choose wisely.
Men are just as bad. Think about the average man in 2021. They're getting exactly what they deserve with those women, it's just two low value people bringing out the worst in eachother
post 1637970433 05-07-2021, 02:17 AM
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Originally Posted By A-GAME
Not a meme, but providing for a woman is not beta, particularly if she is the mother of your children and takes good care of the home. The problem with most modern men is that they marry useless whores that don't cook, clean, work or have any motherly instincts at all. They just wanna scroll social media and wait for you to fuk them every day, until of course they get bored, then they stop fukking you and eventually take you to the cleaners. Choose wisely.
^^^ This

Yes, happy equal partnerships really do exist Misc...
post 1637970553 05-07-2021, 02:21 AM
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My most recent ex gf settled HARD AS FUK for some really fat 35 year old beta male orbiter who was in her friend zone for 16 years. He looks like he’s 70. All grey hair already too. Only thing this man-child who still watches Pokémon and wwe has going for him is that he works for daddy’s business and can provide some money.

It absolutely sickens me. You never want your ex to date up and get with a Chad because that can hurt your ego. But she went the exact opposite direction and now I just feel bad for her.

She has a low egg count when she was with me and even asked if I’d be her sperm donor when we were breaking up. Obviously I said no but goddamn I can’t imagine me settling for the female equivalent of that fat ugly fuk.
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Can you all stop feeding sandman please. If you have given legit advice on this thread of a guy who has been trolling for 2 years you are a fkn *******.
post 1637971143 05-07-2021, 02:43 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28
My most recent ex gf settled HARD AS FUK for some really fat 35 year old beta male orbiter who was in her friend zone for 16 years. He looks like he’s 70. All grey hair already too. Only thing this man-child who still watches Pokémon and wwe has going for him is that he works for daddy’s business and can provide some money.

It absolutely sickens me. You never want your ex to date up and get with a Chad because that can hurt your ego. But she went the exact opposite direction and now I just feel bad for her.

She has a low egg count when she was with me and even asked if I’d be her sperm donor when we were breaking up. Obviously I said no but goddamn I can’t imagine me settling for the female equivalent of that fat ugly fuk.
If she settles for a Chad it's a good/bad thing because it means she was a quality girl but blow to ego

If she settles for an ugly beta it means she wasn't that good but ego is kept

lose/lose lol
post 1637971193 05-07-2021, 02:44 AM
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Jump off a cliff sandman you useless kunt
post 1637971293 05-07-2021, 02:47 AM
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Was true in the suburb I grew up in. I simply never saw one married woman older than 40 and under 60 who looked attractive or showed any evidence of being hot when she was young. Every female just... bloated up...
post 1637971313 05-07-2021, 02:47 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Nah dude I tried doing that alpha male bulls*t for years and I just ruined my life and started hating my own existence.

You eventually meet somebody, fall in love, and realise how retarded most of the red-pill stuff is.

At a certain point, it stops being about you, and starts being about those around you.
I agree, repped.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Nah dude I tried doing that alpha male bulls*t for years and I just ruined my life and started hating my own existence.

You eventually meet somebody, fall in love, and realise how retarded most of the red-pill stuff is.

At a certain point, it stops being about you, and starts being about those around you.
Yep. Most people don't even realise what 'alpha' actually means. It means you are the leader of a social group (which can include a family). If you exclude yourself from society, by definition, you can't be 'alpha'...

IDGAF who started this thread and why but it contains some people who are speaking sense.
post 1637971513 05-07-2021, 02:53 AM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
Nah dude I tried doing that alpha male bulls*t for years and I just ruined my life and started hating my own existence.

You eventually meet somebody, fall in love, and realise how retarded most of the red-pill stuff is.

At a certain point, it stops being about you, and starts being about those around you.
It’s still a roll of the dice at the end of the day. Every person in a relationship or marriage thinks they’re exempt from the stats that are at best 50-50.

I will add that a lot of men pretend like they don’t want to be in love with a girl because your guy friends are gonna snicker and mock you for being a sucker/beta. But it’s totally natural to want that. But the amount of cheating I see or hear about on a regular basis is enough to give me a really bleak outlook on relationships.
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Originally Posted By andrew28
It’s still a roll of the dice at the end of the day. Every person in a relationship or marriage thinks they’re exempt from the stats that are at best 50-50.

I will add that a lot of men pretend like they don’t want to be in love with a girl because your guy friends are gonna snicker and mock you for being a sucker/beta. But it’s totally natural to want that. But the amount of cheating I see or hear about on a regular basis is enough to give me a really bleak outlook on relationships.
Yea i think at the end of the day it's a gamble and a gamble where you go all in.. either bust or win.
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I mean if you marry somebody and have kids then no it's not beta you would probably be a beta for not providing SRS but if the only way you can get girls is being a provider then yes you're a beta.
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Not providing is the most beta.

It means you are a scavenger to another man's world, in charge of nothing.
post 1637972223 05-07-2021, 03:33 AM
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Originally Posted By merb0
Not providing is the most beta.

It means you are a scavenger to another man's world, in charge of nothing.
This guy Marc Rudov has a bunch of vids on YouTube of him destroying feminists. But when it comes to men tying their masculinity into being a provider, he has a different view of it than you’d expect.

The whole vid is hilarious but just skip to 7:45 for his specific point about masculinity being tied to providing. Not sure I agree with him but he might have a point here.

Edit: goddammit idk why I can’t embed this one. Someone help for reps.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=VSk6SV4Fh98&t=475s

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