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post 1638185763 05-10-2021, 03:39 AM
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Any men here make the mistake of being too available towards women?

Without being aware of it for years? Better late than never soldier
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post 1638185813 05-10-2021, 03:41 AM
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what women?
nah but I used to do this. this kinda naturally happens for me when I'm too invested in a girl and she is not as interested in me
post 1638186083 05-10-2021, 03:51 AM
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yea learnt my lesson i think my first gf got bred of me coz i was always texting her back

if u like a girl u cant be act like u do unfortunately.
post 1638186153 05-10-2021, 03:52 AM
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Women do not like weakness.
post 1638186293 05-10-2021, 03:58 AM
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Originally Posted By DallasCowboyz⏩
yea learnt my lesson i think my first gf got bred of me coz i was always texting her back
Same
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post 1638186323 05-10-2021, 03:59 AM
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Originally Posted By merb0⏩
Women do not like weakness.
Truth
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post 1638186373 05-10-2021, 04:01 AM
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Every relationship where I was indifferent or appeared to be indifferent, the girl kept trying to lock me down and I had all the power.

Whenever I cared more about the girl than she cared about me, it’s always ended horribly for me.

Patrice O’Neal said it best. “The best relationships are when the woman LOVES the man and he LIKES her.” So fukking true.
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Every relationship where I was indifferent or appeared to be indifferent, the girl kept trying to lock me down and I had all the power.

Whenever I cared more about the girl than she cared about me, it’s always ended horribly for me.

Patrice O’Neal said it best. “The best relationships are when the woman LOVES the man and he LIKES her.” So fukking true.
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post 1638186873 05-10-2021, 04:20 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Every relationship where I was indifferent or appeared to be indifferent, the girl kept trying to lock me down and I had all the power.

Whenever I cared more about the girl than she cared about me, it’s always ended horribly for me.

Patrice O’Neal said it best. “The best relationships are when the woman LOVES the man and he LIKES her.” So fukking true.
this is true and how you have to act to keep a girl interested

but at the sae time it goes against human nature as a man not to love

brb becoming a cyborg for every girl going forward
post 1638187073 05-10-2021, 04:27 AM
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Every relationship where I was indifferent or appeared to be indifferent, the girl kept trying to lock me down and I had all the power.

Whenever I cared more about the girl than she cared about me, it’s always ended horribly for me.

Patrice O’Neal said it best. “The best relationships are when the woman LOVES the man and he LIKES her.” So fukking true.
This.

When i was nonchalant it usually worked out better. The minute i wanted to see her more than she did me, das not it mane.
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
This.

When i was nonchalant it usually worked out better. The minute i wanted to see her more than she did me, das not it mane.
like i said this doesn't make sense

yea it's the right thing to do 100% red pill advice

but what are you supposed to you? you meet a girl you real like and love but act like a cyborg and dont give a fuk ?

its easy to say but hard to do IRL

or just go out with girls you don't reallyl ike in the first place LOL!
post 1638187433 05-10-2021, 04:44 AM
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
This.

When i was nonchalant it usually worked out better. The minute i wanted to see her more than she did me, das not it mane.
The thing I don’t understand about it though, is that I see couples on social media ALL the time where the guy posts about how he’s so in love with his gf/wife. Doesn’t that go against my own rule? I know there are always exceptions to every rule but I see this all the time and the guys aren’t always beta cucks either. Maybe some women actually want a guy who is 110% into them. But in my experience, the majority of them THINK they want that, but once the guy shows full commitment it gets boring for them. Like when you stop moving that pull-string toy up and down from your cat. The cat will chase it if it’s moving but if you just let it lay there, they have no use for it.
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Originally Posted By DallasCowboyz⏩
like i said this doesn't make sense

yea it's the right thing to do 100% red pill advice

but what are you supposed to you? you meet a girl you real like and love but act like a cyborg and dont give a fuk ?

its easy to say but hard to do IRL

or just go out with girls you don't reallyl ike in the first place LOL!
Exactly.

It seems just as unfair as trying not to orgasm before your woman during sex.

Women bitch all the time about how they don’t get an orgasm from their man during sex. But they never realize that for the ENTIRE TIME for the guy, we’re trying to NOT cum....

I literally have to pinch my own skin hard as fuk when I’m having trouble lasting longer. I actually have to try NOT to enjoy it as much as I’d like to. When women just get to go all out and enjoy themselves the entire time.

Same thing with relationships. The guy always has to hold back while the girl can absorb and suck all the joy out of being with you without a care in the world.
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
The thing I don’t understand about it though, is that I see couples on social media ALL the time where the guy posts about how he’s so in love with his gf/wife. Doesn’t that go against my own rule? I know there are always exceptions to every rule but I see this all the time and the guys aren’t always beta cucks either. Maybe some women actually want a guy who is 110% into them. But in my experience, the majority of them THINK they want that, but once the guy shows full commitment it gets boring for them. Like when you stop moving that pull-string toy up and down from your cat. The cat will chase it if it’s moving but if you just let it lay there, they have no use for it.
Yes this is my experience as well, i don't understand

however, i nmy experience it seems these couples have been together for a long time and the girl is not a sloot srs.

e.g. high school couples

i think this is where the girl is really attached to the guy and has hardly hard any other dink or may have even been a virgin.
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Marry for children.

Then, love them.

You can be as close as bill abd hilary with your wife.
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Originally Posted By DallasCowboyz⏩
Yes this is my experience as well, i don't understand

however, i nmy experience it seems these couples have been together for a long time and the girl is not a sloot srs.

e.g. high school couples

i think this is where the girl is really attached to the guy and has hardly hard any other dink or may have even been a virgin.
Well, statistics show that the less sexual partners people have (especially women), the more likely they’ll stay married. There are charts showing this that’ll really make you hesitant to marry a woman who has had more than several dicks in her. And how rare are those girls??
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Originally Posted By andrew28⏩
Well, statistics show that the less sexual partners people have (especially women), the more likely they’ll stay married. There are charts showing this that’ll really make you hesitant to marry a woman who has had more than several dicks in her. And how rare are those girls??
ye we shuld of just found a girl in high school and stuck with her SEMI SRS

but in my experience it seems all the couples that are super into each other are the ones where the girl isn't a sloot inb4 all wmen are sloots

but it makes sense

the bigger the sloot the more games u got to play

level of games required


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If she's highly interested, she's highly interested. If she's not, she's not. Do you think she'd care if Brad Pitt texted her too much? Nobody likes a needy, autistic PIA though.
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Originally Posted By DallasCowboyz⏩
ye we shuld of just found a girl in high school and stuck with her SEMI SRS

but in my experience it seems all the couples that are super into each other are the ones where the girl isn't a sloot inb4 all wmen are sloots

but it makes sense

the bigger the sloot the more games u got to play

level of games required


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A former fwb of mine was a sex worker (hooker) and she got into a relationship with an ugly manlet who worshipped the ground she walked on. They were so deeply in love on social media until he cheated on her with some married woman and then she came crawling back to me for sex.

I can’t explain that one for the life of me.

I thought her ability to pair-bond would have been fried after all her promiscuity but evidently it wasn’t.
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Don't think it's possible for online dating. Everybody on those apps are dirty as phuck and wanna bang right away. They wouldn't meet otherwise.


The only time to sexually withhold is maybe for an oneitis but I can;'t confirm as I haven't had any. I just think women = women in general.
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