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post 1638208983 05-10-2021, 11:12 AM
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Punishment growing up

Did your generation get a belt across the ass when you got out of line? What was your punishment?
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post 1638209143 05-10-2021, 11:16 AM
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Stood in the corner and got paddled. Got belted once but it hurt less than the paddle.
post 1638209193 05-10-2021, 11:17 AM
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ahah i had parents that were straight up physically abusive. both of them.

i got brutally assaulted regularly growing up.

my sister is mentally disabled from the abuse. i turned out okay though.
post 1638209273 05-10-2021, 11:17 AM
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Born in the 70s and yep, got the belt at home (or whatever was nearby) and paddled in school.

Didn't turn me into a mental case. Nobody cried "child abuse" - my neighbors kept my ass in line too.
post 1638209293 05-10-2021, 11:18 AM
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The greatest punishment was having been raised a hardworking member of society that understands my actions have consequences


Only to find out that my fellow white lib peers were not
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post 1638209443 05-10-2021, 11:19 AM
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Not a belt, my dad used a the handle of a metal fly swatter to wack my palms or my back.

I personally don't even think corporal punishment is an effective disciplinary measure because all it did was make me even more emotionally unstable, unhinged and aggressive. The more beatings I got from my dad, the more I would lash out at school, get into fights and cause trouble.

A better form of training children to behave would be to condition them psychologically as soon as their infants - which is what my uncle (dad's biological brother) did and his kids (my cousins) turned out great. My other cousins from my aunt's side (dad's biological sister) are even worse than me because their dad would beat them even worse than my dad beat me.
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post 1638209523 05-10-2021, 11:20 AM
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post 1638209593 05-10-2021, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
Not a belt, my dad used a the handle of a metal fly swatter to wack my palms or my back.

I personally don't even think corporal punishment is an effective disciplinary measure because all it did was make me even more emotionally unstable, unhinged and aggressive. The more beatings I got from my dad, the more I would lash out at school, get into fights and cause trouble.

A better form of training children to behave would be to condition them as soon as their infants - which is what my uncle (dad's biological brother) did and his kids (my cousins) turned out great. My other cousins from my aunt's side (dad's biological sister) are even worse than me because their dad would beat them even worse than my dad beat me.
Your logic is that because you were disciplined; that made youchooseto hurt other people

In reality you apparently weren't disciplined enough because you still haven't learned you're responsible for your own actions



inb4 cope response
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post 1638209763 05-10-2021, 11:23 AM
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Belt, wooden spoons (big spoons), the stove top, wooden hair brush, etc
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never been beaten by parents crew.
altho heard a whipping noice at my mates house (I was 7-8(?))
and then a scream. I knew he got hit but his lil bro yelled and laughed "adam got hit with a santa". I didnt know what santa was at that time and later asked my mom. She said it means belt in arabic.
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I got whooped, I got maced once my stepdad, he also used to break plastic coat hangers over my knuckles.

I'm a little unbalanced.
post 1638209993 05-10-2021, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted By blissful88⏩
Your logic is that because you were disciplined; that made youchooseto hurt other people

In reality you apparently weren't disciplined enough because you still haven't learned you're responsible for yourself



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Incorrect, it made me think that shouting, fighting, threatening people was the appropriate way to respond to situations I perceived as incorrect. If this were the Middle East or some war-torn part of the world where violence is the appropriate solution to an adverse situation, then that'd be fine.

But in the west, we live in "polite" society where being cunning, subtle and treacherous while maintaining a fascade of politeness is how to get things done.
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Willow tree branch and once we moved to a civilized country it was plastic slippers. Was a pretty decent upgrade
post 1638211043 05-10-2021, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted By N0stradamus⏩
Incorrect, it made me think that shouting, fighting, threatening people was the appropriate way to respond to situations I perceived as incorrect. If this were the Middle East or some war-torn part of the world where violence is the appropriate solution to an adverse situation, then that'd be fine.

But in the west, we live in "polite" society where being cunning, subtle and treacherous while maintaining a fascade of politeness is how to get things done.
The exact immature reply I expected; the irony is that you're too immature still to understand that it was your fault & not your father's but you're unable to understand personal accountability

This is why so many young people end up in prison



Discipline works and do you know why it works?

Because physical interaction is the most universal language there is; that's why we send men into wars
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post 1638211723 05-10-2021, 11:46 AM
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As kids, we had been playing with our Hot Wheels cars and something infuriated our mom. She picked up a section of Hot Wheels track and started hitting us with it, lol. Normally, it was "Jocko" the paddle.
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post 1638211923 05-10-2021, 11:48 AM
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That and/or punishment (grounded I guess you'd call it)


Adopting different approach (mostly) with my parenting.
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My mom would grab anything nearby

Dad: Choose 1 of the 3 items layed out
Belt with buffalo nickels on it
Fraternity paddle
Leather razor sharpening straps

He always hit below the butt so they wrapped around the thigh.
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Got the belt from my old man. Once my mother made me pick my own switch. Once I turned 11-12 the spankings stopped and I was grounded.
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I was assaulted several times per year/month depending on my behaviour but none of us cried “child abuse”. We were hard children, unlike the punani parade now a days....
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Originally Posted By badbl00d⏩
Got the belt from my old man. Once my mother made me pick my own switch. Once I turned 11-12 the spankings stopped and I was grounded.
Honestly a switch hurt worse than anything. Especially when delivered onto bare legs lol
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Certain things work with certain kids. Some are fine with a stern talking too. Some respond to punishment. IE no wifi/tablet/cellphone/tv/video games for X amount of time. Some, respond to physical discipline.


I personally think a large portion of parents whip their children the wrong way. You really need to let them calm down. Pull them aside. Explain to them what they did wrong, why its wrong. And that you are going to discipline them for it. That you're going to hurt them, because you love them. Then, they should count aloud each strike. You really don't need anything excessive to start 3-5 with a belt.






I've been in law enforcement a long time. Been to a lot of houses to assist with out of control kids from 8-16 years old. Typically when they are older then that parents just give up and no longer give a F. Also been to a few houses where parents are actually afraid of/intimidated by kids that are around 12-13 years old. Those people NEVER spanked or physically disciplined their kids. Those kids still ended up violent/forceful. Enough to assert their will over grown adults. These are the same little fukkers that are causing crime issues and are fighting/disrespecting the police. Then their parent want to lie like they are some little angel. 99% of the time these same losers have police calls/reports on file because they can't control their child.
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The ocassional spanking.

Mom threw the odd shoe but more of a joking manner.

One time dad picked up my bro my the ears lmao i died

Grandma was hardcore had a naked pine branch she used a few times
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Originally Posted By progressive⏩
Honestly a switch hurt worse than anything. Especially when delivered onto bare legs lol
And you better pick the right one. You don't want them going out there and picking a log to whoop your ass with. Can confirm, first and last time. I don't think my mother treated me as good at any other point in my life than she did after whooping my ass with a switch.
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My dad would take me to the bathroom..Told me to drop my pants while he let loose with a leather belt.... Looking back...I deserved it.
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There's no need for physical violence as a means for punishment.

In today's world, you just take away the kid's gadgets and that'll bring them back on line real fast. Tried and tested when I was raising my teenage niece and nephew.
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Mum's slipper on the arse. My sister and I knew when we'd gone too far and would often leg it upstairs to avoid what was coming. It never really hut it was really the shame of getting smacked.

UK is cucked, Scotland recently actually outlawed smacking of kids, lmao. Good luck reasoning with a hysterical 2 year old hell bent on doing something dangerous.
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Normally, it was "Jocko" the paddle.
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Plenty of times. I remember spending some weeks with my aunt and uncle. I got in trouble at their place, got whooped by them, then when I went home a few weeks later I got whooped by my parents for getting in in trouble at my aunt/uncles place lol.

Stayed with my grand parents when my parents deployed to Saudi. Grandmother had rose bushes outside and me being a dumbass I would go pick the petals, she would then proceed to take the switch off that I pulled the petals from and whoop me with it. Thorns hurt a lot.....
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Usually just the bare hand...but this thread reminds me my mother broke something when she tried to spank me with something else once. Can't remember now what it was, but I want to say it was a hairbrush.
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I got smacked but grew up to be a little ****. No father figure to sort me out.

My gfs father has raised two amazing, classy daughters with values the misc would admire (not slooty).

He did it by having a line in the sand where privelidges were taken away with out that count to 3 bs but was otherwise very chilled out, not overbearing or strict.
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