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post 1638288533 05-11-2021, 09:35 AM
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Want a better relationship?

Just care less

Every time I see some miscer whining about his gf, it could be solved by just caring less. If you care more than your girl does, you are doing it so so wrong. All a gf is at the end of the day is a cool fwb who you like chillin with. Don't make it more than it is and complicate it
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post 1638288713 05-11-2021, 09:37 AM
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Usually my problem is not caring enough.

I have extremely low empathy.
post 1638288813 05-11-2021, 09:38 AM
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Any tips on how to stop it from progressing into "Hey let's move in together", but at the same time keep the relationship?
post 1638288873 05-11-2021, 09:39 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Just care less

Every time I see some miscer whining about his gf, it could be solved by just caring less. If you care more than your girl does, you are doing it so so wrong. All a gf is at the end of the day is a cool fwb who you like chillin with. Don't make it more than it is and complicate it
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to RagnarChadbrok again.
post 1638289453 05-11-2021, 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted By ramimotemem⏩
Any tips on how to stop it from progressing into "Hey let's move in together", but at the same time keep the relationship?
yea

my current gf wants to move in with me. I just tell her no every time lol. yesterday when she brought it up I was like "you're so greedy, you want even more of my time? It's never enough for this one huh" and then she laughed. just stick to your basic boundaries. they're a big deal to you internally, but don't make it seem like a big deal externally or get all srs about it. just playfully say na
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post 1638289563 05-11-2021, 09:47 AM
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Sad you lost a leg in a car accident? Just care less and be glad you didn't lose both.
Thanks! Next advice from op:

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post 1638289663 05-11-2021, 09:48 AM
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True brah. I tell her, she catches me cheating. She should place the blame on herself because she was obviously doing something wrong that pushed me into cheating.

Told her the next time it happens, I won't be so nice about it and have to hide it.
post 1638289673 05-11-2021, 09:48 AM
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Basically but it will wear on her eventually for long term relationships. The person who cares the least has the most control.
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post 1638289763 05-11-2021, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By BLOATMOGGER⏩
Usually my problem is not caring enough.

I have extremely low empathy.
nice

you'll do just fine
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Just care less

Every time I see some miscer whining about his job, it could be solved by calling his boss a *******.
this is actually true more or less
Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
Sad you lost a leg in a car accident? Just care less and be glad you didn't lose both.
Thanks! Next advice from op:

are you just being cheeky or are you retarded, srs? you can't do anything about losing a leg, but you can definitely decide not to be a **** in your dealings with women
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post 1638289973 05-11-2021, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
are you just being cheeky or are you retarded, srs? you can't do anything about losing a leg, but you can definitely decide not to be a **** in your dealings with women
Actually you could just care less about missing a leg. Isn't that the whole shtick of your advice? Have a girlfriend who cheats? just care less.
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post 1638289983 05-11-2021, 09:52 AM
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Originally Posted By SamIAm1892⏩
True brah. I tell her, she catches me cheating. She should place the blame on herself because she was obviously doing something wrong that pushed me into cheating.

Told her the next time it happens, I won't be so nice about it and have to hide it.
this is king sh*t
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Basically but it will wear on her eventually for long term relationships. The person who cares the least has the most control.
yea

but it's better than it wearing on you
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post 1638290273 05-11-2021, 09:55 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
but it's better than it wearing on you
It's really not good advice though. it simly means you're accepting fate.
it's not different from being dirt poor and being unhappy. Your fix would be ''care less about being poor''. While someone else works hard to actually end up in a better financial situation.

Some people actually like the emotional connection/trust/bond etc that comes with a real relationship. Now if your gf sloots, then there's nothing you can do except leave since you can't control someone else. Then go out and find someone better. but to simply accept it and be a doormat so you'll be happier, doesn't seem like good advice to me. Seems like cope to me. But to each their own.
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post 1638290323 05-11-2021, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
Actually you could just care less about missing a leg. Isn't that the whole shtick of your advice? Have a girlfriend who cheats? just care less.
alright, so possibly just retarded then. you're missing the point by throwing in your random cuck fantasy premise that she's cheating on you. obviously if your gf cheats on you, ice her. this is more generalized advice that applies to all relationships. regardless of what your circumstances are, you will always benefit from caring less than the girl does. caring gives her control, and females should never have control over you. look at female bosses in the work force, and recall some of your high school teachers for examples of what happens when women have power. and if she does cheat on you, caring less helps with that too. if my current gf cheated on me, I honestly wouldn't give too many fuks. meanwhile some guys would be absolutely destroyed and rope
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post 1638290343 05-11-2021, 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
It's really not good advice though. it simly means you're accepting fate.
it's not different from being dirt poor and being unhappy. Your fix would be ''care less about being poor''. While someone else works hard to actually end up in a better financial situation.

Some people actually like the emotional connection/trust/bond etc that comes with a real relationship. Now if your gf sloots, then there's nothing you can do except leave since you can't control someone else. Then go out and find someone better. but to simply accept it and be a doormat so you'll be happier, doesn't seem like good advice to me. Seems like cope to me. But to each their own.
He's not saying care less about being cheated on.

He's saying care less about other people.
post 1638290563 05-11-2021, 09:59 AM
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
Just care less

Every time I see some miscer whining about his gf, it could be solved by just caring less. If you care more than your girl does, you are doing it so so wrong. All a gf is at the end of the day is a cool fwb who you like chillin with. Don't make it more than it is and complicate it
Great advice! Thank you, OP! Will do! A+++++++ Looking forward to your next posts! Liked, shared, subscribed!!!
post 1638292023 05-11-2021, 10:15 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
It's really not good advice though. it simly means you're accepting fate.
it's not different from being dirt poor and being unhappy. Your fix would be ''care less about being poor''. While someone else works hard to actually end up in a better financial situation.

Some people actually like the emotional connection/trust/bond etc that comes with a real relationship. Now if your gf sloots, then there's nothing you can do except leave since you can't control someone else. Then go out and find someone better. but to simply accept it and be a doormat so you'll be happier, doesn't seem like good advice to me. Seems like cope to me. But to each their own.
You're drawing analogy after analogy because you can't directly engage with the topic I'm talking about. Where your analogies fall short is that your gf is another person. Your financial status, your physical health, etc. are not other people. They are your personal situation. You can control your personal situation, to a large extent. You can not actually control another person to any extent. It's dumb to extremely heavily invest in to a girl. I'm sorry that you wanna "feel love" in the sense that Hollywood sold to you brah, but that's the reality. It doesn't mean you can't enjoy your gf tho. I enjoy my gf
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post 1638292343 05-11-2021, 10:19 AM
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This is true OP.

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legit advice

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if you treat them like real people, you're gonna have a bad time

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