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how do you guys talk to women at bars?
I don't get it, they already have like a huge group with them, sometimes multiple guys chatting them and giving them attention?
they never approach, or make the first move, either.
how do you meet single women at bars who are interested in you? (srs). how do you get them chatting with you?
they never approach, or make the first move, either.
how do you meet single women at bars who are interested in you? (srs). how do you get them chatting with you?
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Originally Posted By omeatmebroc⏩
one did actually a few times I noticed) but I wasnt sure if she was just going to the bar for a drink or wanting to talk to the other guy on the other side of me...so i didnt say anything...the same way you meet women anywhere else?
notice the ones that get close to you, and figure a way to open the conversation up
literally just say anything.
notice the ones that get close to you, and figure a way to open the conversation up
literally just say anything.
05-16-2021, 06:09 PM
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Same way you talk to a random dude. Surly you’ve done that.
05-16-2021, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩
seems like women have their guard up/plus have MULTIPLE men surrounding them.Same way you talk to a random dude. Surly you’ve done that.
A man sitting at a bar alone is more common, I hardly ever see a woman alone at a bar without AT LEAST a couple men swooping in already.
05-16-2021, 06:14 PM
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah⏩
Considering your negative attitude, maybe talking to females just isn’t in your cards. Figure out a solution rather than focusing on the negatives.seems like women have their guard up/plus have MULTIPLE men surrounding them.
A man sitting at a bar alone is more common, I hardly ever see a woman alone at a bar without AT LEAST a couple men swooping in already.
A man sitting at a bar alone is more common, I hardly ever see a woman alone at a bar without AT LEAST a couple men swooping in already.
Or honestly try men cause you sound gay af
05-16-2021, 06:17 PM
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Maybe its just not meant to be brah. There are many other great pleasures in life a woman can not provide for you. Perhaps accepting long term singlehood is for you
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I'd stand or sit around and wait for them to approach you. Or sit at your table.
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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩
thats why im asking the misc i dont know what the solution is, because women dont make themselves easily available in social situations.Considering your negative attitude, maybe talking to females just isn’t in your cards. Figure out a solution rather than focusing on the negatives.
Or honestly try men cause you sound gay af
Or honestly try men cause you sound gay af
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I like to have a couple of cocktails in me first. Then I walk past them and stop and say - Yo! What's up?! And then make a funny comment about something random. It works to start a conversation almost 100% of the time. Sometimes they're interested and available and sometimes they're not. If not, you just move on to the next one. This is some random young 30 year old I met the other night at the bar. I'm 51. Just literally walked right past her and started chatting. Buddy took the pic. Yes my hair is f**ked up - I'm about 9 margaritas deep at this point!
05-16-2021, 06:34 PM
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You can literally say anything, just have to look / act fun and not come off creepy.
Normally I sit next to them and something like "Hey where are you girls from?" if you cant have a conversation after hearing a random city, you're not getting laid anyways. Have also done the "havvveee you met ____?".
Normally I sit next to them and something like "Hey where are you girls from?" if you cant have a conversation after hearing a random city, you're not getting laid anyways. Have also done the "havvveee you met ____?".
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05-16-2021, 06:38 PM
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Ask one of them to watch your drink for you wile you go to the bathroom.
Come back and ask if they want one introduce yourself
Ask them what they do for a living then say “love that for you”
Then ask them what their biggest insecurity is srs
Come back and ask if they want one introduce yourself
Ask them what they do for a living then say “love that for you”
Then ask them what their biggest insecurity is srs
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Originally Posted By NealIRC⏩
Boom.I'd stand or sit around and wait for them to approach you. Or sit at your table.
I've always had the best luck when I have been out with buddies just catching up and not giving a fook about the girls there and more times then not we got company at some point.
Its important to have a table though.
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05-16-2021, 06:45 PM
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id say any of them that aren't preoccupied are game. otherwise, they need to make themselves available to you
obviously you dont typically go for the ones with dudes, or if they're in a group you're prob gonna have to break into the group
obviously you dont typically go for the ones with dudes, or if they're in a group you're prob gonna have to break into the group
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
huge if true.I like to have a couple of cocktails in me first. Then I walk past them and stop and say - Yo! What's up?! And then make a funny comment about something random. It works to start a conversation almost 100% of the time. Sometimes they're interested and available and sometimes they're not. If not, you just move on to the next one. This is some random young 30 year old I met the other night at the bar. I'm 51. Just literally walked right past her and started chatting. Buddy took the pic. Yes my hair is f**ked up - I'm about 9 margaritas deep at this point!
brb getting wasted to talk to women
Originally Posted By AgRyan⏩
I don't think I come off as creepy but I think I get a depressing aura after the night goes by and I don't end up talking to anyone, and I feel like I wasted the whole night going to the bar, I think it's written all over my face. (srs)You can literally say anything, just have to look / act fun and not come off creepy.
Normally I sit next to them and something like "Hey where are you girls from?" if you cant have a conversation after hearing a random city, you're not getting laid anyways. Have also done the "havvveee you met ____?".
Normally I sit next to them and something like "Hey where are you girls from?" if you cant have a conversation after hearing a random city, you're not getting laid anyways. Have also done the "havvveee you met ____?".
Originally Posted By SleepWithFan89⏩
brb bringing notecards of things I can sayAsk one of them to watch your drink for you wile you go to the bathroom.
Come back and ask if they want one introduce yourself
Ask them what they do for a living then say “love that for you”
Then ask them what their biggest insecurity is srs
Come back and ask if they want one introduce yourself
Ask them what they do for a living then say “love that for you”
Then ask them what their biggest insecurity is srs
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah⏩
simple: stop caring about trying to take them home when literally every other sausage in there isI don't get it, they already have like a huge group with them, sometimes multiple guys chatting them and giving them attention?
they never approach, or make the first move, either.
how do you meet single women at bars who are interested in you? (srs). how do you get them chatting with you?
they never approach, or make the first move, either.
how do you meet single women at bars who are interested in you? (srs). how do you get them chatting with you?
make your only agenda to bull**** and shoot the chit
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Bro you have to be socially retarded to struggle talking to a tipsy/drunk girl. Just give up. They don't get easier than that
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Rule number 1: We don't seriously hit on girls who are getting paid. Fake friendly flirting with preconceived notions of it going nowhere is fine.
Rule number 2: We don't hit on chicks sitting down when you're standing up. If you're sitting at your table, and she's sitting at her's, that's cool. If you're sitting at a bar, and she's walking by? that's cool. If you're walking up to her and she is sitting at her spot, you are taking on the role of "coyote invader" and people everywhere feel it and hate it.
Rule number 3: there's a 3rd rule i swear i can't remember it, but if I do i will edit.
All of these rules can be encapsulated into 1 basic skill: Learn what a "no" is. So many guys don't know when they get a no, and make fools of themselves. Just go from gal to gal collecting no's. Go for the no asap in my opinion. Cut out the riff raff that don't want you from the get go, look for the ones that were excited to talk to you when they saw you walk in.
Rule number 2: We don't hit on chicks sitting down when you're standing up. If you're sitting at your table, and she's sitting at her's, that's cool. If you're sitting at a bar, and she's walking by? that's cool. If you're walking up to her and she is sitting at her spot, you are taking on the role of "coyote invader" and people everywhere feel it and hate it.
Rule number 3: there's a 3rd rule i swear i can't remember it, but if I do i will edit.
All of these rules can be encapsulated into 1 basic skill: Learn what a "no" is. So many guys don't know when they get a no, and make fools of themselves. Just go from gal to gal collecting no's. Go for the no asap in my opinion. Cut out the riff raff that don't want you from the get go, look for the ones that were excited to talk to you when they saw you walk in.
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Originally Posted By Condo41⏩
Rule #2 is the dumbest thing I've ever heard.Rule number 1: We don't seriously hit on girls who are getting paid. Fake friendly flirting with preconceived notions of it going nowhere is fine.
Rule number 2: We don't hit on chicks sitting down when you're standing up. If you're sitting at your table, and she's sitting at her's, that's cool. If you're sitting at a bar, and she's walking by? that's cool. If you're walking up to her and she is sitting at her spot, you are taking on the role of "coyote invader" and people everywhere feel it and hate it.
Rule number 3: there's a 3rd rule i swear i can't remember it, but if I do i will edit.
All of these rules can be encapsulated into 1 basic skill: Learn what a "no" is. So many guys don't know when they get a no, and make fools of themselves. Just go from gal to gal collecting no's. Go for the no asap in my opinion. Cut out the riff raff that don't want you from the get go, look for the ones that were excited to talk to you when they saw you walk in.
Rule number 2: We don't hit on chicks sitting down when you're standing up. If you're sitting at your table, and she's sitting at her's, that's cool. If you're sitting at a bar, and she's walking by? that's cool. If you're walking up to her and she is sitting at her spot, you are taking on the role of "coyote invader" and people everywhere feel it and hate it.
Rule number 3: there's a 3rd rule i swear i can't remember it, but if I do i will edit.
All of these rules can be encapsulated into 1 basic skill: Learn what a "no" is. So many guys don't know when they get a no, and make fools of themselves. Just go from gal to gal collecting no's. Go for the no asap in my opinion. Cut out the riff raff that don't want you from the get go, look for the ones that were excited to talk to you when they saw you walk in.
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Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
yeah I guess I do have big expectations, I either really want to get laid or meet someone who will give me their number...doesn't happen lol.simple: stop caring about trying to take them home when literally every other sausage in there is
make your only agenda to bull**** and shoot the chit
make your only agenda to bull**** and shoot the chit
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When you are in a setting of drunk people, conversations just happen. If you're an awkward ******* who avoids eye contact and doesn't give off confident behavior/body language, then yeah, you probably won't converse with anyone.
That's the point of drinking, so that it lowers those inhibitions
That's the point of drinking, so that it lowers those inhibitions
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Originally Posted By Brozef⏩
I'm naturally funny and cocky. I think you have to be born with it you can't learn it. That's the problem that some of these guys have unfortunately. It's very difficult if you're not born with that. It's very difficult if you're more introverted versus extroverted and confident.Chicks love guys who they find funny. It's fukin kryptonite.
Be outgoing and funny. Those guys don't make these threads.
Be outgoing and funny. Those guys don't make these threads.
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Originally Posted By FallOutBrah⏩
Whose fault is that? If you're depressed you're not talking to girls, talk to girls. Really awkward the first couple times, but after you do it for a few nights it's just normal. You can start small by just starting small conversations with girls waiting for a drink or something, then work up to approaching them, or "grabbing" them in passing.I don't think I come off as creepy but I think I get a depressing aura after the night goes by and I don't end up talking to anyone, and I feel like I wasted the whole night going to the bar, I think it's written all over my face. (srs)
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