Thread: GF having best guy friend
05-18-2021, 02:30 PM
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I'm sure she would totally be okay with it if the scenario was reversed
05-18-2021, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
of course they would do that. then if she comes back with fresh dick sweat on her lips the same family & friends will say "huh okay she made a mistake. you two need to talk and work things out!"I said hell no and went NC, but now her family and friends are hassling me. Saying I shouldn’t have a problem with it and they are just friends and he is like a brother to her.
regardless if they banged or what, that kind of chit is just something you don't do. Going on international getaways with men not your boyfriend. Of course if the genders were reversed it would look bad, so it's bad here too.
by the way I can't imagine the dude she used to date for 5 fukcing years being ok with his ex woman hanging out with his family all the time. what the fuk is that ****? 5 years is a long time, yes, but it doesn't matter;you fukcing move on with your life regardless.
05-18-2021, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
^you're not crazy lol
Originally Posted By nothingshocking⏩
^Nope, she's weird. I wouldn't deal with it.
Originally Posted By miscHodor⏩
^You made the correct choice.
Originally Posted By Evening7⏩
^You ain't crazy pal, sloots gonna sloot.
Originally Posted By ymer⏩
^For once OP is not crazy or an insecure *******.
That situation is fked up.
That situation is fked up.
Originally Posted By Titansfan08⏩
^Guaranteed they have banged/would bang on that trip as well
Originally Posted By umadbroski⏩
^damn.
He about to clap dem cheeks.
He about to clap dem cheeks.
05-18-2021, 02:51 PM
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Take her mom on vacation and get her pregnant. It's the only way.
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05-18-2021, 03:22 PM
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If he's not gay then:
a. he's trying to smash
b. he's smashed before
c. they're smashing rn
Don't assume anything but equally if there's any doubt whatsoever you shouldn't put up with that **** it's not worth the drama.
Edit: FUK I hate cheating scum male or female.
a. he's trying to smash
b. he's smashed before
c. they're smashing rn
Don't assume anything but equally if there's any doubt whatsoever you shouldn't put up with that **** it's not worth the drama.
Edit: FUK I hate cheating scum male or female.
05-18-2021, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By redraider86⏩
this is real lifeIt's weirdandshe's got flying monkeys doing her bidding. Bolt.
05-18-2021, 03:32 PM
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you put her on the side and she likes it too. never trust a bish with another guy around her...
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05-18-2021, 03:48 PM
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cliffs
- had a great gf
- took it all for granted
- gf leaves and cheats
- other dude breaks her heart
- she is cold and jaded now
- feel bad but moving on now
- reported her business
- she was the best man
- had a great gf
- took it all for granted
- gf leaves and cheats
- other dude breaks her heart
- she is cold and jaded now
- feel bad but moving on now
- reported her business
- she was the best man
05-18-2021, 04:09 PM
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Lol no you're not crazy
I came into this thread expecting you to lay out a situation of her having been best friends with some dude since childhood and not knowing how to handle it.
She can't keep her ex and his family in her life and expect to ever have a healthy relationship with another significant other. Anyone with half a brain would realize that, if their bond is so strong to maintain such a relationship, that the family probably doesn't give a flying fook about you, and would gladly break you two up to get them back together so it isn't weird for them.
It's also weird as fuk for her to have become best friends with her ex's brother. Scumbag brother tbh.
I came into this thread expecting you to lay out a situation of her having been best friends with some dude since childhood and not knowing how to handle it.
She can't keep her ex and his family in her life and expect to ever have a healthy relationship with another significant other. Anyone with half a brain would realize that, if their bond is so strong to maintain such a relationship, that the family probably doesn't give a flying fook about you, and would gladly break you two up to get them back together so it isn't weird for them.
It's also weird as fuk for her to have become best friends with her ex's brother. Scumbag brother tbh.
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05-18-2021, 04:20 PM
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Brah just tell them you don't want a girlfriend that spends alone time with an unrelated male. And if a female does so she doesn't respect you enough
The fact she is "best friends" with her exes brother is a HUGE red flag alone. Proceed if you want to get cucked
Me and my girl both have opposite sex friends, but have never hung out with any of them by ourselves since we met
The fact she is "best friends" with her exes brother is a HUGE red flag alone. Proceed if you want to get cucked
Me and my girl both have opposite sex friends, but have never hung out with any of them by ourselves since we met
05-18-2021, 04:22 PM
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You're not crazy, especially with the overseas chit. She might not sloot around while over seas but unless she's an autist she should be aware of the optics. If she hasn't banged him yet its likely she will then.
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05-18-2021, 04:24 PM
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Do a test like in this videos and then see what happens, if he fails the test then it's a no go
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05-18-2021, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Zackad⏩
bolded is a very good point. I would bet his girl's friends and family think ex's brother is a better fit for her than OP, too..Lol no you're not crazy
I came into this thread expecting you to lay out a situation of her having been best friends with some dude since childhood and not knowing how to handle it.
She can't keep her ex and his family in her life and expect to ever have a healthy relationship with another significant other. Anyone with half a brain would realize that, if their bond is so strong to maintain such a relationship, that the family probably doesn't give a flying fook about you, and would gladly break you two up to get them back together so it isn't weird for them.
It's also weird as fuk for her to have become best friends with her ex's brother. Scumbag brother tbh.
I came into this thread expecting you to lay out a situation of her having been best friends with some dude since childhood and not knowing how to handle it.
She can't keep her ex and his family in her life and expect to ever have a healthy relationship with another significant other. Anyone with half a brain would realize that, if their bond is so strong to maintain such a relationship, that the family probably doesn't give a flying fook about you, and would gladly break you two up to get them back together so it isn't weird for them.
It's also weird as fuk for her to have become best friends with her ex's brother. Scumbag brother tbh.
05-18-2021, 04:24 PM
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Yeah that's a hard no.
She is clearly not over the ex and possibly not over the brother either.
Just cut her loose.
She is clearly not over the ex and possibly not over the brother either.
Just cut her loose.
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Hmm, tricky one, especially if she's as cool as you say.
Platonic opposite sex friendships don't always mean they're phucking like most of the Misc seems to believe but the fact that she considers him her BEST friend and would travel across the world just to meet him would definitely weird me the phuck out.
She knows the reason you switched her to FWB, right? If she likes you enough, she'll cut him off. Don't give her an ultimatum, though, let it seem like her idea.
Originally Posted By MFarrar74⏩
This is pure retardation.this seems made up. we will pretend srs tag. none of her behavior with her exs family is acceptable. shes probably banging the bro or has a secret relationship with him they cant expose because it would mess things up with the ex. shes in love with the exs family, she wants to marry the guy or the brother, she doesn't care which. you are the back up guy in case her plan falls through. she is CURRENTLY sleeping with the brother. you are the side hoe.
Originally Posted By Contribution05⏩
This was my first thought.I personally would not be able to hook up with any girl my brothers have hooked up with. That just seems weird to me.
Originally Posted By jlick⏩
This is also true, to an extent.I mean, 5 years is a long time. Long enough to form some real relationships with these people (brother/sister). I would be kind of weirded out too but if she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her, why start now? A good conservative woman is hard to find these days. at least in california.
Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
Yup, I generally think this is an acceptable strategy.Me and my girl both have opposite sex friends, but have never hung out with any of them by ourselves since we met
Platonic opposite sex friendships don't always mean they're phucking like most of the Misc seems to believe but the fact that she considers him her BEST friend and would travel across the world just to meet him would definitely weird me the phuck out.
She knows the reason you switched her to FWB, right? If she likes you enough, she'll cut him off. Don't give her an ultimatum, though, let it seem like her idea.
05-18-2021, 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
This 100%. I wouldn't hang out with a woman alone without my wife and if she hung out with a guy when I wasn't around that would pretty much be the end.Brah just tell them you don't want a girlfriend that spends alone time with an unrelated male. And if a female does so she doesn't respect you enough
The fact she is "best friends" with her exes brother is a HUGE red flag alone. Proceed if you want to get cucked
Me and my girl both have opposite sex friends, but have never hung out with any of them by ourselves since we met
The fact she is "best friends" with her exes brother is a HUGE red flag alone. Proceed if you want to get cucked
Me and my girl both have opposite sex friends, but have never hung out with any of them by ourselves since we met
Even if nothing happens it's such an insanely disrespectful move to even put yourself in the situation where something could happen.
If you're getting all your needs met from your significant other, you wouldn't even want to hang out with an opposite gender friend alone.
05-18-2021, 04:29 PM
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Yeah sorry man been there before actually, it won't work out, leave her in F buddy zone.
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Nah bro, fukk that and im being dead srs.You did the right with with the NC, that's not normal behaviour. Imagine if the roles were reversed, you REALLY think she would like that you were "best friends" with your ex gfs sister? lmao. Don't look back bro.
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Needs pics of her ******* to decide brah
05-18-2021, 05:57 PM
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Cliffs ****or... not reading another guy friend thread on misc after 15 years.
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Originally Posted By HugeBeta⏩
Started talking like January 2020. I was too busy slaying and then covid happened. She wasnt a high priority. Started hanging out and going on dates in June. I was still seeing other girls at the time. She finally brought up the "what are we?" convo in september. I like her and she had the qualities I liked so I was down to give the whole girlfriend thing a shot. Late November is the first time I started hearing about this dude. Shut it down. Did the whole christmas with her family, flied me out to florida twice to meet her dad, etc. All the couple ****. Broke up with her in february. She came back like 2 weeks later. Been doing the whole hangout fuq buddy on my terms since. Just heard about this trip yesterday and went NChow long were u even together for? doesn't make sense seems liek u were just dating her.
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did she give a reason as to why her ex-BFs brother is her best friend? i've been in a few long term relationships and not once was i ever that close to an ex-GFs sister. i'm married to my wife for 13 years now, and i'm cool with her sister, but no way would she be my best friend. my closest friends usually had something in common with me (military, mma, etc). what do they have in common that keeps their friendship going? what do they talk about? my wife has some deep conversations with her GFs....i would be pissed off if she was having those conversations with an ex-BFs brother. plus he literally fuk'd all of her friends.... thats some weird friendship dynamics.
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05-18-2021, 08:00 PM
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you absolutely should have a problem with it.
Don't worry about their biased opinions on it, that doesn't matter.
If my brother had a hot gf and she was my best friend and we were meeting up in thailand you bet your f8cking nut sack we'll be banging
Don't worry about their biased opinions on it, that doesn't matter.
If my brother had a hot gf and she was my best friend and we were meeting up in thailand you bet your f8cking nut sack we'll be banging
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