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post 1638859023 05-18-2021, 01:37 PM
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GF having best guy friend

Dated this girl for a bit. 5 foot, blonde, big tits, conservative, cooks for me, cleans, feminine and submissive, doesn’t attention whore on social media, doesn’t sleep around, paid thousands of dollars on gifts and stuff for me. Just all this stuff that most guys would consider “wifey”. Except one problem....

She’s only had one relationship in the past. It lasted for 5 years. She got close with his family. The dudes older brother is apparently her best friend. She still talks to his sister too.

I thought that was too weird and dipped out. Knocked her down to fuk buddy status and have been seeing other girls. She’s been ok with that but is clearly trying to steer the relationship to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. She has talked about marriage in the past.

But this dude is going overseas for a year to travel and she wants to meet up with him in Thailand and then visit Japan to see his sister. So going on an overseas trip with her ex’s family.

I said hell no and went NC, but now her family and friends are hassling me. Saying I shouldn’t have a problem with it and they are just friends and he is like a brother to her.

I’m not crazy, right? That’s Fukin weird to be hanging with your ex’s family, right?
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post 1638859113 05-18-2021, 01:38 PM
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lol

I would fuk him to assert your dominance.

And I would do that right in front of her.
post 1638859243 05-18-2021, 01:39 PM
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post 1638859383 05-18-2021, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
Dated this girl for a bit. 5 foot, blonde, big tits, conservative, cooks for me, cleans, doesn’t attention whore on social media, doesn’t sleep around, paid thousands of dollars on gifts and stuff for me. Just all this stuff that most guys would consider “wifey”. Except one problem....

She’s only had one relationship in the past. It lasted for 5 years. She got close with his family. The dudes older brother is apparently her best friend. She still talks to his sister too.

I thought that was too weird and dipped out. Knocked her down to fuk buddy status and have been seeing other girls. She’s been ok with that but is clearly trying to steer the relationship to a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. She has talked about marriage in the past.

But this dude is going overseas for a year to travel and she wants to meet up with him in Thailand and then visit Japan to see his sister. So going on an overseas trip with her ex’s family.

I said hell no and went NC, but now her family and friends are hassling me. Saying I shouldn’t have a problem with it and they are just friends and he is like a brother to her.

I’m not crazy, right? That’s Fukin weird to be hanging with your ex’s family, right?
you're not crazy lol
post 1638859443 05-18-2021, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
I’m not crazy, right? That’s Fukin weird to be hanging with your ex’s family, right?
Nope, she's weird. I wouldn't deal with it.
post 1638859533 05-18-2021, 01:42 PM
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They probably smashed. Just lol @ guy friends.

edit: just read she will see him overseas? lmao. biggest red flag possible. Keep as a fwb if you don't have feels or nc completely.
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post 1638859743 05-18-2021, 01:44 PM
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kind of sad but thats how things are with male / female relationships
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post 1638859813 05-18-2021, 01:44 PM
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There's no such thing as guy friends u virgin
post 1638860013 05-18-2021, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro⏩
They probably smashed. Just lol @ guy friends.

edit: just read she will see him overseas? lmao. biggest red flag possible. Keep as a fwb if you don't have feels or nc completely.
He’s a man whore that has banged all her friends. 😂. She insists that he’s like a brother, since he is her ex’s brother he is actually the safest guy friend for her to have, and is not attracted to him at all, but just lol. I’m a man whore. I know how guys think. I would never be hanging out with a girl I didn’t want to bang.

I know I’m not crazy. Just felt like venting.
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post 1638860193 05-18-2021, 01:49 PM
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You made the correct choice.
post 1638860203 05-18-2021, 01:49 PM
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this seems made up. we will pretend srs tag. none of her behavior with her exs family is acceptable. shes probably banging the bro or has a secret relationship with him they cant expose because it would mess things up with the ex. shes in love with the exs family, she wants to marry the guy or the brother, she doesn't care which. you are the back up guy in case her plan falls through. she is CURRENTLY sleeping with the brother. you are the side hoe.
post 1638860453 05-18-2021, 01:51 PM
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post 1638860543 05-18-2021, 01:52 PM
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girls and guys cant be friends.

have you learned anything from your 6 years on the misc?
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post 1638860633 05-18-2021, 01:53 PM
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I mean, 5 years is a long time. Long enough to form some real relationships with these people (brother/sister). I would be kind of weirded out too but if she hasn't given you a reason not to trust her, why start now? A good conservative woman is hard to find these days. at least in california.
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post 1638860973 05-18-2021, 01:56 PM
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post 1638861013 05-18-2021, 01:56 PM
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Guaranteed they have banged/would bang on that trip as well
post 1638861023 05-18-2021, 01:56 PM
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damn.

He about to clap dem cheeks.
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post 1638861513 05-18-2021, 02:01 PM
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theres an old military saying: what happens overseas stays overseas.

go NC and move on
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post 1638861653 05-18-2021, 02:02 PM
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Guys have to understand. For you to even have these thoughts (Warranted or not)...it means the relationship isn't healthy. Cut her loose, or let her go and always wonder if she got dick downed, spit roasted, anally penetrated, prone boned, creampied, and nutted on her face by this guy.

But hey, her family says it's cool right?
post 1638862183 05-18-2021, 02:07 PM
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I don't give a **** who ****s my girl, big deal. I've got more important things to worry about like racebait threads and nocoincel bashing.
post 1638862443 05-18-2021, 02:10 PM
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post 1638862533 05-18-2021, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted By nickh04⏩
girls and guys cant be friends.

have you learned anything from your 6 years on the misc?
After the age of 14 do you really think that men and foids can be friends?

Jesus.
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post 1638862883 05-18-2021, 02:14 PM
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post 1638863073 05-18-2021, 02:16 PM
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It's weirdandshe's got flying monkeys doing her bidding. Bolt.
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post 1638863873 05-18-2021, 02:23 PM
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a chick with a guy as a best friend would only be acceptable is if he's a gay, but even that is suspect
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I personally would not be able to hook up with any girl my brothers have hooked up with. That just seems weird to me. Especially not a girl he dated for 5 years, yikes. That said I know not every guy has those qualms about smashing a girl their sibling has been with, and i would say it's always weird if a girl is dating some guy but going on a trip with another guy.
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completely unacceptable.

continue NC
Look, i know i don't really know you and all, and i know you probably hear this like everyday, but your just so perfect to me. The few hours we talked were really great even if the convo was stale, your really pretty and chill, and your country thats just perfect :'D i really dont know how to explain it, but i think i have feelings for you somehow. i never felt like this with someone i just met, but i felt the need to get it off my chest. sorry for being all weird just idk how to explain it D:
post 1638864303 05-18-2021, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted By TonyTriangles⏩
a chick with a guy as a best friend would only be acceptable is if he's a gay, but even that is suspect
Don't date a chick with a gay best friend if you have conservative values imo
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Originally Posted By Dyel1991⏩
I said hell no and went NC, but now her family and friends are hassling me. Saying I shouldn’t have a problem with it and they are just friends and he is like a brother to her.
The weirdest part is that her friends and family are now messaging you.

Also the fact that she accepted being FWB (after being monogamous) while you were sleeping around is odd and makes me think something is up.

Doesn't matter if something is or isn't going on. If it makes you uncomfortable (which it has every right to) then she needs to let it go.
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