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post 1640170943 06-04-2021, 07:27 PM
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Anyone not like themselves? (Srs thread, not depressed)

I have a good life, make ok money(poverty on the misc), have a social life, get women, good looking and tall. I’m funny outgoing and people love to be around me and like me for who I am, but even though people like me I don’t like who I am.

I feel like something is missing. Also tired of being the loud funny guy, also plenty of things I don’t like about myself. I am really dumb, I would probably score below average on an iq test. I always have to boast about my success, I sometimes lie to make myself look better than I am to others even though they already like me. Seriously considering disappearing for 6 months to a year from my social circle and family to try to discover myself.

/end rant
post 1640172103 06-04-2021, 07:45 PM
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Same here bro. Feel like a piece of chit sometimes tbfh. Suffered from social anxiety for years and flunked every academic pursuit. Failed in like 10 different business pursuits. Room temperature IQ, I’m almost convinced.

I’m like a mix between that slow boio from “of mice and men” and jack sparrow probably
post 1640172473 06-04-2021, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
Same here bro. Feel like a piece of chit sometimes tbfh. Suffered from social anxiety for years and flunked every academic pursuit. Failed in like 10 different business pursuits. Room temperature IQ, I’m almost convinced.

I’m like a mix between that slow boio from “of mice and men” and jack sparrow probably
Does it ever get better? Have you done anything to cope with feeling like that?

I think me almost turning 30 makes me realize if who I am now is who I want to be for the rest of my life. Just feels empty, or that I’m living a different life than im supposed to be.
post 1640172873 06-04-2021, 07:58 PM
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I think I know what you're missing. like me I always thought i was missing something to but I never knew what even though the answer was right in front of me and I dealt with it all my life. I had no idea that it was my foreskin that was missing from me and its the reason my entire life was chit. my parents circumcucked me. now my life is over and I just ldar 24/7
post 1640173513 06-04-2021, 08:09 PM
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Yeah isolate for a while until you learn to get along with yourself
post 1640173973 06-04-2021, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted By scythiss1
Does it ever get better? Have you done anything to cope with feeling like that?

I think me almost turning 30 makes me realize if who I am now is who I want to be for the rest of my life. Just feels empty, or that I’m living a different life than im supposed to be.
At some point you just realize you can only be yourself. Your genetics and your upbringing made you who you are. It is what it is. And you have to be ok with that
post 1640174023 06-04-2021, 08:20 PM
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How old are you.


When the hero’s journey comes knocking take it.
post 1640174123 06-04-2021, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By MetroBrah
At some point you just realize you can only be yourself. Your genetics and your upbringing made you who you are. It is what it is. And you have to be ok with that
I think that’s where my problem is. I don’t want to be okay with who I am. Wonder if it’s possible to change onto who I want to be.
post 1640174163 06-04-2021, 08:23 PM
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Bad vision, bad teeth (constant root canals), and I need 8 hours of sleep.
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post 1640174173 06-04-2021, 08:23 PM
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I mean it’s hard to feel 100% team me when I’m standing there plunger in hand looking down at a four and a half foot mocha booty viper some lady farted into my toilet with legit zero care about flushability
post 1640174213 06-04-2021, 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By ConKrete
How old are you.


When the hero’s journey comes knocking take it.
i’m 29 going on 30 soon. Heroes journey sounds epic lol. Considering going to the forest for a week.
post 1640174223 06-04-2021, 08:26 PM
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Sounds like you should stop lying to others
post 1640174543 06-04-2021, 08:32 PM
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Ya ropenaxxing sounds real good at times
See user title srs
post 1640174993 06-04-2021, 08:40 PM
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Do you truly believe you have a good life if you have to lie about it?


yeah i regret not taking school seriously when I was younger. sure it was fun raving/smashing sloots in my early 20s but doing college in mid 20s is aids
post 1640175113 06-04-2021, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted By scythiss1
i’m 29 going on 30 soon. Heroes journey sounds epic lol.Considering going to the forest for a week.
Just a week?
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post 1640175283 06-04-2021, 08:46 PM
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You’ve got mad origami skills, so you’re not too ignorant. Maybe it’s because you live in the Northeast and stay cold all the time.
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..... what's missing?
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post 1640177683 06-04-2021, 09:29 PM
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Originally Posted By WoWzerzzzz
Sounds like you should stop lying to others
I do. I lie on impulse and cringe so hard at myself.
Originally Posted By GayCumLord
Do you truly believe you have a good life if you have to lie about it?
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yeah i regret not taking school seriously when I was younger. sure it was fun raving/smashing sloots in my early 20s but doing college in mid 20s is aids
Guess I meant good life as in career, social life and women
Originally Posted By ashin1
Just a week?
Might take three. Doubt I can last that long.
Originally Posted By hendrixfreak70
You’ve got mad origami skills, so you’re not too ignorant. Maybe it’s because you live in the Northeast and stay cold all the time.
Thing you got the wrong brah. I have no origami skills.
Originally Posted By lllEZRAlll
..... what's missing?
No idea. Just feels like something keeps calling me and telling me to stop continuing to be who I am and change.
post 1640179083 06-04-2021, 10:04 PM
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Originally Posted By scythiss1
i’m 29 going on 30 soon. Heroes journey sounds epic lol.Considering going to the forest for a week.
theres a quote i like to remember, it goes "wherever you go, there you are"
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Certain things I don't like.

Sometimes I'm too blunt, sometimes it makes me come across as a dickhead lol.

I also have a weird thing about being in front of cameras, I'm a good looking guy (no boast) but I absolutely hate getting in pictures.

Sometimes I procrastinate on stupid chit that I need to just get done.
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Originally Posted By GlassMoon
Ya ropenaxxing sounds real good at times
See title ded fkn srs
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Originally Posted By scythiss1
i’m 29 going on 30 soon. Heroes journey sounds epic lol. Considering going to the forest for a week.
I did 2 weeks in the north Cascades. Absolutely mind changing
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I actually hate myself. I don't even have any of those things you have. I don't have a social life, girls pretty much hate me, and I'm not good looking or tall. I make barely above minimum wage. I think I'm pretty intelligent to a certain extent, I would probably score above average on an IQ test. But if I was really that smart I would be making more money or be a self made millionaire or something.
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Sounds like you never suffered to achieve anything which is why you feel like this. For me getting a good a job and a girlfriend would feel like amazing accomplishments just due to how difficult it would be for me.
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Originally Posted By Sterilite
theres a quote i like to remember, it goes "wherever you go, there you are"
"Bloom where you're planted"
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Originally Posted By Briangumble
I actually hate myself. I don't even have any of those things you have. I don't have a social life, girls pretty much hate me, and I'm not good looking or tall. I make barely above minimum wage. I think I'm pretty intelligent to a certain extent, I would probably score above average on an IQ test. But if I was really that smart I would be making more money or be a self made millionaire or something.
You will make it bro. Keep fighting for the things you want.
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Sounds like you never suffered to achieve anything which is why you feel like this. For me getting a good a job and a girlfriend would feel like amazing accomplishments just due to how difficult it would be for me.
I actually suffered a lot in my life. Grew up poor in a really ran down neighborhood. Went through hardships to get where I am today. Still nothing compared to people from third world countries though.
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If you don't like who you are or where your life is at, work to change it. If there are things about yourself that you absolutely can't change, accept that you can't change them and try to turn them into a positive. Addiction, perfectionism, whatever. They can all be detriments, but they can also be strengths if channeled into something positive. Also, stop comparing yourself to other people. There's always going to be someone bigger, stronger, wealthier, smarter, whatever. Just aim to be a better you than you were yesterday.
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