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post 1640282783 06-06-2021, 01:08 PM
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need some help wife been talking to guy at work (srs)

ill try to make this short as possible; my wife has been sleeping on the couch for years i sleep upstairs , she fukn snores and watches tv at night so i can't sleep in the same bed so she sleeps downstairs. We switched from sprint to att couple days ago and was helping her back up some data; while shes at work with her new phone I had her old.


I found out she's been talking to a guy she works with, he's married she's married


noting sexual, no meetup's just general chit chat like "how you doing today" "what are your plans this weekend" stuff like that at first she told me "oh when i have work questions i ask him stuff" but it's more general daily chit chat. kinda ****ty since we both use skype at work and she hardly ever messages me. I confroted her about and she got mad of course at me. What would be your next move?
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you know what you have to do OP
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Originally Posted By inkie77⏩
ill try to make this short as possible; my wife has been sleeping on the couch for years i sleep upstairs , she fukn snores and watches tv at night so i can't sleep in the same bed so she sleeps downstairs. We switched from sprint to att couple days ago and was helping her back up some data; while shes at work with her new phone I had her old.


I found out she's been talking to a guy she works with, he's married she's married


noting sexual, no meetup's just general chit chat like "how you doing today" "what are your plans this weekend" stuff like that at first she told me "oh when i have work questions i ask him stuff" but it's more general daily chit chat. kinda ****ty since we both use skype at work and she hardly ever messages me. I confroted her about and she got mad of course at me. What would be your next move?
If she let you use her phone to back chit up, it’s likely that she felt she had nothing to hide.

I don’t think I would worry about it much if he’s married too. It’s annoying, but what can you do really. People talk to their coworkers, and it being through private text is likely just for convenience sake.

Still; if it bugs u legitimately and she respects u, I don’t see why she wouldn’t stop if u politely asked her to do so.
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that's what's up, i threatened to send all the messages to dudes wife still thinking about confronting him for real and send his wife all these lil snippets maybe try to bust her cheeks. bish is like i didn't do anything wrong and jealousy is not attractive, mother**** you hoe
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Originally Posted By inkie77⏩
that's what's up, i threatened to send all the messages to dudes wife still thinking about confronting him for real and send his wife all these lil snippets maybe try to bust her cheeks. bish is like i didn't do anything wrong and jealousy is not attractive, mother**** you hoe
dew it, if she has nothing to hide like she claims then the wife wont care about the messages would she
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
dew it, if she has nothing to hide like she claims then the wife wont care about the messages would she
that's what i'm thinking if it's no big deal then send them to his bish see what she thinks
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start talking to the guy's wife
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Originally Posted By Better
start talking to the guy's wife
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It depends...

How often do they text about stuff like that?
Are they kinda flirty?


Unless you show us a pic of the texts or type them ad verbatim, it’s impossible to really say.

On face value it’s a red flag though.
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Originally Posted By Brosnbroccoli⏩
It depends...

How often do they text about stuff like that?
Are they kinda flirty?


Unless you show us a pic of the texts or type them ad verbatim, it’s impossible to really say.

On face value it’s a red flag though.
she initiates it "how's your day" "how you feeling " "what are you doing this weekend" one day shes like "your a rock star" i almost puked also this dude is fukn fat
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
dew it, if she has nothing to hide like she claims then the wife wont care about the messages would she
Only correct response to her
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Originally Posted By inkie77⏩
she initiates it "how's your day" "how you feeling " "what are you doing this weekend" one day shes like "your a rock star" i almost puked also this dude is fukn fat
If she's not fuking him yet, she will be soon.

Fat or ugly, bishes cheat with mongrels all the fuking time smh
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What kind of adult is happy sleeping on a couch???

How is your relationship aside from this issue?
Y'all happy and still have a satisfying sex life?
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Tell her to end that chit.

Prepare for marriage counseling. Get your things in order, including evidence that she’s disrespectful toward your marriage and get ready for at worst a divorce.

Also she has sleep apnea, get a CPAP machine.


Edit: also contact the man she’s speaking to and make it known she’s married and you’re aware of this relationship and if he doesn’t stop speaking to your wife, you will let his wife know.


I’d follow that ****er home and handle it directly with his wife.
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Take you wife to Church OP. Deadly serious.
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I knew most of you guys would be retarded, but the biggest retard is the OP. overreacting, childish, emotional, controlling. I'm gonna have to say that clearly you're not putting enough effort into this relationship, and now you're jealous your wife got bored and got attention elsewhere. Your wife is allowed to have friends outside the relationship you know? You need to put more effort into keeping her interested, it honestly looks like you just slacked off a few years back and LET the relationship and passion slip away because you got too comfortable.
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Lol imagine the wife being a grown woman and having to go home after work to sleep on the couch for her childish azz husband.

You didn’t know she snored before you got married? I’m a light sleeper and my current gf snores sometimes loudly and I’ll just wear some headphones or pop in earbuds.
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Originally Posted By inkie77⏩
that's what's up, i threatened to send all the messages to dudes wife still thinking about confronting him for real and send his wife all these lil snippets maybe try to bust her cheeks. bish is like i didn't do anything wrong and jealousy is not attractive, mother**** you hoe
Lmfao beta meltdown. Defently lost frame there

Anyway ur wife has 100% cheated on you. if you’re in a relationship you are the beta provider
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Originally Posted By GayCumLord⏩
Divorce.
Yeah why you wouldn’t have done that before. I mean given the circumstances sleeping on the couch for so long? Sort of seems like it should allow this slight room of error cuz your relationship is over anyways. How you ever let it even get to that point is beyond me. Back to the main thing here? Is that why is her talking to some other married person a deal breaker if no hookups? Are you confused op?
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It's over breh. Srs. She was never yours, it was just your turn. It is now that fat guys turn to take a ride.


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She has 100% swallowed the dude's baby batter

Probably in the back seat of his car
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Lol not only is it over, it's been over for a long long time OP
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Originally Posted By inkie77⏩
she initiates it "how's your day" "how you feeling " "what are you doing this weekend" one day shes like "your a rock star" i almost puked also this dude is fukn fat
Lmao @ 'how you feeling'


I mean, do you and your wife not communicate at all or something? Getting a lot of eod vibes here. It seems like neither of you are putting any effort into your relationship, and haven't been for many years, so it shouldn't even be that much of a surprise that she's doing what she's doing. Why are you even still together? Do you even have sex anymore?
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No matter what she does it shouldn't bother you. You need to be stoic and hold onto your masculinity. Don't grovel or argue like a beta bitch. Tell her you're not happy with her having personal relationships with other men. If she doesn't comply then get rid of her.

I would have gotten rid of her long ago when she started sleeping separately.

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