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post 1640413883 06-08-2021, 06:46 AM
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need advice dealing with a weird roommates position

so i need to make a decision in the next few weeks if i stay here next year or look for a new apartment. its a total of 3 roommates apartment (we're all student.)
i live with a guy (lets call him simpy) and a girl (lets say.. beth?)
anyway in the first month it was only me and simpy, and it was all good. we had fun and all, were kinda friends etc. but it all changed when beth arrived when the semester began.

simpy, like his name, is the definition of a SIMP. he simp beth from day 1 which is cringy and also affect me.
now yes its cringe af, but i can accept it. the thing is - it affect me when there is a disagreement here.

for example every issue we had with the bills - he take her side. sometimes we even discuss it me and him, he agree with me and then when we all talk he cave in,
when there is a need to make a decision about something in the house and i talk to him about it he always refuse to say his opinion before he knows what beth is saying (happened so many times..), and of course when he hear what she say he agree with her.
she barely clean - and he will mention it alot when she is not home, but he always refuse to talk to her about it (i did a couple of times). alot of times he end up cleaning for her lol.
the tv is what annoying af lately - beth see all this garbage reality shows in the evening and he will always be in favor to see what she want LOL (he never see this chit when she is gone), and its always like 1 vs 2, i can barely watch tv when i get back in the evening. thats an example for something that is annoying af - i know if she wasnt here he would never watch this chit, but when she is here he will even watch kardashians with her.

the whole thing is cringy and annoying. sometimes i just want to give him a slap and yell at him "DO YOU REALLY THINK SHE WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOU BECAUSE OF THIS DOORMAT BEHAVIOUR?".
its obviously very annoying knowing that he will always take her side automatically. its mostly small stuff but just knowing its happening only cuz she is her can make me rage sometimes.



one time i trolled him and when he asked where beth is i told him "she is probaly out with her bf" (talked about some guy she used to date for a few days) and he panicked af saying he doesnt think they are a couple and he refused to stop talking it for like 20 minutes and wanted me to explain why i think they are together
i was loling hard deep down


cliffs:
-op lives with 2 roommates (guy and girl), we're all students
-the guy roommate is a simp for the girl
-op feels like he doesnt have power in the house
-need advice how to deal it or whenver i should just leave
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post 1640413953 06-08-2021, 06:49 AM
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Just call him out wtf. You're as beta as him
post 1640414033 06-08-2021, 06:51 AM
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two options

1. Buy your own TV and put it in your room
2. Move out.
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post 1640414063 06-08-2021, 06:53 AM
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Originally Posted By insidemane
Just call him out wtf. You're as beta as him
but what i can say to him?
he will just deny everything its wont like he will say "ye i act like her doormat hoping she will love me one day"
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Originally Posted By ButcherSir
but what i can say to him?
he will just deny everything its wont like he will say "ye i act like her doormat hoping she will love me one day"
just say stop being a bitch and say to her stop being a kunt. Obviously state your reasons objectively why they are at fault but just call them out

And lol are watching tv together, why? Get your own tv in your room ******* and split the bills fairly

Bunch of kids smh. Tf!? you're lucky I'm not there bc if kick the shi t out of all of u
post 1640414463 06-08-2021, 07:00 AM
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If you call him out he won't admit it or change and become a non-simp, he'll just resent you for it and think you're trying to fuk her too

Smash them both to assert dominance then move out
post 1640414503 06-08-2021, 07:01 AM
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It seems your hang up is how he acts.

Who gives a chit what he does? You are both trying to manipulate him to your position, seems cringy AF.

I'd say your position is the most beta of all. So you either change or bend over and let them take turns bottoming you out.
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Originally Posted By insidemane
just say stop being a bitch and say to her stop being a kunt. Obviously state your reasons objectively why they are at fault but just call them out

And lol are watching tv together, why? Get your own tv in your room ******* and split the bills fairly

Bunch of kids smh. Tf!? you're lucky I'm not there bc if kick the shi t out of all of u
she is not a kunt lol. i dont think she did something bad, not her fault he is a simp. i dont think she manipulated him to do what she wants.
i feel very neutral about her, my rage goes to him.
about the tv its more about just chilling in the living room
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Originally Posted By Soonerjohn
It seems your hang up is how he acts.

Who gives a chit what he does? You are both trying to manipulate him to your position, seems cringy AF.

I'd say your position is the most beta of all. So you either change or bend over and let them take turns bottoming you out.
lol how i try to manipulate him? i dont want him to be my simp, i just want it to be like it was before she came.
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On a scale from 1 - Rajneesh, how Indian would you say you are OP?
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Originally Posted By ButcherSir
she is not a kunt lol. i dont think she did something bad, not her fault he is a simp. i dont think she manipulated him to do what she wants.
i feel very neutral about her, my rage goes to him.
about the tv its more about just chilling in the living room
be honest, do you like her? Is there even a part of you that wants to smash her?
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Originally Posted By insidemane
be honest, do you like her? Is there even a part of you that wants to smash her?
Turns out only two people live in that apartment...
post 1640415483 06-08-2021, 07:19 AM
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Originally Posted By DizzySmalls
On a scale from 1 - Rajneesh, how Indian would you say you are OP?
none of us are indians lol
Originally Posted By insidemane
be honest, do you like her? Is there even a part of you that wants to smash her?
like her? not at all srs. would i smash if she was laying in my bed? ye probaly, like i would with most girls. but im not attracted to her nor really care about her life.
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Pics of beth
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Originally Posted By Titansfan08
Pics of beth
cant risk it lol. just a typcial average skinny 4/10 white girl
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