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post 1641517463 06-24-2021, 05:26 AM
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Our boy pantiespending is very unwell

Originally Posted By pantiespending
Well I mean with my perspective shared above in mind I am talking to two different women both significantly younger and one that lives in the phillipines. The idea here is ayyy your both virgins and at one point when I am ready provided neither of you have done anything outside of the realm I deem acceptable then lets get something going. However, that point isn't now and all I am is friendly, vague and still sometimes let brief sexual interest shine through. I did last have sex 6 months ago, completely her doing after meeting her at a bar. It's not like I believe I can just replace my previous sexual interests or sexual interests in general with career and money objectives/interests either. I am aware that at some juncture I will begin to feel that getting old and don't want to be lonely feeling, etc, etc. As far as your statement, "One must be happy where they currently are." I fully agree with that which is one of the many reasons I have the current sentiments toward women at present. I don't want to be constantly chasing a broad thinking she'll make me happy and end up miserable. My sad reality is that I have had many women in my life.... Well not many but a number of women in my life that would of made excellent wives but partially due to not being ready for the strength of emotions involved, ready for that type of commitment and not happy as I should of been with myself they failed. The relationships with these women I regard as wife worthy were the most mentally tormenting thing I'd ever experienced, even if the reasons that it didn't work were 90% my fault. The anguish of constant back and forth, unsteady relations, the strength of love I had for them while not doing what I'd needed to really show it causing them emotional pain, etc, etc. Those are the things that really are at the top of my list for having my current mentality because after I'd lost those women, mostly due to my infidelity. Then I just replaced them with subpar bitches I didn't really care about it and it showed, they knew I didn't give a **** about them. That lead to even more and different problems that ended up looking in retrospect? Like a whole big circle of madness that really in reality resembled that of a drug addiction. Most of the time I'd known what the outcome would be and proceeded anyways.

So in closing the whole idea was to take the crazy amount of things I'd learned from all the women and work on myself while contemplating the situations. Eventually returning in a completely different mind state and hopefully avoiding all the same mistakes while not placing anywhere near the level of importance I once had on them.
This was the last normal post of our brah, dated mar 19, 2020. He then had a short break for a few weeks, and started posting again on april 5 2020 erratically. Then, he returned june 5 2021 and started posting very incoherent messages. Looking through his posts and comments on doctors and DSM, I am guessing and hoping he has been through some sort of help. It's fuking heartbreaking to see this.

If you can understand me, please continue to see a doctor and a psychiatrist.
post 1641517583 06-24-2021, 05:29 AM
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He left a rather odd rep comment in my cp yesterday.

Don't rope yourself pantiespending, it will get better/
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post 1641517713 06-24-2021, 05:33 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
He left a rather odd rep comment in my cp yesterday.

Don't rope yourself pantiespending, it will get better/
He's clearly not well, and this happened suddenly. So depressing man. I've seen this chit happen to people. It can happen to anyone. It's so fked.
post 1641517723 06-24-2021, 05:33 AM
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At first I figured he was copypasta trolling but damn, now not totally sure.
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post 1641517863 06-24-2021, 05:38 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper
At first I figured he was copypasta trolling but damn, now not totally sure.
He's not trolling. I've looked through tons of his msgs.
post 1641517943 06-24-2021, 05:43 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper
At first I figured he was copypasta trolling but damn, now not totally sure.
This is what I thought to begin with. Now as soon as I see his screen name I just shot scroll so I don’t waste 45 secs of time reading gibberish. Def needs some help.
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post 1641517953 06-24-2021, 05:43 AM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
Don't rope yourself pantiespending, it will get better/
Not unless he works towards improvement.
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post 1641518113 06-24-2021, 05:50 AM
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This is what happens when the panties have been pending for too long
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post 1641518133 06-24-2021, 05:50 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Not unless he works towards improvement.
It's not his fault dude.
post 1641518203 06-24-2021, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel
It's not his fault dude.
Doesn't matter whose fault it is. Life doesn't just get better while you're rotting on the misc doing nothing. In fact it only gets worse because you're wasting time and getting older.
People need to stop lying to themselves. It only gets better if you make it better.
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post 1641518353 06-24-2021, 05:55 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Doesn't matter whose fault it is. Life doesn't just get better while you're rotting on the misc doing nothing. In fact it only gets worse because you're wasting time and getting older.
People need to stop lying to themselves. It only gets better if you make it better.
People in that state of mind can't really internally reflect.
post 1641518453 06-24-2021, 05:57 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel
People in that state of mind can't really internally reflect.
Then they should seek therapy and get out of that state of mind. No one cares in this world, no one is going to help.
The world is a cruel and nasty tough place. Everyone is on their own. You can either fight for a better life or lay down and rot. There is no magical change coming because you feel sorry for yourself.
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post 1641518523 06-24-2021, 06:00 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Then they should seek therapy and get out of that state of mind. No one cares in this world, no one is going to help.
The world is a cruel and nasty tough place. Everyone is on their own. You can either fight for a better life or lay down and rot. There is no magical change coming because you feel sorry for yourself.
Dude have you ever met any people with these kinds of conditions? It is very hard to get them to seek therapy. Everyone is not on their own. He doesn't feel sorry for himself. I feel sorry for him.
No one cares in this world, no one is going to help.
This is depression. People actually do care and do try to help.
post 1641518633 06-24-2021, 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel
Dude have you ever met any people with these kinds of conditions? It is very hard to get them to seek therapy. Everyone is not on their own. He doesn't feel sorry for himself. I feel sorry for him.
Yes i know those people and i'm simply telling you that life doesn't just magically get better. What he does is ultimately up to him.
No one here can go to his house and drag him to a psychiatrist.
Originally Posted By wincel
This is depression. People actually do care and do try to help.
Maybe care enough to talk to him during their free time, but nothing substantial that will actually change his life.
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post 1641518973 06-24-2021, 06:15 AM
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Originally Posted By backinthegymbro
Then they should seek therapy and get out of that state of mind.No one cares in this world, no one is going to help.
The world is a cruel and nasty tough place. Everyone is on their own. You can either fight for a better life or lay down and rot. There is no magical change coming because you feel sorry for yourself.
Agree with the overall sentiment, but YMMV on the bold bit there.

Some people that are struggling need a kick in the pants, some need kind encouragement.

Usually a safe bet to start with kind encouragement and if that isn't working [all whining, no doing] move on to plan B.

It's a little bit knowing the person and also your own general inclination. If you would rather someone just shoot straight then odds are that is how you will be with others.

If there is another miscer who might be able to shed some light on the situation or just get through to pantiespending then that would be GOO I think.
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post 1641519343 06-24-2021, 06:24 AM
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post 1641519593 06-24-2021, 06:31 AM
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Originally Posted By GTraven
Need cliffs i cant read without paragraphs
Pantiespending write weird chit on misc
post 1641521783 06-24-2021, 07:27 AM
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post 1641521943 06-24-2021, 07:30 AM
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No idea who that is. And didn’t read. But can tell I don’t like him judging from that big wall of text.
post 1641522273 06-24-2021, 07:37 AM
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This is what happens when you feed someone black pill logic at too young an age. They give up.
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post 1641522533 06-24-2021, 07:42 AM
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I'm halfway convinced he's using some AI/bot program that's still in the developmental phase, to make posts for him.
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post 1641522753 06-24-2021, 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
I'm halfway convinced he's using some AI/bot program that's still in the developmental phase, to make posts for him.
Maybe just ahead of the curve and needing the bugs worked out?
See BrianDaMans sig.

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post 1641523083 06-24-2021, 07:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Hutrapper
Maybe just ahead of the curve and needing the bugs worked out?
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Eventually it will be able to create fully automated Wincel's at the push of a button.
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post 1641523103 06-24-2021, 07:51 AM
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post 1641523133 06-24-2021, 07:51 AM
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post 1641523163 06-24-2021, 07:52 AM
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Originally Posted By SeymourGains
How do you prevent whatever mental break hes had?

I dont want to randomly Connor Murphy myself, poor guy though
You can't. That's the sad part. Good things to avoid would be drug use and to somehow hope u avoid a very stressful event. Other than that, there isn't much known to help. A healthy lifestyle wouldn't hurt, I guess. But life is a crapshoot. Could happen to anyone tbh. Some of these things can happen due to weird chit like an infection or a tumor or your immune system attacking your brain. There's all kinds of weird stuff. Other times, it's just a genetic response that emerges at some point. It's honestly horrifying. It is probably my greatest fear that that happens to me.
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Originally Posted By Tanerian
MiscerBot#


Eventually it will be able to create fully automated Wincel's at the push of a button.
Some people just want to watch the world burn.
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post 1641523263 06-24-2021, 07:53 AM
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Not good odds he will respawn I think
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post 1641523333 06-24-2021, 07:55 AM
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Glad you seem to care too brah.

I'm thinking I'll just try to communicate with him using simple words. I'll say "Doctor?" and maybe "friend" or "bro" so he doesn't feel as isolated.
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For a basement astrophysicist you're not very bright Wincel



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