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post 1641660073 06-26-2021, 09:37 AM
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Why do black men abandon their children ?

I've been watching Kevin Samuels videos recently, and almost 100 percent of single mothers who call were with black men, and those black men abandoned their children.

I live in an arab country, where we face far worse obstacles than those that black men in 'muirca face, but you'd never see an arab man abandoning his children.

Explain this to me please, what's going on with black men in 'murica ?

Why women with 3 children with 3 different black fathers exist ?
Who's more at fault men or the women who let this happen ?
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Something something white people’s/supremacists fault
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post 1641660233 06-26-2021, 09:39 AM
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its genetic, their survival strategy
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They probably just want to get away from the mothers.
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post 1641660563 06-26-2021, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By googleccd
I've been watching Kevin Samuels videos recently, and almost 100 percent of single mothers who call were with black men, and those black men abandoned their children.

I live in an arab country, where we face far worse obstacles than those that black men in 'muirca face, but you'd never see an arab man abandoning his children.

Explain this to me please, what's going on with black men in 'murica ?

Why women with 3 children with 3 different black fathers exist ?
Who's more at fault men or the women who let this happen ?
Its mostly a ghetto thing, I know black men who are not into ghetto rap or thug culture and grew up in the suburbs but are married to non black women are still married with kids with the same woman.

Kevin puts those women in their place too saying you just got knocked up with different baby daddies who abandoned you yet you want a high value man and you are 35 years old.

The entitlement mentality is strong in a lot of women especially ghetto black women. What happens is those men who pump and dump put false confidence, I had a couple black friends who were ghetto and id see them charm the hell outta regular hood or white trash women knock them up and bounce they fill their head with hot air, mooched or freeloaded and then bounced.

I asked one of them why not just use a condom he said it aint feel right.
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because of lack of fathers. it's a vicious cycle
post 1641660923 06-26-2021, 09:51 AM
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Originally Posted By ChaliHo
Its mostly a ghetto thing, I know black men who are not into ghetto rap or thug culture and grew up in the suburbs but are married to non black women are still married with kids with the same woman.

Kevin puts those women in their place too saying you just got knocked up with different baby daddies who abandoned you yet you want a high value man and you are 35 years old.

The entitlement mentality is strong in a lot of women especially ghetto black women. What happens is those men who pump and dump put false confidence, I had a couple black friends who were ghetto and id see them charm the hell outta regular hood or white trash women knock them up and bounce they fill their head with hot air, mooched or freeloaded and then bounced.

I asked one of them why not just use a condom he said it aint feel right.
Thats a real shame
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Lower class ghetto thing and its the entire reason why we have the issues we have in those communities. Its really not uncommon to run into a girl that's 25 with 4 or 5 children. From 4 or 5 different fathers. Who don't pay child support. And she just lives on welfare/government aid in government housing. And guess what. That female is the product of the same type house-hold. Boys without fathers spawn children with a mother out of wedlock over and over.



It happens in other cultures too. But from my experience its really common in lower income black communities. To the point where its a bit shocking if a mother and father are married/live together in those neighborhoods.
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post 1641661333 06-26-2021, 09:59 AM
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Don't worry whites are catching up every year
post 1641661653 06-26-2021, 10:05 AM
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Ok so post up the stats showing the racial difference percentages of kids in single parent homes.

Or are you actually taking the stance that because other races have single parents, there is not an issue with the massive % of single parent black families?

Your response was much more pathetic than you try to make ops out to be. Your stance is that we shouldn’t talk about it because of race when it needs to be addressed head on because it’s only getting worse.

Facts aren’t racist. Honesty isn’t always comfortable.
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post 1641661753 06-26-2021, 10:08 AM
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Have you tried living with a black woman?
post 1641661903 06-26-2021, 10:11 AM
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-higher test levels
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-Terrible influences within their culture
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if you had unlimited white women begging for your seed you wouldn't stick with one woman either
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probably the same reason why white men or yellow men abandon theirs. just dont give a chit
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Gotta increase the chances of the kids going to the NBA or NFL duh son.
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Originally Posted By googleccd
I've been watching Kevin Samuels videos recently, and almost 100 percent of single mothers who call were with black men, and those black men abandoned their children.

I live in an arab country, where we face far worse obstacles than those that black men in 'muirca face, but you'd never see an arab man abandoning his children.

Explain this to me please, what's going on with black men in 'murica ?

Why women with 3 children with 3 different black fathers exist ?
Who's more at fault men or the women who let this happen ?
IMO, liberal policies which have over generations created this. More and more, government handouts replaced fathers, with each new generation getting worse and more ingrained into this destruction than the last.

So, racist whites are the problem - it's just it's not the ones the media talks about, it's the media themselves and their white liberal cohorts.
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Originally Posted By guest89
Lower class ghetto thing and its the entire reason why we have the issues we have in those communities. Its really not uncommon to run into a girl that's 25 with 4 or 5 children. From 4 or 5 different fathers. Who don't pay child support. And she just lives on welfare/government aid in government housing. And guess what. That female is the product of the same type house-hold. Boys without fathers spawn children with a mother out of wedlock over and over.



It happens in other cultures too. But from my experience its really common in lower income black communities. To the point where its a bit shocking if a mother and father are married/live together in those neighborhoods.
it never happens in another culture lol
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Modern black women are insufferable. They are masculine, combative, entitled, and fat. It’s not black men, over half of black men are childless and single.

Black women are just choosing the good looking muscular Tyrone with no job, let him impregnate them for whatever reason and then the dude of course, just repeats the cycle. Suddenly the dude has 3 baby mommas.


But Tyrone can’t get a girl pregnant if she doesn’t let him do it, so yeah, that’s the problem. Women should be the gatekeepers and be selective, but no, they just start popping out babies by their Hs graduation.

From what I have understood, decades ago black families were much more traditional.
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As with anyone who abandons their kids, inability to take responsibility for their actions.

Single parent families are just way more prevalent in the black community because of black culture. Having 4 baby baddies is normalized, half of these men grew up without dads themselves so why should they be there?

Also try looking at abortion statistics, black women are majorly overrepresented which just shows how deep these issues run.
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It has always been higher for blacks, but children born out of wedlock skyrocketed after Lyndon Johnson spearheaded the "Great Society," consisting of section 8 housing and permanent welfare dependency:



White people are now at the same level blacks were in the late 60s, so if you want to see where Democrat-voting white people will be in 50 years at the current trajectory, just look at Democrat-voting black people in 2021.
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its weird
I grew up in the Detroit ghettos and everyone i personally knew had dads

but some people i wasnt very close to only had a mother or lived with grandma

seemed like the majority had dads tho but that was years ago , idk about nowadays
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Originally Posted By googleccd
I've been watching Kevin Samuels videos recently, and almost 100 percent of single mothers who call were with black men, and those black men abandoned their children.

I live in an arab country, where we face far worse obstacles than those that black men in 'muirca face, but you'd never see an arab man abandoning his children.

Explain this to me please, what's going on with black men in 'murica ?

Why women with 3 children with 3 different black fathers exist ?
Who's more at fault men or the women who let this happen ?
its cultural. if youre not from america it prob is hard to understand because there is so much opportunity here. But it starts from a very early age, their dads were prob not around and the culture around them... its not cool to do well in school or to try to make something of yourself, everyone in the ghetto wants to be a sports star or rapper, they are around those people and easily influenced.

I remember talking to this guy he was like 30 something, been through his ups and downs, currently was on a downturn, he used to be in the army and then had a good job in IT but his ex/baby momma had mental issues and custody of his kids. He was really trying hard to turn it around, he got laid off from his good job and was stuck with me at this chitty callcenter gig. Anyways he was telling me about his dumb ass little cousins, they were teenagers and dropping out of highschool, they had no real plans for life, they just smoke weed all day and think they will become millionaire rappers. He is trying to tell them to get their chit together but they wont listen to him. Now you would think that being he was one of the ones with the most success from his family and had his ups and downs and life experience, that the teens would listen to him for advice but they wont listen to him. Its in the culture where its cool to not give a fuk and not care about advancing. People want to become rich but dont want to work hard and dont want to turn down peer pressures to do the right thing.
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It is a relatively new phenomena that many black children are growing up without fathers. In the 1960s only around 20% of black American children did not have a father in the house helping to raise their children. Today it is often reported that around 75% of black children grow up without fathers.

Writers on this topic typically blame the welfare state. In the 1960s laws were past, referred to as the war on poverty, that greatly increased welfare payments. As a result some will say that instead of being married to a man, a black female is married to the state or the government. That means instead of a father staying and helping to earn money for his child instead money is obtained from the government And the father lives somewhere else.

One write up on this topic can be seen here ~

"The Black Family Is Struggling, and It’s Not Because of Slavery"

https://www.dailysignal.com/2017/09/...g-not-slavery/

That the problems of today’s black Americans are a result of a legacy of slavery, racial discrimination, and poverty has achieved an axiomatic status, thought to be self-evident and beyond question.

This is what academics and the civil rights establishment have taught. But as with so much of what’s claimed by leftists, there is little evidence to support it.

The No. 1 problem among blacks is the effects stemming from a very weak family structure.

Children from fatherless homes are likelier to drop out of high school, die by suicide, have behavioral disorders, join gangs, commit crimes, and end up in prison. They are also likelier to live in poverty-stricken households.

But is the weak black family a legacy of slavery?

In 1960, just 22 percent of black children were raised in single-parent families. Fifty years later, more than 70 percent of black children were raised in single-parent families.

Here’s my question: Was the increase in single-parent black families after 1960 a legacy of slavery, or might it be a legacy of the welfare state ushered in by the War on Poverty?

According to the 1938 Encyclopaedia of the Social Sciences, that year 11 percent of black children were born to unwed mothers. Today about 75 percent of black children are born to unwed mothers.

Is that supposed to be a delayed response to the legacy of slavery?

The bottom line is that the black family was stronger the first 100 years after slavery than during what will be the second 100 years.

At one time, almost all black families were poor, regardless of whether one or both parents were present. Today roughly 30 percent of blacks are poor.

However, two-parent black families are rarely poor. Only 8 percent of black married-couple families live in poverty. Among black families in which both the husband and wife work full time, the poverty rate is under 5 percent. Poverty in black families headed by single women is 37 percent.

The undeniable truth is that neither slavery nor Jim Crow nor the harshest racism has decimated the black family the way the welfare state has.

The black family structure is not the only retrogression suffered by blacks in the age of racial enlightenment.

In every census from 1890 to 1954, blacks were either just as active or more so than whites in the labor market. During that earlier period, black teen unemployment was roughly equal to or less than white teen unemployment.

As early as 1900, the duration of black unemployment was 15 percent shorter than that of whites. Today it’s about 30 percent longer.

Would anyone suggest that during earlier periods, there was less racial discrimination?

What goes a long way toward an explanation of yesteryear and today are the various labor laws and regulations promoted by liberals and their union allies that cut off the bottom rungs of the economic ladder and encourage racial discrimination.

Labor unions have a long history of discrimination against blacks. Frederick Douglass wrote about this in his 1874 essay titled “The Folly, Tyranny, and Wickedness of Labor Unions,” and Booker T. Washington did so in his 1913 essay titled “The Negro and the Labor Unions.”

To the detriment of their constituents, most of today’s black politicians give unquestioning support to labor laws pushed by unions and white liberal organizations.

Then there’s education. Many black 12th-graders deal with scientific problems at the level of whites in the sixth grade. They write and do math about as well as white seventh- and eighth-graders.

All of this means that an employer hiring or a college admitting the typical black high school graduate is in effect hiring or admitting an eighth-grader. Thus, one should not be surprised by the outcomes.

The most damage done to black Americans is inflicted by those politicians, civil rights leaders, and academics who assert that every problem confronting blacks is a result of a legacy of slavery and discrimination. That’s a vision that guarantees perpetuity for the problems.
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You mean a show that calls out Dead beat woman are single mothers at 100% rate?
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though in USA welfare doesnt help, i believe its genetic, because they do the same thing in every country where there is blacks. thats why their fertility rate is 6+ while whites is a a below replacement 1.7.Maybe whites need to employ this breeding strategy before its to late
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Most young black guys end up in jail which leaves a surplus of black women available for breeding for the few alpha males remaining

These guys end up breeding dozens of women each, very alpha actually, this is exactly what lions and wolves do,
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