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post 1641688023 06-26-2021, 05:39 PM
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Do people actually feel bad about doing something 'wrong'.

Or do they feel bad about getting caught and others knowing about it?
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post 1641688273 06-26-2021, 05:45 PM
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i have a guilty conscious; my downfall
post 1641688373 06-26-2021, 05:47 PM
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People justify their actions. The more desperate they are, the more mental gymnastics they do to rationalize their bad behavior.
post 1641688563 06-26-2021, 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted By Sterilite⏩
i have a guilty conscious; my downfall
I just wouldn't do it if it made me feel guilty - like i know i'd feel guilty if i talked to a girl, got to know her, made her like me, then banged her and disappeared, so i only banged girls where they were complete horn dogs.

Not my fault you want something i have, right?

It's like nobody forced a person to spend 4 grand on a designer hand bag because it makes them feel good or 'complete' - so it's a form of manipulation, but not my problem.
Originally Posted By stevemckenna⏩
People justify their actions. The more desperate they are, the more mental gymnastics they do to rationalize their bad behavior.
Yeah looking back on it i feel kinda stupid and guilty about the weird stuff i'd done, but then i realise that i didn't know any better, and i can see how i rationalised it, but the thing is i should have just turned the other cheek instead of getting into some massive power struggle - thing is i wasn't happy with my self so i had to feel like i was the 'winner' to feel good about my self.

Now i realise how juvenile my behaviour was.
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post 1641688653 06-26-2021, 05:54 PM
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I feel bad about fukking people over if they had good intentions. But doing bad things to bad people doesn't feel bad at all.
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post 1641688823 06-26-2021, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By yewotm8⏩
I feel bad about fukking people over if they had good intentions. But doing bad things to bad people doesn't feel bad at all.
Yeah that's a sign of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, thinking that your role is that of a 'punisher' - like STRONG wtf.

I've been on both sides of that and it's not a good look.
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post 1641688853 06-26-2021, 05:58 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Or do they feel bad about getting caught and others knowing about it?
This

I think a majority of people have no morals especially females.
The misc is full of a bunch of simp ****ots
post 1641688863 06-26-2021, 05:58 PM
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post 1641689063 06-26-2021, 06:01 PM
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Some people don't even care and like others have said some people will justify it depending on how desperate they are at the time

Literally have had people ask me at work if i like doing certain things wrong there and i was just thinking in my head no i do things the right way and i take pride in that attitude towards things that are important

Lots of people just don't care though they don't care if they do a task wrong, screw someone over, lie, cheat, steal etc
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post 1641689083 06-26-2021, 06:02 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
I can’t even do bad things to bad people. Even if someone completely screws me over I just don’t have it in me to take revenge.
Why would you want to?

Most times when somebody screws me over they are just pushing me to the right direction.

Do a cost-benefit analysis and you'll find that revenge as a primary objective is a waste of effort, and you're better of becoming successful and independant, like overall being a cool kunt.

Most of the people who i know that are obsessed with revenge are quite useless in general, and can't do anything real with their life, so they obsess over somebody they can't control and try and get revenge to feel in control their own emotions towards that person - so it's a disability in fact, and you are really lucky.
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post 1641689143 06-26-2021, 06:03 PM
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I definitely try to do right by others, both because I believe in something akin to "karma" or manifestation, but also because I expect the same treatment. I can't even think off the top of my head something I've done BAD. Maybe I've said something rude or blunt without meaning to, but nothing malicious. Have felt rage and gotten heated, then later regret those emotions / that hatred and feel guilt.

One thing I have noticed is that people whohave done fukked up things to me or others, a lot of the time, wind up DEAD or seriously fukked up. Serious.

For one example, I think about this friend in my social circle. He got in an accident, was in a coma. One of his childhood friends started banging his girl, while he was in the coma. Before the kid in the coma even passed, the kid who was fukking his girlgot into a car accident and was paralyzed.Crazy sh!t, huh?
post 1641689153 06-26-2021, 06:04 PM
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Bullying is fun if you get away with it.
post 1641689253 06-26-2021, 06:06 PM
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
Bullying is fun if you get away with it.
Imagine being happy and not needing to bully somebody to feel like you're having fun.

The need to do or have something is the karma my bro, not what happens because you do it.
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post 1641689353 06-26-2021, 06:08 PM
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Do zebras take the lion to court? Do fish hold the shark in contempt?

Hell no I don't feel bad.
post 1641689613 06-26-2021, 06:13 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Imagine being happy and not needing to bully somebody to feel like you're having fun.

The need to do or have something is the karma my bro, not what happens because you do it.
I agree about optimal situations. I just mean most people will not feel bad at all and probably energized. Look at how many guys act like they're just different tee hee for being into f***ing men. It's completely a degenerate neurosis for feeling good about dominating people, to the expense of others. People spend their whole lives doing it proudly like it is totally cool.
post 1641690303 06-26-2021, 06:32 PM
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
I agree about optimal situations. I just mean most people will not feel bad at all and probably energized. Look at how many guys act like they're just different tee hee for being into f***ing men. It's completely a degenerate neurosis for feeling good about dominating people, to the expense of others. People spend their whole lives doing it proudly like it is totally cool.
Why would you want to live a codependent and compulsive life is you don't have to - or is that just because everybody else is doing it?
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post 1641690523 06-26-2021, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Why would you want to live a codependent and compulsive life is you don't have to - or is that just because everybody else is doing it?
On high levels, you have no choice except to deal with difficult people.

I agree I would prefer to never deal with perverts.
post 1641690853 06-26-2021, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
On high levels, you have no choice except to deal with difficult people.

I agree I would prefer to never deal with perverts.
Yeah and you realise that's what all of those difficult people think, right? That they are fighting for the greater good or some crap?

I've come to the realisation that you have to stop that sort of behaviour completely and avoid rude and domineering people.
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I always do, no one has to catch me

I literally feel like scum and will beat myself up for weeks. I always try to be perfect, follow rules etc
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Originally Posted By snailsrus⏩
I always do, no one has to catch me

I literally feel like scum and will beat myself up for weeks. I always try to be perfect, follow rules etc
Yeah true, but do you know why you'd behaved that way in the first place?
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i think you could hurt yourself so that's "bad"


but the "bad" i think you're talking about is a "moral" bad and i think "morality" implies two people/ community, etc.

if there were no one else and they committed these acts no i dont think people would feel this "bad" you're talking about, though again they could still hurt themselves like i first said.
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Don’t know that feel, OP.

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Originally Posted By Soonerjohn⏩
Do zebras take the lion to court? Do fish hold the shark in contempt?

Hell no I don't feel bad.
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Originally Posted By propreffered7⏩
i think you could hurt yourself so that's "bad"


but the "bad" i think you're talking about is a "moral" bad and i think "morality" implies two people/ community, etc.

if there were no one else and they committed these acts no i dont think people would feel this "bad" you're talking about, though again they could still hurt themselves like i first said.
So what if you stole off of somebody you think is bad - would you tell everybody you know?
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Don’t know that feel, OP.

I follow the Golden Rule.
oh haha ok you're one of those perfect people who never does snide sh*t unconsciously
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
So what if you stole off of somebody you think is bad - would you tell everybody you know?



oh haha ok you're one of those perfect people who never does snide sh*t unconsciously
I’m not perfect. I just follow the principles of my religion:
https://www.muslim.org/islam/int-is7.htm
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
would you tell everybody you know?
Why the hell would you do this?
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Originally Posted By illriginalized⏩
I’m not perfect. I just follow the principles of my religion:
https://www.muslim.org/islam/int-is7.htm
Oh yeah so what about the other 5 billion non-muslims?
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Why the hell would you do this?
Would you tell everybody you know that you're a doctor?
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In other words, what Fap made you feel the guiltiest/awkwardest after wards? I'll start, one time I was on vacation in California and I hadn't fapped in over 3 1/2 weeks. My mind was filled by all these weird desires. My hotel was on the 14th floor of the building and the rooms next to me were empty. So yes, I fapped on the balcony. About midway through I got this weird idea to finish through the railing and have it rain jizz on the ground below (don't ask why). So I did and it was a huge load. Little did I know that my room sat above a sidewalk. After finishing and cleaning up I got the munchies and decide to head down to the lobby to get a snack, and at the front desk there is a 20 something couple who were talking about how this bird to a massive dump on their heads and that they wanted to get the their room to clean up. I had the biggest "Oh ****" moment of my life. I still feel bad about it to this day.

TL;DR: I unknowingly came on the heads of a 20 something year old couple from my hotel balcony. All because I was being stupid while fapping.
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