06-25-2021, 05:01 PM
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How do you guys handle rejection?
What do you do when rejected?
What is the best way to handle being rejected?
I usually say something like "no worries" then go NC.
One time I just wrote back "ouch. now I'm sad. take care" then went NC, hoping that I would run into her again one day, then maybe try again. This was a smokin' hot Asian chick, way out of my league.
Obviously, you don't want to start calling her a bitch and a slut like an angry Incel would, but you don't want to come off as a Beta simp, either, which is what is bothering me.
I messed up really bad once, and told her that I didn't appreciate her leading me on. She was doing that thing to where she was acting all friendly toward me, so she could get the validation she wanted, then act all offended when I asked her out or whatever.
These things have happened over the course of 20 years or so for me, and I still am unsure of how to handle it. (oldcel here)
What is the best way to not act Beta when having to accept rejection?
I'm guessing that "Too bad, I really liked you" might be a better response. What do you guys do?
What is the best way to handle being rejected?
I usually say something like "no worries" then go NC.
One time I just wrote back "ouch. now I'm sad. take care" then went NC, hoping that I would run into her again one day, then maybe try again. This was a smokin' hot Asian chick, way out of my league.
Obviously, you don't want to start calling her a bitch and a slut like an angry Incel would, but you don't want to come off as a Beta simp, either, which is what is bothering me.
I messed up really bad once, and told her that I didn't appreciate her leading me on. She was doing that thing to where she was acting all friendly toward me, so she could get the validation she wanted, then act all offended when I asked her out or whatever.
These things have happened over the course of 20 years or so for me, and I still am unsure of how to handle it. (oldcel here)
What is the best way to not act Beta when having to accept rejection?
I'm guessing that "Too bad, I really liked you" might be a better response. What do you guys do?
06-25-2021, 05:02 PM
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- DrugsToGetBig
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you really just need to accept it for what it is
the sloot doesnt want you
no reason to communicate after that
the sloot doesnt want you
no reason to communicate after that
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06-25-2021, 05:03 PM
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easiest way is to talk to lots of chicks
still stings anytime you actually like a chick or try to invest too much energy into her
edit: also depends on the rejection, which also depends on how you ask. if you put it all on the line it will sting more than if you just ask for a saturday free and have no idea why she "rejected" you
still stings anytime you actually like a chick or try to invest too much energy into her
edit: also depends on the rejection, which also depends on how you ask. if you put it all on the line it will sting more than if you just ask for a saturday free and have no idea why she "rejected" you
06-25-2021, 05:04 PM
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06-25-2021, 05:17 PM
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06-25-2021, 05:46 PM
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06-27-2021, 05:27 AM
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Sorry, never have been rejected.
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06-27-2021, 05:32 AM
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06-27-2021, 06:03 AM
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Dont care anymore
06-27-2021, 06:09 AM
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If you are invested/like the girl, it will bother you. But like breakups, you will get over it in time. And yes, try to find a better chick and talk to her, it will make you move on faster.
06-27-2021, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
Thisyou really just need to accept it for what it is
the sloot doesnt want you
no reason to communicate after that
the sloot doesnt want you
no reason to communicate after that
Here’s a brutal black pill
Out of all the chicks I’ve approached I’ve only gotten 2 that said “yes” and that was a lifetime ago in high school
Unless you’re 8.5/10+ you’re probably gonna rejected a lot.
I always did better on apps but it’s always been straight no’s with me in person
I remember in 2015-2016 when tinder didn’t have nearly as many time wasters as now , after meeting up it was about 50/50.
You couldn’t see the gap in my teeth that basically requires veeners to fix and (now) I’m getting slight thinning on the left side temple area on my hairline
Without hopping on fin ( plan on doing this soon) and getting veeners I’m probably a 3-4/10 at best.
I’m probably less than that right now because I’ve been out of the gym , my neck injury causes me a lot of nerve pain at work , it’s even worse when Trying to lift consistently
Point is : you can only play the hand you’re dealt sometimes. Not everyone is good looking. Deal with it.
06-27-2021, 07:19 AM
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Dude you need to be dating / seeing / talking to at least 3 women simultaneously until you find one worth pursuing.
It allows you to not put the pussy on a pedestal and you will naturally start having an “abundance” mentality instead of hyper focusing on one chick.
Detach yourself from the outcome and they will just sense that you’re the man (ded fkn Srs)
It allows you to not put the pussy on a pedestal and you will naturally start having an “abundance” mentality instead of hyper focusing on one chick.
Detach yourself from the outcome and they will just sense that you’re the man (ded fkn Srs)
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06-27-2021, 07:46 AM
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Well dont flip out and become insulting, that's lame .
But honestly bro after a good number of rejections over the years I've learnt it doesn't really matter what you say or do .
Just act like its whatever to you
That line about being sad sounds beta as fk . Girls who are rejecting you defintely won't be sympathetic for you haha
Just go and keep NC
Because if you keep it chill atleast you leave with knowing you didn't flip out like some aggressive loser lol
Only rejection that really bugged me lately is a girl lead me on for 6 weeks , asked me to chill for the 2nd time and then ghosted on me before the date happened . It wasn't a clear cut rejection, but just ignored my messages until the point of no return lol
Which lead me to the conclusion of when trying to pick up girls keep a spare ! No matter how promising your lead looks
But honestly bro after a good number of rejections over the years I've learnt it doesn't really matter what you say or do .
Just act like its whatever to you
That line about being sad sounds beta as fk . Girls who are rejecting you defintely won't be sympathetic for you haha
Just go and keep NC
Because if you keep it chill atleast you leave with knowing you didn't flip out like some aggressive loser lol
Only rejection that really bugged me lately is a girl lead me on for 6 weeks , asked me to chill for the 2nd time and then ghosted on me before the date happened . It wasn't a clear cut rejection, but just ignored my messages until the point of no return lol
Which lead me to the conclusion of when trying to pick up girls keep a spare ! No matter how promising your lead looks
06-27-2021, 07:47 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Sorry bro but when I offered to take her surfing it was game overWell dont flip out and become insulting, that's lame .
But honestly bro after a good number of rejections over the years I've learnt it doesn't really matter what you say or do because they won't be back
Just go and keep NC
Because if you keep it chill atleast you leave with knowing you didn't flip out like some aggressive loser lol
Only rejection that really bugged me lately is a girl lead me on for 6 weeks , asked me to chill, and then ghosted on me before the date happened . It wasn't a clear cut rejection, but just ignored my messages until the point of no return lol
But honestly bro after a good number of rejections over the years I've learnt it doesn't really matter what you say or do because they won't be back
Just go and keep NC
Because if you keep it chill atleast you leave with knowing you didn't flip out like some aggressive loser lol
Only rejection that really bugged me lately is a girl lead me on for 6 weeks , asked me to chill, and then ghosted on me before the date happened . It wasn't a clear cut rejection, but just ignored my messages until the point of no return lol
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06-27-2021, 08:03 AM
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06-27-2021, 08:25 AM
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I’ve never been rejected by someone I was invested in.
I’ve been “sorta rejected” on a cold approach at the gym. It wasn’t awkward or anything and because I didn’t really know her I didn’t rightly care.
I have a good friend who literally spams angry texts though. I try to counsel him to not do that but he doesn’t listen.
I’ve been “sorta rejected” on a cold approach at the gym. It wasn’t awkward or anything and because I didn’t really know her I didn’t rightly care.
I have a good friend who literally spams angry texts though. I try to counsel him to not do that but he doesn’t listen.
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06-27-2021, 08:27 AM
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Perfect, let’s reschedule
06-27-2021, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩
Hahahah it really was and you know a couple weeks later I can laugh about itSorry bro but when I offered to take her surfing it was game over
Good eye bro lol
06-27-2021, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted By dogorman7⏩
lolll bro idk why everyone thinks i live in Canada, maybe bc brad was my fkn boy. I live in Connecticut (ded fkn Srs)Surfing in Canada ?
Lmao wut ?
Lmao wut ?
Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Haha ya man, you can allow yourself to be pissed about it for 24 hrs but i've always tried to have that "on to the next one" mentality with chicks (ded fkn Srs)Hahahah it really was and you know a couple weeks later I can laugh about it
Good eye bro lol
Good eye bro lol
with the exception being my most recent ex-gf
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06-27-2021, 08:54 AM
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There is literally like thousands upon thousands of women out there, don't get hung up on one.
It's a bishes market right now where they have upper hand. Just need to accept or move on.
It's a bishes market right now where they have upper hand. Just need to accept or move on.
06-27-2021, 08:54 AM
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I tip my cap, ask her for a letter of recommendation, then stalk her for 3 years.
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