Set up a date with a girl 2 weeks out....don’t even wanna go anymore

06-28-2021, 10:29 AM

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Set up a date with a girl 2 weeks out....don’t even wanna go anymore

Clifs for unawares

-met girl during my friends bday party on the 12th of June
-chatted with her middle of the following week
-set date up for the 2nd of July
-not even sure if I’m feeling it anymore
-maybe thinking of rescheduleing or just canceling

Basically I’m gay

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06-28-2021, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩

Clifs for unawares

-met girl during my friends bday party on the 12th of June
-chatted with her middle of the following week
-set date up for the 2nd of July
-not even sure if I’m feeling it anymore
-maybe thinking of rescheduleing or just canceling

Basically I’m gay

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Send me her number and I’ll smash for you

06-28-2021, 10:31 AM

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No need to even worry about it. That far out, she will 100% experience a close friend being rushed to the hospital.

06-28-2021, 10:32 AM

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06-28-2021, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted By tripod29⏩

No need to even worry about it. That far out, she will 100% experience a close friend being rushed to the hospital.

she gunna have to babysit her friends parakeet

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06-28-2021, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted By DigDeeper1⏩

Send me her number and I’ll smash for you

would you also like her ssn?

06-28-2021, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩

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06-28-2021, 10:33 AM

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98% chance she would cancel anyway

06-28-2021, 10:33 AM

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06-28-2021, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted By nn586⏩

98% chance she would cancel anyway

almost hope she does. Shes friends with my friends so I don’t wanna be the jerk

06-28-2021, 10:34 AM

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bruh is this the mexican qt?

you should definitely go (ded fkn Srs)

youre just hungover rn

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06-28-2021, 10:34 AM

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2 weeks away? Good chance she will flake anyways

06-28-2021, 10:36 AM

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Don't worry brah. I did this too

Been talking to some girl who was pretty hot 22 years young, and that Saturday I canceled on her because I just didn't give a fuc anymore and she got mad at me, and told me to delete her number. So I was like LMAO sure NP.

Lately I've honestly had no motivation chasing or going out. I guess I haven't really found the one girl I REALLY like?

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06-28-2021, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩

bruh is this the mexican qt?

you should definitely go (ded fkn Srs)

youre just hungover rn

not hungover at all. If anything sobering up has made me realize I’m not into her anymore.

The timing is just off. I’m busy and I know she is too.

06-28-2021, 10:39 AM

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Originally Posted By tripod29⏩

No need to even worry about it. That far out, she will 100% experience a close friend being rushed to the hospital.

Exacly lol at setting dates more than 1 or 2 days before

Otherwise you give the girl plenty of room to cancel on your azz and upgrade lol
Played that game many times

But honestly if she is still up for it I'd just go for the sake of not being a flake...unless she wanted a fancy meal or something

Free or nearly free = go

Fancy 5 star meal = easy pass

06-28-2021, 10:39 AM

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Bruh, I am miscing on a 24" monitor and I can barely even make that tiny azz thumbnail out as a human. You have 10 mins to provide a higher res pic or there will be negs.

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06-28-2021, 10:40 AM

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perfect, let's reschedule

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06-28-2021, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩

not hungover at all. If anything sobering up has made me realize I’m not into her anymore.

The timing is just off. I’m busy and I know she is too.

just dont text her and she if still texts you to confirm

i've done that plenty of times and usually them texting me excited about it without solicitation is enough to charge me back up and get amped

for me it was always psychological like this. would lose all interest if it felt like i was just an afterthought for a random bish

but if she hits me up again to confirm then its like, ok damn, she's about it, lets rock n roll

06-28-2021, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩

Exacly lol at setting dates more than 1 or 2 days before

Otherwise you give the girl plenty of room to cancel on your azz and upgrade lol
Played that game many times

But honestly if she is still up for it I'd just go for the sake of not being a flake...unless she wanted a fancy meal or something

Free or nearly free = go

Fancy 5 star meal = easy pass

So basically it’s this Friday now. She hasn’t cancelled yet. And yeah I should just go cause we have mutual friends and I don’t wanna treat her like some random bar slut. She’s pretty nice actually hence why I don’t wanna flake.

That’s the other part...I have no plans and don’t really feel like making plans. We talked about drinking some wine together and that’s the outline for the night but I have no idea what to even do. If it was more spontaneous that would be right up my alley. Now I’m wondering wtf will she even be expecting out of me?

06-28-2021, 10:46 AM

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listen. i like you. A LOT. but i feel like we've been taking things a little too fast. i don't wanna get hurt again. let's re-connect in Q4

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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩

Bruh, I am miscing on a 24" monitor and I can barely even make that tiny azz thumbnail out as a human. You have 10 mins to provide a higher res pic or there will be negs.

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06-28-2021, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩

listen. i like you. A LOT. but i feel like we've been taking things a little too fast. i don't wanna get hurt again. let's re-connect in Q4

Lol
If any of the girls I’ve met in the last week end up texting me....I’ll reply to them with that for lolz. Can’t do it to this girl

06-28-2021, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha⏩

listen. i like you. A LOT. but i feel like we've been taking things a little too fast. i don't wanna get hurt again. let's re-connect in Q4

lol. On spread as usual.

Send this OP just for lulz

06-28-2021, 10:50 AM

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06-28-2021, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩

So basically it’s this Friday now. She hasn’t cancelled yet. And yeah I should just go cause we have mutual friends and I don’t wanna treat her like some random bar slut. She’s pretty nice actually hence why I don’t wanna flake.

That’s the other part...I have no plans and don’t really feel like making plans. We talked about drinking some wine together and that’s the outline for the night but I have no idea what to even do. If it was more spontaneous that would be right up my alley. Now I’m wondering wtf will she even be expecting out of me?

let her text to confirm

do NOT let your friends dictate how you behave in your dating life

I've wasted time and made myself look like an idiot giving chicks the benefit of the doubt bc I was trying to be nice since my buddies gf was trying to cultivate friendships with certain girls

girls I should have ghosted when everyone was saying "no you need to talk with her and let her know you aren't interested anymore"

absolutely never again

no one is going to think you are a dik if you don't text her, and she doesn't text either.

06-28-2021, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted By DBoyDaRealest⏩

no one is going to think you are a dik if you don't text her, and she doesn't text either.

that’s probably true. But there’s a chance I see her again in a group setting with the same people. If I ghost her there’s no reason for her to reach out. I’ll just look like a dick to my good friend. Not trying to get myself cut out of future parties and stuff cause surly she’ll say something to them.

06-28-2021, 11:00 AM

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June 12th? Why did plan a date 3 weeks out?

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06-28-2021, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted By FingerNailsBrah⏩

that’s probably true. But there’s a chance I see her again in a group setting with the same people. If I ghost her there’s no reason for her to reach out. I’ll just look like a dick to my good friend. Not trying to get myself cut out of future parties and stuff cause surly she’ll say something to them.

are you guys texting every day?

I think you fuked up in that you set up a date so far in advance with a girl in your social circle

that's a ton of work to up keep for something that might go nowhere.

you already know this now though.

but I don't see how you can lose unless you are outright rude

1. if you aren't texting every day, let her reconfirm, and if she's interested great, you can probably smash and have a casual fwb

2. if you aren't texting ever day, and she doesn't reconfirm, its all good. she's not going to mention it to her friend group, and if people ask, you just say you guys never found a time to do it

trust me, no one will give af. I have a giant group of young people i hang with and fringe dudes hit on chicks in there all the time, and vise versa. as long as everyone is being a decent human no one will care if it works out or doesnt. you won't lose a bro over this girl, and if you do, he wasn't a bro to start with.'

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your logic is kinda circular mane. you have a friend group where you can hit on chicks and possibly date them. so you take advantage of it and set up a date with a chick.

now you aren't interested and are worried about getting cut off from the group and future parties and events where you could meet different girls?? either go through with it and smash or stop talking to girls out of this group