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post 1641914083 06-30-2021, 12:16 PM
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When partner says no, what do?

“I think I’ll get a bike”

“No”

“Definite no?”

“Hard no”

Fold or fuk it
post 1641914243 06-30-2021, 12:19 PM
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no means yes and yes means anal.
post 1641914283 06-30-2021, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
“I think I’ll get a bike”

“No”

“Definite no?”

“Hard no”

Fold or fuk it
I just get it if I want it and then face potential repercussions afterwards
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post 1641914313 06-30-2021, 12:20 PM
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post 1641914443 06-30-2021, 12:20 PM
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Show him your melons and he will fold
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post 1641914513 06-30-2021, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
Show him your melons and he will fold
This + BJ.
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post 1641914523 06-30-2021, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By -
Easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission? LOL.
Yes
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post 1641914563 06-30-2021, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By -
Easier to beg for forgiveness than ask for permission? LOL.
Easiest to not give a fukk either way.
post 1641914573 06-30-2021, 12:22 PM
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post 1641914593 06-30-2021, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted By sg1976
I just get it if I want it and then face potential repercussions afterwards
forgiveness, never permission.
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post 1641914703 06-30-2021, 12:23 PM
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post 1641914793 06-30-2021, 12:24 PM
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It's my money....and I'll spend it as I wish. (assuming you're a responsible adult, have no problems paying your bills and have plenty of money in the bank for emergency)

I wasn't really "asking"....I was being polite and letting you know that I'm going to get one.


Edit: Your partners only argument here would be in that if by "bike" you mean motorcycle.....they're probably more interested in your safety/life expectancy than money. Also....wording it in such a non-committal way..."I think I'll get a bike" doesn't really relay that you've put a lot of thought into this decision.
post 1641914863 06-30-2021, 12:25 PM
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Reminisce about the Chad you went home with from the bar after knowing him for 45 seconds. Compare him to your partner. Start fantasizing about other men then become a lesbian and clip and dye your hair.
Go on a trip to Morocco with your new lesbian pan sexual partner. Get drugged and raped by a migrant then cope by being a wine cat lady until you inevitably die of osteoporosis just as Netflix wants
post 1641914903 06-30-2021, 12:26 PM
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lol @ asking
post 1641914953 06-30-2021, 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107
It's my money....and I'll spend it as I wish. (assuming you're a responsible adult, have no problems paying your bills and have plenty of money in the bank for emergency)

I wasn't really "asking"....I was being polite and letting you know that I'm going to get one.
This. Don't have kids and we both are great with money. Outside the bills being paid, get whatever the fuk you want... it's your earned money.
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post 1641915053 06-30-2021, 12:28 PM
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post 1641915173 06-30-2021, 12:30 PM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
Show him your melons and he will fold
Originally Posted By twovalvekid
This + BJ.
Then post pics on the misc
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post 1641915193 06-30-2021, 12:30 PM
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I mean if there is a good reason for the no, accept it and get it at a later day. If no reason other for the sake of saying no, I'd be mad af and probably still not get it tbh but I'll give him hell.
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post 1641915303 06-30-2021, 12:32 PM
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Originally Posted By bsmit107
It's my money....and I'll spend it as I wish. (assuming you're a responsible adult, have no problems paying your bills and have plenty of money in the bank for emergency)

I wasn't really "asking"....I was being polite and letting you know that I'm going to get one.
This.

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post 1641915353 06-30-2021, 12:33 PM
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No means yes and yes means anal


Edit: They only say no when they said yes to Tyrone couple hours back
post 1641915363 06-30-2021, 12:33 PM
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LOL no
post 1641915453 06-30-2021, 12:34 PM
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post 1641915693 06-30-2021, 12:38 PM
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I know your feels OP.

Wife won’t let me get a bike. I was close to purchasing a Kawasaki Ninja ZX-6R, took my wife as a surprise… before I could speak to the sales person, she told me no.

I hate California traffic and was going to use it just for simple errands. Told her I wouldn’t even bother riding it to gym since my gym bag is far too large anyway.

I guess I should have never shown her my spirited driving on the highway.. anything above 120mph and she tells me to stop even when there’s no traffic.
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post 1641915743 06-30-2021, 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted By darkninja67
Show him your melons and he will fold
Originally Posted By twovalvekid
This + BJ.
This. I mean, you have the assets to get whatever you want. If that doesn't persuade him, leave him because he's cheating or gay.
post 1641915923 06-30-2021, 12:42 PM
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I. The unquestioned leader of my household, so ultimately my decision is final.


Depends on the agreed upon and accepted roles in your specific relationship.
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post 1641915983 06-30-2021, 12:43 PM
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We have a joint account and our own accounts. We make joint decisions as it relates to our joint account. I do and she does wtf ever we want with our own accounts. If you can't fund both accounts, you have bigger issues and then you are barely scraping by. Then everything should be a joint decision.
post 1641916123 06-30-2021, 12:47 PM
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It’s not about money

And yeah if it’s no, it’s no cos we are in this together
Originally Posted By illriginalized
I know your feels OP.

Wife won’t let me get a bike. I was close to purchasing a Kawasaki Ninja ZX-6R, took my wife as a surprise… before I could speak to the sales person, she told me no.

I hate California traffic and was going to use it just for simple errands. Told her I wouldn’t even bother riding it to gym since my gym bag is far too large anyway.

I guess I should have never shown her my spirited driving on the highway.. anything above 120mph and she tells me to stop even when there’s no traffic.
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Originally Posted By Jayarbie
This. I mean, you have the assets to get whatever you want. If that doesn't persuade him, leave him because he's cheating or gay.
Bike or tits
post 1641916233 06-30-2021, 12:49 PM
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this is why wives peg their partners. establish who's boss in the arrangement and they can't say no by the unwritten rules of matrimony
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Originally Posted By Rabbitjb
“I think I’ll get a bike”

“No”

“Definite no?”

“Hard no”

Fold or fuk it
'why not?'
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