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post 1642239243 07-05-2021, 08:59 PM
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What is it with women these days?

I would say within the last 2 years, things have changed quite dramatically with dating.

I feel that 2019 was one of the last few years to hook up without hassles, baggage, drama, etc.

Nowadays, I get this feeling that women are... annoyed? Like, even trying to strike up conversation with them and it seems like you're bothering them.

Also, a majority of profiles on Tinder/Bumble basically have them stating "If you can't handle me spending time with my kid..." "If you can't handle a curvy" "Trump supporters swipe left" -- as if they've become some sort of high valued prize.

I swear I even notice it at the gym that some women seem to roll their eyes or even be deliberately going out of their way not to engage in conversation.

And here's the kicker, I'm a decent looking guy, full head of hair, tattoos and don't act like a beta/soy/cringe...

So what the phuck happened brahs?
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post 1642239313 07-05-2021, 09:01 PM
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post 1642239373 07-05-2021, 09:02 PM
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Tours over bro.

Moneymaxx and live out the rest of your life in a nice seaside town
post 1642239473 07-05-2021, 09:04 PM
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There was a merging of dimensions in 2012. A VERY similar yet slightly different dimension merged with ours and subtle changes in stuff like dating, social media, politics, etc have changed but everything else is essentially the same. This is the beginning of the end brahs
post 1642239563 07-05-2021, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted By dontstopbelief⏩
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post 1642240053 07-05-2021, 09:14 PM
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Yes women got even more entitled than their usual selves sometime between 2016-2018. You can still get laid but you gotta put a a lil more effort and its not worth it as a lot are just insufferable to even deal with.

Especially when you know at the back of your mind how easy and straightforward it was before social media came into its prime and simps inflated their egos. Best to just focus on yourself acquire wealth and pay them little mind. Good news Is, nofap/semen retention is a cheat code in giving you that energy and motivation to do so.
post 1642251053 07-06-2021, 03:51 AM
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Originally Posted By beansieweansie⏩
There was a merging of dimensions in 2012. A VERY similar yet slightly different dimension merged with ours and subtle changes in stuff like dating, social media, politics, etc have changed but everything else is essentially the same. This is the beginning of the end brahs
Originally Posted By ffs1990⏩
Yes women got even more entitled than their usual selves sometime between 2016-2018. You can still get laid but you gotta put a a lil more effort and its not worth it as a lot are just insufferable to even deal with.

Especially when you know at the back of your mind how easy and straightforward it was before social media came into its prime and simps inflated their egos. Best to just focus on yourself acquire wealth and pay them little mind. Good news Is, nofap/semen retention is a cheat code in giving you that energy and motivation to do so.
Something definitely changed between 2012-2016 but idk what to say about it anymore

Things before that were just way different before smart phones and social media ig you're old enough to remember it
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post 1642251213 07-06-2021, 04:00 AM
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I know that feel

it feels like they are on the defensive and super angry
it makes it even more confusing to try to figure out how to approach them

should I be persistent? should I throw them 1 message and play it cool and hope the 10,000 guys in her inbox dont make her forget about me?

I just bother with the ones that put in effort and even reach out to me.
but its weird how the mind works, you never want the easy ones. The newest girl im talking to pays for my uber eats every time I go to her place without even asking (like 40 bucks)
also my ubers (another 40 bucks). Bought me nba 2k when I said I like basketball. Just randomly sent me a steam link. Said she ordered ps5 controllers and they are on the way to my house. So spent a few hundred on me on the first few "Dates" weve had. Yet I dont feel anything cuz she seems too nice that it doesnt feel genuine. Tonight she was trying to say she loves me and it was only the 5th time we got together. I was like maybe you like me but some things take a lot longer than that.

I also have been downtown toronto to hang with her a few times recently and the hottest girls ive ever seen in my life are with the dorkiest guys ive ever seen.. it really is very confusing to me.
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post 1642251253 07-06-2021, 04:01 AM
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Do you really want to know or we miscing?
post 1642251293 07-06-2021, 04:02 AM
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It's definitely getting worse. I can even see a big difference between 2019 and now.
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post 1642251333 07-06-2021, 04:03 AM
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90% of women get to pick the guy they make a life with. 90% of men take whatever woman they can. Social Media drives this agenda too and it's only getting worse.

The counter to this is to absolutely focus on yourself and don't go searching for it. That's where self-doubt comes in and you'll (probably) start to come across a little desperate which is where the rash decision making happens.

You got this, OP. We're all gonna make it.
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post 1642251343 07-06-2021, 04:03 AM
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Dating apps and social media inflated their egos at a fukking staggering rate.
post 1642251563 07-06-2021, 04:14 AM
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post 1642252213 07-06-2021, 04:52 AM
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Women eh, amirite?
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post 1642252483 07-06-2021, 05:07 AM
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Eh you're probably just not good-looking enough and don't have a decent enough Instagram profile.

If you don't have the looks and social media, your best bet is to pack your bags and leave the west. Try Asia, South America, Eastern Europe or even Africa.

Or just go the whore-maxxing route if it's that bad for you. You have options.
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post 1642252523 07-06-2021, 05:09 AM
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Originally Posted By Wyzz⏩
Tours over bro.

Moneymaxx and live out the rest of your life in a nice seaside town
This. There's no better time than now to disregard females, acquire currency.
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feminism destroyed women. They are now all either fat or into drugs or single moms
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post 1642253013 07-06-2021, 05:32 AM
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If you had models lining up to fk you no sht you wouldnโ€™t be able to settle down with someone your equal match

Thatโ€™s what itโ€™s like for girls
brb havenโ€™t met one vaxcel who doesnโ€™t get defensive or mad when you tell them you didnโ€™t get it.

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post 1642253093 07-06-2021, 05:34 AM
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One thing you can work on is just stop caring. Women can tell if you're desperate right away. If you're walking up to random women at the gym or trying to day game and they are annoyed, it means you either suck at conversation or you aren't hot enough.

Dating profiles are lulzy because basically any one of those profiles is low hanging fruit to pump and dump. Single moms want to get laid. Trump supporters want to get laid. Curvy girls DEFINITELY want to get laid. They are on dating apps because they can't find a high quality male.

Flip the script. You're the prize, not the other way around. Once that sinks in (and you actually believe it and aren't just faking it) dating and dealing with women is super easy.
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Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
So what the phuck happened brahs?
Blame weak men for enabling their poor behavior.
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Society has reached a point most can leech off of men with sinecure jobs 4lyfe, so they can lead the fall of civilization with their women are just as smart as men despite 0.0% of women knowing how to lead all of society because of their lack of spacial memory from testosterone.
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When you transcend your sexual desires your perspective on literally everything changes...

You stop chasing women..You stop chasing money for the wrong reasons...You stop sacrificing your enjoyment. You start living in the moment...

You are literally wasting your life away over one basic human instinct and death is going to show up one day and demand payment.

Do YOU and a women worthy of your time and effort will be attracted to that and you wont have to tinder/social medial/dating web sites. You wont have to be what they want, chase after them and end up miserable. The most unattractive thing in the world to a women is a man in chase mode. It automatically puts you in the optics of a beta orbiting goof ball.
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my theory is that women who use online dating fukk a lot of guys over a short period then essentially burn out from physical sex for a while, and just stay on the apps for attention and time wasting. for women, the pump & dumps are not as physically satisfying as they are for a man so they lose interest in that after a while and rather just get the validation.

so unless you're extremely hot, you have to get lucky and get them in that window where they're fukking a lot, otherwise they're just on there for attention.


but yes in general I do notice women are becoming less feminine and friendly every year.
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Social media has hacked their monkey brains. They were once limited to their local friend-group and realized/acknowledged the several degrees of separation between themselves and celebrities. Now they all want to be celebrities and influencers, and are mad at the world for going through the motions (makeup, plastic, travel blogging, etc) but can't transcend their insignificance.. so naturally they take it out on you and others by acting like bitter cu.nts.
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Originally Posted By mesobuild⏩
Society has reached a point most can leech off of men with sinecure jobs 4lyfe, so they can lead the fall of civilization with their women are just as smart as men despite 0.0% of women knowing how to lead all of society because of their lack of spacial memory from testosterone.
lmfao. it's actually crazy that Western men are just totally letting their own people go extinct (birth rate below replacement and still cratering in every Western country), essentially just so women can sloot around. think of all the advancements by Western men, only to be thrown away on the hill of allowing women to sloot around into their 30s lmfaoo!!!

like 'hey, we're going extinct. but at least women have the freedom to choose the wrong partners (single mama epidemic) and sloot around into their 30s and focus on their CAREEEER!'

shts sad but hilarious at the same time because of the ridiculousness

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I get interest from girls all the time

Im just not interested in them

Idk.. i know its presumptuous of me. Lets just say its the vast majority

For instance, for work ive been working literally 50 feet from the beach. I see hot girls quite a bit.. im interested only in making my balls urge. But 99% of those chicks are the exact type im not interested in

Im not interested in your avg. Cookie cutter, gossiping only about their social life ho.

I get more interested the hornier i am; the more i can feign interest

I think its social media, srs. Thats my biggest problem. I just dont want to put up with it, and that pool is small.. even smaller finding an attractive, interesting, feminine woman
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Feminism and Liberal BS went way too far. American women are trash as a whole.
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they all have ultra inflated egos from social media/tinder, and since half of Americans women are obese, any chick that is just a normal weight has an endless onslaught of men after them. Couple this with no legal prostitution like in places like Europe and you have a receipt for disaster that is the dating scene in 2021.
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They have it incredibly easy

If you can't make their life easy don't bother
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