I don't know any sloots that workout to find a husband lol. But I mostly associate with young sloots so i don't really know how old sloots think.

You will understand her mind when you get to know her. You'll be able to gauge whether she's doing chit for herself or for others. Even if I get a gf/wife i'll still workout.

cringe

Based off of this the strat is to get a girl preggo and see if she blows up or not after.

I think we all rather be stuck paying just child support vs child support and alimony.

Men really do give women a ring far too easily and are screwed once they do because no one should completely transform like this and have no consequences.

Mine was the opposite, I got fit after I got married. I was so jealous of my husband and his exes and who knows what imaginary women that I had to get in shape. Now, after 25 -years I just do it because it's like washing my hair, part of life.

A good plan my friend came up with years ago, get them pregnant and wait to see how they blow up. If it's too much: get them passout drunk, punch them in the stomach and push them down a flight of stairs. The next morning, if you did your job right, they're crying in the ER and don't have much recollection of it and you can safely dump them and know you dodged a bullet. If they don't get too fat, you still get them drunk and give them the stairs, but you don't necessarily have to dump them then -- you just need to use this incident for leverage, always blaming them for 'losing your child' with a tear in your eye (chop onions prior).

How did you get cellphone there in prison, Scott Petersen?

imagine getting catfished like that

We can't swing it financially. Things are different now a days this isn't Europe. Ideally she would be staying home but we have bills to pay.

Thanks for the backstory, I appreciate it.

You missed the point he made.

“Likes working out”

Vs

“Works out”

Plenty of women enjoy exercise and eating healthy as a lifestyle. They are active, go biking, hiking, trains for marathons into their 50s, etc etc


Others just try to stay borderline skinny in high school and college to party, attract guys, etc. these are the types that go on crash diets before spring break or are out drinking 4x a week in 20s before realizing they will take on alcohol weight eventually.


To the untrained eye these two women seem the same, they are both skinny. But spend an ounce of time with them and you can easily see who will blow up vs stay fit. All those before pictures looked like girls who will eventually get chubby. The fat ones I guarantee you do zero exercise, eat pizza and bs all week, get drunk smoke pot etc



Buyer beware if you’re a guy, but if you have standards you won’t fall into this trap

Fuk that. If either partner stops "chasing" the other by trying to be their best self, one of them becomes miserable.

this makes me irrationally angry

HTC wins yet again

This

You can always gauge one from the other once you start dating

I got fit after I had kids

Used to be just soft

Now soft and strong

Takes more work than it used to but also keeps me a little saner

If you got time to play around on tiktok and other social media, you got time for a quick workout. I could never let myself go. It was important to me that I stay healthy myself, my husband, my kids and now grand kids.

I wonder if they'll still be bragging in another 10 yrs...

Managed to totally miss the point there didn’t you

And their tinder bio reads : "My kids are my life..."

Nice avi you got there

Thanks

Dafuq is wrong with you?

This is to see if you want to marry her or not, that's all.

I know some of you guys on here have a lot of experience cutting weight for bodybuilding comps or running cut/bulk cycles. Personally, I hate losing weight and I have a lot of sympathy for women that were previously fit, then gained pregnancy weight and struggled to get it off. Pregnancy is just an easy time for them to go off the rails with diet and exercise (hungry, don't feel good, no energy) and gain way more than is needed for a healthy baby. Weight came off relatively easy for my wife after our first couple kids but got harder as we had more and my wife got older. I think it's really common for women to add 5-10 pounds with each pregnancy, and be at +30 pounds after three kids. My wife wasn't that high, but was heavier than she wanted to be after our last child. A year or so ago we moved into a new home with space for some basic gym equipment in the basement. Having equipment close and convenient made all the difference. She made a habit of working out regularly and cleaned up her diet and is pretty much back to here pre-pregnancy weight. She actually did her first unassisted pull-up in probably 30 years a few weeks ago.

I think it's generally good advice for a man to help out around the house to help his wife have time to work out, but I do wonder how often it actually makes a difference. My experience, not with my wife specifically but with people in general, is that there is pretty much nothing you can do to motivate someone to work out. Maybe people have better luck with a significant other, but based on the posts I've read here I kind of doubt it. Plus, working out is mandatory for overall health, but if we're only talking about weight, diet is far more important.

Pretty much every gf I've had gradually started to pile on weight. They don't have the same incentive anymore as when they were single.

All of the excuses in the world, but then magically when they're single again they can lose the weight and look good again!

That's why you gotta find a woman that's actually into fitness forherself, not just to get a man.

I help her out i do most of the work around the house, take garbage out, yard work, dishes, laundry, and a few other things to lighten the load. We move at the end of the month we will have almost 3,000 sqft. I plan on getting her a stepper and some weights.

I will say the way I grew up when women got a little older being overweight was pretty common. Right now my wife has a fat ass thick thighs with no real gut. I will get on her if starts getting a fat stomach. I just don't want to bug her about it now. We both work all day and barely get a break at night. I just happen to get out of work earlier I stop by the gym on my way home. Plus I'm a gym rat.

No dude. You’re wrong. There was a girl I worked with that I had animalistic like attraction for, had one the best ass/hip/ thigh ratios I’ve ever seen that had a crater face. She wasn’t ugly but had severe scarring acne. I would have done unspeakable things to her (she actually tried hitting on me but I don’t mess with co-workers). If I ever see her again it’s on…


Fat chicks don’t even register on my radar

was called abusive recently cause I told a girl I dont want to be with her cause she cant consistently exercise. I think Ill stay abusive than get stuck like the OP