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Originally Posted By regno
Somewhat. It will take a little bit longer to fully flush her out of my thoughts. Hope I won't relapse.
I think you should go to therapy. There's some pretty disturbing stuff in your story, like obsessive stalking behavior.

I also think NC is going to be incredibly difficult for you, and you'll need support.
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I used to think similar to OP. If a women hurt me I felt I needed "revenge". With my last ex she fcked me over worst than most of my other girlfriends. I decided to just go nc and work on myself and it truly did end up being the best revenge possible. It sucks but just go nc and focus on yourself. Talking to a therapist could also be beneficial.
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Originally Posted By mrjolly2323
I used to think similar to OP. If a women hurt me I felt I needed "revenge". With my last ex she fcked me over worst than most of my other girlfriends. I decided to just go nc and work on myself and it truly did end up being the best revenge possible. It sucks but just go nc and focus on yourself. Talking to a therapist could also be beneficial.
Ye, I felt extremely angry (I've never felt so betrayed and angry in my life) when I discovered my ex had met up with some old FWB of hers behind my back. I wanted to kill them both, but I controlled myself, kicked her out of the apartment and went NC.
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Putting a gps tracker on someones car is pretty crazy behaviour. You broke up with her, OP. Deal with it and stop stalking her. Stop contacting her or responding to her. Stop helping her sell her stuff. give her all her stuff back and be done. Work on yourself and get therapy.
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Originally Posted By Legz422
Putting a gps tracker on someones car is pretty crazy behaviour. You broke up with her, OP. Deal with it and stop stalking her. Stop contacting her or responding to her. Stop helping her sell her stuff. give her all her stuff back and be done. Work on yourself and get therapy.
Yeah that's wild.
Besides if you catch her in a lie it should make it easier to move on.
She's not the person you hoped she was.
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Not much you can do.

She's obviously craving his cock and letting him plant his seed inside her every night. He's probably got a much bigger dick than you and also lots more money since she likes to be photographed in his convertible.


Seriously dude, she's an old whore. You've already plowed her five ways to Sunday. So what if it's the next guys turn? An old slut like that could never make you happy or complete you as a man. Move on to younger women who don't have the thousand cock stare.
First I thought opee was insane, and then I read this speaking about the old chick like she broke up with opee.

Judging by his post the only reason she probably lied to him because she sensed what a completely unhinged psychopath he is. You gotta be kidding me insinuating SHES the damaged goods here.
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Originally Posted By W1LLW
Judging by his post the only reason she probably lied to him because she sensed what a completely unhinged psychopath he is. You gotta be kidding me insinuating SHES the damaged goods here.
I thought the same thing. GPS tracker, checking for her car in the driveway at 1am, OP is nuts.

She's probably legit concerned for her safety.
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You played yourself and blame her. Typical misc psycho.
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Read it all.

Wholey chit, I'd lie too if someone was acting the way you are. She has been honest about her intentions the whole way though, you completely ignored them and hurt yourself now you want to hurt her back? Stop stalking the poor woman, remove the GPS tracker before she finds it and you have the police knocking on your door.

Move TF on and leave her alone.

Also get help. SRS.
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Probably the reason she was staying out all night was she was scared to be at home when you were stalking her.

Serious OP wtf. You're lucky she hasn't gotten a restraining order against you or police involved. Leave her alone.

Also don't try to lie that you're "over her". People who are "over" someone don't put GPS trackers on their cars or write novels on the misc about it.

For your sake, and for hers, please get some therapy. The saddest thing of all this is that even if she still had feelings for you, she'd have to cut you off due to you being a danger to her safety.
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OP I am usually pretty sympathetic when it comes to relationship stuff but you seem psychotic.......who in the world puts GPS on a girls car??? You need to forget about dating all together and get yourself some professional help.
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Originally Posted By JUGGERNAUT1333
OP I am usually pretty sympathetic when it comes to relationship stuff but you seem psychotic.......who in the world puts GPS on a girls car???You need to forget about dating all together and get yourself some professional help.
Because I needed the truth like an air. Because I was tired living in unknown and uncertainty.

And to be honest, I regret nothing. That device was a life savior. That revealed the real truth. The truth that I was seeking for the past 4 months. It was a true red pill. And it hurt. It hurt like hell. But it's still better than living in illusion.

Most of you here probably think I'm capable of harming her. Or I'm some kind of threat to her. If so, you couldn't be more wrong. I have no such intentions.

Yes, that GPS thing is creepy, disturbing and all. But all it is, it's just a minor invasion of her privacy that she's not aware off. I'm not following her in real life, not trying to "accidentally" meet her. Nothing like that. I just know where dafuq her car is parked.

I never thought about harming her. Never in my life. All I want right now is just for her to feel some emotional distress that I felt all this time. Yes, you could all say that she kept her emotional distance most of the time. Keyword most of the time. Until she started to invite me to hang out, go tanning together, started sending sexy pictures, flirting etc. All the while she was devouring other guys cock. And disgustingly lying.

So, I don't think I'm a bad guy in this story. I do admit I made a lot of mistakes along the way but this woman is no saint either. I realized that a thrill of teasing and playing with me was far more enjoyable and pleasing to her than being together with me. So all I want for her is a taste of her own medicine.
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Quick update.

I mentioned that I decided to not write her first. Which I kept my promise. It's been a week since we last chatted but last Sunday, that is 2 days ago, she texted me.

She asked if I could help her. Basically, she created her own account on the same platform where I was selling her clothing. She added some items herself and asked me couple of questions. I answered them and that's it. I did not ask her anything. Didn't show any interest in her.

She also sent me the link to her account. To check if everything is ok. And what I saw was very strange. The bucket of roses that I gave her just before going NC, which I mentioned in my original post, they were in every main picture of her clothing. It does look like an additional detail for a better overall view of the clothing but that's still some weird shiet.

She also said to me "nice photos". She meant a photos that I added on Saturday to my ******** story, camping with my friends just a day before she texted me. I thanked her and that's it.

I don't know what to think of this. I think she's trying to get in my head somehow so I wouldn't let her go.

Oh and btw, I mentioned that she texted me on Sunday. But I didn't mention that she was fuking with her new bf just last night before she texted me. Yes, the GPS showed she spent the night at his home.

Anyway, I definitely won't write her after this. That's for sure. I'm even thinking of not replying to her at all.
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you sound like an absolute psycho, future serial killer
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Originally Posted By regno
She also said to me "nice photos". She meant a photos that I added on Saturday to my ******** story, camping with my friends just a day before she texted me. I thanked her and that's it.

I don't know what to think of this. I think she's trying to get in my head somehow so I wouldn't let her go.

Oh and btw, I mentioned that she texted me on Sunday. But I didn't mention that she was fuking with her new bf just last night before she texted me. Yes, the GPS showed she spent the night at his home.

Anyway, I definitely won't write her after this. That's for sure. I'm even thinking of not replying to her at all.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer
NC means NC.
Yeah, I understand. But in this case, NC means not writing her first. It's not textbook NC but it will still help me to reduce the chemicals in my brain that are causing such emotional attachment to this woman.

My goal is to reduce that attachment as much as possible so I wouldn't give a chit about her anymore. If I achieve this, I'll start playing some very elaborate mind games with her.

If she managed to emotionally detach from me while staying in contact with me, so can I. Especially when I know the truth now.

If I get a chance, I'll turn those tables around. Step by step, I'll break her spirit. Mark my word.

Wait for updates.
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You're still monitoring her locations? You really do need very serious help.
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Originally Posted By mrjolly2323
You're still monitoring her locations? You really do need very serious help.
That badboy has some serious battery capacity. So yeah, why not? Although I thought about removing it.
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Originally Posted By regno
Yeah, I understand. But in this case, NC means not writing her first. It's not textbook NC but it will still help me to reduce the chemicals in my brain that are causing such emotional attachment to this woman.

My goal is to reduce that attachment as much as possible so I wouldn't give a chit about her anymore. If I achieve this,I'll start playing some very elaborate mind games with her.

If she managed to emotionally detach from me while staying in contact with me, so can I. Especially when I know the truth now.

If I get a chance, I'll turn those tables around. Step by step, I'll break her spirit. Mark my word.

Wait for updates.
Lol Wat?! Dude, you broke up with her. Every person in this thread has advised you to go NC and not try to get back at her. I think you should remove the gps tracker and be done with her. There is absolutely no reason for you to keep tabs on her or remain in contact with her.
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Why would you care? Let it be man, did she commit crimes against you? Do the crime lead to some benefit tj something?

Na let it be she feels it and knows it. If she doesnโ€™t who gives a ****... who gives a ****...

Move on
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Originally Posted By regno
Yeah, I understand. But in this case, NC means not writing her first. It's not textbook NC but it will still help me to reduce the chemicals in my brain that are causing such emotional attachment to this woman.

My goal is to reduce that attachment as much as possible so I wouldn't give a chit about her anymore. If I achieve this, I'll start playing some very elaborate mind games with her.

If she managed to emotionally detach from me while staying in contact with me, so can I. Especially when I know the truth now.

If I get a chance, I'll turn those tables around. Step by step, I'll break her spirit. Mark my word.

Wait for updates.
She is "winning" simply by the fact you're devoting all this time and effort into "getting back at her."

Maybe over the span of months or years you will re-gain her trust/affection and be able to "hurt" her emotionally in some way (again never to the extent that she did to you because she's way more experienced than you and will NEVER invest emotionally the way you did at her age).
& you'll look back and think "wtf why did I waste all my time and efforts doing that when I could've been making a better present/future for myself.

Brah you defend yourself because you would never hurt her physically but if you're 27 and get off this much over emotional revenge, you have serious issues.
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This essay is literally the whole reason for the NC concept.
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give it up OP. we understand you are angry and hurt, but this is becoming dangerous and your obsession has to stop. you want revenge? be the better person, get over her and work on yourself. level up in life and live your best, all the while forgetting her. besides, this chick is 20 years older than you. when you get to her age, she will be a senior citizen. you are really going to get worked up over something like that?
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Originally Posted By regno
Because I needed the truth like an air. Because I was tired living in unknown and uncertainty.

And to be honest, I regret nothing. That device was a life savior. That revealed the real truth. The truth that I was seeking for the past 4 months. It was a true red pill. And it hurt. It hurt like hell. But it's still better than living in illusion.

Most of you here probably think I'm capable of harming her. Or I'm some kind of threat to her. If so, you couldn't be more wrong. I have no such intentions.

Yes, that GPS thing is creepy, disturbing and all. But all it is, it's just a minor invasion of her privacy that she's not aware off. I'm not following her in real life, not trying to "accidentally" meet her. Nothing like that. I just know where dafuq her car is parked.

I never thought about harming her. Never in my life. All I want right now is just for her to feel some emotional distress that I felt all this time. Yes, you could all say that she kept her emotional distance most of the time. Keyword most of the time. Until she started to invite me to hang out, go tanning together, started sending sexy pictures, flirting etc. All the while she was devouring other guys cock. And disgustingly lying.

So, I don't think I'm a bad guy in this story. I do admit I made a lot of mistakes along the way but this woman is no saint either. I realized that a thrill of teasing and playing with me was far more enjoyable and pleasing to her than being together with me. So all I want for her is a taste of her own medicine.
Originally Posted By regno
Yeah, I understand. But in this case, NC means not writing her first. It's not textbook NC but it will still help me to reduce the chemicals in my brain that are causing such emotional attachment to this woman.

My goal is to reduce that attachment as much as possible so I wouldn't give a chit about her anymore. If I achieve this, I'll start playing some very elaborate mind games with her.

If she managed to emotionally detach from me while staying in contact with me, so can I. Especially when I know the truth now.

If I get a chance, I'll turn those tables around. Step by step, I'll break her spirit. Mark my word.

Wait for updates.
Dude No....just no.... you didn't need to GPS her car and find " the truth". She isn't even your girlfriend. She's some girl you are emotionally hung up on who is playing you and you let it happen. Putting a GPS on a persons car to monitor where they are going is stalker material. Only time I'd say this would be justified is if you were married and you're trying to get evidence for Divorce Court or something. Once you have suspicions like you had that's the only evidence you need. A woman who truly cares about you isn't going to give you reasons to doubt her. She put up tons of red flags you chose to ignore.

And no, in your case there is no special rules to NC. NC means NO CONTACT at all. You don't write, you don't reply. That's it. Your situation isn't special. Also - you are not going to break her. You are way to emotionally attached to this girl to even consider trying to play/con her.

This may sound harsh, but you need to hear the truth bro. I'm not trying to insult you but you are very detached from reality in this situation. You need to break all contact, block her and move on.
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You need to seek professional help. I'd also suggest getting off the internet as places like the misc and whatever incel chit you're reading is terrible for your mental health.

If you keep stalking the woman, you're going to end up in legal trouble and then financial trouble. You should prevent this by going to a professional for help.
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She only gets 8 likes on her photos, she fa?
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