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Thread: Girl is running 45 minutes late to date. So I'm just at the bar drinking solo and wai

post 1642649833 07-11-2021, 10:00 PM
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Girl is running 45 minutes late to date. So I'm just at the bar drinking solo and wai

lol, 45 minutes

First time this happened to me

Hopefully it's worth the wait
post 1642649893 07-11-2021, 10:02 PM
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Lol and guess who’s paying?

Inb4 no second date
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post 1642649933 07-11-2021, 10:03 PM
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What are you drinking?
Angels
post 1642649943 07-11-2021, 10:04 PM
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Id have just left. Lol @ taking a sloot you're not already banging out anyway.
post 1642649963 07-11-2021, 10:04 PM
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Imagine a woman waiting 45 minutes for a guy to show up. yeah, I can't either. But also I would imagine if the woman was excited for the date she would get ready earlier on enough to where she would be on time. Just my pessimistic view.
post 1642649973 07-11-2021, 10:04 PM
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talk about no self respect. cringe..
post 1642649983 07-11-2021, 10:04 PM
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Just lol @ waiting. She’s probably having a quicky at chad’s

This might be your chit test: betamale if you wait, alpha male if you go NC and ignore her apology text

This is assuming you weren’t catfished by the bar owner who probably sets up simps on dates at his bar to boost his revenue
post 1642649993 07-11-2021, 10:05 PM
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post 1642650003 07-11-2021, 10:05 PM
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Ok bro i'll get you through this.

Here's what you do.

You get up, and you leave.


You can go home if you want.

If you don't have work tomorrow, you can go to a different bar and I can run you through my solo-pick-up play i call "the sad man" which requires you to get drunk, i'll get to that later.

But more than anything, more important than your next breath, is that you have to protect your own pride and self image.

If she shows up now and you are 1.) still there wating for here, or even worse 2.) stick around and pretend to enjoy her company

Then you will absolutely later on be kicking yourself.

Leave now.

and when she texts you her sob story, just pretend like it was nothing. "no biggy"

Just get the F8ck out of there.
post 1642650043 07-11-2021, 10:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Rooney15⏩
What are you drinking?
Tap beer, just some cheap chit for a date

Bartender recommended it to me
post 1642650093 07-11-2021, 10:06 PM
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Start hitting on random sloots at the bar obv
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post 1642650103 07-11-2021, 10:07 PM
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Haha, sucka

I can’t believe you waited. What a beta
The misc is full of a bunch of simp ****ots
post 1642650273 07-11-2021, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
Imagine a woman waiting 45 minutes for a guy to show up. yeah, I can't either. But also I would imagine if the woman was excited for the date she would get ready earlier on enough to where she would be on time. Just my pessimistic view.
True but our communication was a little spotty and we didn't fully confirm

The bar vibe is kinda nice so I'm just chilling

Even if doesn't go well, at least I tried with this girl to see whether we click or not
post 1642650773 07-11-2021, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
True but our communication was a little spotty and we didn't fully confirm

The bar vibe is kinda nice so I'm just chilling

Even if doesn't go well, at least I tried with this girl to see whether we click or not
lmao making excuses for her. Just cut your losses and have some self-respect.
post 1642650923 07-11-2021, 10:20 PM
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post 1642651663 07-11-2021, 10:35 PM
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I'd leave if they were more then 5-10min late
post 1642651733 07-11-2021, 10:36 PM
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post 1642652553 07-11-2021, 10:52 PM
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Pics could help determine if the wait is worth it or not...
post 1642652613 07-11-2021, 10:53 PM
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Update? Did she show?
Damn
post 1642652743 07-11-2021, 10:57 PM
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Why would you stay past 20 mins? just leave
See SuperHercules' sig
post 1642653313 07-11-2021, 11:14 PM
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I'd go 15 before bouncing.Maybelonger if she gave me a heads up she was being late. 30 min absolute max and if she showed up she better be super enthusiastic or extremely apologetic when she shows. 30 mins is a long ass time.
post 1642653493 07-11-2021, 11:21 PM
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I wouldn’t wait more than 15 minutes, but you do you.
post 1642653573 07-11-2021, 11:26 PM
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post 1642653703 07-11-2021, 11:31 PM
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I'd leave and let her know in text that I waited and figured she wasn't going to show. I'd give her the chance to explain because any number of things could have happened. If it is repeated, then, I'd just say I find the no showing disrespectful and I'm done.

Real life does happen to people. Maybe she had a bowel emergency lmao. Maybe she had to comfort a grieving friend. Maybe she had to pick someone up from the airport on short notice. Maybe she had to stay late at work. Maybe Jamal bottomed her out and that was the cause of the bowel emergency. You don't know.
post 1642654153 07-11-2021, 11:46 PM
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I'm not in a position to give anyone chit for punctuality, but 45 mins? Bruhhh, that's what desperation looks like.



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post 1642654163 07-11-2021, 11:46 PM
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post 1642654193 07-11-2021, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Rooney15⏩
What are you drinking?
aQuafina and methamphetamine
post 1642654353 07-11-2021, 11:53 PM
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Brahs, she showed up and was hot as fuk

I'm buzzed from all the drinks right now. Damn, she was attractive and I thought it was a good date
post 1642654483 07-11-2021, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted By sf813⏩
Brahs, she showed up and was hot as fuk

I'm buzzed from all the drinks right now. Damn, she was attractive and I thought it was a good date
Did she say why she was late?
post 1642654633 07-12-2021, 12:01 AM
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Originally Posted By wincel⏩
Did she say why she was late?
She said she had a celebration event yesterday and drank. She doesn't drink but her family forced her or something so she was hungover and didn't check the app until I messaged. I didn't really ask the details tbh. She was very attractive.
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