He called me and asked why I wasnt married or dating

Right and I can’t say that. My family and friends are turbo bluepill normies so I can’t just say well I’m not attracted to 99% of men my age because I only like 20 year old 6’4 athlete Chads with hair of the gods. That would not go over well.

So I just use euphemisms like lack of mutual attraction, lack of mutual interest. Which is true because I’m not attracted to the average middle aged guy.

Yeah just be honest but in softer more PC language. Just tell them you would really like a gf/wife but that you are not able to find a girl with mutual attraction.

They are prob just worried you are gay. They might be relieved to hear that you want a gf/wife but just cannot find one. Because in their eyes that is prob better than being gay.

Anyway my friends and family ask me too why I’m still single. And I just say that dating is really hard at this age and that I can’t find anyone that I’ve connected with.

You can say the black pill truth in softer words. Haven’t found a connection. Haven’t found a good match. Haven’t found mutual attraction. Haven’t found mutual interest. Etc

Another liberal who is an absolute loser. No surprise here

You say it indirectly all the time.


Almost every incel has ridiculous standards beyond their own value. ITT you're talking about not being attracted to your last gf. Guarantee she better looking than you... think she was attracted to you? Let that sink in...

Yeah just be honest but in softer more PC language. Just tell them you would really like a gf/wife but that you are not able to find a girl with mutual attraction.

They are prob just worried you are gay. They might be relieved to hear that you want a gf/wife but just cannot find one. Because in their eyes that is prob better than being gay.

Anyway my friends and family ask me too why I’m still single. And I just say that dating is really hard at this age and that I can’t find anyone that I’ve connected with.

You can say the black pill truth in softer words. Haven’t found a connection. Haven’t found a good match. Haven’t found mutual attraction. Haven’t found mutual interest. Etc

OP...Sometimes you just gotta own chit. You're not tall...big deal. You have other things to offer, but your pessimistic nature is covering them up. Having shaky confidence is enough to dry up the pussy, but being down right nihilistic turns sl00ts full lesbo. That goes for everyone...Even the biggest giga chad will turn off a sl00t that has to constantly reassure, or coddle his frail emotional state. Bro, you srsly need to just stop giving in the positive sense...You're making assumptions based on how you feel people value you, and because you assume they think very little of you, that's how you approach chit. Especially dating. It's nothing wrong with being a cocky little manlet...You might get laid even more because at least then you would have garnered enough attention to slide in on a sl00t. Put your height in your bio's, stop lying to these hoes...We can't determine how we look, how tall we are, eye color, hair color, dink size...You have to make it work with what you've got, and you can't opt out just because you don't feel it's good enough. Everyone's not gonna like you fam...It's impossible, but some people do, but you'd never know because of your daily black pill regiment.

He wants your ass.

Sorry OP, hang in there man. Life isnt perfect.

I get depressed sometimes too

Nigerian you say? That means your black. Which means you probably only a few more years left before a white cop guns your ass down for DUI or buying individual cigarettes with Monopoly money or something similar. You probably should speed up the process and LDAR.

Well the last time I was dating I was early twenties and I was attracted to early twenties guys. Then was married from mid twenties to early forties so I did not have to worry about dating. Now I’m late forties trying to date again. And I am not attracted to late forties guys. I am still attracted to the same early twenties guys that I liked last time I dated.

Not saying ALL late forties guys are unattractive because obv there are celeb examples who look good. But as to the average single middle aged guys they don’t look good to me at all.

And idk how old you are but if you were late forties do you really think you would automatically al be attracted to late forties women? That’s just not how it works.

OP, where do you live? (roughly)

Well the last time I was dating I was early twenties and I was attracted to early twenties guys. Then was married from mid twenties to early forties so I did not have to worry about dating. Now I’m late forties trying to date again. And I am not attracted to late forties guys. I am still attracted to the same early twenties guys that I liked last time I dated.

Not saying ALL late forties guys are unattractive because obv there are celeb examples who look good. But as to the average single middle aged guys they don’t look good to me at all.

And idk how old you are but if you were late forties do you really think you would automatically al be attracted to late forties women? That’s just not how it works.

Basically yea. I think if I thought she was more attractive I would have gotten pictures with her and shared with people.

Nobody in my life ever saw her. Deep down I just wasn't that attracted, and it sucks to say cause she was a wonderful person

none of us expected her to be some baddie or anything like that bro lol, we wouldnt have cared

I know you guys wouldn't have cared, its just me being shallow. Like if I had a nice car I'd be taking selfies with it, but since I got a beater I don't bother.

Not to say she was a beater that sounds bad, she was an amazing amazing person but I'm just shallow.

If you are as bad looking as you say you are, would she not be on your level? Kind of backs up what the other guy was saying

He's old he's about to turn 62 and he's a nigerian immigrant so he's not really in tune with the modern western dating scene. He called me and asked why I wasnt married or dating, and I didnt know how to respond. The truth is obviously extremly blackpill. But I'm not sure how he would react or understand.

My dad did something similarly, after I bought my house and he was helping me move in he basically started saying things like 'now you should be able to get women'. But I also avoided that conversation for similar reasons.

I think I'm going to just tell the hard truth. My cousin gets married soon and I just know at his wedding its going to come up. just lol at being the genetic fialure of the fam, but life is a bunch of harsh truths for me. My cousins are all taller and have accents that girls like. And my brother is almost 6 foot so he has no issues.

I'm the only one who lost the lottery.

If you are as bad looking as you say you are, would she not be on your level? Kind of backs up what the other guy was saying

hes not bad looking hes just short

So in other words...

You screwed it up.

Yea but your uncle is right if you aren’t dating or getting any.

Yup, my statement still stands.

On to the next one?