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post 1642824603 07-14-2021, 09:56 AM
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If girl says upfront she’s looking for marriage and want kids, what do?

Do you still date like you’re aligned with her goals to smash?
post 1642824753 07-14-2021, 09:57 AM
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Yes, lying about your motivations to people who are open and honest about what they are looking for is good karma.
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post 1642824763 07-14-2021, 09:57 AM
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Only one answer, OP

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post 1642825073 07-14-2021, 10:01 AM
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String her along for a few months then peace out. LOL this isnt rocket science.
post 1642825733 07-14-2021, 10:12 AM
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"I'm not."

Then do a 360 and get out of there.
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post 1642825923 07-14-2021, 10:14 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
Yes, lying about your motivations to people who are open and honest about what they are looking for is good karma.
Originally Posted By chrsschb⏩
"I'm not."

Then do a 360 and get out of there.
These are the only answers. You don't want what she wants, move on and find someone who just wants to have fun. She's doing you a solid by letting you know where she stands right away.
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post 1642826043 07-14-2021, 10:16 AM
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Originally Posted By GainzMcgee⏩
String her along for a few months then peace out. LOL this isnt rocket science.
this. just string her a along.

When was the last time women cared about your feelings and were actually respectable?

They string along and ghost men all the time and will kick you to the curb as soon as they dont need you.

You got to cut this ethics BS out.
post 1642826103 07-14-2021, 10:17 AM
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All chicks are looking for that, the ones that say it upfront intend to go batchit crazy when you flake. She warned you.
post 1642826163 07-14-2021, 10:18 AM
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post 1642826713 07-14-2021, 10:24 AM
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Make sure you wear a condom
post 1642826863 07-14-2021, 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted By lolatpaniccels⏩
this. just string her a along.

When was the last time women cared about your feelings and were actually respectable?

They string along and ghost men all the time and will kick you to the curb as soon as they dont need you.

You got to cut this ethics BS out.
Originally Posted By DigDeeper1⏩
Make sure you wear a condom
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post 1642829273 07-14-2021, 11:00 AM
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Nope, if that's 100% not what you want just do a 360 and walk away.

She wants kids, she'll find someone that will give her kids, doesn't matter who.
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post 1642830473 07-14-2021, 11:14 AM
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Isn't that literally the point of dating? To find someone to settle down with?

Some people take ten years of dating to find it, some people take 2 months. It's not your fault if she's a 6 month person and you're a 10 year person.

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post 1642830903 07-14-2021, 11:19 AM
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Plenty of girls just want to smash.

Just find a girl that you're on the same page with instead of toying with people.
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post 1642830923 07-14-2021, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted By MrBourbon⏩
Yes, lying about your motivations to people who are open and honest about what they are looking for is good karma.
I legit had to check used to see if sarcasm
post 1642831123 07-14-2021, 11:24 AM
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If she is that upfront about it I bet it would be cinderalla pre-marriage and baby but when she gets both she’ll not care anymore and let herself go
post 1642832483 07-14-2021, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted By DesiredUser****⏩
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post 1642832773 07-14-2021, 11:45 AM
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Originally Posted By lolatpaniccels⏩
this. just string her a along.

When was the last time women cared about your feelings and were actually respectable?

They string along and ghost men all the time and will kick you to the curb as soon as they dont need you.

You got to cut this ethics BS out.
Every morning when a woman puts on makeup she is lying to you and the world. Even married brahs, end up in jail or dead and she will have another dude on her arm within a week tops.
post 1642832813 07-14-2021, 11:45 AM
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That just means she wants you to rawdog her
post 1642835873 07-14-2021, 12:32 PM
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Misc: we don't like sloots, why can't we find a good girl to settle down and make a family

Misc after a non-slooty straightforward girl says she wants to settle down and make a family: Run away, lie and smash, find a sloot and let her rot.
post 1642837343 07-14-2021, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By vitall⏩
Do you still date like you’re aligned with her goals to smash?
OP when he hits 30: 'Why cant i find a good woman'
post 1642838023 07-14-2021, 01:07 PM
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perfect let's reschedule
post 1642838513 07-14-2021, 01:15 PM
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Tell her you're looking for a virgin
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rather know at the start than later on after you wasted much time with the girl.

I want kids

so if the girl never tells me or lies to me, tells me she never wants kids and gets her tubes tied i would be pissed as fuk.
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Originally Posted By p100⏩
Misc: we don't like sloots, why can't we find a good girl to settle down and make a family

Misc after a non-slooty straightforward girl says she wants to settle down and make a family: Run away, lie and smash, find a sloot and let her rot.
Fukking this. Just lol @ you tards...
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post 1642840493 07-14-2021, 01:43 PM
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Originally Posted By p100⏩
Misc: we don't like sloots, why can't we find a good girl to settle down and make a family

Misc after a non-slooty straightforward girl says she wants to settle down and make a family: Run away, lie and smash, find a sloot and let her rot.
lol this.

Chick probably doesn't feel like wasting time with guys who don't share her goals. At least she was up front and honest about it.
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post 1642840583 07-14-2021, 01:45 PM
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She's being upfront and honest. Why is honesty so hard to deal with?
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any woman who says that is NOT into you , you just fit a template of the man she needs to meet her goal...when that goal is reached do not expect anything good long term

her need is a combination of biological (maternal drive) social ( what other people think of her, FB, IG , Family, Friends) and economical (money and lifestyle).......you could be anyone reasonable


so fck all the White Knights and smash and dash if you want , but that may lead to more crazy chit so think it through and wrap up
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