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post 1645572123 08-23-2021, 05:11 PM
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Is picking up the check alpha or simping?

what the misc thinks?

out with your pals and some bitches, you pick up the check.
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post 1645572233 08-23-2021, 05:11 PM
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simpin aint easy cuh
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post 1645572303 08-23-2021, 05:12 PM
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post 1645572423 08-23-2021, 05:13 PM
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A real ALPHA would OWN the restaurant bro SRS.


SRS


keep COPING you fkn pathetic INCEL SRS

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post 1645572503 08-23-2021, 05:14 PM
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on a rare occasion, sure.. but if every time you go out with your friends, you find your always the one paying or no one else is solely picking up the check... they don't respect you
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post 1645572573 08-23-2021, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha
A real ALPHA would OWN the restaurant bro SRS.


SRS


keep COPING you fkn pathetic INCEL SRS

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Lmao
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post 1645572593 08-23-2021, 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha
A real ALPHA would OWN the restaurant bro SRS.


SRS


keep COPING you fkn pathetic INCEL SRS

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damn brah, chill.
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post 1645572713 08-23-2021, 05:17 PM
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i mean if you are wealthy enough to afford it and its nothing to you then its alpha

if you are doing it but you make $20 an hour then its kind of a beta move

Also paying for women now more than 50/50 is beta unless they are just a dime then fuggit but when women wanted equality that meant giving up men paying for them, because that whole thing was done because men worked and got paid more than women for decades, but now its not the case so its stupid cuck behavior now, once again unless you are wealthy enough its nothing.
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post 1645572773 08-23-2021, 05:18 PM
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Alpha assuming they are your friends and you can afford it without thinking twice about it
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post 1645572833 08-23-2021, 05:19 PM
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha
A real ALPHA would OWN the restaurant bro SRS.


SRS


keep COPING you fkn pathetic INCEL SRS

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post 1645572903 08-23-2021, 05:20 PM
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I've thought about it and i think that it's beta to chase women - since by the very definition of beta and chasing, you're doing the opposite of an alpha leader.

A true alpha male focuses on his purpose and girls are attracted to his masculine frame and confidence - they can smell it from afar.

Going out and picking up girls is for little boys who have not mastered the art of silence within them selves, so they need to distract them selves from their own self doubts 0 "ugh yeah hah when i bang her i'll feel like a real man and my boys will respek me then, yeah hah".
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post 1645573063 08-23-2021, 05:22 PM
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im not paying for a group of people but if im out with an attractive chick that I asked out then im paying. Nothing makes a chick's pussy drier than splitting, especially the first time.
post 1645573093 08-23-2021, 05:22 PM
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post 1645573263 08-23-2021, 05:27 PM
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Depends on the situation; there can't be an overall pay/don't pay attitude.

If I am out with a girl, I asked her out. Regardless of the outcome I pay for it. If she asked me out (lol just imagine) and we found out we didn't get along or wouldn't, then she should pay and I would insist on it. If she asked me out and we got along I would at least offer to pay.

Out with the guys we all just pay for ourselves. I used to pay for others and they would tell me "I'll get it next time" but they would bitch out on that when the opportunity came.
post 1645573423 08-23-2021, 05:30 PM
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Would kick em in the nuts
post 1645573773 08-23-2021, 05:38 PM
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generosity is a sign of power

paying is alpha if you're evidently the richest person in the group or some kind of dark horse. paying is cringey/simp if you're perceived to be just like everyone else or poor

the context matters
post 1645573863 08-23-2021, 05:40 PM
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post 1645573913 08-23-2021, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted By lolatpaniccels
im not paying for a group of people but if im out with an attractive chick that I asked out then im paying. Nothing makes a chick's pussy drier than splitting, especially the first time.
lmao u think a girl going out w brad pitt / chad cares if he pays or not just lmao
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post 1645574013 08-23-2021, 05:42 PM
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On a date I'll pay the first time - if I want to see the girl again. If I know I'm not going to ask her out again or try to get laid I'll split it because I don't care. My go to line when I pick up the bill is I get this one, you get the next one and 100% of the time they say yes.

Out with friends if it's a special occasion or I'm flush and better off than my buddy I'll pick it up.
post 1645574103 08-23-2021, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah
i mean if you are wealthy enough to afford it and its nothing to you then its alpha

if you are doing it but you make $20 an hour then its kind of a beta move

Also paying for women now more than 50/50 is beta unless they are just a dime then fuggit but when women wanted equality that meant giving up men paying for them, because that whole thing was done because men worked and got paid more than women for decades, but now its not the case so its stupid cuck behavior now, once again unless you are wealthy enough its nothing.
Truth, but 90% of guys that try the move are betas who are trying to show off but know they can’t afford it. If you have to ask about it then you aren’t at that level wealth. Buying your bros dinner should be the same stress level to you as buying yourself a big mac



As for chicks, depends on situation. If on a first date you should pick up the tab. But if you’re talking to a stranger sloot offering to buy her a drink is beta
post 1645574733 08-23-2021, 05:54 PM
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Simping srs

Girls see you as weak if you do it these days

Atleast check them to see if they intended to pay. Then its optional
post 1645574913 08-23-2021, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By me12inch
generosity is a sign of power

paying is alpha if you're evidently the richest person in the group or some kind of dark horse. paying is cringey/simp if you're perceived to be just like everyone else or poor

the context matters
This.
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post 1645575323 08-23-2021, 06:03 PM
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On the first few dates I’ll always pick it up. I’m old fashioned that way and that’s just a personal thing. I’m also not expecting a return here. Maybe the “quality” of women can be seemed as diminished(I disagree with this) but it doesn’t change the quality of person I am. I also don’t ask women out just to go out or get laid, I can tell if I am wasting my time or not. So what if I pick up a dinner/date and we don’t click? That’s why we went out. To see. Anyone who can’t tell the difference between being used and an actual date with potential needs to get off apps and the internet.


With friends? If they are close friends usually they’ll get me back at some point by picking a tab up at some point. Regardless, if I had a good time and I can afford it I dont care. I don’t see it as a power play so much as I am enjoying myself so why not.

Not everything had to be alpha or beta. I also wouldn’t do it expecting to be venmoed back. Who cares. It’s just good times.
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Women are a money sink. Paying for dates should be the least of your worries. If you can't pay for a date you can't keep a woman srs (unless Chad)
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post 1645575683 08-23-2021, 06:10 PM
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Originally Posted By umadbroski
what the misc thinks?

out with your pals and some bitches, you pick up the check.
How much could the check be in Mexico? Don’t be a cheap ass.
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Originally Posted By RealLifeAlpha
A real ALPHA would OWN the restaurant bro SRS.


SRS


keep COPING you fkn pathetic INCEL SRS

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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
I've thought about it and i think that it's beta to chase women - since by the very definition of beta and chasing, you're doing the opposite of an alpha leader.

A true alpha male focuses on his purpose and girls are attracted to his masculine frame and confidence - they can smell it from afar.

Going out and picking up girls is for little boys who have not mastered the art of silence within them selves, so they need to distract them selves from their own self doubts 0 "ugh yeah hah when i bang her i'll feel like a real man and my boys will respek me then, yeah hah".
He's not wrong you know, OP
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