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post 1645877723 08-27-2021, 07:14 PM
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post 1645877903 08-27-2021, 07:17 PM
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depends OP, is being cucked your fetish? if so then you should keep talking to her
post 1645878853 08-27-2021, 07:33 PM
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Pfff she’s straight up disrespecting you or worse, doesn’t give af. Don’t catch feelings for this one or its going to hurt in the end.
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post 1645879203 08-27-2021, 07:37 PM
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lol no. nothing bad on her, but i wouldnt be able to get it out of my mind
post 1645879423 08-27-2021, 07:42 PM
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I mean maybe I’m white knighting here but just hear me out perhaps she was at the bar and had really gone aggressive at chipotle during lunch you know like double guac aggressive and all of a sudden she was on a barstool and felt her fart star push out like a boner in sweatpants and so she just grabbed the guy next to her and said let’s get out of here and hustled off to his hotel room but instead of hooking up she just farted out seven pounds of hot cylindrical hiney beef that clogged his hotel room and now she’s politely sitting on the couch while that poor fool aggressively plungers the toilet to no avail and you know he won’t have energy to hook up afterward I mean doesn’t that fat slampig deserve the benefit of the doubt
post 1645879503 08-27-2021, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted By Thunderpants
I mean maybe I’m white knighting here but just hear me out perhaps she was at the bar and had really gone aggressive at chipotle during lunch you know like double guac aggressive and all of a sudden she was on a barstool and felt her fart star push out like a boner in sweatpants and so she just grabbed the guy next to her and said let’s get out of here and hustled off to his hotel room but instead of hooking up she just farted out seven pounds of hot cylindrical hiney beef that clogged his hotel room and now she’s politely sitting on the couch while that poor fool aggressively plungers the toilet to no avail and you know he won’t have energy to hook up afterward I mean doesn’t that fat slampig deserve the benefit of the doubt
bro if she did all of that while the guy is just on the other side of the hollow door of the hotel batheroom, he is probably rock hard and standing there naked ready to bang and then she is feeling all relaxed from losing all that bloat. They def banged if she sprayed his toilet down.
post 1645879813 08-27-2021, 07:51 PM
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Lol op, nah man go nc srs. I had a very similar situation recently. Was talking this girl for a couples weeks, hung out prob 4 or 5 times, “slept over” 2-3 times. Each time we made out, felt each other up, etc. but when I tried to take it further she would always say “ahh, I really want to but I just can’t. I need to be more connected with you first (bull****). I didn’t care though since I was seeing another girl at the time too, so I was like whatever, she’s hot, I’ll just wait it out and maybe she will come through.

Come to find out, the last time we hung out I went over to her place and as soon as I walked in she was crying and the first words out of her mouth was “I feel so awfulll”. Yep, I immediately knew what she was gonna say. “I hooked up with some dude at that party last night”. I just laughed and said “haha, idc we aren’t exclusive. You can do what you want”

She kept on trying to apologize and saying “she regrets doing it becuase she’s been talking to me, it didn’t even feel good, etc”. All lies. So I just tried one last time that night to hook up with her since she apparently will hookup with a random stranger, why wouldn’t she do it with me now? We been talking for almost a month. Still didn’t put out lol. So I went NC the next day.

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post 1645879833 08-27-2021, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987
bro if she did all of that while the guy is just on the other side of the hollow door of the hotel batheroom, he is probably rock hard and standing there naked ready to bang and then she is feeling all relaxed from losing all that bloat. They def banged if she sprayed his toilet down.
I mean that’s a fair point I was just trying to help this guy out
post 1645879983 08-27-2021, 07:55 PM
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Would 100% trash her. Not because I'm jealous, but because she is trash.

I don't give a **** who a woman is sleeping with, as long as it's not when I'm dating her.
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post 1645880093 08-27-2021, 07:58 PM
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If not just a slam pig move on. If she was that in to you she wouldn't have done it and it'll always be in your head.
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post 1645880283 08-27-2021, 08:01 PM
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You act like there are other women who weren't banging other guys.

They were all banging other guys.
post 1645884693 08-27-2021, 09:39 PM
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let me name a few things you will never know, no matter how much you **** up our forum:



you will never know:
what its like to have multiple 10/10s calling you every night to get ****ed.
what its like to score a game winning touchdown
what its like to have the balls/abililty to knock someone out at a bar when they try to punk you (lol @ you having to walk away like a bitch)
what it is like to workout and actually see results
what it is like to NOT immediately jizz yourself the first time a girl touches you because you have no experience with women
what it is like to enjoy the company of true friends and brother who will take bullets for you, outside of CoD.
what it is like to have an aura of success, confidence, and talent that commands respect from real people who are successful and worthwhile. and attractive.
what its like to be yourself and still make friends.
to not make excuses why your life sucks, because you make your own life and NEVER play the victim.
what it is like to wake up in the morning and be truly happy with your life
post 1645885063 08-27-2021, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted By C4KE
Lol op, nah man go nc srs. I had a very similar situation recently. Was talking this girl for a couples weeks, hung out prob 4 or 5 times, “slept over” 2-3 times. Each time we made out, felt each other up, etc. but when I tried to take it further she would always say “ahh, I really want to but I just can’t. I need to be more connected with you first (bull****). I didn’t care though since I was seeing another girl at the time too, so I was like whatever, she’s hot, I’ll just wait it out and maybe she will come through.

Come to find out, the last time we hung out I went over to her place and as soon as I walked in she was crying and the first words out of her mouth was “I feel so awfulll”. Yep, I immediately knew what she was gonna say. “I hooked up with some dude at that party last night”. I just laughed and said “haha, idc we aren’t exclusive. You can do what you want”

She kept on trying to apologize and saying “she regrets doing it becuase she’s been talking to me, it didn’t even feel good, etc”. All lies. So I just tried one last time that night to hook up with her since she apparently will hookup with a random stranger, why wouldn’t she do it with me now? We been talking for almost a month. Still didn’t put out lol. So I went NC the next day.

Cliffs: There are too many girls in this world. Fuk that girl. Move on
reminds me of that plebbit post where some retarded skank said she was in a LTR with a guy who kept trying to get in her panties. She kept resisting because she wanted to wait. BF didn't want to wait, so he broke up with her. A few months later they got back together and she told him after they broke up she went off and got railed by some other dude she barely met. just lol.

that's one reason why I say stay the fug away from dumb sluts; don't have that "past is in the past, everyone ****s everyone" mentality. You can guarantee she gave up her puss for some guy she barely knew at some point. Her standards for your are much higher than standards for random dudes.
post 1645889953 08-28-2021, 12:14 AM
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Think about it like this op. You’re competing for this trophy, working so hard to get this trophy and you know that once you get this trophy, you’re gonna take real good care of it like it deserves.

Then you find out that some dude practically got the trophy just for participating and it was handed out to pretty much everyone else. Some guys didn’t even want it and still got it, some guys even dumped it in the trash?

Wtf would you still want to work so hard for this trophy as if there’s any accomplishment from it and why would you take care of it as if it had any value?
post 1645890103 08-28-2021, 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot
reminds me of that plebbit post where some retarded skank said she was in a LTR with a guy who kept trying to get in her panties. She kept resisting because she wanted to wait. BF didn't want to wait, so he broke up with her. A few months later they got back together and she told him after they broke up she went off and got railed by some other dude she barely met. just lol.

that's one reason why I say stay the fug away from dumb sluts; don't have that "past is in the past, everyone ****s everyone" mentality. You can guarantee she gave up her puss for some guy she barely knew at some point. Her standards for your are much higher than standards for random dudes.
Sloots don’t get it. Anything that has value is hard to get for everyone, but not necessarily you.

If you found good and can just pick it up but everyone has to work damm hard to get it, it’s still valuable. Reverse that and you found some material that you can’t get but it’s so easy for everyone to get a hold of it, that chit has 0 value.

It’s like trying to make copper more valuable than gold, even though everyone else can get it, someone is making it hard to get for you. It’s still fkin copper.
post 1645890523 08-28-2021, 12:29 AM
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
Known this chick for a few weeks through mutual friends and she constantly messages me and wants to be around me all the time. She invited me her place last night and we slept together, lots of heavy petting but she wouldn't let me bang yet. I had to leave town for the night and she was messaging me all day saying she was keen to hook up when I get back.

The messages progress to how she is talking to a guy at a bar she is at and that he's staying at a hotel nearby (and what hotel number he's staying in). And then later on in our group chat, messages everyone to say she isn't coming home as she's in this hotel room with this guy.

I know we aint exclusive and she's still single so she has done nothing wrong technically. But I'm still kinda mad at her. What do?
That must be an awful experience for you to endure.

I know a guy who is going through something similar and has feelings for a girl who is constantly spending time with other dudes.

He isn't allowed to get angry about it, but is.

Such is modern day living/dating.

Is you don't have strong feelings for this chick, just GTFO while you still can man.
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post 1645890713 08-28-2021, 12:36 AM
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She’s fort he streets. She doesn’t like you that much and will cheat given the chance.

With her, it’s just your turn. Srs
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post 1645891073 08-28-2021, 12:52 AM
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Thanks for the replies everyone and no sadly not a troll thread. I'm not going to pursue her that much is for sure but I also can't go straight NC on her as we work together, have the same social and we're all going on camping for a week next weekend ^^.

Can't just straight up ignore her and will have to comfront her about it eventually, she is still messaging me saying that she misses me and is looking forward to me coming back to town which I'm just ignoring right now. Not sure what I'm going to say to her because again, we weren't dating exclusively so TECHNICALLY she hasn't done anything wrong, but I still feel like I've be wronged in some way...
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
Thanks for the replies everyone and no sadly not a troll thread. I'm not going to pursue her that much is for sure but I also can't go straight NC on her as we work together, have the same social and we're all going on camping for a week next weekend ^^.

Can't just straight up ignore her and will have to comfront her about it eventually, she is still messaging me saying that she misses me and is looking forward to me coming back to town which I'm just ignoring right now. Not sure what I'm going to say to her because again, we weren't dating exclusively so TECHNICALLY she hasn't done anything wrong, but I still feel like I've be wronged in some way...
Excuse me? You're not trolling? Then you must either be stupid or do this sort of crap your self (casual sex), so you can't 'hate on the player' because this is part of 'the game'.

If you were talking to somebody in a romantic context and they go and bang somebody else, then you have all the rights in the world to never speak to that person again, or just to a minimal degree.

I think that it's obvious when two people are interested in each other past a simple friendship, and if the other person does not presume you have these boundaries in place, they are NOT worth your time.
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
Known this chick for a few weeks through mutual friends and she constantly messages me and wants to be around me all the time. She invited me her place last night and we slept together, lots of heavy petting but she wouldn't let me bang yet. I had to leave town for the night and she was messaging me all day saying she was keen to hook up when I get back.

The messages progress to how she is talking to a guy at a bar she is at and that he's staying at a hotel nearby (and what hotel number he's staying in). And then later on in our group chat, messages everyone to say she isn't coming home as she's in this hotel room with this guy.

I know we aint exclusive and she's still single so she has done nothing wrong technically. But I'm still kinda mad at her. What do?
Lol at American dating culture
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Originally Posted By NoGFnow
Don't confront boyo

Simply lose interest in her. Say that you started seeing another girl or an ex and play it off as having no impact on you.

If you confront her she WILL tell other people in your circle that you're possessive, controlling and a weirdo beta.

Focus on other girls, this one isn't for you.
You're right - that's a great exist strategy.

Sounds like a sh*t circle to be in either way thought.

BRB you're talking to somebody who you're romantically interested in only to find out that they banged somebody else - and then you're the crazy one for being turned off of that person?

I can't be the only person who is crazy and thinks that that is ridiculous.
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A lot of you are failing to realize she said she was gonna stay at his hotel in the GROUP chat OP is a part of.

So shes prolly just telling people shes ok and isn't heading home. She owes no loyalty to OP at all.....
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Originally Posted By turokturok5
Thanks for the replies everyone and no sadly not a troll thread. I'm not going to pursue her that much is for sure but I also can't go straight NC on her as we work together, have the same social and we're all going on camping for a week next weekend ^^.

Can't just straight up ignore her and will have to comfront her about it eventually, she is still messaging me saying that she misses me and is looking forward to me coming back to town which I'm just ignoring right now. Not sure what I'm going to say to her because again, we weren't dating exclusively so TECHNICALLY she hasn't done anything wrong, but I still feel like I've be wronged in some way...
Don't confront her, just lose interest in her, dont pay her any attention, no texting, the bare minimum when talking face to face and always be the first one leaving the interaction as if you have somewhere else to go... eventually the slut will try to talk to you (in the camping maybe) and she'll say "is anything wrong? why are you being so cold to me" or some sh*t, just say that you think its best if you two remain friends. Don't go into details, if she ask if it's because of the other dude just said that you are seeing other girls and you see her more as a friend. You will friendzone her and then you can go focus on other women and sooner or later this slut will try to hook up with you.

you have every reason to be mad btw.
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Bang her roommate if she has one, doesn’t matter if it’s male or female
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Heavy petting and no bang? Wow, I haven't heard that phrase since I was 13, how old are you OP?
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Originally Posted By santisica
Don't confront her, just lose interest in her, dont pay her any attention, no texting, the bare minimum when talking face to face and always be the first one leaving the interaction as if you have somewhere else to go... eventually the slut will try to talk to you (in the camping maybe) and she'll say "is anything wrong? why are you being so cold to me" or some sh*t, just say that you think its best if you two remain friends. Don't go into details, if she ask if it's because of the other dude just said that you are seeing other girls and you see her more as a friend. You will friendzone her and then you can go focus on other women and sooner or later this slut will try to hook up with you.

you have every reason to be mad btw.
Spoken like a true 23 year old

I've had this sh*t happen before and i just stop talking to the other person and exchange pleasantries when i see them - it's their choice what they choose to do, and there's no need for more game playing.

Although it might not appeal to your 23 year old ego, my approach is the pragmatists choice when it comes to dealing with these issues.

People who do this know what they are doing, and understand why - these are their standards.
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Doesn't sound like she's into you at all. I have 5 **** buddies and all of them claim I'm the only one they are ****ing even though they all know I am smashing multiple women. Not saying that's true but thr point is they will try and be on their best behaviour when trying to impress someone they want to date.
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Doesn't sound like she's into you at all. I have 5 **** buddies and all of them claim I'm the only one they are ****ing even though they all know I am smashing multiple women. Not saying that's true but thr point is they will try and be on their best behaviour when trying to impress someone they want to date.

I'd bang anyways, just don't be an idiot and catch feelings for the first sloot who gives up a bit of pussy
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