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post 1646431123 09-05-2021, 01:18 PM
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How do you meet girls offline IRL?

I deleted Tinder a few months ago because I'm just sick of online dating. I've had great success over the last decade, I'm not complaining, but something changed and now I'm turned off by meeting girls online and I just don't give a f*ck about them and don't respect them

I moved in a new city and don't know anyone, so I can't hit the bars with the boyos to hit on girls, I can't organize/go to parties and meet girls through social circle, I'm getting old and can't stalk the shopping malls in predator mode to seduce young glowy primes, I'm also an introvert so it's hard to find the energy to socialize out alone

So what's left? How do you meet girls offline IRL when you're by yourself?
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post 1646431353 09-05-2021, 01:21 PM
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Kpop audition and friend’s house party for me.
post 1646431443 09-05-2021, 01:22 PM
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…gym?
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post 1646431493 09-05-2021, 01:23 PM
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Be giga Chad and it really doesn’t matter

You meet women anywhere and everywhere

It’s just the younger generation is weirded out by it unless you’re a top 5% male

Everyone young meets ONS/FWB and partners on tinder and IG mostly

Sorry , wish I had more advice ?

Source : just turned 24 at the end of July
post 1646431803 09-05-2021, 01:27 PM
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post 1646431813 09-05-2021, 01:27 PM
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So the point is to make friends with as many people as possible - even if you don't meet a woman at an event, having a large network makes it easier to have those friends help you find someone.

If you live in a large city, join a local biking or running group. Go to local cultural appreciation events (oktoberfest, taste of greek, german, etc food) and art shows. We have a few music pavilions in the metroplex where local and small artists play. Comedy shows are always teeming with groups of single women.

You could always join an organized religion, if you're into that kind of thing.
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post 1646431943 09-05-2021, 01:29 PM
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You can still go to bars by yourself. Just say you're new in town.
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post 1646432243 09-05-2021, 01:35 PM
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Originally Posted By donkeydonger⏩
So the point is to make friends with as many people as possible - even if you don't meet a woman at an event, having a large network makes it easier to have those friends help you find someone.

If you live in a large city, join a local biking or running group. Go to local cultural appreciation events (oktoberfest, taste of greek, german, etc food) and art shows. We have a few music pavilions in the metroplex where local and small artists play. Comedy shows are always teeming with groups of single women.

You could always join an organized religion, if you're into that kind of thing.
This is the guaranteed best way to meet chicks imo

The only problem is that this is quite difficult if you’ve moved cities/states.
post 1646432503 09-05-2021, 01:39 PM
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Solo moded a bar last night and got nowhere. In 4 help.
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post 1646432583 09-05-2021, 01:41 PM
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Try the men’s locker room of your local gym
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post 1646432663 09-05-2021, 01:42 PM
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just go up and say hi
post 1646432823 09-05-2021, 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted By FA*******⏩
Solo moded a bar last night and got nowhere. In 4 help.
Don’t go to a bar yourself, I don’t care what anyone says it’s a terrible idea.

Chicks are usually there in a group and when she or her friends realize you’re there by yourself they’ll quickly make their excuses and leave.

Online or through friends is absolutely a better way.
post 1646432913 09-05-2021, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted By RhysWirral⏩
Don’t go to a bar yourself, I don’t care what anyone says it’s a terrible idea.

Chicks are usually there in a group and when she or her friends realize you’re there by yourself they’ll quickly make their excuses and leave.

Online or through friends is absolutely a better way.
Lol no … just no

When I used to bar hop this wasn’t the case
post 1646433003 09-05-2021, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted By RhysWirral⏩
Don’t go to a bar yourself, I don’t care what anyone says it’s a terrible idea.

Chicks are usually there in a group and when she or her friends realize you’re there by yourself they’ll quickly make their excuses and leave.

Online or through friends is absolutely a better way.
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post 1646433173 09-05-2021, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnybigballs0⏩
I’m an SD brah, where do you usually party? Downtown or Pb? North park maybe?

My friends r all gay little ***s that don’t go out, so I’m going to try solo.
SD crew checking in. Let's solo this chit together, brah.
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post 1646433203 09-05-2021, 01:52 PM
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post 1646433253 09-05-2021, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted By skinnybigballs0⏩
I’m an SD brah, where do you usually party? Downtown or Pb? North park maybe?

My friends r all gay little ***s that don’t go out, so I’m going to try solo.
When I did I hit a lot of dive bars and just said I was there for the music

I’m actually down to go bar hoping with some SD brahs but I don’t want to end up a lampshade in some dudes apartment in PB
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lol they are boyfriends now
post 1646433403 09-05-2021, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted By dogorman7⏩
When I did I hit a lot of dive bars and just said I was there for the music

I’m actually down to go bar hoping with some SD brahs but I don’t want to end up a lampshade in some dudes apartment in PB
If you're cool with ending up as a lampshade in North County, I'm your guy.

Went to a bar in Little Italy last night tho cause the North County bar scene is ghey as fuk. BRB what chain bar loaded with 50 year old men do you want to go to next....
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post 1646433533 09-05-2021, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
You can still go to bars by yourself. Just say you're new in town.
This also works even if you’re not. Say you’re just checking out the scene since you moved there x amount of time ago and haven’t had the chance to explore the cities scene yet

Works enough in San Diego to make women think you’re not a creep
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Originally Posted By dogorman7⏩
Be giga Chad and it really doesn’t matter

You meet women anywhere and everywhere

It’s just the younger generation is weirded out by it unless you’re a top 5% male

Everyone young meets ONS/FWB and partners on tinder and IG mostly

Sorry , wish I had more advice ?

Source : just turned 24 at the end of July
35 brah here.

No brag, but my whole life I pretty much floated from relationship to relationship. Didn't try too hard at it. 6'-2", 215 lbs and can be as outgoing as I care to be.

Met women everywhere. Literally everywhere.

Had a girl I didn't even remember keep my receipt at a skate rental place i was at with a sloot, and use it to get my phone number somehow. She really worked for those creampies...

Online dating makes me lol. How could you connect or stand out at all when you are just a swipe and a pic, or whatever?

When you meet someone irl, the stage is yours. Easy as pie brah.
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Just follow them home from the supermarket and watch them for a few weeks. Then you get to know more about them before talking to them in person. Makes everything a lot easier
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Originally Posted By Saiyanbrahh⏩
…gym?
I don't like to sh!t where I eat, I don't want to ruin my gym experience and feel awkward every time I go to the gym after having failed at picking up gym sloots
Originally Posted By DeputyDong5⏩
work... gym... dog park...?
I work from home on online business, no coworkers either, doesn't help much hehe, and I don't own a dog, but maybe I could go to the dog park with a plushy
Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
You can still go to bars by yourself. Just say you're new in town.
I tried it a few times many years ago, I had success and banged a girl in the bar's bathroom which pissed off the bouncer and he was banging on the door trying to cockblock me. But I was high on nootropics anti-anxiety meds though, maybe I should try again to get rid of anxiety and go hit it up alone again
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just go up and say hi
Works every time
Originally Posted By DoULikeDaggers⏩
Just turn into a gay man it’s easier
Thinking about it
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Originally Posted By POSTMAKER⏩
Before covid, networking mixers or meetups or other events were great.

Now, go to parks or areas with lots of hot girls walking dogs or hanging out and just ask a question. "Cute dog! Is that a shih-tzu?" "Excuse me, I'm new here, do you know if there are tennis courts nearby?" Then you open a convo and from there introduce yourself and after a few minutes of talking ask for her number.
That’s gonna be extremely time consuming just to get a yes , much less someone who doesn’t flake/ghost unless you’re giga Chad.
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Originally Posted By donkeydonger⏩
So the point is to make friends with as many people as possible - even if you don't meet a woman at an event, having a large network makes it easier to have those friends help you find someone.

If you live in a large city, join a local biking or running group. Go to local cultural appreciation events (oktoberfest, taste of greek, german, etc food) and art shows. We have a few music pavilions in the metroplex where local and small artists play. Comedy shows are always teeming with groups of single women.
Seems like the way to go, I should get off my lazy ass and go out to events

Making/keeping friends is n0t easy though, I enjoy being alone at home 95% of the time, and by the time I'm ready to socialize again, the people I met 4 weeks ago already forgot about me

But that's something I must work on, can't make this an excuse
Originally Posted By Hutrapper⏩
No brag, but my whole life I pretty much floated from relationship to relationship. Didn't try too hard at it. 6'-2", 215 lbs and can be as outgoing as I care to be.
mirin and jelly, to some people everything comes naturally and easy, but we're not all blessed with top chad tier genetics and personality
Originally Posted By lnvictus⏩
Also seen sloots in thrift shops and looked open to approach, seen some in various outdoor settings where they are alone
Yeah alone sloots are everywhere, I just don't have the balls to approach them during the day fully sober
Originally Posted By POSTMAKER⏩
Then you open a convo and from there introduce yourself and after a few minutes of talking ask for her number.
There's a language barrier in the new place I'm in that complicates conversation, people hardly speak english and I hardly speak spanish, I can ask for simple things but can't keep a conversation, every time I try I look like a child speaking his first words, it's definitely not alpha nor romantically charming
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