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post 1647564993 09-22-2021, 03:21 PM
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Dating 35+ is interesting territory.

Let me first preface that I take care of myself, I work out, I eat good, self employed. I have no kids, no drama.

I don't actively date, but I've noticed that in your 30's dating is interesting to put it lightly.

Lots of divorced women, or women with kids, or women with trust issues... but also an insane amount of expectation/standards.

Now I see why older men date younger women, makes it so much clear.
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post 1647565193 09-22-2021, 03:24 PM
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It's a fun age group to pull from a bar and sleep with a couple of times.

But even based on those encounters couldn't imagine dating them.
post 1647565283 09-22-2021, 03:24 PM
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it's a f**king disaster out there!
post 1647565323 09-22-2021, 03:25 PM
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I'm hoping that society evolves to learn that women over 30 need to have way lower standards then when they were in their prime. Unfortunately society lies to women and will continue in doing so because thats where the money is
post 1647565363 09-22-2021, 03:26 PM
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I don’t even pay attention to women over 25, I’m dead srs. I just go for young girls, they are hotter anyway and just overall more chill
post 1647565413 09-22-2021, 03:27 PM
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All single women over 40 are batchit fuking crazy.

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post 1647565443 09-22-2021, 03:27 PM
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its because there are cucks that give attention to fat chicks and 4/10s. Guys need to cut out that simp **** for women that don't deserve it and then there wouldn't be those insane standards, then they will come back to reality.
post 1647565463 09-22-2021, 03:27 PM
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post 1647565573 09-22-2021, 03:29 PM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
it's a f**king disaster out there!
Lots of lonely women out there, they'll do anything to rope a man in.
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post 1647565603 09-22-2021, 03:30 PM
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Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
post 1647565923 09-22-2021, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
Seems like the roles reverse, the guys who were the dweeb / incel looking weirdos who picked up lifting, grooming and learned how to better themselves aged better.
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post 1647566073 09-22-2021, 03:35 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
Originally Posted By thadderbox⏩
Seems like the roles reverse, the guys who were the dweeb / incel looking weirdos who picked up lifting, grooming and learned how to better themselves aged better.
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post 1647566323 09-22-2021, 03:38 PM
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post 1647566513 09-22-2021, 03:41 PM
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fuk man.. must get really depressing..

even since hitting 30.. its gotten much worse.
Hookups arent really a thing cuz girls have already been doing that since they were like 14 and are tired of it(I lost virginity at 26 so its different for me).

and the girls all basically care more about your career and money than your muscles/ looks..
not to mention a lot have kids and stretched poos and baggage from past chads using them..

being a late bloomer who started dating at 26 is brutal..
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post 1647566593 09-22-2021, 03:42 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
fuk man.. must get really depressing..

even since hitting 30.. its gotten much worse.
Hookups arent really a thing

and the girls all basically care more about your career and money than your muscles/ looks..
not to mention a lot have kids and stretched poos and baggage from past chads using them..

being a late bloomer who started dating at 26 is brutal..
Same boat, I started dating at 25. I'm doing alright though I guess all things considered.
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post 1647566773 09-22-2021, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted By BigTimeOperator⏩
Women who were once full of glow who end up with leathery skin and haggard are in denial a lot. I've seen it all too often.

Part of me feels kind of bad for them, but then, they could have invested their youth and beauty and virginity in a good young man with prospects instead of the easy THOT path they took.
Yep, that second part x 100
post 1647567123 09-22-2021, 03:49 PM
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just lol at miscers wasting their 20's being insecure and gymmaxing instead of socialmaxing. then they hit 30's and are buff and good looking but all the chicks are used up and fading. maybe you'll get a young 20 year old but doubt it since mentally they will be much different then you. brb they are posting on insta/tiktok while you post on some dying gay indian forum JUST LOL
post 1647567343 09-22-2021, 03:52 PM
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There's definitely a lot of really worn out women in the older crowd. They are fantastic for FWB relationships though and definitely super easy to get laid with.
post 1647567393 09-22-2021, 03:52 PM
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Just date younger bro.
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post 1647567433 09-22-2021, 03:53 PM
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Originally Posted By CodyZellery⏩
Just date younger bro.
yea im confused. These dudes OD'd on milf porn if they think women look better past 30
post 1647567693 09-22-2021, 03:56 PM
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Originally Posted By XterraRob⏩
As someone entering their mid-thirties and back on the market, I am not looking forward to it.

Will probably stick to those in the27-32 range, no children. Divorced or not, don't really care.
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post 1647568263 09-22-2021, 04:02 PM
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I was single in my late 30's and dating was not an issue for me. Wasn't well off financially at the time or in great physical shape either (but I wasn't fat).

Winning personality though.
and you were in a time where there was no dating apps so count your blessings that you don't deal with that bullchit.
post 1647568623 09-22-2021, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted By -
I was single in my late 30's and dating was not an issue for me. Wasn't well off financially at the time or in great physical shape either (but I wasn't fat).

Winning personality though.
yeah and i'm sure you had 10s lining up at the door.
post 1647568943 09-22-2021, 04:10 PM
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your forgot
that they
smell like cheese
and toast
post 1647569313 09-22-2021, 04:16 PM
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For some reason after I had a kid with my current GF i dont really worry about this chit anymore. I guess because I achieved what some would say is the ultimate goal, and had a son. Still got to raise him, but if I broke up with the GF, I guess I wouldn't have any pressure to put up with chit women anymore. Would hope to be married, but had a kid and that is why i would get married anyway. So if I dont have pressure on myself to find a woman to settle down with, there is very little incentive to deal with sloots discussed in this thread. Thats how we gotta be boyos, just gotta be indifferent to these biches. But I can understand the pressure a single guy may have to find the one, settle down and raise a family.

Just because someone offers you a sloppy peanut butter sandwich, doesn't mean you have to eat it. You can always be patient (might get a little hungrier), and wait for that Ribeye steak with the fat ass who likes to give head. One good thing about men is we have more time.
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Yeah, the most ridiculous part is the higher expectations while having less to offer and shyt.

2 kids, over the hill, significant baggage, etc - but want some guy to actually take them seriously/"treat them like a lady"/whatever. Fortunately I don't give a shyt.
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Originally Posted By Kiop⏩
your forgot
that they
smell like cheese
and toast
I can't eat bread anymore and I love cheese so this doesn't seem all that bad. What do they taste like? Sour cream and ricotta?
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Originally Posted By insidemane⏩
I don’t even pay attention to women over 25, I’m dead srs. I just go for young girls, they are hotter anyway and just overall more chill
yup, cute, smell good, always happy. By late 20s they are worn down from the life of a man, which is working, paying bills, debt etc. The only happy ones who have a daddy to take care of them, biological or otherwise.
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