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Thread: Dating 35+ is interesting territory.

post 1647609033 09-23-2021, 08:18 AM
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what the fuk do you talk about with a 22 yr old when you're 20 yrs older than them? tik tok and tanning doesn't qualify as good conversation
post 1647609303 09-23-2021, 08:23 AM
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
so you're a 42 year old divorced single dad? you think a quality hot girl in her 20s wants anything to do with you? maybe if you're super wealthy or look like a young Brad Pitt. otherwise, i've got some bad news for you.
no kids, do pretty well, and from what I can tell girls in their upper 20s seem to be thirsty. We'll see.

Most of my divorced friends had a good time with younger girls for a while then ended up with other divorced women closer to their age range.

I don't have a plan and just enjoying being solo right now.

(and I couldn't even seriously tolerate a young girl and that mentality anyway, just talking crap on the misk)
post 1647609373 09-23-2021, 08:23 AM
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Do you think chicks in their 20’s would be proud to tell their parents/friends that their boyfriend is 42? Think about it.
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Originally Posted By sabusake⏩
what the fuk do you talk about with a 22 yr old when you're 20 yrs older than them? tik tok and tanning doesn't qualify as good conversation
What the fuk do you talk about with any woman, regardless of age? They're all boring, retarded, generic, useless specimen's who are only paid attention to because they own a vagina (srs)
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In my 30s and it's been "interesting" regardless of age group. Dating culture is retarded, right now. Dating apps momentarily evened the playing field, then they nerfed the apps, put them behind paywalls, and catered to females despite females not needing any catering as they just pick and choose among hundreds of matches. Guys get nerfed in the algorithm to wring cash out of them.
Marriage is a joke, why would you bet half your sh!t against a woman's loyalty when culture is constantly telling them loyalty = subservience to the patriarchy? Why would you get married when the laws are rigged against you? Your wife could fuk the mailman and get awarded half your sh!t for it. You could find out your child is actually another man's, the woman and child can move back in with him, and you could still wind up footing the bill for 18 years, and the kid resenting you every step of the way.

Fuk dating and marriage, just stay single unless you find a diamond in the rough that isn't some Marxist hyper-sloot.
post 1647609623 09-23-2021, 08:27 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Do you think chicks in their 20’s would be proud to tell their parents/friends that their boyfriend is 42? Think about it.
You're looking at this wrong IMO, especially if the fact that he's 42 overshadows all of the other, more important things that she's telling her parents/friends. If that 42 year old is successful, attractive, cool, fun to be around, has a lot of great stories / wisdom that come with age, then the fact that he's 42 is pretty negligible.
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post 1647609783 09-23-2021, 08:29 AM
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Originally Posted By ZeroPercentTip⏩
What the fuk do you talk about with any woman, regardless of age? They're all boring, retarded, generic, useless specimen's who are only paid attention to because they own a vagina (srs)
Repped. What he wrote is what past wall women use to cope.
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post 1647609923 09-23-2021, 08:32 AM
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You have given out too much Reputation in the last 24 hours, try again later.
Sadly single moms are going to be the only women available to me soon as I’ll be a single dad.
post 1647609933 09-23-2021, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The true test is whether they post you on their social media. Goes for any age guys. If they’re not posting pics with you they are not proud of you and not really into you.
This is why personal life should be off social media.

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post 1647610133 09-23-2021, 08:35 AM
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
This is why personal life should be off social media.
I'll probably end up FA because I cannot tolerate the amount of attention whoring that goes on with social media and seems to dominate 90% of female's brains.

Too bad they can't hurry up and perfect those sex robots.
post 1647611363 09-23-2021, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
I'll probably end up FA because I cannot tolerate the amount of attention whoring that goes on with social media and seems to dominate 90% of female's brains.

Too bad they can't hurry up and perfect those sex robots.
At the end of the day, we need to go back to the way it was when we were younger. Meet in person, talk, call, etc..No SM.
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The true test is whether they post you on their social media. Goes for any age guys. If they’re not posting pics with you they are not proud of you and not really into you.
Almost 0 women do this because then simps lose interest and if simps lose interest they stop following/pounding that like button.
post 1647611703 09-23-2021, 09:01 AM
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Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
At the end of the day, we need to go back to the way it was when we were younger. Meet in person, talk, call, etc..No SM.
Y-y-y-y-y-you too.
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Y-y-y-y-y-you too.
LOL always reminds me of the miscer who told the story about having sex for the first time and the girl is like "oh yeah whose poosy is this?" and he goes ".....yours?"
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
The true test is whether they post you on their social media. Goes for any age guys. If they’re not posting pics with you they are not proud of you and not really into you.
any young boys you hook up with are busy running out the door as fast as they can after the post nut clarity hits. they aren't posing for any pics with you. but i wouldn't be surprised if they take some pics of you surreptitiously so they can show their friends the old PAWG they just hooked up with.
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Originally Posted By WHChampion⏩
Almost 0 women do this because then simps lose interest and if simps lose interest they stop following/pounding that like button.
they get more pleasure from social media attention than they do from an actual connection with another human being.
post 1647613893 09-23-2021, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
no kids, do pretty well, and from what I can tell girls in their upper 20s seem to be thirsty. We'll see.

Most of my divorced friends had a good time with younger girls for a while then ended up with other divorced women closer to their age range.

I don't have a plan and just enjoying being solo right now.

(and I couldn't even seriously tolerate a young girl and that mentality anyway, just talking crap on the misk)
"Second rounders" as my step mom calls them, lots end up with a baby and baby-mama-drama caused by a young girl looking to trap an older guy with child support.


Edit* My point is: Be careful.
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dating women in late 30's. good lord. What's left is pure garbage.

women over 40? Just shoot yourself bruh.
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Originally Posted By GeezersPalace⏩
IF you're serious about dating in your 30s you have to live in a major center and it's GOAT life.Enjoy your land and your truck and your single mom with tyrone kids if you wanna live elsewhere lol
I don't think that is just a 30s thing.

more people = more potential partners
Originally Posted By TXBuddy⏩
At the end of the day, we need to go back to the way it was when we were younger.Meet in person, talk, call, etc..No SM.
Pretty sure you can still do that.

FWIW I think the pool of people willing to be in an LTR with a person old enough to be their parent has to be pretty damn small.
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Originally Posted By GordonXXX⏩
any young boys you hook up with are busy running out the door as fast as they can after the post nut clarity hits. they aren't posing for any pics with you. but i wouldn't be surprised if they take some pics of you surreptitiously so they can show their friends the old PAWG they just hooked up with.
It goes both ways. If we post young guys on our social media then people would think we are creepy older women. No thanks Jeff.

They usually share sexy pics with their guy friends. Unfortunately some young guys have screenshotted those and sent them to me, hoping for a hookup and finding me on social media after talking to their friend. Ugh.
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Worse part about dating older women (25+)
-"I've had my fun. Now I'm ready to settle down."
- Admitting they are 'damaged' because of how Chad treated them.
- "No hook ups because I'm holding out for a guy that wants to marry me." (After 30 chads have run through them).
- Fat. In debt. Kids in tow. Baby daddy drama.



Just date younger boyos.
Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Do you think chicks in their 20’s would be proud to tell their parents/friends that their boyfriend is 42? Think about it.
How do you think those girls would feel telling their parents they are dating Brad Pitt, who's 57? Do you think they'd be ashamed? Hide that relationship?

Mom would be elated for her daughter and dad would want to have a beer with/hang out with Pitt.


Its not about how old you are its about who you are. I work in really wealthy neighborhoods and its not uncommon for men to marry women 15-20 years younger. Especially wealthy guys.
From what I've seen most guys in their 60s-70s are married to women in their 40s. Some even have kids that are 16-20 and live at home.


Dudes who are wealthy AF and wait to build a family have the option of going younger. If your in your 40s there is no reason why a woman in her late 20s is out of play.
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Originally Posted By katya422⏩
I don't think that is just a 30s thing.

more people = more potential partners.
Exactly, especially since now we have a bigger pool to choose from due to migration from Afghanistan, Haiti, and Mexico. Win-Win, IMO.
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Originally Posted By guest89⏩
Just date younger boyos.



How do you think those girls would feel telling their parents they are dating Brad Pitt, who's 57? Do you think they'd be ashamed? Hide that relationship?

Mom would be elated for her daughter and dad would want to have a beer with/hang out with Pitt.


Its not about how old you are its about who you are. I work in really wealthy neighborhoods and its not uncommon for men to marry women 15-20 years younger. Especially wealthy guys.
From what I've seen most guys in their 60s-70s are married to women in their 40s. Some even have kids that are 16-20 and live at home.


Dudes who are wealthy AF and wait to build a family have the option of going younger. If your in your 40s there is no reason why a woman in her late 20s is out of play.
You're not wrong but do you remember the girls your age who were 18-23 and dated 40+ y/o dudes? They were 25% sexual abuse victims and the other 75% were the sloots that no one really cared who they dated cause she'd still put out every time the dude wasn't around. At least what it was like in the early-mid 00s when I was early 20s
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Originally Posted By TBO1313⏩
You're not wrong but do you remember the girls your age who were 18-23 and dated 40+ y/o dudes? They were 25% sexual abuse victims and the other 75% were the sloots that no one really cared who they dated cause she'd still put out every time the dude wasn't around. At least what it was like in the early-mid 00s when I was early 20s
I agree, that age range will mostly get sluts w/ daddy issues, and gold diggers.

That said, even well adjusted young women are innately attracted to established men. e.g. students & college professors. So for just sex; sure.
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35+? You should ask the young dudes how are they doing on the 18-28 dating market lol. Im guessing its not that much better.

Going for an attractive girl in her prime gotta be a mission impossible for 99.9% of men. These girls have just way too much leverage, and 0 pressure whatsoever. At least women 28+ realize their clock is ticking even if they still have tons of options for sex, young girls dont need to settle or commit unless they are 100% into you, and even that, it fades after a few months when the next Chad with diferent eye and hair color starts sliding trough the DMs




Dating all around is screwed up.
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Originally Posted By LethalGunz34⏩
Exactly, especially since now we have a bigger pool to choose from due to migration from Afghanistan, Haiti, and Mexico. Win-Win, IMO.
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Originally Posted By Ken-O⏩
35+? You should ask the young dudes how are they doing on the 18-28 dating market lol. Im guessing its not that much better.

Going for an attractive girl in her prime gotta be a mission impossible for 99.9% of men. These girls have just way too much leverage, and 0 pressure whatsoever. At least women 28+ realize their clock is ticking even if they still have tons of options for sex, young girls dont need to settle or commit unless they are 100% into you, and even that, it fades after a few months when the next Chad with diferent eye and hair color starts sliding trough the DMs




Dating all around is screwed up.
dating apps and social media messed things up because before you were competing against guys in her neighborhood/town, now youre competing against every chad/millionaire on the planet.

All these chicks are hopping from chads dinks to millionaires' yachts every weekend. Good luck getting a 7/10 or above long-term if youre not in either category
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^ yeah, with young chicks, anyway, the theory is that they would rather share a tall guy with a full head of hair, than have a regular guy all to herself.

Then when they get to be 30 and single mothers, reality hits them, so they are finally willing to settle for some Beta as long as he is a good provider. She lies to him about her sexual past, and he is blue pilled enough to accept that, too.
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You boyos are in denial, Sadly LooksMaximus who lol still think Thailand is thje goold old days said it best.

Even you you date a hot sloot, they are annyoing irritating, have a range of cleaning/maintenance products around the house always, wearing ****ty PJ's etc and it gets old and tired and annoying and sh@t to be with very very phucking quickly.
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