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Why would anyone ever date a woman over 30?

The only reason to ever do it is if she was 29 when you started dating.

There’s millions of women, younger, hotter, more glow, less baggage, less indoctrination, less bitterness, less urgency, more fertile, why would you go for older?

And lol and men who cope hard with “what do you talk about with younger women”. Err, everything? Wtf do you talk about with older women? How to deal with menopause and the challenges of infertility 101? How her exes “treated her so bad”. Her “challenging” you on your ideas taken right from his woman power handbook?

Thirded.

I’ve encountered this guy on the misc before and he always comes across as an angry lil’ *******.

It’s prob best to ignore him.

bump because more need to see the truth

It's horrible. You really need to get very lucky to find someone undamaged.

Thanks bro.

Checking in to lol @ Dusty srs.

There's literally nobody alive who isn't damaged one way or another. Men or women.

gotta add, only ever decent relationships i ever had with women were when we found each other out in the wild. I've gone on online dates with pretty women. Been invited to their house. Had some telling their friends about me. But while we were both attractive and not weirdos, it still wasn't natural because we met each other with intention and all that dating bs dynamic, knowing the other is still swiping right.

All my big relationships were from a friend of friend, or we met at random at either of our work days or out living life. Just seems to me that you get a more real connection with someone out there like that. Vibing the same way you vibe.

I know its easier said than done though. Everything is on dating apps and social media. And **** gets harder as you get older and lose your wingmen to settling down. But that out in the wild stuff is still there. Its much harder because you cant front and will only have success if you are in a good place personally. Plus I'm an introvert, and it takes effort for me to put it on and get a good conversation going where i'm leading things and escalating. I've worked a lot of customer service during college years, so i can do it, but it still takes work. Hats off to the naturals.

Get out there and conquer your life fellas. Go out there and bone life right there in public in the streets for everyone to see, and there will be some pretty girls with a cute lil booty who are curious. Much easier said than done.

Lesson to some of you young guys.

If you meet a great girl in college or whatever in your early 20’s and she’s got a good upbringing. Stay with her. Especially if she isn’t too active on social media.

Lock her up. The grass will not be greener.

At some point you will get bored and your dick will beg you to sample something else. Just ignore it. It’s all the same.

Focus on being a good bf/husband without being a bitch and mould her to be perfect for you.

Thanks to online dating and social media dating is a chit show now. It doesn't matter if you're a man or woman, young or old, it sucks. Everyone just wants to play stupid games. So you either deal with the games and crap or you opt out. I've been opted out for years. Not looking but open to dating if I somehow meet the right person. Every blue moon I'll download a dating app and look through it and am reminded why I opted out in the first place. lolThat's pretty crazy to me, as someone who rarely drinks and doesn't care if other people don't at all. I think if he was a recovering alcoholic I'd be really leary though. I grew up with an alcoholic stepfather who went to treatment multiple times and always fell off the wagon, so I would not want to date any recovering addict. I do like to have a glass of wine here and there or a drink socially so as long as they weren't a judgy mcjudgerson about that I'd have no issue with them not drinking.This is truth. I've been out to a popular super crowded bar and to a couple concerts this summer and it's amazing how many fat people are out there. The last concert there were 3 fat chicks who got food, like meals, in the general admission section. Like, who eats in the middle of the band playing?! You can't wait an hour? lolMaybe I'm weird or just selfish but I'm not into sharing at all. I'm also not interested in dating/being with more than 1 guy. Like Lucifer I want exclusivity in dating and if someone doesn't like it then there's the door.

The problem with this is you can control yourself but you can't control her. During the mid 20's lots of women change and adjust based on things like profession, social circle, etc. There's a ton of time there where people change, and women sometimes not for the best. It's why I always tell guys don't get into any type of serious relationship until you're at least 30. At that age you can still land younger women and have much better of a sense of who you are and they will be.

See this guy gets it. I had a perfect girl at 24 who became a complete monster in her late 20's. Thankfully I didn't go ahead a propose even though I had thought about it.

Lost on the many but the few you can reach with this message the better.

Achieving this will make so much difference and feel way more organic than dating apps.....these apps its almost like digital self arranged marriages.

My only input for this is you see a girl in a food court setting and she is eating alone......go for it.
The one and only time in life I worked up the courage was seeing this hot girl eating alone and I asked why a pretty girl is eating all alone and if she wanted company. She smiled and said ok all happily and in my brain I am freaking out cause now I have to go through with it....getting what you want but anxiety wise wishing you didn't. ITS WORTH IT and will feel amazing.

I copped out and went into years and years of all the dating apps which was fine with digital grocery shopping and picking what I wanted but never gets that self fulfilling proud feeling as what I did that one time.


As for the food court chick....she was a sloot.......LOL

Yes this is very true but you have to really analyze her.

I’ve seen many guys including myself leave good quality girls at young ages because they felt like they were too young. Those girls have gone onto marry and have great families.

There’s risk with everything

This.Never.Happens

The weight thing is such a PITA these days. I hate that I'm automatically asking for an above average girl by trying to get a girl that's moderately in shape.

Another thread ruined by the misc grandmas that can't stop talking about themselves



Pathetic

Trump proves you wrong

Ill hook you in the gabber mate.

And by mate, I mean never my mate - Miss Piggy.

wrong

the guys that lock girls down in their early 20s are the guys that make them feel something. it isn't about looks actually. though being good looking helps

the sloots after 30 are more likely to be locked down by chad because by that age they are sloots that don't have innocent feelings anymore

and to be fair, sloots after 35+ really only look at compatibility and what you can provide.. so these wh0res are best avoided (esp. if they have kids.. unless you have kids too, then good luck boyo)

lol this, misc sucks now

depends what you're after

but you can easily aim for a younger age-range if you tick off a load of stuff that you already listed.

Daddy issues work in your favour.

Not weird or selfish. I was just saying that it *could* work given some ideal variables. I think that it has to be more difficult. But in some cultures a man having more than one wife has been the norm, not the exception. To me that is way different than cheating which implies deception and disrespect for a partner.

are you one of those Elon bots but like pre-beta version?

damn this society sucks af

well we can live untill 100 but basically at 38+ tour is over since you look like potato, you are simply just coping from now on