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post 1648038013 09-29-2021, 09:15 PM
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What's your tolerance for ex communication?

Mine is zero contact with any guy she ever slept with.

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post 1648038113 09-29-2021, 09:16 PM
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excommunicate / 10
post 1648038143 09-29-2021, 09:17 PM
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Zero of course. Girls will easily bang dudes they've banged before because it won't add to their body count
post 1648038223 09-29-2021, 09:18 PM
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post 1648038413 09-29-2021, 09:22 PM
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are we talking about our contact with ex-gfs? im always in north carolina for that. but if you mean who theyre allowed to talk to while dating: I did not let my ex talk to any guy over the phone (text, apps, calling). Call it controlling, call it whatever, but the only reason a guy would be messaging your girl is to fuk her. If youre ok with your girl messaging guys that want to fuk her, go ahead, but dont forget to lick the cum off your gfs vag after "her friend" creampied her
post 1648038493 09-29-2021, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So if you ever get married and your wife texts her ex happy birthday you will divorce her and give her half your assets and your house and your dog and your kids?
Lol @ getting married for this reason.
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post 1648038543 09-29-2021, 09:25 PM
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theres never any reason while in a realtionship with someone else to be contacting exs or past people youve had any sexual relations with


0 tolerance because i think its common courtesy
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post 1648038603 09-29-2021, 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks⏩
So if you ever get married and your wife texts her ex happy birthday you will divorce her and give her half your assets and your house and your dog and your kids?
Obviously she won't be alive per the OP. No communication. Means you can't text if you're 6 ft under.
post 1648038683 09-29-2021, 09:29 PM
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post 1648038963 09-29-2021, 09:32 PM
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post 1648039413 09-29-2021, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
Mine is zero contact with any guy she ever slept with.

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I talk to my baby mama all the time so does every dude with kids just sayin
post 1648039523 09-29-2021, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains⏩
I talk to my baby mama all the time so does every dude with kids just sayin
Kids involved is different, I should have specified that.

That's one ofmanyreasons to never get involved like that, unless you have your own kids.
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post 1648039533 09-29-2021, 09:45 PM
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By the time you marry a chick nowadays, you'll know if she will cheat. You're either ok with it or you get rid of her.
post 1648039553 09-29-2021, 09:45 PM
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Any guy at all. I do not have faith in women behaving themselves in Biden's 2021.

I'd either marry an heiress or use IVF.
post 1648039663 09-29-2021, 09:47 PM
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agreed

girls(in relationships) who I have history with still have me on socials, I find it odd and would never allow it myself
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post 1648039693 09-29-2021, 09:47 PM
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I've been excommunicated before, it was difficult. I have a low tolerance for it
post 1648039813 09-29-2021, 09:51 PM
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Originally Posted By xbluexhawkx⏩
agreed

girls(in relationships) who I have history with still have me on socials, I find it odd and would never allow it myself
Do they ever reach out to you? I had one reach out.

Felt bad for her bf tbh, just felt wrong. But I'd never do anything while they're together. I know some guys would though.
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post 1648039873 09-29-2021, 09:52 PM
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post 1648040073 09-29-2021, 09:56 PM
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A worthwhile girl shouldn't have any interest in speaking with exes. Maybe if they run into each other a "hello" is ok, but they should definitely not be messaging each other vie phone in any way. This seems like pretty much standard practice.
post 1648040383 09-29-2021, 10:07 PM
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Originally Posted By OliverHeldens⏩
A worthwhile girl shouldn't have any interest in speaking with exes. Maybe if they run into each other a "hello" is ok, but they should definitely not be messaging each other vie phone in any way. This seems like pretty much standard practice.
You say standard practice (and it obviously should be), but I think it happens a lot now and has been normalized to the point where you have to explicitly set the boundary.
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post 1648040473 09-29-2021, 10:09 PM
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You say standard practice (and it obviously should be), but I think it happens a lot now and has been normalized to the point where you have to explicitly set the boundary.
Yep, it obviously depends on the situation. But a good girl should not be interested anymore when she's actually serious and committed. If she's still talking to him, I'd say give her one ultimatum and gtfo if it happens again. I don't think most girls want to have sex with their exes once they've truly moved on though, so if they're still interested in that it's likely not time for her to be in another relationship.
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in a matter of speaking, past relationships never happened. That's my attitude on the subject with regards to relationships

Obviously I'm not the first guy she dated or got drilled by, but I sure as **** don't ever want to hear about any of it. There is almost zero reason to even bring up past relationships in a current relationship as far as I'm concerned. So with that in mind if she is still "besties" or whatever with her ex then that's a no go.
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Originally Posted By DolphinPilot⏩
So with that in mind if she is still "besties" or whatever with her ex then that's a no go.
You didn't answer the question though. Can she message guys?
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As stated above, if itโ€™s an ex involving children thatโ€™s different. Iโ€™d hope people would communicate as best they could with an ex so they can coparent like adults.

But for an ex gf!? No. He doesnโ€™t need me if he wants to keep her around.
I donโ€™t share.
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Originally Posted By Luc1fer⏩
You didn't answer the question though. Can she message guys?
Well as I said, past relationships are non-existent as far as I'm concerned, so no she can't.

It's also the old "exes are exes for a reason" line, too. It's hard for me to think there's a clean slate after a previous relationship if she is still in contact with an ex.
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Lol nope.... zero


If this was ever even a debatable topic in my relationship with a girl, that relationship would be over that same day.
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Originally Posted By exxtracool⏩
If this was ever even a debatable topic in my relationship with a girl, that relationship would be over that same day.
Ye I think even trying to debate it is a huge red flag.
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As mentioned before, only if kids are involved. Aside from that, the only other reason would be from a prior divorce where discussions regarding assets that can't be handled through accountants or attorneys.

Otherwise, hell naw.
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They must be willing to undergo experimental memory erasure or they are clearly not the one.
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