Thread: Never chase a woman
10-06-2021, 05:25 PM
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Never chase a woman
Attract.
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
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10-06-2021, 05:27 PM
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Funny you mention that OP because the other day I was told to Attract.
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
10-06-2021, 05:28 PM
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OP watched his first Coach Corey Wayne video. Great job!
Now here's some real advice...
Attract.
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
Now here's some real advice...
Attract.
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
10-06-2021, 05:29 PM
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Acutally. my close friend chased a woman and finally married her. She broke up after 5 years (before married), and he still chased her and got her back.
10-06-2021, 05:31 PM
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chase a check
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Originally Posted By RagnarChadbrok⏩
This is actually part of jewish mysticism that's called 'Kabbalah', which is transliterated to mean, 'divine receiving'.Attract.
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
Women who like you are not shy, will not play hard to get, and they will make it clear to you that they want to
If you don't experience this, it's because no girls like you. What will you accomplish by chasing dozens of them? You will probably get lucky and capitalize on good timing, good first impressions, etc. to get some pussy. But at the expense of your time, energy, and self esteem
Instead just invest all of that in to yourself. Only link with girls who are really in to you. Watch the quality of pussy you'll get grow, along with actual confidence.
This applies to relationship brahs too. She's pulling away? You're not gonna chase her back. Focus on yourself
The secret and purpose of life is to be present in the moment and live inside of love and ignore the superficial aspects of existence - to be content with nothing but your self, and to never chase anything in life, but to simply receive what God gives you.
When you're ready you shall receive.
I can say that based my own experience of life this is true, because nothing outside of me has every truly made me happy, in fact it's done the opposite.
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Originally Posted By hammerman1964⏩
So your friend spent most of his youth obsessed with one chick. She dumps him and destroys his pride. After a brief period of her taking diks, he begs for her back, and his prize is her. Real winner, your friend. She's for the streetsAcutally. my close friend chased a woman and finally married her. She broke up after 5 years (before married), and he still chased her and got her back.
Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
Originally Posted By TremblingEagle⏩
Reps. These guys get itchase a check
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10-06-2021, 05:44 PM
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Fully agree. If you're not getting laid, it's because you're unattractive. If you're unattractive, then chasing girls will get no results and is a waste of time. Instead use that time to work on yourself and become attractive
(And attraction is not only about looks, but also charisma, personality etc)
(And attraction is not only about looks, but also charisma, personality etc)
10-06-2021, 05:47 PM
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Originally Posted By Omnivium⏩
Agreed. If you're unattractive, then just become attractive.Fully agree. If you're not getting laid, it's because you're unattractive. If you're unattractive, then chasing girls will get no results and is a waste of time. Instead use that time to work on yourself and become attractive
(And attraction is not only about looks, but also charisma, personality etc)
(And attraction is not only about looks, but also charisma, personality etc)
10-06-2021, 05:53 PM
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Never chase a woman
unless you have an adequate amount of chloroform
unless you have an adequate amount of chloroform
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
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Faith Hill rejected Tim McGraw's marriage proposal three times before she finally said "yes"
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Originally Posted By ymer⏩
We're talking about the same principle, I'm just applying it to femalesOP advice is missing important information, what he actually means is that if you're worth your weight in gold, you will attract and keep people around you.
If you're worth your weight in coal, nobody will ever be attracted to you.
So his advice is actually useless, what he really should have said is that you should be a great person and good things will come to you.
If you're worth your weight in coal, nobody will ever be attracted to you.
So his advice is actually useless, what he really should have said is that you should be a great person and good things will come to you.
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad⏩
"Don't be her therapist, be the rapist" (Harvey Weinstein version)"Don't be her therapist, be the reason she needs therapy."
"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." (John 3:16)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wh1VU-_OF98
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Some would say this is “beta” behaviour because you are not going after what you want. But I agree with what you are saying OP, I’m not interested in a woman that needs to be chased. Never in my life has this worked out in my favour, as you said the ones who were into me made it really easy and were the ones chasing me. If you need to chase a woman it’s over.
Maybe my ego is just too big but I feel pathetic if I chase.
Maybe my ego is just too big but I feel pathetic if I chase.
10-06-2021, 06:17 PM
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Originally Posted By cannon300⏩
Isn't is alpha to be the guy who things just happen for though?Some would say this is “beta” behaviour because you are not going after what you want. But I agree with what you are saying OP, I’m not interested in a woman that needs to be chased. Never in my life has this worked out in my favour, as you said the ones who were into me made it really easy and were the ones chasing me. If you need to chase a woman it’s over.
Maybe my ego is just too big but I feel pathetic if I chase.
Maybe my ego is just too big but I feel pathetic if I chase.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
What is happy? Everything outside of myself has always made me happy. Eating a piece of cake, happy, donuts happy, sex with a beautiful women, happy, compliment from a beautiful women out of no where, happy, get a $10,000 raise, happy, go an an amazing vacation and get memories for life, happy.This is actually part of jewish mysticism that's called 'Kabbalah', which is transliterated to mean, 'divine receiving'.
The secret and purpose of life is to be present in the moment and live inside of love and ignore the superficial aspects of existence - to be content with nothing but your self, and to never chase anything in life, but to simply receive what God gives you.
When you're ready you shall receive.
I can say that based my own experience of life this is true, because nothing outside of me has every truly made me happy, in fact it's done the opposite.
The secret and purpose of life is to be present in the moment and live inside of love and ignore the superficial aspects of existence - to be content with nothing but your self, and to never chase anything in life, but to simply receive what God gives you.
When you're ready you shall receive.
I can say that based my own experience of life this is true, because nothing outside of me has every truly made me happy, in fact it's done the opposite.
Everything else in life I am never really "happy" I am either content and striving for more or just content. But most things within myself I am just content with and working on always improving.
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10-06-2021, 06:22 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
das itThis is actually part of jewish mysticism that's called 'Kabbalah', which is transliterated to mean, 'divine receiving'.
The secret and purpose of life is to be present in the moment and live inside of love and ignore the superficial aspects of existence - to be content with nothing but your self, and to never chase anything in life, but to simply receive what God gives you.
When you're ready you shall receive.
I can say that based my own experience of life this is true, because nothing outside of me has every truly made me happy, in fact it's done the opposite.
The secret and purpose of life is to be present in the moment and live inside of love and ignore the superficial aspects of existence - to be content with nothing but your self, and to never chase anything in life, but to simply receive what God gives you.
When you're ready you shall receive.
I can say that based my own experience of life this is true, because nothing outside of me has every truly made me happy, in fact it's done the opposite.
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Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
Yeah but you've attached your happiness to a set of conditions outside of yourself.What is happy? Everything outside of myself has always made me happy. Eating a piece of cake, happy, donuts happy, sex with a beautiful women, happy, compliment from a beautiful women out of no where, happy, get a $10,000 raise, happy, go an an amazing vacation and get memories for life, happy.
Everything else in life I am never really "happy" I am either content and striving for more or just content. But most things within myself I am just content with and working on always improving.
Everything else in life I am never really "happy" I am either content and striving for more or just content. But most things within myself I am just content with and working on always improving.
True happiness is simply being happy and content in the moment and not needing anything out side of your self to be happy.
All the stuff you'd mentioned is simply your response to your environment and various triggers, stimuli and triggers.
There is a secret way of living where those feelings and emotions can be elicited from within yourself, so you don't really ever get sad or discontent.
These are the mystical dimensions of life that the great sages, masters, and adepts speak of...
Life is so much more than what you can see.
Not arguing that the stuff you outlined isn't great, but when you are filled with the sweetest of emotions, a piece of cake cannot feel any sweeter than you do inside.
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Originally Posted By ymer⏩
you're annoyed by me because you're being triggered by my truth.You're an annoying person.
If you were a happy and content person, you wouldn't be annoyed by me, in fact you'd probably just skim over my post.
What i've learned in life is that anything which triggers you is something you need to explore to a greater degree within your self.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
I don't really have anything to be unhappy about though within myself or anything like that. I dont have any issues or demons or major stressors or anything like that, i have a great significant other so no relationship issues or loneliness issues, I have plenty of confidence, plenty of peace, I help tons of people all the time and get thanked all the time so I know im doing good to help other people, really its the little things and the experiences in life that make me happiest.Yeah but you've attached your happiness to a set of conditions outside of yourself.
True happiness is simply being happy and content in the moment and not needing anything out side of your self to be happy.
All the stuff you'd mentioned is simply your response to your environment and various triggers, stimuli and triggers.
There is a secret way of living where those feelings and emotions can be elicited from within yourself, so you don't really ever get sad or discontent.
These are the mystical dimensions of life that the great sages, masters, and adepts speak of...
Life is so much more than what you can see.
Not arguing that the stuff you outlined isn't great, but when you are filled with the sweetest of emotions, a piece of cake cannot feel any sweeter than you do inside.
True happiness is simply being happy and content in the moment and not needing anything out side of your self to be happy.
All the stuff you'd mentioned is simply your response to your environment and various triggers, stimuli and triggers.
There is a secret way of living where those feelings and emotions can be elicited from within yourself, so you don't really ever get sad or discontent.
These are the mystical dimensions of life that the great sages, masters, and adepts speak of...
Life is so much more than what you can see.
Not arguing that the stuff you outlined isn't great, but when you are filled with the sweetest of emotions, a piece of cake cannot feel any sweeter than you do inside.
Thats why I said what do you define as happy. To me happiness is having a high release of positive neurotransmitters and hormones effecting your mood. When you have inner peace and are very happy with yourself and your life you arent getting a constant dopamine or oxytocin hit. Those come from external experiences.
I think focusing too much on inner stuff is kind of a cope. We are given a finite amount of years of consciousness, and during that time its best to enjoy those years of consciousness and all consciousness is is consuming stimuli. Trying to have the most positive stimuli during your conscious period would be ideal I would think.
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Originally Posted By ymer⏩
That might be true to an extent, but i am trying my best and spreading the truth that i have received and know.If you were a content person you would not be such a pseudointellectual twit.
Originally Posted By Jestbrah⏩
Good on you if you're happy and content.I don't really have anything to be unhappy about though within myself or anything like that. I dont have any issues or demons or major stressors or anything like that, i have a great significant other so no relationship issues or loneliness issues, I have plenty of confidence, plenty of peace, I help tons of people all the time and get thanked all the time so I know im doing good to help other people, really its the little things and the experiences in life that make me happiest.
Thats why I said what do you define as happy. To me happiness is having a high release of positive neurotransmitters and hormones effecting your mood. When you have inner peace and are very happy with yourself and your life you arent getting a constant dopamine or oxytocin hit. Those come from external experiences.
I think focusing too much on inner stuff is kind of a cope. We are given a finite amount of years of consciousness, and during that time its best to enjoy those years of consciousness and all consciousness is is consuming stimuli. Trying to have the most positive stimuli during your conscious period would be ideal I would think.
Thats why I said what do you define as happy. To me happiness is having a high release of positive neurotransmitters and hormones effecting your mood. When you have inner peace and are very happy with yourself and your life you arent getting a constant dopamine or oxytocin hit. Those come from external experiences.
I think focusing too much on inner stuff is kind of a cope. We are given a finite amount of years of consciousness, and during that time its best to enjoy those years of consciousness and all consciousness is is consuming stimuli. Trying to have the most positive stimuli during your conscious period would be ideal I would think.
That's fine and i respect your opinion - all i know is that i've went from being a depressed kunt to feeling like i am on coke/ecstasy all day long, yet i do not take any sort of drug or even drink.
My mood and emotion basically doesn't change if i get more money or not, if a girl compliments me or doesnt, if i get sex or not.
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