She was the best man

every breakup is different so there's aceptions to every scenarios. also if she phucked u over and you take her back she can also be like damn hes dumb and abort just cause you took her back or took her back so fast. its all nice when you think about having her back but if you think about it logically and about how you feel day to day it may not be the best idea. dont also be too pushy. make her always guess about what youre doing instead of having the i want to be with you and only you and 100% vibe that chit will scare girls off. success is the best revenge bud and im saying that as a phrase and not implying you seek revenge. you will not want to be distant also but keep in mind if you move in too fast too soon ... you will sabotage yourself and ruin it. people want to stop feeling sad or not knowing what they they want and getting down to the bottom of everything right then and now and soon cause everything will be good and awesome but thats not the case. also she will test you and pick at your emotions. so if youre doing a good job carrying all of what i said she can say a remark thats a curve ball to see if youre just putting up a front. and ya exs come back mine i didnt talk to for 7 months saw me in a club and tried to talk to me and i slight stank faced and continued doing what i was doing and later on she cheated on her dude strattled me while i was talking and started making out and we phucked. was it good at that time? ya.

PART 2

in the morning i thought about that chit right away and i knew i didnt wanna be dealing with sad bullchit cause of the feelings so i ghosted. see i want her but i dont want to damage myself by doing that. and i pull seeeeexy asss girls all the time and have them hit on me without me making moves and some are more attractive bout me and the EX chemistry was too on point. when they see you love you and you care about whats best for you they see youre being an adult and they love that and will try to break u off to get more attention too. i had multiple girls tell me they were falling for me in less than a month and i just aborted(they were bad as phuck too) cause my mentality wasnt with them and i knew i needed to focus on me and myself and not bring my chit into someone elses life. anyways enough with my rant but pay attention to what i said and use it towards your situation. and dont let peoples bad actions towards you make you act in a way you wouldnt. what you want now or think you want may not be what you get when you get it. all my exs came back to me bru. all called and messaged and whatever you name it and cheated on their new dudes but im not with a single one of my EXs.

went on a little rant just typing what came to my head but i hope you get what im saying. number one rule is dont let your emotions play the role of your actions. sometimes whats hard even if its not calling her or whatever or even if shes messaging you alot and you wanna talk to her. back off and let her chase and put the effort in , even if you wanna talk to her so **** ing bad .. just relax and dont . if you just throw everything out there then shes got you in the palm of her hand and she can do whatever and even be like "ahhh damn he likes me this much and whatever and then gets spooked and reality kicks in" and now she wants nothing to do with u. but also u gotta ask yourself what type of person you wanna be with and you will only be loved if you love yourself. guide yourself with not calling all them sloots but just knowing the value of yourself and not being her emotional tampon or doormat and making it clear that youre nothing without her. then you just look dumb af and shes like ya... i feel like im writing alot . if you have any questions just DM me

try men

srs

see and you have ****s like this guy in his stringer and phuckin elbow and wrist and who know what else straps and chit who is probably like aged 40+ and think they look big in their avi (maybe for a middle aged woman whos ex husband looks like a PUG). dude has no definition but googles what attire pro bodybuilders wear and buys all of them so his porcelain elbows dont burst when hes pressing 20 lb dumbells. how about lifting instead of buying chit to make you look like you lift or you injured every tendon and ligament on your body. mite aswell buy a phuckin neckbrace while youre at it. and for phucks sake you put more filters on your photos than fat girl.

you telling him to try men is like if a bum was trying to be funny and make fun what someone was wearing while they are covered in piss and chit. know your place

LMFAO you'll get to the next girl and think "omg no girl is going to compare to this one! she's so perfect!" then it'll collapse (once again your fault) and you'll cry before the cycle continues. My advice is stop being such an emotional beta male SRS. GL


Blows my mind how so many older "men" are such ****g0ts SRS

Thanks for your reply brah. It was really helpful it reinforced what I know I need to do. I am aware that I have some sort of oneitis for this chick, I've been through multiple breakups and have been able to moveon once I smashed a hotter chick, but with this one it was just the chemistry. I know that if she does come back she will, but I can't expect things to always go my way anymore. I'll continue working on myself and never let myself go even in a serious relationship. Atleast if she does come back, I'll be in a better place, if she doesn't I still would be in a better place. Although I'm assuming she wouldn't come back as my friend saw her post in social media talking chit about me 3months after the breakup lmao. I've been NC for about 3months as well.

Yea normal males arent suppose to overthink about relationship stuffs, focus on your work hobbies survival, find joy in those instead

you gotta ask yourself "do you miss her?" or "do you miss being in love and finding someone you can be in love with?"

and dont even pay attention if shes talking chit. if all she does is talks chit and you just shrug it off and genuinely not care it makes you look good and her look like shes still not over you and chit. and everytime she opens her mouth about you people notice and you win. but i dunno why shes talking chit. she could be like "phuck beebell he slashed my tired and killed my dog" and youre like "yeah i did that but i havent talked to her or seen her in 3 months"lmao but for real everything just takes time. you have to be patient and thats the most important thing. everything thats the best always takes much longer to get then something average.

Don't be with other girls for a while


You're welcome

yeah same once and had sweating and insomnia but instead of feeling like a god i got all almost insecure like and i stopped cause whats the point of being jacked and and feeling and acting like that. no matter how good or jacked you are if you act like that its game over. gains were pretty good tho

Spot on brah. Thanks for your reply again. I just pretty much ignored the things she's been talking chit about. It was more on wanting to see someone with initials letter 'B' in hell, which is obv me lmao. I've kept quiet the whole time even though my friends kept telling me to call her out, I've still kept strict NC. I guess it bothers me because out of all my exes, none have talked chit about me as I've treated them all very well. I'm maybe just not used to the fact that someone hates me lol.

Get your test checked (srs)

Yeah I am extremely worried about effects from what they’ve done me and it’s going to be so costly bit Denver city council, along with criminal charges, Biden is going tj jail for that and other things, inova hospital is total loss, all law enforcement involved in transfer is going to jail just like the doctor. The company who created it may be held liable and lose their patent

And if not fully repaired and satisfied death penalties will come for many reasons and people

But still terrified me and I don’t know if I’ll be okay. I’ll just end up killing myself after I help the ladies and countries.

******** injection overdose no doubt on that

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