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Unknowingly smashed a girl with a 'bf', now she wants me SRS
Misc, I used to have a childhood bestfriend for over 10years, I've been in love/liked her for a long time because we just click on a different level, but ever since the pandemic started, we have lost contact for awhile. Anyway I've been hanging out with her the past few weeks and we started to get really tight. The feelings began rushing back and soon enough, things got hot and heavy and we smashed.
After this, she told me that she had to tell Ryan. Then I was like who the phuck is Ryan. She said that Ryan is the guy she has been seeing for a few months, and it was complicated, she said she was seeing him exclusively, but never loved him. I then began to get a bit emotional because it was obviously against my morals. I told her to leave, but then she hugged me and said that it'll be us against the world. She said that she didn't see a future with him, as she had some issues with him and that once we started hanging out, she thought that these issues she has with him would not matter if the issues were mine. I then got a flashback to when we were hanging out all the time and enjoying each other's company so much. Wat do misc, should I aware Ryan?
Cliffs:
-OP reunites with childhood bestfriend
-Start hanging out alot
-End up smashing
-Girl apparently is seeing someone
-Girl wants OP
After this, she told me that she had to tell Ryan. Then I was like who the phuck is Ryan. She said that Ryan is the guy she has been seeing for a few months, and it was complicated, she said she was seeing him exclusively, but never loved him. I then began to get a bit emotional because it was obviously against my morals. I told her to leave, but then she hugged me and said that it'll be us against the world. She said that she didn't see a future with him, as she had some issues with him and that once we started hanging out, she thought that these issues she has with him would not matter if the issues were mine. I then got a flashback to when we were hanging out all the time and enjoying each other's company so much. Wat do misc, should I aware Ryan?
Cliffs:
-OP reunites with childhood bestfriend
-Start hanging out alot
-End up smashing
-Girl apparently is seeing someone
-Girl wants OP
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Do you love this women? If so go get her tiger!
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Originally Posted By Joggernot⏩
and she’ll tell the next guy exactly what she told youTough break. Not your fault so don't feel bad.
If you choose to try and make something happen with her, you can expect to be the next Ryan tho :/
If you choose to try and make something happen with her, you can expect to be the next Ryan tho :/
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10-24-2021, 10:58 PM
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Originally Posted By Joggernot⏩
I'm on the fence really, on one hand really my dream girl, on the other, I don't want to get cucked. Surely she thought about this though? I don't think she'd throw away 10years of friendship just to cuck me? She did show me text messages between her and Ryan a few months back saying that she doesn't see an actual future with himTough break. Not your fault so don't feel bad.
If you choose to try and make something happen with her, you can expect to be the next Ryan tho :/
If you choose to try and make something happen with her, you can expect to be the next Ryan tho :/
10-24-2021, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
She’s getting pounded by Ryan as I’m typing this she loves Ryan’s Dink and Your personalityI'm on the fence really, on one hand really my dream girl, on the other, I don't want to get cucked. Surely she thought about this though? I don't think she'd throw away 10years of friendship just to cuck me? She did show me text messages between her and Ryan a few months back saying that she doesn't see an actual future with him
If only you had both.
10-24-2021, 11:06 PM
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Originally Posted By Robmnrd⏩
Church crimes, but tied forinb4 'but who was ryan' in every thread
Idc I work for Lockheed Martin for this reason
You say no Matta
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10-24-2021, 11:14 PM
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Originally Posted By pantiespending⏩
WotChurch crimes, but tied for
Idc I work for Lockheed Martin for this reason
You say no Matta
Jew bear George navy Chris delivery in Maryland or the world loses 12 trillion dollars
And has no guaranteed set path to 10 trillion plus annual savings
Idc I work for Lockheed Martin for this reason
You say no Matta
Jew bear George navy Chris delivery in Maryland or the world loses 12 trillion dollars
And has no guaranteed set path to 10 trillion plus annual savings
10-25-2021, 02:04 AM
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yeah i've done the same - even though it sucks when it happens to you the truth of the world is that she was never THAT tight with her bf if she cheated on him anyway.
If a chick truly loves a guy she won't stray and neither will he.
The reason i don't date is for the exact reason that you can't force somebody to feel a certain way about you - if you love the idea of a girl, but hate the fact that she wants to be ravaged by somebody who is not you, then you need to get your head checked.
We're all just highly evolved chimps at the biological level and girls will always stray and so will guys - we all chase more or 'something different', but it's really different ways to experience ourself.
For a lot of people, what it really comes down to is banging the most feminine female or the most alpha and masculine guy they can - this subconsciously causes you to feel the 'safest' and so you can feel the most love when you're with this person, that everybody else desires, since it's a rare commodity.
Most people would f*ck a sexually attractive person if they were left alone with them and had the opportunity - 9 times out of 10.
The only way that i've found to stop straying off is if your heart center/ heart chakra opens up and you lose all desire for sex, which is what i am experiencing now - then you simply don't have the desire for sex.
However, to maintain an open/unblocked heart chakra - you basically need to be in complete peace with the world and everybody who you feel has done you wrong, all the time - so good luck with that.
If a chick truly loves a guy she won't stray and neither will he.
The reason i don't date is for the exact reason that you can't force somebody to feel a certain way about you - if you love the idea of a girl, but hate the fact that she wants to be ravaged by somebody who is not you, then you need to get your head checked.
We're all just highly evolved chimps at the biological level and girls will always stray and so will guys - we all chase more or 'something different', but it's really different ways to experience ourself.
For a lot of people, what it really comes down to is banging the most feminine female or the most alpha and masculine guy they can - this subconsciously causes you to feel the 'safest' and so you can feel the most love when you're with this person, that everybody else desires, since it's a rare commodity.
Most people would f*ck a sexually attractive person if they were left alone with them and had the opportunity - 9 times out of 10.
The only way that i've found to stop straying off is if your heart center/ heart chakra opens up and you lose all desire for sex, which is what i am experiencing now - then you simply don't have the desire for sex.
However, to maintain an open/unblocked heart chakra - you basically need to be in complete peace with the world and everybody who you feel has done you wrong, all the time - so good luck with that.
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10-25-2021, 10:13 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe⏩
Fair point, but sex is biological afyeah i've done the same - even though it sucks when it happens to you the truth of the world is that she was never THAT tight with her bf if she cheated on him anyway.
If a chick truly loves a guy she won't stray and neither will he.
The reason i don't date is for the exact reason that you can't force somebody to feel a certain way about you - if you love the idea of a girl, but hate the fact that she wants to be ravaged by somebody who is not you, then you need to get your head checked.
We're all just highly evolved chimps at the biological level and girls will always stray and so will guys - we all chase more or 'something different', but it's really different ways to experience ourself.
For a lot of people, what it really comes down to is banging the most feminine female or the most alpha and masculine guy they can - this subconsciously causes you to feel the 'safest' and so you can feel the most love when you're with this person, that everybody else desires, since it's a rare commodity.
Most people would f*ck a sexually attractive person if they were left alone with them and had the opportunity - 9 times out of 10.
The only way that i've found to stop straying off is if your heart center/ heart chakra opens up and you lose all desire for sex, which is what i am experiencing now - then you simply don't have the desire for sex.
However, to maintain an open/unblocked heart chakra - you basically need to be in complete peace with the world and everybody who you feel has done you wrong, all the time - so good luck with that.
If a chick truly loves a guy she won't stray and neither will he.
The reason i don't date is for the exact reason that you can't force somebody to feel a certain way about you - if you love the idea of a girl, but hate the fact that she wants to be ravaged by somebody who is not you, then you need to get your head checked.
We're all just highly evolved chimps at the biological level and girls will always stray and so will guys - we all chase more or 'something different', but it's really different ways to experience ourself.
For a lot of people, what it really comes down to is banging the most feminine female or the most alpha and masculine guy they can - this subconsciously causes you to feel the 'safest' and so you can feel the most love when you're with this person, that everybody else desires, since it's a rare commodity.
Most people would f*ck a sexually attractive person if they were left alone with them and had the opportunity - 9 times out of 10.
The only way that i've found to stop straying off is if your heart center/ heart chakra opens up and you lose all desire for sex, which is what i am experiencing now - then you simply don't have the desire for sex.
However, to maintain an open/unblocked heart chakra - you basically need to be in complete peace with the world and everybody who you feel has done you wrong, all the time - so good luck with that.
10-25-2021, 10:23 PM
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Pics?
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Negged.
Why even waste time posting a response to Op?
No?
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Why even waste time posting a response to Op?
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
That's what i thought until i had this whole ego shattering spiritual transformation where i now know better than to fornicate to think that i'm 'cool' and to feel good about my self.Fair point, but sex is biological af
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10-25-2021, 10:48 PM
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
Negged for not getting pissed at her for not telling you before hand about her bf. Lol at not even mentioning how mad you are about it. You’re just all up in your feels like a little ****.Misc, I used to have a childhood bestfriend for over 10years, I've been in love/liked her for a long time because we just click on a different level, but ever since the pandemic started, we have lost contact for awhile. Anyway I've been hanging out with her the past few weeks and we started to get really tight. The feelings began rushing back and soon enough, things got hot and heavy and we smashed.
After this, she told me that she had to tell Ryan. Then I was like who the phuck is Ryan. She said that Ryan is the guy she has been seeing for a few months, and it was complicated, she said she was seeing him exclusively, but never loved him. I then began to get a bit emotional because it was obviously against my morals. I told her to leave, but then she hugged me and said that it'll be us against the world. She said that she didn't see a future with him, as she had some issues with him and that once we started hanging out, she thought that these issues she has with him would not matter if the issues were mine. I then got a flashback to when we were hanging out all the time and enjoying each other's company so much. Wat do misc, should I aware Ryan?
Cliffs:
-OP reunites with childhood bestfriend
-Start hanging out alot
-End up smashing
-Girl apparently is seeing someone
-Girl wants OP
After this, she told me that she had to tell Ryan. Then I was like who the phuck is Ryan. She said that Ryan is the guy she has been seeing for a few months, and it was complicated, she said she was seeing him exclusively, but never loved him. I then began to get a bit emotional because it was obviously against my morals. I told her to leave, but then she hugged me and said that it'll be us against the world. She said that she didn't see a future with him, as she had some issues with him and that once we started hanging out, she thought that these issues she has with him would not matter if the issues were mine. I then got a flashback to when we were hanging out all the time and enjoying each other's company so much. Wat do misc, should I aware Ryan?
Cliffs:
-OP reunites with childhood bestfriend
-Start hanging out alot
-End up smashing
-Girl apparently is seeing someone
-Girl wants OP
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Originally Posted By Bando⏩
Thanks brah. I really loved her for a long time, but I just can't bear the thought that I may very well one day be Ryan. Most likely I will proceed with cautionMade you green OP.
If you've loved her for a long time, fuk Ryan, take what's yours.
If you've loved her for a long time, fuk Ryan, take what's yours.
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Pretty savage she had to smash you before breaking up with him and couldn't do it as soon as she felt a spark.
More red flags are likely on the way but you are smitten so you'll have to go through this and figure it out for yourself.
More red flags are likely on the way but you are smitten so you'll have to go through this and figure it out for yourself.
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This happened.
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Originally Posted By skinnyfat88⏩
Yeah definitely, this is why I'm on the fence. I've been in love with her for years and seeing this girl who does some of the cutest stuff suddenly cheat on someone just like that opened my eyes. If it was a different case (e.g. no cheating) I would've taken her in a heartbeatPretty savage she had to smash you before breaking up with him and couldn't do it as soon as she felt a spark.
More red flags are likely on the way but you are smitten so you'll have to go through this and figure it out for yourself.
More red flags are likely on the way but you are smitten so you'll have to go through this and figure it out for yourself.
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Originally Posted By beebell12⏩
You feel how you feel, but aware Ryan. I don't agree with the idiots saying "phuck ryan". For all you know Ryan may be a decent guy...Thanks brah. I really loved her for a long time, but I just can't bear the thought that I may very well one day be Ryan. Most likely I will proceed with caution
And also like you said, why would trust a girl who smashed you while with another guy?
If you proceed with her, could you really complain if she cheated on you later? How could you trust her?
The assumption that you're better and different from the others? LOL
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