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post 1649764753 10-28-2021, 07:57 AM
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-Focus on yourself and self improvement
-Don't "always be there"
-They won't always tell you "No" directly, you have to read in between the lines because women are indirect communicators by nature
-They won't always say if they like you directly, so you have to look for the IOI's and proceed accordingly
-Be bold and direct, but not to the point of aggression
-"Girls just want to have fun" is true. They'll want to be around you more if they know that they can have fun with you
-Don't get angry at rejection, it leads to bitterness and resentment
-Women can smell desperation from a mile away, you can't mask it
Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I love nice guys srs

Nice guys are GOAT
You love nice CHADS.

CHADS are GOAT.


See? SS lied OP. I'd tell my 18yo self that all women are liars like the one above me.


On a more serious note I would honestly tell my younger self to not take dating advice from other women. They mean well, but will often tell you the exact opposite of what actually attracts them.
post 1649765133 10-28-2021, 08:03 AM
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When I was 18 I still had that mentality that I wanted to find the right girl for me and was never big into sleeping around. My best sexual experience was losing my virginity to another virgin (my first girlfriend). Then when I was 20 somebody I worked with ridiculed me non-stop for only having been with a couple girls and so, to 'prove myself', I started sleeping around. 10 years on where did that get me? I lost sight of what's important and that is finding the right girl - and now im in my 30's and that girl is married with children now in a loving productive relationship.

So my advice for an 18 year old is to be the best person they can be and more importantly be proud and draw confidence from that person to stand up for yourself and show yourself to the world. The women will come and you won't have blown your 20's chasing sluts.

Also 'nice guys' do finish last, if your definition of being nice is simping to get pussy. Just be a good, confident, normal person and realise rejection is more common than acceptance - but the one time things work out makes the other 99 times a memory. Also funny how the same women that reject you one day turn to you the next when they see you with somebody or are making gains - shows the type of character they have.
post 1649765513 10-28-2021, 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I love nice guys srs

Nice guys are GOAT
You like Chads who are nice to you. That's not the same thing. Being a nice guy is something much different. These are the guys in your friendzone who you'd never sleep with, but who will happily show up at 8AM to fix a flat tire for you so you can get to work, or would give you the $300 you need to pay your rent, without ever asking you to pay it back. They think they can earn your affection by doing nice things for you, never outwardly treating you like a sex object, and agreeing with all of your hair-brained ideas and opinions. Feminism controlling pop culture, absentee fathers, and single moms have created a couple of generations of men like this who are doomed to live unhappy, lonely lives because nobody ever told them it was ok to put their own needs first. Their entire lives, they've been taught to cater to the needs and wants of others (mostly women).

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post 1649766483 10-28-2021, 08:28 AM
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Would tell him to disregard sloots and acquire currency, but really mean it this time.
post 1649767003 10-28-2021, 08:36 AM
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Don't get a girlfriend in high school and then stay with her while at a party school living in a fraternity. Be a whore
post 1649767283 10-28-2021, 08:40 AM
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"talk to girls that you like and make moves on them fast, if not they lose interest just as fast"
post 1649774633 10-28-2021, 10:47 AM
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Originally Posted By Noahbro
"talk to girls that you like and make moves on them fast, if not they lose interest just as fast"
Fair point
post 1649774993 10-28-2021, 10:55 AM
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If theres better options available, take them.

Dont try to be in control if she goes its the way she goes.

Dont knock it untill you tried it.

Dont ask dont tell. (cheating, bodycount, EXs and all that bs)

Know when to cut your losses but dont be too quick to call it quits.

Be honest you lying little chit.




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post 1649775063 10-28-2021, 10:57 AM
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That I am better looking than I think I am and that a lot of the girls I was interested in during college were interested in me too
post 1649775163 10-28-2021, 10:59 AM
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dont pull out
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post 1649775193 10-28-2021, 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted By Silencespeaks
I love nice guys srs

Nice guys are GOAT
Negged for planting fake seeds of hope for all the betas.
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post 1649775313 10-28-2021, 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted By piramparam
If theres better options available, take them.

Dont try to be in control if she goes its the way she goes.

Dont knock it untill you tried it.

Dont ask dont tell. (cheating, bodycount, EXs and all that bs)

Know when to cut your losses but dont be too quick to call it quits.

Be honest you lying little chit.




RAWdawg or NOdawg, be a man.
These are all top tier Repped.
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post 1649776213 10-28-2021, 11:18 AM
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The only girl who's ever going to smile your way is going to do it about a year from now in March 2015. That's going to be the last gas station for 200 miles, boyo. Shoot your shot ASAP. Girls will not come later.
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post 1649776443 10-28-2021, 11:25 AM
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Treat them like chit and always call them out on their bs. Treat them like Queens when they’ve earned it.



They want the pimp hand. Strong, Consistently and Firmly.

Srs.

And of course, keep a full stable.
post 1649776523 10-28-2021, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By Noahbro
"talk to girls that you like and make moves on them fast, if not they lose interest just as fast"
This one is actually pretty good.


Its better to try, fail and move onto the next one then just waste time.

Originally Posted By Arem24
Treat them like chit and always call then out on their bs.

They want the pimp hand. Strong. Consistently and firmly.

Srs.
If you have your chit together and they want you. You can definitely treat them like they are replaceable. And they will take it.
post 1649776783 10-28-2021, 11:29 AM
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Cant do just one advice:

Hypergamy/sloots gonna sloot/humans arent monogamous etc. Id probably save myself quite some trouble lol
"The flowers bloom, then wither... The stars shine and one day become extinct. This earth, the sun, the galaxies and even the big universe, someday will be destroyed. Compared with that, the human life is only a blink, just a little time. In that short time - people are born, laugh, cry, fight, are injured, feel joy, sadness, hate someone, love someone. All in just a moment. And then, are embraced by the eternal sleep called death."
post 1649777303 10-28-2021, 11:39 AM
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As a follow-up, if you’re laying that good good, you can basically get away with whatever you want.

They forget quickly when they drip for you.
post 1649779173 10-28-2021, 12:12 PM
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post 1649779743 10-28-2021, 12:20 PM
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just focus on being a man. other than that its a numbers game. more practical and easy to solve problem than you think. not some great mystery. when you find a good one, slow down.
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post 1649780583 10-28-2021, 12:38 PM
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post 1649781293 10-28-2021, 12:53 PM
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They are NOT bags of sand!
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post 1649781453 10-28-2021, 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted By nineOHnine
Sloots gonna sloot
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post 1649781713 10-28-2021, 12:59 PM
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Actually learn how women interact and think. Don't just do it through YOUR lense. That means hanging around women you aren't ****ing, and watching popular women's movies and TV shows.

Do this for a solid 6 months and the world is yours.

It's imperative that you don't lose yourself in this process though. Keep up with your masculine activities.
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post 1649781803 10-28-2021, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Arem24
As a follow-up, if you’re laying that good good, you can basically get away with whatever you want.

They forget quickly when they drip for you.
Bang her well enough, you can cheat on her, disrespect her and she probably won’t leave.

If you bang a sloot and it’s the best she’s ever had, she will come back for more even if she is in a relationship if the dude is a cuck or can’t hit it right.
post 1649781813 10-28-2021, 01:00 PM
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post 1649782283 10-28-2021, 01:07 PM
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Adding to my own^.

Don’t actively date someone you are not 100% attracted to as you will get emotionally attached, smash and dash if you must.

Build a tolerance to getting rejected. Talk to people you meet in any situation, get comfortable talking **** with people. Women like confidence. Aim high, go for sloots you think may be out of your league.

Most sloots are very insecure, don’t be insecure, women want a leader.

Don’t meet their parents/family unless 90% sure you will be with them long term, will make a break-up harder.

Women will give you **** tests all the time, be straight even if it hurts their feelings.

All sloots wants to be smashed, most guys ain’t smashing, learn to smash well.

Tease sloots consistently, always keep them on their toes, never let them feel comfortable, always keep them guessing. Women like surprises and variation
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come in their mouths whilst fking their mouths

do anal

fk them outdoors

imprint on them. they will remember you for the rest of their lives
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Chicks wanna bang just as much/if not more than you do.
Go get em boyo
Also get to the gym
They’re way more into you when you’ve got some size on you





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Originally Posted By MiscInformed
You like Chads who are nice to you. That's not the same thing. Being a nice guy is something much different. These are the guys in your friendzone who you'd never sleep with, but who will happily show up at 8AM to fix a flat tire for you so you can get to work, or would give you the $300 you need to pay your rent, without ever asking you to pay it back. They think they can earn your affection by doing nice things for you, never outwardly treating you like a sex object, and agreeing with all of your hair-brained ideas and opinions. Feminism controlling pop culture, absentee fathers, and single moms have created a couple of generations of men like this who are doomed to live unhappy, lonely lives because nobody ever told them it was ok to put their own needs first. Their entire lives, they've been taught to cater to the needs and wants of others (mostly women).

https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/no-...ver/1121663068

Excellent book. Listened to it twice.
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Because you had secret evidence, and documents /
On how they raped the continents, and it's the prominent /
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post 1649784293 10-28-2021, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted By sword_
Excellent book. Listened to it twice.
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