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post 1651960273 12-04-2021, 10:24 AM
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Advice to incels

Stop being delusional, you aren't that good or attractive. If you have an ugly face, make up for it with a good smile, good body, good haircut or something.
The reason why you aren't getting laid isn't because females are whores, because social media, because of any other cope you want to say, its because no one finds you attractive overall.
You need to improve yourself in some way, socially, physically, or mentally, a girl hasn't fallen in your lap magically so far, so why do you think anything will change?
Change your negative mentality about females if you truly want one
post 1651960673 12-04-2021, 10:36 AM
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Nah im gud
post 1651960843 12-04-2021, 10:38 AM
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Originally Posted By BrooksKoepka
Nah im gud
fair enough, just stop being your toxic bs to the misc, I come here for funny ****, not about how no cute girl likes some ugly loner dude who doesnt even lift
post 1651961023 12-04-2021, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46
fair enough, just stop being your toxic bs to the misc, I come here for funny ****, not about how no cute girl likes some ugly loner dude who doesnt even lift
Okie dokie. Take care. Happy holidays.
post 1651961183 12-04-2021, 10:44 AM
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Your attempt will be fruitless

They won’t work on themselves and STILL expect a 7/10 to chase them down while hating everyone.
This body holding me, be my reminder here that I am not alone.
Makes me feel eternal, all this Pain is an Illusion.
post 1651962083 12-04-2021, 11:08 AM
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I think some men are delusional because what actually makes men attractive to women is not the same as what boys are told growing up.

Boys are told:
muscular
smart
funny
nice

will make them attractive to women

But literally none of that matters:
height
large chin
jawline
full hair

are what matters, and primarily genetic

So you've got men that are 2/10 on the looks scale that think they are 8/10
Best lifts:
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Squat: 465x1
Strict press: 205x5
Deadlift: 405x13 (conv tap'n'go with straps)
post 1651962193 12-04-2021, 11:10 AM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46
Stop being delusional, you aren't that good or attractive. If you have an ugly face, make up for it with a good smile, good body, good haircut or something.
The reason why you aren't getting laid isn't because females are whores, because social media, because of any other cope you want to say, its because no one finds you attractive overall.
You need to improve yourself in some way, socially, physically, or mentally, a girl hasn't fallen in your lap magically so far, so why do you think anything will change?
Change your negative mentality about females if you truly want one
What if women come up to you to chat pretty much constantly but you’re an incel because you never close the sale (mainly due to fear of having more kids). *asking for a friend*
post 1651962203 12-04-2021, 11:11 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
I think some men are delusional because what actually makes men attractive to women is not the same as what boys are told growing up.

Boys are told:
muscular
smart
funny
nice

will make them attractive to women

But literally none of that matters:
height
large chin
jawline
full hair

are what matters, and primarily genetic

So you've got men that are 2/10 on the looks scale that think they are 8/10
100% troof
post 1651962413 12-04-2021, 11:16 AM
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Things that are attractive to women:
- Facial Attractiveness
- Physical Fitness
- Height
- Confidence
- Charisma
- Humor
- Financial Stability (making good money)
- Ambition
- Passion
- Lifestyle (doing “interesting” sh*t)
- Social Status
- Backbone (not crumpling easily to confrontation, taking risks, reasonable aggression, etc.)

Most of these things can be developed, not that it’s easy.
post 1651962563 12-04-2021, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted By Composed
Things that are attractive to women:
- Facial Attractiveness
- Physical Fitness
- Height
- Confidence
- Charisma
- Humor
- Financial Stability (making good money)
- Ambition
- Passion
- Lifestyle (doing “interesting” sh*t)
- Social Status
- Backbone (not crumpling easily to confrontation, taking risks, reasonable aggression, etc.)

Most of these things can be developed, not that it’s easy.
I don't agree with:
- physical fitness
- financial stability (rich like bezos sure though)
- humor
- ambition
- passion

at all. No woman will ever be sexually attracted to a man because he told some funny jokes

I partially agree with
- confidence
- charisma
- backbone
because these things are mainly perceived by your attractiveness

If you are attractive people have a tendency to think you are confident and have a backbone just by looking at you. Like the halo effect


But thats all OK

It just means men should be realistic and should shoot for someone in their league rather than going for 5 points above

Giving guys delusion that they can go from a 2/10 to an 8/10 by taking a shower and reading how to make friends and influence people is helping nobody
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Squat: 465x1
Strict press: 205x5
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post 1651962683 12-04-2021, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
What if women come up to you to chat pretty much constantly but you’re an incel because you never close the sale (mainly due to fear of having more kids). *asking for a friend*
Then you're probably not an incel, but its probably something you should work on. Good for you, fear of kids or religion doesn't make you an incel, but if you're truly 34 the clock is ticking bro. Improve yourself and find someone who truly cares about you.
post 1651962693 12-04-2021, 11:24 AM
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incels are required to make everyone else feel better about themselves tbh.
post 1651962793 12-04-2021, 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
I don't agree with:
- physical fitness
- financial stability (rich like bezos sure though)
- humor
- ambition
- passion

at all. No woman will ever be sexually attracted to a man because he told some funny jokes

I partially agree with
- confidence
- charisma
- backbone
because these things are mainly perceived by your attractiveness

If you are attractive people have a tendency to think you are confident and have a backbone just by looking at you. Like the halo effect


But thats all OK

It just means men should be realistic and should shoot for someone in their league rather than going for 5 points above

Giving guys delusion that they can go from a 2/10 to an 8/10 by taking a shower and reading how to make friends and influence people is helping nobody
100% troof
post 1651962873 12-04-2021, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46
Then you're probably not an incel, but its probably something you should work on. Good for you, fear of kids or religion doesn't make you an incel, but if you're truly 34 the clock is ticking bro. Improve yourself and find someone who truly cares about you.
I make too much money to wanna split with another chick and give her some of it.
post 1651963283 12-04-2021, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted By Eatforgains
I make too much money to wanna split with another chick and give her some of it.
If its by choice then you're not an incel, as much as I hate the idea of a woman using me for money, I'd love to provide for one.
Find someone in your industry then, or get hot enough to marry a model...
If you truly care about a girl, I don't see why you wouldn't want to pay for them if they needed it
post 1651963353 12-04-2021, 11:36 AM
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I'm a genetic dead-end and I've made peace with it..... I spent my teens and 20s studying, then I spent my mid 20s to mid 30s building a career and missed out on the few possible chances to breed..... Now my goal is to bang as many h00kers as possible before I off myself because I'm terrified of being alone in old age....

....that's my cope.....
Everything I post is satire.
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post 1651964013 12-04-2021, 11:49 AM
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All incels should get slightly jacekd at a low bf

Wear exlusively Lulelemon clothing

Start skin care maxxing - healthy fats, retin-a, moisturizing

Get off the internet and social media - It's tough to not feel down about yourself when you're exposed to the highlights of everyones lives 24/7. Also if you're not getting laid, bombarding yourself with hot girls on social media can't be good

Careermaxx

Educationmaxx

Social life maxx

Incels should treat life like a video game where you're some sort of character and you just keep increasing your score via self improvement
post 1651964183 12-04-2021, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted By notbadnotbrad
All incels should get slightly jacekd at a low bf

Wear exlusively Lulelemon clothing

Start skin care maxxing - healthy fats, retin-a, moisturizing

Get off the internet and social media - It's tough to not feel down about yourself when you're exposed to the highlights of everyones lives 24/7. Also if you're not getting laid, bombarding yourself with hot girls on social media can't be good

Careermaxx

Educationmaxx

Social life maxx

Incels should treat life like a video game where you're some sort of character and you just keep increasing your score via self improvement
Or they can just date someone in their league, instead of doing all that and going from a 2/10 to a 2.5/10 and still failing to get with 8/10s
Best lifts:
Bench press: 315x5
Squat: 465x1
Strict press: 205x5
Deadlift: 405x13 (conv tap'n'go with straps)
post 1651964393 12-04-2021, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
Or they can just date someone in their league, instead of doing all that and going from a 2/10 to a 2.5/10 and still failing to get with 8/10s
Every case is different

Some incels could probably make a massive jump and not only improve by 0.5 but instead like 4-6 points
post 1651964573 12-04-2021, 11:58 AM
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If you don't meet the minimum standard on physical attractiveness nothing else you do makes a difference
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
I don't agree with:
- physical fitness
- financial stability (rich like bezos sure though)
- humor
- ambition
- passion

at all. No woman will ever be sexually attracted to a man because he told some funny jokes

I partially agree with
- confidence
- charisma
- backbone
because these things are mainly perceived by your attractiveness

If you are attractive people have a tendency to think you are confident and have a backbone just by looking at you. Like the halo effect


But thats all OK

It just means men should be realistic and should shoot for someone in their league rather than going for 5 points above

Giving guys delusion that they can go from a 2/10 to an 8/10 by taking a shower and reading how to make friends and influence people is helping nobody
This, except many times now the ones in your own league don't want you either
post 1651964943 12-04-2021, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
This, except many times now the ones in your own league don't want you either
That's fair

People often make the mistake of thinking ugly people are attracted to other ugly people. lol
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post 1651965253 12-04-2021, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
If you don't meet the minimum standard on physical attractiveness nothing else you do makes a difference
Don't waste your time.
People have socialized to downplay the importance of men's physical appearance ( i.e face, height, frame) in attracting women.
Not to mention the fact that women are biologically wired to go only for the top percentile of men while completely dismissing the majority of men .

We're just hypocrites and virtue signalers that want to preach meritocracy and the idea of fairness or justice in the world.

There's no fairness in evolution. There's no meritocracy. There's no uniform distribution of mates in nature.
People don't want to accept that the minority genetically superior males get all the females
Not to mention this ludicrous notion that women are somehow better than men in terms of overcoming "superficial" preference.

This world is a joke.
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post 1651965313 12-04-2021, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted By SaviorSelfJT
I think some men are delusional because what actually makes men attractive to women is not the same as what boys are told growing up.

Boys are told:
muscular
smart
funny
nice

will make them attractive to women

But literally none of that matters:
height
large chin
jawline
full hair

are what matters, and primarily genetic

So you've got men that are 2/10 on the looks scale that think they are 8/10
pretty much this

a lot of us DO improve ourselves as much as possible and still get pretty much nothing

but I think thats the conclusion to all of this
most just take what they can get (even after all possible improvement)
or nothing at all.
most of your results is based on sht out of your control =)
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Originally Posted By BigBallsMcgee
This, except many times now the ones in your own league don't want you either
true as well and a big problem
but nothin u can really do about dat
vagina stock is inflated
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post 1651965643 12-04-2021, 12:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol
pretty much this

a lot of us DO improve ourselves as much as possible and still get pretty much nothing

but I think thats the conclusion to all of this
most just take what they can get (even after all possible improvement)
or nothing at all.
most of your results is based on sht out of your control =)
You of all people should know the importance of self improvement. Iirc you started here a virgin or incel and finally started to get laid and even have relationships. Why do you continue to post like you want to identify as an incel?
I'm back, bitches!
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i wouldn't call it self improvement so much as self promotion/ marketing.

A short guy is at a disadvantage. A short guy on a raised stage behind a dj table with the crowd jumping is at an advantage.
pls do not associate my personalities in misc and sports misc
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Originally Posted By jonmcd46
Stop being delusional, you aren't that good or attractive. If you have an ugly face, make up for it with a good smile, good body, good haircut or something.
The reason why you aren't getting laid isn't because females are whores, because social media, because of any other cope you want to say, its because no one finds you attractive overall.
You need to improve yourself in some way, socially, physically, or mentally, a girl hasn't fallen in your lap magically so far, so why do you think anything will change?
Change your negative mentality about females if you truly want one
They're not complaining about not getting laid; they're upset that females have become unattainable to average men

They're not wrong either




No amount of lifting or $100 haircuts is going to compete with that blonde Chad she masturbates to on social media

All females are whores; it's a matter of making oneyourwhore
*Tolerance is the lube that slides the dildo of dysfunction into the ass of civilized society*

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Originally Posted By nnodcvcker
Don't waste your time.
People have socialized to downplay the importance of men's physical appearance ( i.e face, height, frame) in attracting women.
Not to mention the fact that women are biologically wired to go only for the top percentile of men while completely dismissing the majority of men .

We're just hypocrites and virtue signalers that want to preach meritocracy and the idea of fairness or justice in the world.

There's no fairness in evolution. There's no meritocracy. There's no uniform distribution of mates in nature.
People don't want to accept that the minority genetically superior males get all the females
Not to mention this ludicrous notion that women are somehow better than men in terms of overcoming "superficial" preference.

This world is a joke.
Very wise post

If people really thought about it for more than 2 seconds they would realize it. Men's evolutionary job is to spread your seed around as much as possible because he can reproduce every day. Women's evolutionary job is to be as selective as possible with whose seed she gets because she can only reproduce once every 9 months. How in the fuk did our society come to the conclusion that men are the picky ones??
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Squat: 465x1
Strict press: 205x5
Deadlift: 405x13 (conv tap'n'go with straps)
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