Gonna try and keep this as short as possible:

Seen a lot of comments lately and in general about guys claiming they have a tough time having success on dating apps, and since where I live (Southern Europe) tinder is the most used app afaik, while I was waiting for a friend to get ready so we can go out, I decided to do a little tinder social experiment.

I downloaded tinder on my phone, made a fresh profile and went on tinder as a female. Now the pictures I used were of an imo 6/10 maybe 7/10 at best 22 year old blonde girl and was actually shocked by the results. Instantly was bombarded with likes/super likes and I just one hour managed to get 100 matches, god knows how many likes and 40+ messages. Ofc didn't took it any further and just deleted the profile and the app altogether since I don't use it, but I imagine how much more attention females get compared to guys on dating apps in bigger countries( I live in a small country even by Europe's standards) and shows how much you really need to stand out to have success on these apps, at least where I'm from.

Kind of sad for the dudes who spent their super likes on the fake chick though, maybe in their eyes she really was the best sandman.

Guys used to do these experiments on here all of the time. It’s not surprising. It’s very easy to get men on Tinder. It’s just who wants random hookups? Ewww

You're a very angry man I've noticed.

But yes OP this has been done many times, my chick friend made her actual profile and had 3400 likes in 6 hours lol. So as a man if you get actual convos where she's responding more than 'hey' and 'haha' and dates from online dating you're doing something right.

Thats a very mean think to say about us we are two different people and she is a splendid lady

Super likes work though.

When I was on Tinder earlier this year I had about an 85% return on my super likes. I would send mine with a cheeky question or message and about 60% of the time they would match and respond to my initial super like message. The other 40% would just match and expect me to send another opener in addition to my first. Didn't bother with the 40%ers because they're obviously not going to carry their weight in any conversation. Even after all of that it wasn't worth the amount of effort keeping them interested. We talk for a bit, then I ask about meeting up...Silence.LMAO. Give me a break.

There's a good amounts of dudes on there cruising for a GF. Females regard them as "boring" or write them off over some dumb shyt. Or they'll match with a pretty decent dude who seems genuine, but would STILL take the more attractive guy in her DM's looking to smash and dash. Then they proceed to get their back blown out by fukbois before complaining that "men ain't shyt".

Rinse, repeat.

The genuine dudes eventually figure this out and start to go the fukboi route because they see it working for other dudes. Humans literally creating their own problems and their own monsters.

I used to do hookups years ago but they made me feel gross and hurt my mental health.

I don't know. I refuse to use Tinder as the guys on there were gross with talking sexually right away. But after longer conversations with the Bumble men over 40, they are coming out of marriages of 25 years to the same woman and want to play the field. The younger guys are nicer and want more than just a one night stand.

It's true though that since it's just one look and a swipe that we go for the most attractive guys, who probably just want sex. That's the problem with dating apps. I've met guys IRL that I would never swipe on a dating app, but their personality makes them attractive. One guy at tennis was 5'10 and 275, but he was hilarious and I dated him.

Every chick i see on Tinder I figure it's just some miscer doing an experiment.


not srs but srs sort of.




So My ex and I split the begining of October. I suggested she get on Tinder so she'd leave me alone and stop actiing like I'm her BF. Within minutes she had matches, hours she had dozens of messages. I didn't know it but 3 dates first week but she ends up on several dates with one guy, but then basically dumps him for some Chad out of her league. One date and she pretty much moved in with him, but last week they break up and she's been on one date that Weds and she went out with another guy last night. She's 43, looks a bit younger, okay looking but likes to get dolled up, a little chubby but big teds, and she's Hohoho for the holidays except she's annoying as hell and a total sloot.

I never created a Tinder account, since I don't want a ******** account. Sounds like I'm not missing out.


I don't plan to look for a date till after I get my body how I want it. I see no point until then.

I don't see the reason for this unless you're obese. I see decent looking women dating skinny fat averagecels IRL all of the time.

lol sloot gonna sloot

because they know your history

sorry, not sorry

studies have shown that sloots feel miserable after being used on these apps but they still go back for more knowing what will happen. you can't make this sh*t up

h0m0s divorce rates are @ 30%. the lowest of all. men are overall more loyal and committed than "sloots"

of course there are a few looking to just lay pipe (or take it). but those are the unstable of the bunch with daddy issues

No. I go back for more on Bumble, not Tinder. The guys are less sexual on there. And then I only see guys who talk about non-sexual topics so we can be true friends.

You gotta have a niche on tinder as a man to succeed.

it's the same guys, they just know to take it slower. bumble is actually easier because women believe men are of higher quality on that app. match, sloot messages you. talk normal for a bit, smash, ghost. just took a bit of extra legwork

They don’t ghost. They always text for more but yeah we go there expecting higher quality guys.

If only there was an app where you could find men interested in relationships and not just hookups.

I purposely haven’t had sex since August.

you'll need to scratch that itch sooner rather than later

I have 2 FWBs coming home from college for the holidays but I just wish there were more normal guys.

I talk to them daily about non-sexual stuff like fhe NFL or what’s going on in our lives.

The fact it is possible to fake who you are is another reason I don't go on there.



I saw a YouTube video by a youtuber who responded yes to everyone. She hired cheap foreign workers to chat with each and set up a meeting with all 500 of them at the same time. She then showed up in a limo, red carpet rolled out for her and went on a stage to address them all.

She said she wanted to do Tinder elimination in person. She told everyone under 5'10" to leave. Kept naming more requirents, had more leave, then had the guys doing pushup contests, sprinting contests, etc. Amazing how many stayed to compete. Finally picked one of them and let him buy her dinner.

All filmed and put on her YouTube channel.

...You dont need ******** to get tinder

Twinks are better lovers anyway.

Hinge is the only app worth using although it's still chit. ONline dating is primarily for losers.

dating apps are 95% guys, 4% guys pretending to be girls and 1% fat chicks.

i think an underestimated component of this is how many men they're passing up on

using your numbers. chances are if she goes 8 hours without checking tinder she'd have 800 messages or whatever to sift through. it may even be more for someone hotter. if she goes a day or 2 how many profiles can she sift through?

you prob need a main profile pic that catches her attention but its true shes DEF. passing up on others with good profile pics. it's more like luck of the draw

that's why men cast wide nets. and they'll subsequently have an illusion of success. when really their efficacy is probably quite low

same thing goes for messaging. like say you're in a good convo. and something in real life gets her attention. you may never get that back again with the numbers she's pulling
agreed. i remember when i was on them a long time ago. general rule to keep them interested is like getting their number on the 3rd message. if you can't get them on another platform by then - it might happen sometimes - but the chances of you actually getting anything goes down

i remember one chick actually being clear about it. i'd be aggressive, but she'd be like "slow down" and i was like.. tell that to your other female folk who get bored and ghost if i don't keep up the pace. and she was actually cool. more females should be clear like that

the guys that will have the most success will say a lot shortly - giving the women the idea the guy "knows what he wants" - aka them. srs

stop and think about the fact that literally everything on online profiles can be faked and what kind of people it's attracting srs. i know there are measures people can take like video calls and chit but... is it legit true that a profile can entirely made up? yes.

Yeah you got me. I'm really Mexican and el terrible.

how could i be you if im me ?

im not mexican you retard im black american, see avi

It's crazy how many women haven't figured it out yet.

By your standards "normal" most likely means the top 1% of men. The top 1% of men don't commit to older women.

He's also a *******

Women want to keep their options open while you put 200% into them. You will know you found true love when you accept that. If you continue to look then that’s obviously not the woman for you. Most of the girls in my life will go out on a date and come back loving me harder. I never ask what happened but I assure you they weren’t like me. That’s all you can do