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Do you consider a girl not banging on the first date a dealbreaker?
12-29-2021, 05:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Kay4Kool⏩
yea, i agree. i kind of like her response. it seems non-slootyyour words:
"i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem"
her words:
she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past
So she can't change her mind or her actions and learn from her past? If she gave it up once on the first date she's confined to doing that for the rest of her life?
Your words:
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I wasjust interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.
This is what I meant by your mental gymnastics. You want a whore and a good girl at the same time.
"i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem"
her words:
she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past
So she can't change her mind or her actions and learn from her past? If she gave it up once on the first date she's confined to doing that for the rest of her life?
Your words:
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I wasjust interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.
This is what I meant by your mental gymnastics. You want a whore and a good girl at the same time.
but i understand his question. i think he's questioning if its legit or not/ being honest and therefore her attraction toward him; a bit jestermaxxy in that he has to put in effort that may not be reciprocated/ slight disrespect
12-29-2021, 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted By Kay4Kool⏩
im seeing her tomorrow. Gonna try to feel out if she just did it once and got burned—cause I can overlook that. More than once, no thnx Jeff.your words:
"i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem"
her words:
she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past
So she can't change her mind or her actions and learn from her past? If she gave it up once on the first date she's confined to doing that for the rest of her life?
Your words:
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I wasjust interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.
This is what I meant by your mental gymnastics. You want a whore and a good girl at the same time.
"i see why you think it’s hypocritical, should’ve worded title better. If she never does it and wants to wait that’s totally fine but if she’s done it before and not w/ me that’s a huge problem"
her words:
she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past
So she can't change her mind or her actions and learn from her past? If she gave it up once on the first date she's confined to doing that for the rest of her life?
Your words:
no actually quite the opposite. Interested in someone long term. If I wasjust interested in sex I can just bang her on Thursday.
This is what I meant by your mental gymnastics. You want a whore and a good girl at the same time.
Also to your second point, I think every man wants a woman who sets rules for every other man but not for them. isnt that pretty much the ideal? Gives you a sense of security but also desirability. Is that realistic? Maybe not, but I think we all feel that way deep down.
Appreciate your replies though.
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12-29-2021, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted By infinityplus1⏩
cant multi quote cause mobile but I’d rather date. Have had meaningless sex in the last and wasn’t really into it.Are you want to date this girl or just fck?
A girl wanting to be fckd on the first date is more of a dealbreaker
A girl wanting to be fckd on the first date is more of a dealbreaker
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12-29-2021, 06:05 PM
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the good news is that means she sees some value in you and doesn't wanna blow it by seeming like a whore
the bad news is that she is a whore and has fukt on the first date plenty of times with other dudes
I give her points for being forthcoming about it at least.
the bad news is that she is a whore and has fukt on the first date plenty of times with other dudes
I give her points for being forthcoming about it at least.
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12-29-2021, 06:07 PM
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Originally Posted By Gaedj⏩
Oldest trick in the book, that and "just the tip""We're not gonna fk tonight. Let me just taste that poosy."
12-29-2021, 06:09 PM
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It all depends on what you want her to be. If you actually want her as a gf/wife, why would you want her to be a whore on the first date? If she's just a fuk doll to you then move on to the next one.
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12-29-2021, 06:28 PM
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Op today: stupid bish won't bang me after 5 minutes.
Op in 1 year: my wife is a sloot and banging other dudes at my house. Fuk women they're all the same
Typical miscer
Op in 1 year: my wife is a sloot and banging other dudes at my house. Fuk women they're all the same
Typical miscer
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12-29-2021, 06:32 PM
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12-29-2021, 06:40 PM
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sounds like you need to feel this girl out, dig into what she's talking about when she said that. nevermind she didn't put out, I'd be more concerned about who and how many times
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12-29-2021, 06:43 PM
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I agree with your gut OP.
If she was truly a good girl and simply doesn’t fuk unless in a committed relationship and you like her, I’d say stick with it.
But the fact that she said she normally DOES get filled on the first date, and now she’s trying something new. That’s a pretty big matzo-ball brother.
Her true nature is that of a sloot. She can try to play these games as long as she can, but eventually the sloot will come out one way or another. Just ask yourself, do you want to be committed to her when it does?
You know the answer OP
If she was truly a good girl and simply doesn’t fuk unless in a committed relationship and you like her, I’d say stick with it.
But the fact that she said she normally DOES get filled on the first date, and now she’s trying something new. That’s a pretty big matzo-ball brother.
Her true nature is that of a sloot. She can try to play these games as long as she can, but eventually the sloot will come out one way or another. Just ask yourself, do you want to be committed to her when it does?
You know the answer OP
12-29-2021, 06:43 PM
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Whether a girl wants you or not on a first date has nothing to do with how promiscuous she is, it's simply a representation of how INTO YOU she is (genuine desire)
Most of the girls you've taken on a date in the past who didn't put out on the first date were not "good girls." They called up another guy and got their backs blown out that same night
So just lol at thinking if a girl doesn't put out on a first date she's somehow magically an angel. It just means she WASN'T INTO YOU (lack of genuine desire)
If we lived 50-100 years ago then sure, you could think a girl may be a virgin and had some sort of integrity, but not in this day and age my friend
Most of the girls you've taken on a date in the past who didn't put out on the first date were not "good girls." They called up another guy and got their backs blown out that same night
So just lol at thinking if a girl doesn't put out on a first date she's somehow magically an angel. It just means she WASN'T INTO YOU (lack of genuine desire)
If we lived 50-100 years ago then sure, you could think a girl may be a virgin and had some sort of integrity, but not in this day and age my friend
12-29-2021, 06:48 PM
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has to be some roll bread
no guy in his right mind would do those things with a sloot and take her for her word for it
just no way this actually happened, op's making out with her and he believes what she "says" instead of taking cues from what shedid
same thing happened to me once, i got the whole "i dont usually do this JFL yada yada yada." we were in public and it was a late weekday night but if we were anywhere my house i woulda tagged dat azz. sloots just say that to give themselves mental comfort when at the end of the day shes wanting you to basically fuk her anyways so she can convince herself it "just happened." op dun goofed.
no guy in his right mind would do those things with a sloot and take her for her word for it
just no way this actually happened, op's making out with her and he believes what she "says" instead of taking cues from what shedid
same thing happened to me once, i got the whole "i dont usually do this JFL yada yada yada." we were in public and it was a late weekday night but if we were anywhere my house i woulda tagged dat azz. sloots just say that to give themselves mental comfort when at the end of the day shes wanting you to basically fuk her anyways so she can convince herself it "just happened." op dun goofed.
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12-29-2021, 07:08 PM
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Yes, if she dont give up the ass then its a pass
Originally Posted By DimTriad⏩
So she's punishing you because of her slutty past? lol I swear Kevin Samuels talk about this exact same ****.-she says doing the opposite hasn’t worked well in the past
12-29-2021, 07:11 PM
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Originally Posted By HairyWBush⏩
yeah I agree. This is what I was trying to say but clearly did a bad job of it.sounds like you need to feel this girl out, dig into what she's talking about when she said that. nevermind she didn't put out, I'd be more concerned about who and how many times
Originally Posted By friesbruh⏩
i like you as a poster brah but I legit have no idea what you’re trying to sayhas to be some roll bread
no guy in his right mind would do those things with a sloot and take her for her word for it
just no way this actually happened, op's making out with her and he believes what she "says" instead of taking cues from what shedid
same thing happened to me once, i got the whole "i dont usually do this JFL yada yada yada." we were in public and it was a late weekday night but if we were anywhere my house i woulda tagged dat azz. sloots just say that to give themselves mental comfort when at the end of the day shes wanting you to basically fuk her anyways so she can convince herself it "just happened." op dun goofed.
no guy in his right mind would do those things with a sloot and take her for her word for it
just no way this actually happened, op's making out with her and he believes what she "says" instead of taking cues from what shedid
same thing happened to me once, i got the whole "i dont usually do this JFL yada yada yada." we were in public and it was a late weekday night but if we were anywhere my house i woulda tagged dat azz. sloots just say that to give themselves mental comfort when at the end of the day shes wanting you to basically fuk her anyways so she can convince herself it "just happened." op dun goofed.
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12-29-2021, 07:16 PM
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