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post 1655221643 01-29-2022, 08:38 AM
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Do you feel sad knowing you will never be friends with this guy?

Not gonna lie, I feel kind of sad knowing I will most likely never meet this guy or be his friend. He seems like a cool guy



post 1655221693 01-29-2022, 08:39 AM
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How come all your threads are about friendships?

Anyway, it is impossible to make 'real' friends if you have none now and are above 30+

Just acquaintances.
post 1655221873 01-29-2022, 08:43 AM
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Originally Posted By natureboy500⏩
How come all your threads are about friendships?

Anyway, it is impossible to make 'real' friends if you have none now and are above 30+

Just acquaintances.
Yeah friendship seems impossible for me, especially as i got older. None of my friendships in the past few years lasted too long. I have to accept reality as an outcast and live as a hermit unfortunately
post 1655221973 01-29-2022, 08:45 AM
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Nah man.
Smile too fake
Wears earrings like a pㅤhㅤㅤaㅤgㅤgㅤoㅤtㅤ
post 1655222143 01-29-2022, 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted By PermaNoob⏩
Nah man.
Smile too fake
Wears earrings like a pㅤhㅤㅤaㅤgㅤgㅤoㅤtㅤ
What if you saw him and he asked you to grab lunch, would you go?
post 1655222173 01-29-2022, 08:48 AM
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Lance wtf is with all these depressing posts m8?
post 1655222223 01-29-2022, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
Lance wtf is with all these depressing posts m8?
I just cant stop thinking about all the people i will never be friends with. I am reminded every day. Whether im at the gym, on instagram, youtube, out on the streets, constantly reminded of how much of an outcast i am
post 1655222353 01-29-2022, 08:52 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
I just cant stop thinking about all the people i will never be friends with. I am reminded every day. Whether im at the gym, on instagram, youtube, out on the streets, constantly reminded of how much of an outcast i am
misc and all of its posters (even the bad ones) are your friend
post 1655222433 01-29-2022, 08:53 AM
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Op is a ****.got
post 1655222473 01-29-2022, 08:54 AM
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Originally Posted By wampa⏩
misc and all of its posters (even the bad ones) are your friend
Thanks i appreciate the miscers who are friends and respond.

But what happens when i log off the misc and walk out into the real world? That is when the isolation happens
post 1655222513 01-29-2022, 08:55 AM
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You have to be someone else’s alt account brah. There’s no way you look like your avi and don’t have any friends. I’m going to do some serious investigating.
post 1655222613 01-29-2022, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
You have to be someone else’s alt account brah. There’s no way you look like your avi and don’t have any friends. I’m going to do some serious investigating.
I do have some friends, but most are either married, live too far away, or always busy.
Most people i know are acquaintances or friends of friends who i just talk to briefly but never spend quality time with 1 on 1

Most days i am alone
post 1655222753 01-29-2022, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
I do have some friends, but most are either married, live too far away, or always busy.
Most people i know are acquaintances or friends of friends who i just talk to briefly but never spend quality time with 1 on 1

Most days i am alone
Something don’t check out with you. No offense but I’m pretty sure your someone else’s alt. My guess is silencespeaks but it could be someone else who got banned back in 2020 because that’s when you joined.
post 1655223353 01-29-2022, 09:14 AM
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OP is an alt account
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post 1655223493 01-29-2022, 09:17 AM
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Who the fk is this *******?

Would befriend cuz he seems rich
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post 1655223583 01-29-2022, 09:18 AM
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Not really, OP.

Have had friends that looked similar.

They're always really cool starting out.

They start inviting you over to drink with their other friends.

Then they start inviting just you.

Then after throwing back a couple they ask to trade blowies.

Of course you do it because who says no to a smile like that.

The morning after you feel regret and start avoiding them.

You move on to a new friend and start the process over.

It's exhausting.
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post 1655223653 01-29-2022, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted By lockdev⏩
Not really, OP.

Have had friends that looked similar.

They're always really cool starting out.

They start inviting you over to drink with their other friends.

Then they start inviting just you.

Then after throwing back a couple they ask to trade blowies.

Of course you do it because who says no to a smile like that.

The morning after you feel regret and start avoiding them.

You move on to a new friend and start the process over.

It's exhausting.
sounds kinda gay brah
post 1655223923 01-29-2022, 09:25 AM
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Originally Posted By Tholos⏩
Who the fk is this *******?

Would befriend cuz he seems rich
hes name is Philly! He is on youtube
post 1655223983 01-29-2022, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
I do have some friends, but most are either married, live too far away, or always busy.
Most people i know are acquaintances or friends of friends who i just talk to briefly but never spend quality time with 1 on 1

Most days i am alone
In the same boat , but for some reason it doesn’t bother me that much . I’ve always been a bit of a loaner and feel claustrophobic when I’m around too many people .
What are your interests ? If it’s photography , join a club .
I met the coolest people skydiving. There all alcoholics and adrenaline junkies , so it was a great match people wise.
My best times were dirt biking though. Met some awesome people and had some great times .
Certainly have some good memories from those days
Back with my Fam
post 1655224183 01-29-2022, 09:28 AM
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Originally Posted By MajorTendonitis⏩
In the same boat , but for some reason it doesn’t bother me that much . I’ve always been a bit of a loaner and feel claustrophobic when I’m around too many people .
What are your interests ? If it’s photography , join a club .
I met the coolest people skydiving. There all alcoholics and adrenaline junkies , so it was a great match people wise
i dont have much interests i used to like gym and mma but ive always been a loner there too.
Some days i do fine, other days the loneliness is unbearable.

The annoying thing is i have severe social anxiety, and i feel that stops me from meeting new people and starting convos. Thats why im quite alone too
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
I just cant stop thinking about all the people i will never be friends with. I am reminded every day. Whether im at the gym, on instagram, youtube, out on the streets, constantly reminded of how much of an outcast i am
Stop thinking about people like that, and stop putting them on a pedestal, 99% of people are really not special in any way and they have tons of flaws both mentally and physically.

Think about making yourself a better person, think about what you can offer to others, and try to provide value to others, as pathetic as this sounds, at the end of the day, people will respect it a lot. Also accept the fact that you will not be able to befriend everyone.

The way you are talking about it is very superficial ("oh look this guys life looks fun I wanna join him")
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post 1655224723 01-29-2022, 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Tholos⏩
Stop thinking about people like that, and stop putting them on a pedestal, 99% of people are really not special in any way and they have tons of flaws both mentally and physically.

Think about making yourself a better person, think about what you can offer to others, and try to provide value to others, as pathetic as this sounds, at the end of the day, people will respect it a lot. Also accept the fact that you will not be able to befriend everyone.

The way you are talking about it is very superficial ("oh look this guys life looks fun I wanna join him")
yes i have to accept life as an outcast. Its hard, i know i am an outcast, yet i still feel disappointed about it every day instead of getting used to it
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
What if you saw him and he asked you to grab lunch, would you go?
I mean maybe. He'd probably be very insistent about it, like one of those guys who hate being seen alone at any time.

I get it though. Friendships matter. Being alone makes you retarded.
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
yes i have to accept life as an outcast. Its hard, i know i am an outcast, yet i still feel disappointed about it every day instead of getting used to it
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I'll be your friend OP
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Originally Posted By Lastrepbrah⏩
I'll be your friend OP
Thanks man i appreciate it
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Originally Posted By simonsaysgoham⏩
OP is an alt account
nope, only 1 account on misc ever.
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Not gonna lie, I feel kind of sad knowing I will most likely never meet this guy or be his friend. He seems like a cool guy



You'll never be 25 again, hanging out on the rooftop bar on a Thursday night, just you and your boy, holding that embrace just a little longer than necessary to take a picture, not because youre gay but because youre best bros. Not a care in the world, energy and good looks of your youth, first big boy job out of school with enough play money but not enough expectations by your boss to make things stressful. can party and show up to work the next day on 4 hours of sleep and crush it. Now youre old, your wife is fat and aging rapidly. Your kid **** his diaper, time to be a man, go to work at a job you hate but cant leave because you got a mortgage. You'll never have that close male male bond again. You got craig in accounting who says "did you catch the latest entourage episode" at the water cooler. hes your best male friend and his desk is covered with starwars funko pops. Once a month you two take a long lunch at Chilis and he comments on the youthful waitress you both know you'll never smash. Then he drops you back off at the office in his prius.
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