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post 1655880293 02-09-2022, 09:09 AM
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Family friend applied to be my neighbor in apartment building without telling me. WTF

I moved to a new apartment 3 weeks ago. family friend and his girlfriend applied to move into the same complex, literally the room right next to mine. Didn’t ask if it would be weird or anything. He just heard the place was nice from people who visited. I found out cuz his gf asked my girl if the place is nice after they applied.

He might have assburgers or something. How do I explain to him that he’s being weird as ****.

Dat feel when you try to move away from family and they don’t even give you a month of freedom.

Anyway, what do? How do you explain unwritten social rules to someone who doesn’t get them?

I venmoed him all his application fees, and told him to **** off essentially.


Cliffs:
-I move to new apartment 3 weeks ago
-Family friend hear’s the place is nice and applies to be my next door neighbor without a peep.
-I tell him to **** off cuz that’s rude/weird/complete invasion of privacy.

What’s the best way to put this into words for someone who doesn’t understand unwritten social rules.
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post 1655880383 02-09-2022, 09:11 AM
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Hes going to sneak creeper shots of all the late night nasty pieces of ass you invite over to your house and send them to your mom and provide daily reports on your doings to your entire family.
post 1655880423 02-09-2022, 09:12 AM
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For Petes sake...
post 1655880523 02-09-2022, 09:14 AM
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Are family and friends not allowed to live near you?
post 1655880603 02-09-2022, 09:14 AM
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Like he specifically asked for the apartment next to you? how did he hear about your exact apartment number? It kinda sounds like your on the spectrum
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post 1655880763 02-09-2022, 09:16 AM
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This is a really strange thread. Who cares? It’s not like you gotta talk to them. Are they living in your unit with your GF? If not stfu. Being in the same building doesn’t mean chit. And it’s not weird remotely. The weird thing is that you have an issue with it

Why do you see this as a threat? It’s very odd. lol.
post 1655880773 02-09-2022, 09:17 AM
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Buy the building and evict him? Srsly if you are going to be an as$hole to them you need to let him know now so he can back out before it's too late.
post 1655880793 02-09-2022, 09:17 AM
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Do what any good New Jersey young man does and moves to the city or Florida.
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post 1655880873 02-09-2022, 09:19 AM
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That so weird. I mean for Pete’s ****ing sake…
post 1655880883 02-09-2022, 09:19 AM
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I'd wager he lives there no more than 2 months before he starts referring to you as his bestie
post 1655881073 02-09-2022, 09:21 AM
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Why would he want to live right next to a real as$hole?
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post 1655881253 02-09-2022, 09:25 AM
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post 1655881393 02-09-2022, 09:29 AM
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Originally Posted By elterrible987⏩
Hes going to sneak creeper shots of all the late night nasty pieces of ass you invite over to your house and send them to your mom and provide daily reports on your doings to your entire family.
That’s part of the concern
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post 1655881493 02-09-2022, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted By p7nk⏩
Like he specifically asked for the apartment next to you? how did he hear about your exact apartment number? It kinda sounds like your on the spectrum
Its the only apartment available. He didn’t know it would be right next door. Find it weird he didn’t reach out at all and decided to apply without saying anything
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post 1655881533 02-09-2022, 09:32 AM
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If you live in an apartment building somewhere close to where you grew up, chances are you will know someone else who lives there.


Lol @ thinking an entire building is out of the question just because you live in it.


And lol at the fact you feel entitled to give your opinion to anyone about whether or not to live there
post 1655881823 02-09-2022, 09:36 AM
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Originally Posted By blueberryboy⏩
Werent you the dude on here awhile ago claiming to make like 30k-40k per month?

What the Fk u doing living in an apartment? LOL


But to answer the q that's apartment life..its hit or miss with who you are gonna get as a neighbor. If its that big of an issue with this dude , move.

Dont think it would be bad if they're chill
Making like half that lol. When you have an apartment everything is taken cared of for you so you can focus on other things. Aka business. Im sure we can debate it in another thread.

They just nosey and will be telling everyone in the fam my business. Just a privacy thing. I don’t want uninvited family/friends knocking on my door because “they were in the area” visiting him
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post 1655882153 02-09-2022, 09:41 AM
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its not your appartment complex buddy.
post 1655882313 02-09-2022, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
Making like half that lol. When you have an apartment everything is taken cared of for you so you can focus on other things. Aka business. Im sure we can debate it in another thread.

They just nosey and will be telling everyone in the fam my business. Just a privacy thing. I don’t want uninvited family/friends knocking on my door because “they were in the area” visiting him
Yeah i gotcha.
That would be a bit annoying.
Just pretend you're not home
It could be worse , probably over thinking it a bit and it wont be too bad

When i lived in certain apartments i could go like a full week without seeing my neighbor in the hall way ..and i was in / out a lot
post 1655882343 02-09-2022, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
If you live in an apartment building somewhere close to where you grew up, chances are you will know someone else who lives there.


Lol @ thinking an entire building is out of the question just because you live in it.


And lol at the fact you feel entitled to give your opinion to anyone about whether or not to live there
By Family friend I mean he comes over for the holidays. Our parents are friends. If this was some random friend from highschool or college Who just happened to move in I wouldn’t care as much.

Just weird that he had to follow me when I tried getting my own space. I want peace of mind when coming home after working all day. If I knew someone in an apartment building, especially a smaller one, I wouldn’t sign the lease.
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post 1655882563 02-09-2022, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
Its the only apartment available. He didn’t know it would be right next door. Find it weird he didn’t reach out at all and decided to apply without saying anything
Family friend. I assume he's older than you... more importantly who the **** do you think you are. So he has to confirm with you if he can move into the apartment building you live in.

You def have ass-burgers

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post 1655883463 02-09-2022, 10:04 AM
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Originally Posted By ForPeteSake⏩
Making like half that lol. When you have an apartment everything is taken cared of for you so you can focus on other things. Aka business. Im sure we can debate it in another thread.

They just nosey and will be telling everyone in the fam my business. Just a privacy thing.I don’t want uninvited family/friends knocking on my door because “they were in the area” visiting him
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post 1655884453 02-09-2022, 10:21 AM
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So OP sees these "friends" a couple times a year and thinks them moving in next door is going to be an issue?
post 1655884553 02-09-2022, 10:23 AM
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you sure its not your mommy that moved in so she can keep an eye on you?
post 1655899723 02-09-2022, 02:30 PM
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Reminds me of when a girl I was dating for a few months in college decided to move right next door to me without telling me. okay then.
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