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post 1656017223 02-11-2022, 01:35 PM
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Calling out single brahs, who are NOT incels...

It seems to be pretty standard nowadays for guys to be single in their 30s. IDK if I'm a sociopath or what, but I can't seem to connect with a woman for the most part and look at them as a succubus that wants me for my money and benefits. The best I have recently done is date women for 1-3 months and break it off because I got bored and rather not be in a relationship. I mostly find women, smash after a date or two and go no contact.

Any brahs feel the same? I'm not depressed and am super motivated in my endeavors; I mostly find women as distractions and useless for the most part. I think I indirectly look at them as individuals to mate with, and nothing further. (Ded fkn Srs)
post 1656017533 02-11-2022, 01:41 PM
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i can relate but i think its mostly that i just simply cant relate to most women in my age range. the women who i do actually find interesting and appear to be women i could date are always 10+ years older than myself minimum

we never have similar tastes in music, hobbies, family values, beliefs about the world, etc.
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post 1656017803 02-11-2022, 01:47 PM
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You should be living an abundant full life.

Women should be an icing on the cake of that life

Though if you decide to have kids at 40, I think it's a little odd that by the time the kid graduates high school you'd be 60.
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post 1656018823 02-11-2022, 02:02 PM
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32 and single with no prospects. Women are vapid whores and I don't know how any of you can tolerate dating a modern woman. All they do is eat hot chip and lie.
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post 1656020063 02-11-2022, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted By MonsieurWhite⏩
32 and single with no prospects. Women are vapid whores and I don't know how any of you can tolerate dating a modern woman. All they do is eat hot chip and lie.
This. Nothing is wrong with you OP. You just see it how it is these days.
post 1656020523 02-11-2022, 02:26 PM
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30 and im in the best shape of my life in all areas. Im doing great with women, but i sometimes still feel the need for a true connection. Dont have prospects for that, im too picky, i want someone of my equal value and a girl like that is probably dreaming of movie stars or something so i guess its more likely off the table.


Last few months i dated this 22 year old perfect looking girl with a great personality, but her KI was too strong for me to handle. She has all the time in the world and is on top of it as well, lets just say i got out of that ring with a few bruises and marks lol.
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post 1656021783 02-11-2022, 02:46 PM
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you don't need to 'connect and fall in love', that's a female made up fantasy


now that you have experience, IF YOU WANT KIDS find a woman who have values and is happy to raise your kids with your value and kock her up,


otherwise stay single forever, there is no need to have a nagging sloot for company
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post 1656021913 02-11-2022, 02:48 PM
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there's a lot of problems with dating today

dating apps ****ed over dating to oblivion and is the root issue imo

every girl on those apps has a million options/simps, if you're not perfect they just next you and go onto the next one

I find it insane that if someone doesn't fit your perfect mold you can literally hop on an app and find someone better within a couple minutes

id say I am about an 8/10 and get dates every 1-2 weeks with ~8's, chit never goes anywhere though

we go on a few dates, everything going well and then they just ghost

this is a universal experience with my friend group and we ALL have the same thing happen to us, it's absolutely hilarious

your best bet is to just get off the apps and lifemaxx, if you're truly a good dude you'll get your girl eventually

i've learned worrying about this chit just isn't worth it at all
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post 1656022453 02-11-2022, 02:58 PM
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It is because women these days want you to give them all your money, work and do everything they say all day, give up gaming and your friends, and they want to cheat on you with other guys and their girlfriends all the while talking **** behind your back and saying how stupid you are then yell at you or worse poison you or extort you if you begin to move outside of the **** they put you in.
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no problem getting gals but i despise all these hoes nh srs
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As a 35 YO man who moved to Wyoming, I'll admit I practically neutered myself. However, dating in your 30's is a minefield, and honestly at this point I don't mind being by myself. I will admit that in my 20's, I made mistakes and there were a couple women that I could have settled down with. Some I was blind to, some I dodged like a bullet. Life has a funny way of playing out.

At this point I'm prepared to be single for the rest of my life, no regerts. However as slim of a chance as it is, I don't mind being in a good relationship.
post 1656024413 02-11-2022, 03:36 PM
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Originally Posted By DrugsToGetBig⏩
i can relate but i think its mostly that i just simply cant relate to most women in my age range. the women who i do actually find interesting and appear to be women i could date are always 10+ years older than myself minimum

we never have similar tastes in music, hobbies, family values, beliefs about the world, etc.
Same. Most girls in my social circle that I actually meet at parties and events around my age (early to mid 20’s) aren’t into the same music as me or at least have similar hobbies as me like playing instruments, reading books, creating art or even fitness/outdoorsy stuff. I know those cool gals are out there, but damn I have yet to meet any that my parents would approve of lol.

They’re usually so basic/boring and don't go to concerts/festivals/etc. Though I pretty much only know/meet college educated gals who don't really smoke/drink, they still waste their time scrolling through social media like Instagram all day and have no other genuine interests.

Every older woman I meet I usually get along with, because they have a more mature mindset/outlook, but the age difference is awkward lol. Either way I like being alone for the most part, I value my own time and energy, so I’m not really frustrated or dying to get a GF or anything, just kind of going through the motions and having fun on my own, doing what I want to do in life. Overall, fking lol @ wasting time/money on a chick just because she’s attractive looking. Personality/values/intelligence > pretty looks/sexual appeal TBH
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post 1656024633 02-11-2022, 03:41 PM
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Young girls these days (teens and early 20s) are ****able but unbearable.
But any woman over 30 doesn't turn me on unless she's won the genetic lottery.
And yes they're pretty much all gold diggers.
Unless you're a chad, its annoying to be in relationships tbh.

I watched a Japanese street interview where they asked young Japanese guys why they didn't have GFs. Even good looking guys.
All of them said "Its too much of a hassle". Frankly when you can just jerk off, is having a GF worth it when you're tired of daily life (work all day, etc) and just want to go home?
I have almost more pleasure playing a good videogame than spending time with a girl (srs).

Main reason is girls want too much. You have to be literally there 24/7, and entertain them, take them out to exciting locales, etc.
It's tiring.
post 1656026753 02-11-2022, 04:25 PM
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Originally Posted By EDcellent⏩
As a 35 YO man who moved to Wyoming, I'll admit I practically neutered myself. However, dating in your 30's is a minefield, and honestly at this point I don't mind being by myself. I will admit that in my 20's, I made mistakes and there were a couple women that I could have settled down with. Some I was blind to, some I dodged like a bullet. Life has a funny way of playing out.

At this point I'm prepared to be single for the rest of my life, no regerts. However as slim of a chance as it is, I don't mind being in a good relationship.
Feels.

Social media/dating apps have skewed the dating market in it's entirety. Most women think they're some IG model/personality by taking the same pics everyone else has and posting them. Always linking they're social media as if anyone cares about it.

Quite hilarious and sad at the same time. Seems as if most women are just carbon copies of each other. Not much of a problem getting dates, but damn some of these women are just straight up vile. Would not wife/10. Unfortunately, I do want kids now after a past experience, but find myself in this conundrum with the current dating market.
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post 1656027343 02-11-2022, 04:39 PM
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
IDK if I'm a sociopath or what, but I can't seem to connect with a woman for the most part and look at them as a succubus that wants me for my money and benefits.
It just sounds like you have low self esteem and are self sabotaging
post 1656027993 02-11-2022, 04:54 PM
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Women are fun to sleep with, I have many more deep conversations with the brahs though
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Relationships/dating feels like a big fuking chore most of the time, and I like just doing my own thing (and I start to feel suffocated VERY easily). Once you've gotten used to it and have gotten really set in your ways - it gets pretty hard to have much motivation to pursue women and put up with their BS.
post 1656031433 02-11-2022, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted By nickboy333⏩
Young girls these days (teens and early 20s) are ****able but unbearable.
But any woman over 30 doesn't turn me on unless she's won the genetic lottery.
And yes they're pretty much all gold diggers.
Unless you're a chad, its annoying to be in relationships tbh.

I watched a Japanese street interview where they asked young Japanese guys why they didn't have GFs. Even good looking guys.
All of them said "Its too much of a hassle". Frankly when you can just jerk off, is having a GF worth it when you're tired of daily life (work all day, etc) and just want to go home?
I have almost more pleasure playing a good videogame than spending time with a girl (srs).

Main reason is girls want too much. You have to be literally there 24/7, and entertain them, take them out to exciting locales, etc.
It's tiring.
The last is so fukin true. Bye to your hobbies, friends, god forbid you don't text them for a while then they'll start thinking chit and going crazy. Every time I meet a decent girl, they start being more on you as weeks go by. but every time this is the reality. Gotta be there all the time, they get mad if you go gym or with your friends on your free time instead of them, even if you had spent a lot of time together recently. The hotter they are, the worse this is. SRS
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post 1656034923 02-11-2022, 07:19 PM
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27 and single who recently got out of a relationship. I don't care if I'm still single at 30 and I'm not even looking to date at all.

I just wanna make 7 figures and travel the world on a yacht with sloots
post 1656035413 02-11-2022, 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted By piramparam⏩
I dont believe you cut them off because you get bored. but lets entertain this. If that was the case, Youre looking for women in the wrong places. Theyre not youre style thats why you get bored.

What i think youre doing is failing at having a deep connection with women and projecting it by coming up with reasons to dislike them. You name multiple reasons why sloots suck and your only fault is just that you get bored? Jfl.
Originally Posted By DSTEE⏩
It just sounds like you have low self esteem and are self sabotaging
No, not really self sabotage or low self esteem. I really don't have the patience for women for the most part. They always become selfish and demand attention, among other negative traits. When I'm so focused on self improvement, I just don't want that in my life.
Originally Posted By Polaris⏩
Relationships/dating feels like a big fuking chore most of the time, and I like just doing my own thing (and I start to feel suffocated VERY easily). Once you've gotten used to it and have gotten really set in your ways - it gets pretty hard to have much motivation to pursue women and put up with their BS.
This man gets it. Literally almost have the exact same mentality. (Ded fkn Srs)
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American women are a waste. Brainwashed by instagram/celeb/rap culture.
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Originally Posted By GaryCarnivals⏩
American women are a waste. Brainwashed by instagram/celeb/rap culture.
And feminism/consuming

What do you think caused this?
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never thought I could live with a sloot. didnt seem like it would be possible..
but started since last year and love it..
the thought of going back to bein alone at your own place seems depressing.
gotta find the right sloot
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For me I've never really had issues getting laid, yeah some women I fancy don't like me back, it happens, but some do so you just play the numbers and eventually you get laid.

Thing for me is I had two LTR in my early and mid 20s and both of them, outside of the first 2-3 months were just seriously not worth it in any way.

The issue is hypergamy and the fact women don't have to be loyal at all.

Once the honeymoon period fades, the demands and game playing comes out, I think the only way to minimise it would be to date a girl who was so far beneath you, you wouldn't be attracted to them, and what would be the point.

It's too hard work dealing with womens emotional issues and shifts, as well as this I think I have a genuine fear of intimacy, I HAVE to have alone time or my mental health suffers, most women do not like this and take it personally or think you are cheating.

I've just accepted I'm not long term relationship material, it doesn't work for me and tbh I'm OK with that now, I'd prefer to just screw around when I feel like it and on occasion, DEGENMAXX.
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20s i had more energy

women arent fuking worth it, you got single moms thinking a ryan gosling brain surgeon 500k a year chad is going to fall out of the sky and wife them up and fix their problems. they are all fuking delusional.

im not planning out chit and all that, they can put equal effort or fuk off. i only do coffee meet up dates now days for first date and if they want to continue im not planning everything there after.
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Originally Posted By 2010JW⏩
The last is so fukin true. Bye to your hobbies, friends, god forbid you don't text them for a while then they'll start thinking chit and going crazy. Every time I meet a decent girl, they start being more on you as weeks go by. but every time this is the reality. Gotta be there all the time, they get mad if you go gym or with your friends on your free time instead of them, even if you had spent a lot of time together recently. The hotter they are, the worse this is. SRS
What sucks is that your friends get into relationships, and they are no longer available, always busy while you have time since you're not committed. This will however show you the realest, truest friends. My two closest friends both are in a LTR, yet they have always had time for me and vice versa when I was in a LTR.

But all your other normal friends, they disappear, completely, man. Either that, or they rot with work combined with videogames.

Late 20s here, and things aren't looking that good. Maybe mid 30s is when I might bother to get committed, maybe not. There are cool girls around for sure, but they aren't many. A lot of girls get a lot of attention these days through the internet and they seem so absorbed. At the same time, girls today seem more busy than before as well, which makes it more difficult. Where I live, it's very normal for girls to be a fulltime student and working on the side, making them always busy.

A lot of girls also seem to be very NPC in regards to politics and regards to just a view on the world which to me is a huge turn of unless it's a wham bam
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Originally Posted By MonsieurWhite⏩
32 and single with no prospects. Women are vapid whores and I don't know how any of you can tolerate dating a modern woman. All they do is eat hot chip and lie.
This
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Mid 30s single no real prospects, I’m probably 8/10 aesthetics. I do want to settle down with someone but want the right one not to desperately just find some sloot. Then be a single dad. I could go through life single SRS would it be ideal probably not but I could and still enjoy myself for the most part
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Originally Posted By gmenfan40⏩
It seems to be pretty standard nowadays for guys to be single in their 30s. IDK if I'm a sociopath or what, but I can't seem to connect with a woman for the most part and look at them as a succubus that wants me for my money and benefits. The best I have recently done is date women for 1-3 months and break it off because I got bored and rather not be in a relationship. I mostly find women, smash after a date or two and go no contact.

Any brahs feel the same? I'm not depressed and am super motivated in my endeavors; I mostly find women as distractions and useless for the most part. I think I indirectly look at them as individuals to mate with, and nothing further. (Ded fkn Srs)
Bruh are you calling out yourself lol? Am I missing the point?
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