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Thread: Anyone else here never been approached by a girl at the gym? Feelsbadman

post 1656213373 02-15-2022, 12:25 AM
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Anyone else here never been approached by a girl at the gym? Feelsbadman

Never been approached by a girl at the gym crew checking in. Unless they are asking how many sets left or a friendly hello from the receptionists.

Feels bad man

post 1656213623 02-15-2022, 12:38 AM
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post 1656213783 02-15-2022, 12:54 AM
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why would a girl approach you?
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post 1656213823 02-15-2022, 12:57 AM
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Your crybaby threads are just sad at this point.

Stop being a little bitch and do something about it. Improve.

Stop coming to the misc to cry like a phàg that nobody likes you. It's all in your head.
post 1656213843 02-15-2022, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted By II
why would a girl approach you?
for friendship/romance etc. But none of them do. Feelsbadman
post 1656213883 02-15-2022, 12:59 AM
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how old r u? look late 30's but creatine might have done that so i'm guessing 26?
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post 1656213903 02-15-2022, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted By CanuckGame⏩
Your crybaby threads are just sad at this point.

Stop being a little bitch and do something about it. Improve.

Stop coming to the misc to cry like a phàg that nobody likes you. It's all in your head.
I am doing something about i went to the gym for 2 hours today srs and my diet is on point, high intensity etc.
post 1656213933 02-15-2022, 01:00 AM
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Originally Posted By brappbrah⏩
how old r u? look late 30's but creatine might have done that so i'm guessing 26?
Im 28. Damn do i look that old?
post 1656213983 02-15-2022, 01:01 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
for friendship/romance etc. But none of them do. Feelsbadman
they are probably intimidated and think you're weird/scary/hyuge. girls don't just cold approach guys in the gym as far as I know. imagine thinking that some single woman goes to the gym and is planning on cold approaching muscular dudes who are working out. you'll have to find a way to strike up friendly conversation with them if you want to chat. or go to a club/bar known for having a lot of females in attendance so you don't get ratioed.
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post 1656214033 02-15-2022, 01:03 AM
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Originally Posted By II
they are probably intimidated and think you're weird/scary/hyuge. girls don't just cold approach guys in the gym as far as I know. imagine thinking that some single woman goes to the gym and is planning on cold approaching muscular dudes who are working out. you'll have to find a way to strike up friendly conversation with them if you want to chat.
If I lost some size and looked friendly and smiling would they approach then
post 1656214043 02-15-2022, 01:04 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Im 28. Damn do i look that old?
yes srs.
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post 1656214053 02-15-2022, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By brappbrah⏩
yes srs.
Thanks for the honesty.

Maybe if i shaved my beard and used youth cream supplements i can look a bit younger.
post 1656214063 02-15-2022, 01:05 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
for friendship/romance etc. But none of them do. Feelsbadman
she literally has chads hitting her up 24/7. why would she approach a random dude. she has options out of her ass.
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post 1656214093 02-15-2022, 01:07 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
If I lost some size and looked friendly and smiling would they approach then
probably not. if you want to meet girls at the gym you'll want to be with a group of buddies, and meet girls who are also with a group of their friends. it's way easier that way. 1 on 1 at the gym is extremely unlikely as a first time thing unless you are super charismatic. if you're just a shy buff dude who lifts in the corner no girl is going to come up to you.
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post 1656214153 02-15-2022, 01:09 AM
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Originally Posted By II
probably not. if you want to meet girls at the gym you'll want to be with a group of buddies, and meet girls who are also with a group of their friends. it's way easier that way. 1 on 1 at the gym is extremely unlikely as a first time thing unless you are super charismatic. if you're just a shy buff dude who lifts in the corner no girl is going to come up to you.
Thanks for the advice bro.
Its not so much that I want to meet girls there, its just that never being approached by a girl feels like a confidence destroyer
post 1656214193 02-15-2022, 01:10 AM
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but to answer your question OP I had a couple. highlights were a college girl that for some reason was really into me and a milf that ended up sending me nudes the next day
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post 1656214223 02-15-2022, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By Better
but to answer your question OP I had a couple. highlights were a college girl that for some reason was really into me and a milf that ended up sending me nudes the next day
Nice man! Good on you
post 1656214233 02-15-2022, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Im 28. Damn do i look that old?


You look 38
post 1656214283 02-15-2022, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted By ****inator⏩


You look 38
Body or face?

How old do i look here?

post 1656214313 02-15-2022, 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted By II
probably not. if you want to meet girls at the gym you'll want to be with a group of buddies, and meet girls who are also with a group of their friends. it's way easier that way. 1 on 1 at the gym is extremely unlikely as a first time thing unless you are super charismatic. if you're just a shy buff dude who lifts in the corner no girl is going to come up to you.
/Just out of curiosity have girls approached you ever before when you are at the gym?
post 1656214383 02-15-2022, 01:22 AM
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relatable
post 1656214423 02-15-2022, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted By Sprykee907⏩
relatable
Also never approached by guys either. Its a lonely place my gym
post 1656214443 02-15-2022, 01:26 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Body or face?

How old do i look here?

Better here but you still look like you're in your 30's brah.


Stop riding so many Tours de France.
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Id approach you, bro.
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Originally Posted By tunafishha⏩
Id approach you, bro.
Thanks, this could be the start of a good friendship
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are you a real person?
get off the synthol and steroids and ppl will treat you like a real person srs
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post 1656214723 02-15-2022, 01:42 AM
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Originally Posted By Nicklol⏩
are you a real person?
get off the synthol and steroids and ppl will treat you like a real person srs
Not on synthol.
I am a real person, but i have been treated as an invisible ghost/outcast way before i even took test or lifted. I was born an outcast, and guess i will sadly remain one for life
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30 more pounds of muscle and the girls will be all over you bro.
The training is nothing, the will is everything. The will to act.
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Originally Posted By LeakyQuesadilla⏩
30 more pounds of muscle and the girls will be all over you bro.
i wish man
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Not on synthol.
I am a real person, but i have been treated as an invisible ghost/outcast way before i even took test or lifted. I was born an outcast, and guess i will sadly remain one for life
PRO TIP: Why don't you approach people? Guess what in today's tech world everyone lives in virtual bubble and became autistic.

You try to be the first one approaching, you'd be surprised how many people believe they're "outcast" just because they're too pussy to approach people.

And in your case especially, bro you look to big to be be approachable, you'll have to be the one. The average person is scared of a guy as big as you.
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