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post 1656222103 02-15-2022, 06:50 AM
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Why do sloots always do that ?

Got our first date a week ago and then she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our date scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
post 1656222393 02-15-2022, 06:55 AM
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post 1656222463 02-15-2022, 06:57 AM
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You smash yet?

If the answer is no, then just go NC right now. If you did, just use her as a fwb and keep playing along with her female games just so you can getting that pussy until you find a girl thats actually worth your time.


Thats what id do anyway.
post 1656222513 02-15-2022, 06:58 AM
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Id still chat with her here and there but I wouldnt go out of my way to schedule something with her again
post 1656222593 02-15-2022, 06:59 AM
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She isn't super into you but she is gonna keep you around just in case.
post 1656222623 02-15-2022, 07:00 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Got our first date a week ago and then she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our data scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
She is using you for validation. Likely has no intention to fuk, ever. Ideally casually go NC, at most give her 1/2 to 1/3 the "attention" she gives you and gradually trail it down unless and until she offers up her angus.
post 1656222703 02-15-2022, 07:01 AM
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Originally Posted By Retoaded⏩
She isn't super into you but she is gonna keep you around just in case.
Just as I thought.A backup plan for dried up 30 yo sloot ? lol.
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post 1656223073 02-15-2022, 07:09 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Just as I thought.A backup plan for dried up 30 yo sloot ? lol.
I mean you never know what a girl is thinking but that is what I would definitely be thinking.
post 1656223153 02-15-2022, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Got our first date a week ago and then she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our date scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
I don't even understand posts like this. "Wut do next?" Like do you want to waste your time or not? Is it THAT fukin important to you?

For the record, I'd no NC that fast. Fuk that chit.
post 1656223323 02-15-2022, 07:14 AM
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same chick as the last thread? its been time to go NC breh.
post 1656223453 02-15-2022, 07:17 AM
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post 1656223473 02-15-2022, 07:17 AM
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Originally Posted By Redundanteater⏩
She is using you for validation. Likely has no intention to fuk, ever. Ideally casually go NC, at most give her 1/2 to 1/3 the "attention" she gives you and gradually trail it down unless and until she offers up her angus.
oh please. she probably associates dates with getting pounded. She wants to see if you are a rapist with a spy cam for non consensual porn before she goes out with you.
post 1656223763 02-15-2022, 07:23 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
oh please. she probably associates dates with getting pounded. She wants to see if you are a rapist with a spy cam for non consensual porn before she goes out with you.
I mean does taking a girl out for dinner always involve intimacy ?

I've had countless diner dates that ended up with nothing more than a kiss on the cheek and a "good night".

Ain't nobody got time for games and tests. Well I held my frame and didn't throw a tamper tantrum when she flaked twice, was it all a test ?
post 1656224183 02-15-2022, 07:30 AM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
oh please. she probably associates dates with getting pounded. She wants to see if you are a rapist with a spy cam for non consensual porn before she goes out with you.
And how is leading him on supposed to give her this information?
post 1656224283 02-15-2022, 07:32 AM
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Some girls will give you this bs , which is why you can't put all stock into 1 girl early on:

-Recently i met a girl for first date
- we stayed in touch
- she was the one who asked me if i want to hang out again
- i said sure , when i try to set a definite plan she says something like " yeah im really busy this week maybe weekend " it's like yo either weekend or not , say something concrete

She could be dealing with another dude , or whatever ....

- did a good job by holding frame and not losing your cool ..i'll probably lay off this girl for this week and then try again .
I feel a lot more comfortable knowing she's not the only girl im trying to date though
post 1656224973 02-15-2022, 07:47 AM
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post 1656225733 02-15-2022, 07:59 AM
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She's not interested. If someone is interested they wouldn't flake over and over. And if they do need to cancel they'll suggest another time. I don't know why you'd continue wasting time on her.
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post 1656225803 02-15-2022, 08:01 AM
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Leave her lunch in her ass ,then go nc
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
Got our first date a week ago andthen she flaked twice at the last minute with lame excuses (2 hours prior to our date scheduled days in advance).

Now that she feels that I will cut my losses and go NC, she throws breadcrumbs at me with stupid info which I really don't give a fukc about : like what she had for lunch or whatever.

I'm not even interested in her anymore but the cheeky kunt wants to toy around a little.

Wut do next ?
Curious about lame excuses.

The game playing/chit testing/using for validation stuff is a foreign land to me. Could just be 'cause I'm old and the last time I really dated anyone it was my ex back in 2002. Smart phones weren't widespread and he had tried online/LD dating at least once, but there weren't apps. Time before that was my first husband when cell phones weren't common and he had a pager.
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post 1656226613 02-15-2022, 08:14 AM
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She wants attention. If she cancels, especially last minute, she better comes with a good reason and an alternative date. Otherwise: NEXT.


I had the same with a sloot: Stopped initiating contact after she rejected me. A month later asked on Saturday at 8 pm if I was going out. at 10 pm I replied: "Yes, in the centre". She said: "too late! I am already in Bed. Besides I have been tired lately and have to do this and that tomorrow, ...". Like BISH PLZ I didn't even invite you.

My 2 cents: ignore her for a while, after a while if she sends you invite her over for a movie and smash. Never catch feelings for her again as a cat never loses it's ways. She will play games again whenever she feels like she has you around her finger.
post 1656226713 02-15-2022, 08:16 AM
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Women like to feel pursued. She probably wants you to step up and take charge and keep asking her out.
post 1656226863 02-15-2022, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted By jimmybobjim⏩
Women like to feel pursued. She probably wants you to step up and take charge and keep asking her out.
Yes, normal women like to be pursued, but if she's the one cancelling then she should be suggesting a new day/time.
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Originally Posted By exxtracool⏩
You smash yet?

If the answer is no, then just go NC right now. If you did, just use her as a fwb and keep playing along with her female games just so you can getting that pussy until you find a girl thats actually worth your time.


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The less attention you show her while still leaving breadcrumbs yourself the more she’ll start to contact imo.

These sloots want you to chase them but if you make it backfire they go nuts.

It’s stupid games really and I’m glad I don’t have to deal with that anymore but it works 50% of the time 100% of the time.
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Originally Posted By Legz422⏩
Yes, normal women like to be pursued, but if she's the one cancelling then she should be suggesting a new day/time.
She did but only to let me down again.

Second date was supposed to happen last Saturday but she came up with a lame excuse about how she's got some extra work to do urgently (despite being on 9 to 5 office job).However she rescheduled to Monday (yesterday) before flaking again with some bs : her sister was about to give birth but it ended up being a false alarm.

I felt insulted.
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Originally Posted By CityJaeger⏩
She did but only to let me down again.

Second date was supposed to happen last Saturday but she came up with a lame excuse about how she's got some extra work to do urgently (despite being on 9 to 5 office job).However she rescheduled to Monday (yesterday) before flaking again with some bs : her sister was about to give birth but it ended up being a false alarm.

I felt insulted.
If she's very close with her sister I don't think that is a lame excuse. Did she try to reschedule after yesterdays cancellation?
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Originally Posted By Shysty021⏩
Id still chat with her here and there but I wouldnt go out of my way to schedule something with her again
This . Simple as that

Make her wonder why you stopped asking her out for a little
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