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Thread: Anyone else here never been approached by a girl at the gym? Feelsbadman

post 1656238883 02-15-2022, 11:46 AM
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They probably think you're insecure and lack confidence hence needing to ride so many bicycles. Just lol at thinking because you're big or good looking that women will just jump allover you.

You seem like a nice dude based on your posts, no homo. Just develop some confidence and social skills. Talk to people, be out going and pick on on social cues. Don't start desperately dry humping any girl that acknowledges your existence. Treat them like another human and if you connect, it'll happen. You can either workout together, grab food afterwards, etc.

Most women have low self esteem and fear rejection like there's no tomorrow. They are very subtle in their approach. Just be normal and it'll all be fine. In all honesty, an average looking dude with confidence and sense of humor will mog a social retard with a perfect physique. Often times, they are mutually inclusive. You've got an impressive build so tack on some social skills and you'll be slaying, pimp.
post 1656239903 02-15-2022, 12:03 PM
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only a couple times

I have lots of bros at my gym though
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post 1656242953 02-15-2022, 12:49 PM
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Some super jacked black chick was asking me about my belt one recently. She kinda mogged me. I didn't like it.
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post 1656243243 02-15-2022, 12:54 PM
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Cant help ya; I have not worked out in an actual gym in years.
post 1656243323 02-15-2022, 12:55 PM
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Am I the only one who noticed OP has fraud in his username. Probably some dude larping
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post 1656243633 02-15-2022, 12:59 PM
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Never been approached but I stare at them all like a creep
post 1656244163 02-15-2022, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted By M0nkeyPrick⏩
Am I the only one who noticed OP has fraud in his username. Probably some dude larping
Most of the pics he posts are clearly photo shopped/heavily edited
post 1656245063 02-15-2022, 01:22 PM
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28 but the creatine makes you look 40+
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post 1656245313 02-15-2022, 01:28 PM
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Originally Posted By GaryRidgway⏩
Some super jacked black chick was asking me about my belt one recently. She kinda mogged me. I didn't like it.
The blacker the juice the sweeter the berry dead fkn srs
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post 1656245403 02-15-2022, 01:29 PM
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Originally Posted By MegaSloot⏩
Yes. I've also been approached by someone who told me I was squatting too deep and lifting too heavy.
lol. I really don't lift heavy and my form is perfect to avoid injury. I think it was just an excuse.
I didn't really know what to do with the man who I got the number from. He kept calling and asking to go out. I wanted to work out with him because going out to eat seems strange.
There was a different guy that I talked to, he wanted me to buy him some gold earrings and a hat. If I see a dude who is really built I will approach and tell him I admire his physique. But going further is complicated.
All sound like terrible experiences

Good luck with you’re future mating goals of 2022
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post 1656245783 02-15-2022, 01:35 PM
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post 1656245973 02-15-2022, 01:39 PM
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obvious troll but i'll respond anyways

if your test levels are at 500% natty levels and you are still scared to approach a girl, what makes you think a girl is going to approach you?
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post 1656246043 02-15-2022, 01:40 PM
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post 1656246653 02-15-2022, 01:52 PM
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I don't have this issue I get approached by tons of people but the problem is I'm an introvert and only wanna talk to certain people. But I'm still lonely and have nobody to talk to.
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post 1656246733 02-15-2022, 01:54 PM
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Nope. As for regulars, we wave at each other or say hey, catch up a bit. But other than that, nothing much. Which is fine by me. For the most part they're there to workout, and I'm there to workout.
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post 1656247303 02-15-2022, 02:06 PM
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you want girls to feel comfortable approaching you? you cant cold stare them between sets and flex in the mirror. you need to seem approachable. easiest way to do this is find some guys you can chat with in the gym. show your self as someone who is easy to joke around with and have fun. specifically if there is a group, male and female, start chatting with those dudes. engage them about routines or whatever. this will easy open for the girls to chat you as well, you basically infiltrate the group.

This is a long way of saying, be nice to everyone at the gym. talk and have fun. girls will gravitate to you.
I know we are all taught we need to pound heavy weight and brood in the corner between sets like a bad ass, and thats fine, but it wont get you chicks. girls like charisma AND muscles. not just muscles.
post 1656255973 02-15-2022, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted By monster0ultra⏩
Even more jacked than that dude. Her bicep veins were bigger than mine.
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post 1656257303 02-15-2022, 05:03 PM
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Nope. But constantly get the eyes from girls inviting me to talk to them.
post 1656258933 02-15-2022, 05:39 PM
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i dont think so, ive never really tried to wheel a girl at the gym either

but one time at uni a girl aggressively approached me/stared at me and said she saw me at the gym before

was prob one of the hottest girls that i've ever had a chance with too def fkn srs
post 1656259023 02-15-2022, 05:42 PM
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Women almost never approach men in general. The gym is no exception; in fact it’s probably less encouraging.
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post 1656276753 02-16-2022, 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
/Just out of curiosity have girls approached you ever before when you are at the gym?
Yes definitely a few times but I don't remember how it went down, I don't think they were just "cold approaches". More like somehow we were near each other and started chatting, I don't remember being interested in them much.Just become friends with people at the gym and chat around with folks. You'll end up in conversations with people randomly as you're saying whats up to other regulars and girls will be involved eventually. If people see you're friendly they'll talk to you.
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post 1656276963 02-16-2022, 01:26 AM
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Never been approached by a female in over a decade at the gym, aside from chicks I already knew, or one that asked to work in with me once. I had really good luck with gym receptionists though.
post 1656278413 02-16-2022, 02:55 AM
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u don't need to be big op
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