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post 1656726643 02-23-2022, 01:06 PM
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I need a friend right now - Hold me (srs)

So as some of you may know the GF broke up me last month, flew out to a new state with her brother, then me and her got back together and i moved to Texas with her, last Saturday on Valentines day at 12:30am we argued and she broke up with me again. I feel like dying, im not doing well at all. Im stuck in a room in a house in an arbnb with 4 other people, I quit my job yesterday as well, the boss told me to "sit down and keep your mouth shut unless spoken to", along other things and with everything going on i snapped called him crazy and walked out. He threatened to sue me as well. I am feeling so down lately i dont even know what to do. I just need a friend right now.
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post 1656726793 02-23-2022, 01:08 PM
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as much as life sucks rn, life always just goes on

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post 1656726913 02-23-2022, 01:09 PM
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just keep moving forward brah, get up off the ground and keep on your feet
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post 1656726923 02-23-2022, 01:09 PM
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What you need to do is go back to California immediately
post 1656726973 02-23-2022, 01:10 PM
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Really sorry to hear that. What part of Texas did you move to? There's work to be had.

When I'm overwhelmed, I try to do the next right thing. Sounds like that might be finding a source of income, but you know your situation. Things will get better for you, but you gotta get through the sucks. Hang in there!
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post 1656727013 02-23-2022, 01:10 PM
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I feel like OP is probably my age, but with all of the problems I learned how to work through in my early 20s
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post 1656727213 02-23-2022, 01:13 PM
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post 1656727313 02-23-2022, 01:15 PM
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She didn't care about you enough to work through it. That should be motivation enough to move forward and go slay some random ass until the pain starts to drift away.

As far as the job goes; you'll find another job, especially if you're proactive about it. Your boss sounded like a dick anyway.

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post 1656727373 02-23-2022, 01:16 PM
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Nothing is forever OP. Here's my motivational playlist for the gym. Listen to it. If you're feeling down, let it out. Research shows you can only do that for about 7 minutes and it will start to subside. Think about a situation in your life from the past that was bad and think about how you got through it. You'll get through this, there's plenty of fun and happiness left, you just can't see it right now, but it's coming. Hold on to your jimmies.

As far as girls go, I get it, but there are MANY girls out there and there's plenty of potential for something even better than you had with her. Don't take any shyt and move on if you have to.


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post 1656727483 02-23-2022, 01:16 PM
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post 1656727493 02-23-2022, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted By Techriding101⏩
I feel like OP is probably my age, but with all of the problems I learned how to work through in my early 20s
Yes, like not quitting your job in a rage when your boss tells you to shut the hell up because money is still important to live, but instead finding a new job then ****ting on his desk.
post 1656727703 02-23-2022, 01:19 PM
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post 1656727963 02-23-2022, 01:22 PM
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i guess focus on what you can control and try to gradually improve your situation one thing at a time each day

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post 1656728133 02-23-2022, 01:24 PM
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Sorry to hear that you're going through it right now. Sounds like **** is spiraling out of control for you. I don't know how set you are for money, but maybe consider prioritizing finding a job right now. Money aside, the routine and dignity that a job provides will give you a foundation to rebuild off of. Unemployment is the last fukking thing you need on your plate, believe me. From there, if you're new in town, try and get involved in something social so that you can interact with people instead of sitting alone in your Airbnb. Good luck, man.
post 1656728333 02-23-2022, 01:26 PM
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She's really just testing how much you love her. Now is your shot to really proclaim your affection for her. Stand outside her house in the rain playing love songs, hire a skywriter, send her flowers at work. Prostrate yourself before her and tell her how terrible your life is without her, whatever you have to do brah. This is your one and only chance at love and if you let it slip away you'll spend the rest of your life miserable and alone.





























But seriously, go the fuk back to california
post 1656728353 02-23-2022, 01:26 PM
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Also no matter how ****ty life seems from your eyes you've got 2 working legs, 2 working arms, are of at least average intelligence, aren't at risk of starving, don't live in a war zone, and have enough free time to bitch about incredibly small problems on the misc.

Shut your eyes, imagine that you're blind and think what life would be like, then open them and notice that you're not. Life suddenly won't seem that bad. Always remember literally billions of people in the world would literally kill to trade places with your average miscer.
post 1656728373 02-23-2022, 01:27 PM
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Sloots gon sloot. Do you, don’t give her the satisfaction of seeing you sad..
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post 1656729653 02-23-2022, 01:47 PM
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You'll be okay op. It takes time. Nothing in life is instantly had. Be patient my son. I can feelz with you, and so many misc can as well. Maybe now is the time to let your guard down and reach out to your friends or family that might help. Even if it's helping you move back or find a new work. I'm in a specialized field, earning over 100k and I wish everyday to move somewhere else because I'm miserable. I'll even work at a entry level job as long as I'm happy it'd be worth it. I think relationships are hard work, and females (in the west) are becoming harder to please. Most guys now just going for Asians because they are a good option to settle down have a family with. Much more stable than Stacy.
post 1656730553 02-23-2022, 02:01 PM
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Where you at op?
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post 1656730693 02-23-2022, 02:03 PM
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You seem like an unhinged douchbag so your types bounce back very quickly, don’t sweat it op
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post 1657169273 03-01-2022, 08:55 PM
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Originally Posted By LordBroly⏩
Sorry to hear that you're going through it right now. Sounds like **** is spiraling out of control for you. I don't know how set you are for money, but maybe consider prioritizing finding a job right now. Money aside, the routine and dignity that a job provides will give you a foundation to rebuild off of. Unemployment is the last fukking thing you need on your plate, believe me. From there, if you're new in town, try and get involved in something social so that you can interact with people instead of sitting alone in your Airbnb. Good luck, man.
Yes it is, i am broke, i have nothing, i moved to Texas to be with my ex, now i have a feeling she is seeing other guys and is out, im done, im just done right now...my life su*cks
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Originally Posted By ShortMonster⏩
So as some of you may know the GF broke up me last month, flew out to a new state with her brother, then me and her got back together and i moved to Texas with her, last Saturday on Valentines day at 12:30am we argued and she broke up with me again. I feel like dying, im not doing well at all. Im stuck in a room in a house in an arbnb with 4 other people, I quit my job yesterday as well, the boss told me to "sit down and keep your mouth shut unless spoken to", along other things and with everything going on i snapped called him crazy and walked out. He threatened to sue me as well. I am feeling so down lately i dont even know what to do. I just need a friend right now.
Fuc* you, I don’t feel sorry for you beta male rip.
post 1657169403 03-01-2022, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
Fuc* you, I don’t feel sorry for you beta male rip.
This is why i dont post here anymore, i fuc*d up, so be it, get a fu*king life bro help others bring them up not down
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post 1657170223 03-01-2022, 09:12 PM
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I'll be your friend OP.

Sorry to hear man hope you're doing/feeling better. Find another job even temporary to get you back on your feet.

Maybe this song can cheer you up eh?


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post 1657170373 03-01-2022, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted By ShortMonster⏩
This is why i dont post here anymore, i fuc*d up, so be it, get a fu*king life bro help others bring them up not down
You’re a beta male. Stop chasing sloots. Let them chase you.

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post 1657170583 03-01-2022, 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
Fuc* you, I don’t feel sorry for you beta male rip.
Well don't be a dick about it lol.
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post 1657170733 03-01-2022, 09:22 PM
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"she broke up with me again" is something no self-respecting male should ever say. Man up ****g3t, people break up every single second of the day, you aint special. Be glad there is nothing tieing you to her forever (kids). Move the **** on, go no contact. Like I can't stress that enough, took me 3 sloots to master it even after the countless amounts of advice on the same thing.

You think she is focking other guys? lol she been before she ever broke up with you and went full sloot on tyrones dink and whoever wink at her for validation, then got ghosted by them and call you up to get back together, make no mistake... she is monkey branching to affirm her decision about you.
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Originally Posted By Goat_187⏩
"she broke up with me again" is something no self-respecting male should ever say. Man up ****g3t, people break up every single second of the day, you aint special. Be glad there is nothing tieing you to her forever (kids). Move the **** on, go no contact. Like I can't stress that enough, took me 3 sloots to master it even after the countless amounts of advice on the same thing.

You think she is focking other guys? lol she been before she ever broke up with you and went full sloot on tyrones dink and whoever wink at her for validation, then got ghosted by them and call you up to get back together, make no mistake... she is monkey branching to affirm her decision about you.
I know that, i know the truth but im sulking, like a bi*ch right now..I need a damn beer
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