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post 1656951673 02-26-2022, 03:00 PM
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Wife caught cheating with a tradie (update)

There was a thread made on this not too long ago. Dude rolls up on his wife, and her other man in his truck, while it looks like she is sucking his cawk. According to his follow up he said she was leaned over looking @ something on his phone, but he anticipated they were going to fuk or something @ some point, due to the seclusion of where they decided to park.

Also, the dude wasn't a tradie. He managed a grocery store.



The video below is his follow up. I just wanted to get the details of everything. Stories of suffering, unfortunately, can be very entertaining lol.



The court system was absolutely brutal with this guy.

The wife had him thrown out of his house for no reason, other than she wanted to be alone while she cheated. He couldn't see his kids for three months.

He actually thought he was going to be slick videotaping and spying on her (thinking that would help him with the judge), but that only got him in more trouble with the law.

After he was thrown out of the house his wife was already taking their six kids fishing with the other man.

The wife would also leave the kids @ the house alone for up to two days @ a time, while she would stay with him (other man) to bang.

This was all after twenty years of marriage and six kids.

Sometimes people that are alone think they have it bad, but over half of marriages go down this guys route. This guy is going to essentially suffer for a decent while, and his relationship with his kids are going to be strained forever.

A part of me sometimes wishes I was married, but hearing stories like this are a reminder.

Your marriage isn't going to last forever, so in my personal opinion it makes it meaningless. Others may see it different.

Plus, being in these triangles, where the woman is juggling you and another guy with the kids in the middle is nothing but problems.

Edit:

I also just wanted to say that there is still this pervasive myth in society that when you get yourself together financially, you'll find "love", have kids, and live happily ever after, when most likely if you find somebody you will get divorced, and it will be ugly.

This type of mythical thinking is absolutely toxic, and sets people up for failure and misery in the future. People really should be taught about the true nature of relations between men, women, marriage, kids.

It's the antithesis of what is needed for a strong, stable society, but I think lying to people, and setting unrealistic expectations, is absolutely unethical.
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post 1656951753 02-26-2022, 03:02 PM
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I came.


Man I love sloots.


Edit: "I'mma go show the kids this too"

I get you are upset, but man leave the kids out of it. LEAVE THE KIDS OUT OF IT!!!!
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post 1656952033 02-26-2022, 03:06 PM
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Absolutely brutal, lol at getting married in this day and age.
post 1656952153 02-26-2022, 03:07 PM
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Women are heartless and ruthless. They think with their pussies and yet they say men think with their dicks? Lmao right... Women crave sex 10x more than males. They just want their holes filled. Sloots gon sloot.
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post 1656952603 02-26-2022, 03:14 PM
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Just another reason not to get married.

You put your stuff in your name and you never sing a marriage cert and there is no legal grounds.

Lawyer was telling me how this lady lived with the father of her kids like they were married. They even had a wedding, but never signed the papers. Everyone thought they were married. She thought common law was still a thing. She left with the clothes on her back. Even though she was the home-maker, by law that was just a domestic agreement. She gets child support, but if they had been married he would have been rekd.
post 1656952803 02-26-2022, 03:18 PM
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Once your woman is completely done with you....there is no line she will not cross.
post 1656953013 02-26-2022, 03:20 PM
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Water is wet.


Sloots gonna sloot.
post 1656953223 02-26-2022, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted By RIKTER
Once your woman is completely done with you....there is no line she will not cross.
Absolutely.

I think one of the points he mentioned that he had a hard time with is the fact the person he knew for 20 years was gone.

Yea, physically she is there, but she isn't the same person. That person died lol.

Dude is going to be grieving for a long time, because he got the shyt end of the stick.
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post 1656953233 02-26-2022, 03:23 PM
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Doesn’t matter, people will never learn and continue to marry.

Life is pointless and people don’t love one another. Have fun getting cheated on married brahs
post 1656953413 02-26-2022, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted By redwine91
Doesn’t matter, people will never learn and continue to marry.

Life is pointless and people don’t love one another. Have fun getting cheated on married brahs
To live is to suffer.

And to survive is to find meaning in the suffering.

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post 1656953473 02-26-2022, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By BalognaNbeans
Absolutely brutal, lol at getting married in this day and age.
Not all women are the same dawg.
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post 1656953483 02-26-2022, 03:27 PM
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis
Absolutely.

I think one of the points he mentioned that he had a hard time with is the fact the person he knew for 20 years was gone.

Yea, physically she is there, but she isn't the same person. That person died lol.

Dude is going to be grieving for a long time, because he got the shyt end of the stick.
Every man has to understand, yes, get married have kids, live your best lives....but if it ends, for whatever reason, you will be the one getting Putined.
post 1656953573 02-26-2022, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted By Redfish225
Not all women are the same dawg.
Cringe
Originally Posted By RIKTER
Every man has to understand, yes, get married have kids, live your best lives....but if it ends, for whatever reason, you will be the one getting Putined.
Absolutely lol
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post 1656953873 02-26-2022, 03:32 PM
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Not to mention the kids will be brainwashed by their mother to hate their father. All so she can rationalize her slut behavior. Source: I’ve lived it, my moms a whore
post 1656953963 02-26-2022, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted By Icepops81
Not to mention the kids will be brainwashed by their mother to hate their father. All so she can rationalize her slut behavior. Source: I’ve lived it, my moms a whore
Absolutely, especially when things end very tragic like this.

The wife will block out anything truthful, and create a reinforced bubble that pounds in her head that her actions were just lol.
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post 1656954223 02-26-2022, 03:37 PM
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Women can be absolutely ruthless when breaking up/divorcing. Once they decide they are no longer "in love" with you, you're royally fukked. Your best bet at that point is to accept it and try to be as civil as possible with them in terms of the breakup/divorce, because you really don't have a choice.

This is why although I am 100% certain my ex-wife cheated on me prior to divorcing me (probably multiple times), I never cared about tying to verify any of that. All verifying would have accomplished would have been making the pain of it all that much worse. The courts certainy don't give any chits about it, except making things even worse for you. That's no fault divorce 101, boyo.
post 1656954733 02-26-2022, 03:45 PM
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As a divorced guy who is remarried you always go into a marriage expecting to come out the other side with nothing.

Personally I enjoy relationships and sharing life with someone else so the risk is worth it to me. I'm also someone who makes a six figure salary but is happy with a 1 bedroom apartment as long as it's within a few miles of the intercoastal waterway and likes riding a bike rather than driving so good luck making me salty about child support. You'd go broke with legal fees long before I became unhappy.

If you like expensive things good luck to you.
post 1656955223 02-26-2022, 03:52 PM
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i dont really care about the cheating.. as if you were with some manlet for 19 years, youd prolly get bored

but its the disrespect and the legal sht she does to him.. kicking him out of his own house
literally treating him like a piece of sht orbiter on the street because she found new dink.. like a crazed freak.. so weird
and how the law sides with the woman every time and gives the woman all the stuff.. beta system
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post 1656956443 02-26-2022, 04:12 PM
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50% of marriages end in divorce but it isn’t always like this. Most are amicable or the parents don’t have enough assets to even bother getting expensive lawyers involved.

I’m sad for this guy and the way things have gone for him.
post 1656956633 02-26-2022, 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted By IH8RICE
50% of marriages end in divorce but it isn’t always like this. Most are amicable or the parents don’t have enough assets to even bother getting expensive lawyers involved.

I’m sad for this guy and the way things have gone for him.
I don't think this is true.

I gradated college a long time ago, but I remember seeing a stat that a staggering amount of men leave their children after a divorce.

Most divorces turn out ugly.
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post 1656956923 02-26-2022, 04:20 PM
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And some wonder what could push a man over the edge. They’ll say, ‘why didn’t you just divorce her and walk away.’ I’m not condoning doing anything rash…just saying there are some women out there that are perfectly fine with destroying every fiber of your soul…which is worse than death. They’ll turn vindictive and make sure your pain endures beyond just the breakup.
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Originally Posted By OPGenesis
I’m insecure
I know.
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post 1656957073 02-26-2022, 04:22 PM
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Has anybody actually watched the video closely and realised that she wasn't s*cking his cawk? The dude is on the phone?

As for getting cheated on oh well shyt happens - people are not meant to be monogamous and those that are usually get preyed upon by narcissists or are very rare
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post 1656957173 02-26-2022, 04:24 PM
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Originally Posted By Redfish225
I know.
Sick burn, bro!.
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post 1656957333 02-26-2022, 04:26 PM
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This dude is a beta like me - the marriage is over and he can't cope, that's all.

It's like me bitching about my ex-gf from 2.5 years ago cheating on me when it was over a long time ago in her eyes LOL.

In the video he says that she's half asleep and tells him she's been sending pics in lingerie and instead of divorcing her he gives her the 'its him or me' ultimatum like she didn't make that decision a long time ago.
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
This dude is a beta like me - the marriage is over and he can't cope, that's all.

It's like me bitching about my ex-gf from 2.5 years ago cheating on me when it was over a long time ago in her eyes LOL.

In the video he says that she's half asleep and tells him she's been sending pics in lingerie and instead of divorcing her he gives her the 'its him or me' ultimatum like she didn't make that decision a long time ago.
She was the best, mayne.
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post 1656957763 02-26-2022, 04:32 PM
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the dude is a loser, i see nothing but human nature in action

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Originally Posted By Jessejame5
the dude is a loser, i see nothing but human nature in action

if you look at the video closely she wasn't even sucking his d - he has a phone in his hands... he didn't have enough time to hide a boner IMO
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
if you look at the video closely she wasn't even sucking his d - he has a phone in his hands... he didn't have enough time to hide a boner IMO
She looks pretty sexy from afar, but you can't see her that good in the video.
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post 1656958013 02-26-2022, 04:36 PM
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Originally Posted By WiseOldApe
This dude is a beta like me - the marriage is over and he can't cope, that's all.

It's like me bitching about my ex-gf from 2.5 years ago cheating on me when it was over a long time ago in her eyes LOL.

In the video he says that she's half asleep and tells him she's been sending pics in lingerie and instead of divorcing her he gives her the 'its him or me' ultimatum like she didn't make that decision a long time ago.
That’s why the moment there’s any hint of possible cheating or any kind of deception, I’m out. I don’t even entertain excuses. The last chick that did this to me, she had answers to behaviors that didn’t make any since…I didn’t even ask for explanations…deceit is just obvious. Without hesitation, I was gone. A few years later she’s a single mom apparently complaining about the struggles of raising a child single and how they’re no good men out there…jflol. Stay away from women that make pour decisions. If she came from a broken home, odds are good that history will repeat itself with her…
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