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post 1657478123 03-07-2022, 03:43 AM
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How jealous do you feel after watching this video? (Barack Obama)

So this is what life is like to be accepted and loved. Everyone wants to shake his hand, talk to him etc. He could easily be friends with or hang out with anyone. He did work hard for it and earned it though so respect to him.


post 1657478143 03-07-2022, 03:44 AM
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You got me shook and I mean it. A whole new level of trolling brah.
post 1657478283 03-07-2022, 03:52 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
You got me shook and I mean it. A whole new level of trolling brah.
This thread is not a troll brah
Im actually jealous and admire Obama. I wish i could be loved by strangers like him.
post 1657478343 03-07-2022, 03:55 AM
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
This thread is not a troll brah
Im actually jealous and admire Obama. I wish i could be loved by strangers like him.
It’s all about swag brah. Just stop caring about rejection and being alone. Go out and socialize at a bar or a club or something. Even if you have to go alone. You’re big asf and people will flock to you.


Inb4 you make this exact same thread tomorrow at exactly the same time.
post 1657478393 03-07-2022, 03:57 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
It’s all about swag brah. Just stop caring about rejection and being alone. Go out and socialize at a bar or a club or something.
Trying to work on not caring about being alone, its very hard for me.

No one wants to socialize with me srs. I am literally not welcomed or accepted anywhere. A true outcast
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There will always be famous superstars, iconic figures, athletes, CEOs, business leaders who gets lots of admiration and attention. Men want to shake their hands and woman want to suck their dink. But that is a TINY minority Lancey boy.

Seriously 99.99999999999999% of the world's population walk down the street and everyone ignores and doesn't want to be their friend, it is not just a small group of unfortunate victims.

You are trolling now and it is a shame.
Cook the man some eggs!
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
There will always be famous superstars, iconic figures, athletes, CEOs, business leaders who gets lots of admiration and attention. Men want to shake their hands and woman want to suck their dink. But that is a TINY minority Lancey boy.

Seriously 99.99999999999999% of the world's population walk down the street and everyone ignores and doesn't want to be their friend, it is not just a small group of unfortunate victims.

You are trolling now and it is a shame.
I am not trolling. Are you sure about the 99.999999 percent? Because I have been out by myself lately and I see lots and lots of groups of people socializing together. I do see a few outcasts though.

Even on Instagram I follow lots of random people and watch their stories everyone has friends and a social life.

Maybe I am in the bottom 10% of outcasts
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Trying to work on not caring about being alone, its very hard for me.

No one wants to socialize with me srs. I am literally not welcomed or accepted anywhere. A true outcast
Are you really an outcast though? People don’t avoid you purposely. In today’s society you need to initiate a conversation with them.

There’s things you can do to get people to notice you as well. Learn how to smile and do it often. Don’t be so serious all the time incase you are. People want to talk to people who are easy going and laid back.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
There will always be famous superstars, iconic figures, athletes, CEOs, business leaders who gets lots of admiration and attention. Men want to shake their hands and woman want to suck their dink. But that is a TINY minority Lancey boy.

Seriously 99.99999999999999% of the world's population walk down the street and everyone ignores and doesn't want to be their friend, it is not just a small group of unfortunate victims.

You are trolling now and it is a shame.
Also yes i agree only the tiniest minority get treated like Obama or Michael Jackson. I know thats unrealistic. But I still want to be at least normal somewhat in being accepted and belonging to society. Right now I feel like an alien from Mars and dont belong at all
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
Are you really an outcast though? People don’t avoid you purposely. In today’s society you need to initiate a conversation with them.

There’s things you can do to get people to notice you as well. Learn how to smile and do it often. Don’t be so serious all the time incase you are. People want to talk to people who are easy going and laid back.
Outcast is defined as
1 : one that is cast out or refused acceptance (as by society)
or
2. a person who has been rejected or excluded by their society or social group.

I do feel I fit the descriptions of an outcast. I have never been accepted or welcomed anywhere. I remember in the past few years I have been to University campuses, shopping centers, multiple gyms, restaurants, parks, martial arts gyms, even bars and I never fit in anywhere.
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Outcast is defined as
1 : one that is cast out or refused acceptance (as by society)
or
2. a person who has been rejected or excluded by their society or social group.

I do feel I fit the descriptions of an outcast. I have never been accepted or welcomed anywhere. I remember in the past few years I have been to University campuses, shopping centers, multiple gyms, restaurants, parks, martial arts gyms, even bars and I never fit in anywhere.
How can you say people you don’t know don’t accept you? The fact is that they’re strangers and don’t know you. You’re not an outcast brah. An outcast would be someone who was thrown out of society by society.

It is not good to assume strangers that don’t know you are rejecting you because they don’t talk to you. You’re just a stranger to them, if you want to not be a stranger than strike up a conversation.
post 1657478993 03-07-2022, 04:20 AM
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Originally Posted By Xgamer791⏩
How can you say people you don’t know don’t accept you? The fact is that they’re strangers and don’t know you. You’re not an outcast brah. An outcast would be someone who was thrown out of society by society.

It is not good to assume strangers that don’t know you are rejecting you because they don’t talk to you. You’re just a stranger to them, if you want to not be a stranger than strike up a conversation.
Yeah I think i need to work on my mindset and how i interpret things. I always feel bad when strangers walk past me i always think to myself nobody cares. the more strangers i am exposed too, the more isolation i usually feel.
I wish i could go out, not be accepted by strangers yet feel normal. I have talked to my therapist about this too and they recommended exposure therapy but i tried and every time i still feel the same thing
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Yeah I think i need to work on my mindset and how i interpret things. I always feel bad when strangers walk past me i always think to myself nobody cares. the more strangers i am exposed too, the more isolation i usually feel.
I wish i could go out, not be accepted by strangers yet feel normal. I have talked to my therapist about this too and they recommended exposure therapy but i tried and every time i still feel the same thing
I used to be much like you. I would just sit at home and ask the universe why I didn’t have any friends or a gf. I changed my situation by forcing myself out of the house and going out alone to the bar. I also started talking to other dudes at the gym. I was making myself a stranger for far to long.

I was able to create new friendships with other guys from the gym and we went out on the weekends to the club and to bars to meet and **** sloots.
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Originally Posted By lancefraudd⏩
Yeah I think i need to work on my mindset and how i interpret things.I always feel bad when strangers walk past mei always think to myself nobody cares. the more strangers i am exposed too, the more isolation i usually feel.
I wish i could go out, not be accepted by strangers yet feel normal. I have talked to my therapist about this too and they recommended exposure therapy but i tried and every time i still feel the same thing
That's what I was getting at with my 99.99.....% comment. It is the same for basically everyone to be ignored in the street by people they don't personally know. It's not like people are going to randomly stop their business to talk to you and ask you to go for a drink that night. It doesn't mean that they are nasty, cruel or don't like you, they are just focused on their daily tasks and travelling to their next destination.
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Originally Posted By maori-rap⏩
That's what I was getting at with my 99.99.....% comment. It is the same for basically everyone to be ignored in the street by people they don't personally know. It's not like people are going to randomly stop their business to talk to you and ask you to go for a drink that night. It doesn't mean that they are nasty, cruel or don't like you, they are just focused on their daily tasks and travelling to their next destination.
Yeah i just wish theres a way to minimize its affect on me. I felt like this "problem" of strangers ignoring has made me quite reclusive to the point where leaving the house is difficult. Maybe over time I will find a way to respond to it in a more neauttral or positive way instead of letting it negatively affect how i feel
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